Shadowing Practice: The EXACT Recipe for Authority: Operative Training Revealed - Learn English Speaking with Video
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We talked about how responsive human beings are when it comes to authority.
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If you're wanting to seriously take charge of a group or really influence another person at a deep level, you're going to need for them to see you as the authority in the room.
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And there are five tripwires that take place in another person's head.
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These five tripwires are movement, appearance, confidence, connection, and intent.
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Let's walk through those five right now.
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Movement is how you move your body and I'm going to give you some tactics on doing that.
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Appearance is just your overall appearance.
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We tend to see people that are hygienic, that have a healthy appearance, to be more authoritative.
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Next we have confidence and you've already got a perfect toolbox to leveling up your sense of confidence in the field.
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Next is connection.
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Connection means am I fully checked in, am I fully tuned in to what I'm doing in this moment?
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This is also part of the Hughes Authority inventory that you downloaded in that module when we talked about authority.
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The final element here is intent.
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Intent means do I have a clear intent of what's going on?
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We talked about this when we talked about confidence.
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Do I have a generalized expectation of positive outcomes?
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Also, having a great intent of I intend to help another person, I intend to do good, I intend to do something good for another person.
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Just having that level of intent for other people gives you somewhat of an internal hall pass
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or internal permission slip to have unstoppable confidence.
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And when you're moving through the world, you are always creating gut feelings in other people whether you like it or not.
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It's always going to happen.
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So having a very good intention for what you're doing
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and having a clear intention in your mind for your end
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goal of what you want to accomplish is the best way to create great gut feelings in other people.
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So let's really dive into the movement aspect of this
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because that's what I think is most important for you to grasp as an operative.
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The first thing I want you to remember is your posture.
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is incredibly important
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and one thing I want you to take away from this is are your ears over your heart
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and is your heart over your pelvis it's the one thing I want you to take away from this
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and just being able to process
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that question not being rigid not being stiff can you have good posture
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and still be comfortable so my ears should be over my heart and my heart should be over my
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Just having those in alignment
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and still being comfortable is one of the fastest ways to trigger
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that movement tripwire that lets somebody know that you are the authority figure.
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One quick way that I teach my clients to remind themselves about posture is
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when they get in their car I tell them to adjust
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their mirror to where it's tilted up just a little bit
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to where it forces them to straighten their body to see out of the rear view mirror of their vehicle.
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And if you start doing this, you're going to get into a habit of adjusting your posture throughout the day.
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It's just one quick thing that you can do to help remind yourself to have better posture.
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And remember, it's not stiff, it's not overly rigid, and you can still have great posture and be relaxed.
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When we went through the confidence module, We talked about how important it was to be comfortable
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and how important it was to be the most comfortable person in the room.
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I'm gonna give you phase two of that challenge right now.
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What I also want you to challenge yourself with is being the slowest moving person in the room.
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And here's what I mean by that.
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As a behavior profiler, I've been watching human behavior for well over 30,000 hours.
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If there's one thing that I've learned is fear speeds up the human body.
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Fear speeds up our gestures, our movements, and everything else that goes on inside of us.
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So one thing I wanna challenge you to do this week
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and for the next few months is set a speed limit on your body.
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You don't have to be hard on yourself, but I want you to set a speed limit
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and try to stick to it for an entire week or maybe two weeks.
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It depends on how much you wanna challenge yourself.
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But try to stick to this speed limit.
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And here's the speed limit.
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I want you to write this down.
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For this week, I'm not going to move any faster than
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if I was standing in a swimming pool or if I was underwater somewhere.
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So I want being underwater to be the speed limit of your body for this week.
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And that's gonna help you remember to slow down, be more comfortable, be more confident, and you're more in control.
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And remember, you no longer see the world through hierarchy and status.
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So when I say you're in control, what I mean is you're in control of you.
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The most powerful lesson in leadership that I could ever pass down to you is
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that you could pick a random episode of Andy Griffith.
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It's called The Andy Griffith Show.
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And if you're going through a problem in your life right now, you're struggling to build a relationship with someone, you're struggling in some kind of leadership capacity.
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I don't care what episode it is.
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I guarantee you can pick a random episode of Andy Griffith
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and it will have some information in there it will teach you some sort of lesson
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that applies directly to whatever issue you're going through in life I learned about this in the Middle East
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when we would screw up our commander would make us go in
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and pick a random episode of Andy Griffith
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and it never failed every time you'd watch
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that episode it would have something in that episode
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that was a leadership lesson about how you had failed your troops
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or how you had done something to put your people maybe in harm's way.
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The reason I think the show is so powerful is because of Andy Griffith.
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It's an older show but I think it's still available.
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Andy Griffith is the sheriff in this show of this town called Mayberry
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and his responses to everything just exude the most perfect example of authority
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and everything we mean
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when we talk about authority the confidence discipline the leadership the gratitude the enjoyment
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so he has a composure about him he has a maturity about him
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the most powerful thing that i could ever teach you is called the composure pendulum
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so on the right side of this pendulum you'll see the letter P for posturing.
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This is when we're over posturing, we're trying too hard.
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It's rooted in insecurity.
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In the middle of this pyramid we have the C
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which stands for composure and moving to the left you'll see another C which stands for collapse.
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Collapse is when we kind of give up on things, we make ourselves smaller maybe to make someone else more comfortable or we're trying to appease a person.
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Collapse and and posturing are both rooted in insecurity.
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And if you watch any episode of Andy Griffith, you'll see his assistant.
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His name is Barney Fife.
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This guy vacillates back and forth on the pendulum between posturing and collapse, back and forth on just about every episode.
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And it's a perfect example that when somebody lives in a posturing environment, one of their tendencies is, how do I fix being so posturing?
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Then they look across that little pendulum towards the other side and they say, oh, that collapse looks like the opposite of what I'm doing.
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So they do the opposite of what they're doing and they vacillate into collapse.
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And then if they're in collapse and they're feeling challenged by other people, they're feeling like a doormat all the time.
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They're like, how do I fix this issue?
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And they look across the other side of the pendulum and they see posturing over here.
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Now posturing becomes the solution to their problem.
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instead of seeing the center, the middle ground, of living in pure and real composure.
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So when you watch Andy Griffith, he was always in composure.
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He's a perfect example of staying in composure and not going into collapse and not falling into posture.
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This is wholly my opinion,
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but I think one of the most compelling descriptions of true authority and leadership was written by a guy named Marcus Aurelius.
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He was writing about one of his generals named Maximus.
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And I wanna read this to you because I think it's very important.
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I don't wanna just wanna flash it on the screen or something.
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I want you to hear this.
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This comes from a book called The Emperor's Handbook, which was written in 121 AD.
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Maximus set an example of self-mastery, steadiness of purpose, and good cheer,
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that no circumstance, not even illness, could extinguish.
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He combined in beautiful measure gravity with charm and did whatever needed to be done without making a fuss.
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Everyone believed that what he said was what he thought, and he never acted with an intention to do harm or give offense.
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Nothing surprised or frightened him, and he never seemed to be in a hurry or slow to accomplish a task.
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He was neither intimidated or embarrassed on the one hand, nor aggressive or suspicious on the other.
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So giving, forgiving, and loyal was he by nature, that he appeared to be a man whose virtues were inborn rather than acquired.
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It is unimaginable that anyone ever felt superior or inferior around him,
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perhaps due to his pleasing sense of humor.
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So now you have the keys to authority and you know that if you need to influence another person, you need those five traits.
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The movement, appearance, confidence, connection, and intent.
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And that's going to be triggered in other people's heads.
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And that's why you're going to focus on your posture, your composure, your level of comfort, and moving slowly.
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Moving like you're standing in water.
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In the next module, I'm going to show you the tactical formulas for influence,
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and I'm also going to give you word-for-word examples of how to use some of these today.
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So join me in there right now.
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אוצר מילים והערות הגייה לשיעור הזה
שיעור הדיבור הזה ברמה C1 מבוסס על הסרטון “The EXACT Recipe for Authority: Operative Training Revealed”. המילים שחוזרות הכי הרבה: authority, posturing, Griffith, posture, collapse. בסרטון הזה יש 131 משפטים ו-1769 מילים לתרגול Shadowing. הדיבור נמשך 10:49. הדובר מדבר בקצב טבעי של כ-164 מילים בדקה, קרוב לשיחה יומיומית. 83% מהמילים נמצאות בין 3,000 המילים הנפוצות ביותר באנגלית; כדאי ללמוד את השאר לפני שמתחילים.
אוצר מילים מרכזי בסרטון הזה
15 המילים המתקדמות ביותר בסרטון, עם ההגייה והמשמעות שלהן:
| מילה | הגייה | משמעות |
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| pendulum שם עצם | /ˈpɛnd͡ʒələm/ | מְטוּטֶלֶת |
| module שם עצם | /ˈmɑd͡ʒul/ | מוֹדוּל |
| rigid שם תואר | /ˈɹɪd͡ʒ.ɪd/ | נוקשה |
| accomplish פועל | /əˈkɑm.plɪʃ/ | בִּצֵּעַ |
| adjust פועל | /əˈd͡ʒʌst/ | כוונן, התאים |
| appease פועל | /əˈpiːz/ | פִּיֵּס |
| extinguish פועל | /ɪkˈstɪŋ.ɡwɪʃ/ | כיבה |
| intimidate פועל | /ɪnˈtɪmɪdeɪt/ | הפחיד, איים |
| pelvis שם עצם | /ˈpɛlvɪs/ | אַגָּן |
| circumstance שם עצם | /ˈsɝ.kəmˌstæns/ | נסיבות |
| trait שם עצם | /tɹeɪt/ | מאפיין, תכונה |
| pyramid שם עצם | /ˈpɪɹ.ə.mɪd/ | פִּירָמִידָה |
| hierarchy שם עצם | /ˈhaɪ.ə.ɹɑː(ɹ).ki/ | הִיֵרַרכִיָה \ הייררכיה |
| enjoyment שם עצם | /ɪnˈd͡ʒɔɪ.mənt/ | הֲנָאָה |
| humour שם עצם | /ˈhjuːmɚ/ | הוּמוֹר |
משפטים שכדאי לחזור עליהם
משפטים קצרים ושלמים מהסרטון שאפשר להשתמש בהם בשיחה יומיומית:
- Let's walk through those five right now.
- Intent means do I have a clear intent of what's going on?
- Do I have a generalized expectation of positive outcomes?
- I don't care what episode it is.
- They're like, how do I fix this issue?
דקדוק בסרטון הזה
המבנים שהדובר משתמש בהם הכי הרבה, עם המילים המדויקות מהסרטון:
| מבנה | בסרטון |
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| סביל (Passive voice) be + past participle — הדגש הוא על מה שקורה, לא על מי שעושה את הפעולה | is set · is called · was written |
| משפטי זיקה (Relative clauses) who / which + clause — מידע נוסף על אדם או דבר | people that are · Handbook, which was |
הגייה ששווה לשים לב אליה
הדובר משתמש ב-46 קיצורים וצורות מקוצרות, כמו you're, I'm, they're. אמרו אותם בצורה הקצרה, כפי שאתם שומעים אותם.
- הצלילים של “sh” ו-“zh”: composure /kəmˈpoʊʒɚ/, accomplish /əˈkɑm.plɪʃ/, extinguish /ɪkˈstɪŋ.ɡwɪʃ/, expectation /ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/, suspicious /səˈspɪʃ.əs/
- מילים ארוכות — שימו לב להטעמה: underwater /ʌndɚˈwɔtəɹ/, authoritative /əˈθɔɹɪˌteɪtɪv/, generalize /ˈd͡ʒɛn.(ə.)ɹə.laɪz/, intimidate /ɪnˈtɪmɪdeɪt/, unimaginable /ˌʌnɪˈmædʒɪnəbəl/
צלילים שדוברי עברית מתקשים בהם:
- /w/ — שפתיים מעוגלות, לא /v/: underwater /ʌndɚˈwɔtəɹ/, extinguish /ɪkˈstɪŋ.ɡwɪʃ/
- /æ/ — פתוח יותר מה-“אֶ” העברית, לא כמו “a” ב-“cup”: vacillate /ˈvæ.sə.leɪt/, unimaginable /ˌʌnɪˈmædʒɪnəbəl/, mastery /ˈmæs.tɚ.i/, circumstance /ˈsɝ.kəmˌstæns/, gratitude /ˈɡɹæ.tɪ.tud/
- /r/ — הלשון לא נוגעת בשום מקום, לא ה-“ר” הגרונית: rigid /ˈɹɪd͡ʒ.ɪd/, underwater /ʌndɚˈwɔtəɹ/, authoritative /əˈθɔɹɪˌteɪtɪv/, frighten /ˈfɹaɪ.tən/, generalize /ˈd͡ʒɛn.(ə.)ɹə.laɪz/
איך לתרגל עם הסרטון הזה
- הקשיבו לכל הסרטון פעם אחת בלי לדבר, ורשמו את המילים שאתם לא מכירים.
- התחילו במהירות 0.75×, תרגלו Shadowing משפט אחר משפט, וחזרו למהירות רגילה כשזה מרגיש קל.
- הקליטו את עצמכם והשוו למקור, תוך תשומת לב למילים כמו pendulum, module, rigid.
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