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The people who get heard aren't necessarily the smartest in the room.
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The people who get heard aren't necessarily the smartest in the room.
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This is how you build trust and authority at the same time.
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And that difference is everything.
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They pay attention when it matters to them.
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The word just is a minimizer.
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Just drop the just.
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If you've ever walked into a room with a great idea only to watch it get ignored,
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talked over, or repackaged by someone louder,
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this video is for you.
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Because that moment is costing you influence, credibility, and money.
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But over the last decade,
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working with leaders, executives, and high performers,
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I figured out something most people never learn.
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The people who get heard aren't necessarily the smartest in the room.
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They're the clearest, they're the most intentional,
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and they follow a few principles that quietly put them in control.
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So today, I'm going to share with you five of them.
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Principle number one, speak to what they care about.
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Most people walk into conversations focused on what they want to say.
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The top performers walk in focused on what the other person needs to hear.
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And that difference is everything.
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Early in my career, I pitched a senior leader on an idea that I had spent weeks building.
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I was confident walking in.
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30 seconds later, I could tell I'd lost him.
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His eyes were down, there were no questions,
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just a polite, we'll circle back.
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And as I was walking out,
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I knew I had missed.
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Later, it finally clicked.
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I had built the entire pitch around my goals,
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my effort, and my priorities.
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but none of it connected to his world.
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So the next time I rebuilt it completely.
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It was the same idea but completely different framing.
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I spoke in his language,
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his metrics, his pressures and everything changed.
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He leaned in, he asked questions,
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he approved it on the spot.
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Here's the rule the top 1% understand.
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People don't pay attention because something matters to you,
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they pay attention when it matters to them.
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Let me show you how this principle plays out.
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At work, if you need a new hire and the CFO is focused on cutting costs,
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walking in and asking for headcount is a losing move.
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So instead, you say something like,
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since efficiency is a priority this quarter,
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I mapped how adding one team member would reduce overtime,
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lower errors, and save roughly $40,000 in six months.
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Now you're not asking, you're solving a problem.
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And at home, if your partner is exhausted and you say,
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I want to go out with you tonight,
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that's going to probably create some friction.
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But if you say, I know this week wiped you out,
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would a quiet dinner help you decompress?
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and if not, we'll stay in.
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It's the same request, but you often get a completely different outcome.
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Influence starts when you enter their world first.
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Principle number two, bookend your voice.
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Here is something most people don't know.
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Psychology shows that people remember the beginning and the end of conversations far more than the middle.
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You don't actually need to speak constantly to be memorable.
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You need to speak strategically.
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Start strong.
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I came across something that relates to item two on the agenda.
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I'd love to share a thought and then end strong before we wrap up.
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I want to highlight Paul's idea It's worth carrying into the next meeting two moments
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Maximum impact quiet people who master this suddenly become very hard to ignore principle number three Reclaim credit without looking insecure.
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This one hits close to home for a lot of people you share an idea
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and it lands Completely flat no one reacts
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and then five minutes later someone else repeats the same thing and suddenly the room loves it.
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It is frustrating and it's demotivating and it can slowly chip away at how you see yourself.
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And yes, it happens more often than you think.
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The wrong move is shrinking or getting defensive.
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The top performers do something smarter.
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They reclaim their contribution gracefully.
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There are two options that we teach for how to do this.
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Option one, build forward.
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Selma, that's great to see that we're aligned with what I shared earlier.
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One way we could extend that is so you You elevate the conversation and re-anchor the idea to you without sounding territorial.
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And then there's option two, get curious.
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That's a great suggestion that aligns with what I shared before.
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How did you arrive at that?
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This invites dialogue and signals confidence without being confrontational.
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You can also use the same approach to spotlight other people if their ideas get overshadowed.
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This is how you build trust and authority at the same time
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and you make sure that no one's getting credit for your great ideas.
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It's a brilliant way to gain authority without having to fight for it.
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Principle number four, delete the language that makes you small.
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Some of the smartest people sabotage themselves with tiny phrases.
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In all my years working with leaders and coaching high performers,
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I have noticed that brilliant people can accidentally weaken their credibility with just a few small bad linguistic habits.
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Listen for these.
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I might be wrong.
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This is probably silly.
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Sorry if this is going off track.
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These sound polite.
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They feel collaborative, but it quietly tells the room,
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you don't need to take me seriously.
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And then there are even more sophisticated versions like,
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correct me if I'm wrong,
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or I know I'm not the ultimate expert on this.
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These unintentionally diminish the impact of your message before you've even delivered it.
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And it undermines you.
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Compare how these sound.
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I'm not sure about this,
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but do you think we could check the data?
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Versus, before we move forward,
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let's double check that the data is correct.
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It's the same idea.
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Different presence.
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And then we have the second credibility killer, the word just.
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I just wanted to share.
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I just want to add.
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I just have a quick question.
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I hear this constantly, especially among early career professionals or people who are just starting out and they feel a little insecure.
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The word just is a minimizer.
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It makes your voice sound apologetic,
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like you're asking for permission to take up space.
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Just drop the just.
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I want to share.
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I'd like to add, I have a question.
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Simple, direct, unapologetic.
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Removing these softeners was one of the biggest upgrades that I ever made.
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Not just in how people were listening to me,
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but in how I felt showing up.
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Principle number five, walk in like you belong.
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Before you speak, people are already reading you.
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And the biggest difference between people who get heard and people who get overlooked is this.
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The top 1% walk into the room and assume they belong.
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They're not wondering, do I deserve to be here?
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They're not asking permission with their body or shrinking before they speak.
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They enter with the internal belief,
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if I'm in the room,
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I belong in the room.
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And the science backs this up.
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You've probably heard of the research that says that if you want to exude more confidence,
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you want to take on a more expansive posture.
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But there's even more recent research that shows that the confidence boost doesn't actually come from the pose itself.
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It comes from one thing which is called neck flexion.
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Meaning, when you lengthen your neck,
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you lift your head, you activate a chain of physiological responses that influence confidence and vocal presence.
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It's neck flexion.
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So before a meeting, or a pitch,
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or something important, do a quick reset.
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Stop scrolling on your phone,
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lift your head, open your chest,
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stand like someone who has something worth saying.
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It literally takes three seconds and yet it changes how people perceive you and how you perceive yourself.
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The top 1% don't wait to feel ready.
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They behave their way into presence.
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They prepare their body, their mind and their presence before they even open their mouth.
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And that's one of the reasons why their voice lands.
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So here's what I want you to do next.
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In your next meeting or pitch or presentation,
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don't try all five principles at once.
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Just pick one.
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Speak to what they care about.
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Bookend your voice.
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Reclaim credit for your ideas.
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Remove one phrase that shrinks you.
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Or walk in like you belong before you say a word.
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Because as I write about in my book,
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Big Trust, confidence isn't something that you think your way into.
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It's something you earn.
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And you earn it by acting,
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by stacking small wins, by showing up the same way again and again until your presence does the talking for you.
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Try it once, watch what changes,
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and then come back and tell me what happened.
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That's how people go from having good ideas to being the person people actually listen to.
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Now, if you found value in this episode,
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hit subscribe, turn on the bell icon,
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and I'll see you next time.
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