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One of the most challenging impromptu speaking situations is dealing with conflict or criticism right in the moment.
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Try to think of a time where you had to deal with a conflict situation.
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Pause the video if you need a moment to think of a time.
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All right, if you have a scenario in mind, think about how did you react to the conflict?
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Did you fight, respond aggressively?
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Did you flight, run away from the conflict, freeze where you just accommodated or smooth things over?
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Or did you face the conflict?
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As sort of a silly example, years ago, one minor conflict situation that I had with my husband was
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that he would leave his socks all over the house.
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It irritated me to no end.
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So first I tried the aggressive approach.
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Can't you just pick up your socks rather than leave them for me?
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And then I tried the flight approach.
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I just ignored them and they multiplied like bunny rabbits.
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Then I tried the freezing, the accommodating approach where I just started picking up the socks and didn't really even bring it up.
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And finally, when I got tired of doing that, I faced the conflict
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and had a conversation with my husband about how I would really appreciate it
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if he would do his part in helping us keep a
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neat home where we would feel good about inviting people over rather than having socks all over the house.
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So you can think of situations at home or at work, and elsewhere, and what your usual response is.
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Any response could be appropriate depending upon the situation.
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If a mugger approaches you with a gun and wants your wallet,
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it is best to simply either run away or accommodate by giving them your wallet.
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Most situations, facing your conflict is the best way to go, and you can face it by being assertive and not aggressive.
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In the homework, there's an example of, for example, if you're talking with someone who's always late aggressively, you might say, why are you always late?
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Can't you be on time?
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Or you might be assertive using I statements where you talk about your feelings, the behavior, and the consequences.
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For example, I feel frustrated when you aren't ready to go on time.
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I don't like to be late, which is a consequence to yourself.
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You can practice using that.
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And then, yes, there is another acronym.
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There is the LEAP acronym where you can leap into conflict communications,
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where the L stands for listen reflectively.
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That's where you might start out with a phrase.
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So what you're saying is, or it sounds like, and you might even repeat a little bit so that they can understand that you understand,
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then you find something to empathize with, that you might, you understand how they feel because you've been in a similar situation,
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and then find something to agree on.
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It could be on one small point.
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There is a point of agreement.
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It could be agreeing on the big picture, but find something to agree on.
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And finally, partner together toward a solution.
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Now, the confidence tip for this lesson is very much tied
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to the leap idea where you can deal with criticism in the moment.
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So leap into conflict and have better outcomes in your work and your life.

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이 영상의 핵심 어휘

영상에 나오는 익혀 둘 만한 단어 15개를 발음, 뜻과 함께 정리했습니다.

단어발음뜻
sock 명사/sɑk/양말
accommodate 동사/əˈkɑməˌdeɪt/수용하다
aggressive 형용사/əˈɡɹɛs.ɪv/공격적인, 침략적인
wallet 명사/ˈwɑl.ət/지갑
freeze 동사/ˈfɹiːz/얼다
consequence 명사/ˈkɑn.sɪ.kwəns/결과
ignore 동사/ɪɡˈnɔː/무시하다
lesson 명사/ˈlɛs.ən/수업, 과
silly 형용사/ˈsɪl.i/어리석다
invite 동사/ɪnˈvaɪt/초대하다
phrase 명사/ˈfɹeɪ̯z/어구, 구
depend 동사/dɪˈpɛnd/의존하다, ...에 달려 있다
scenario 명사/sɪˈnɛəɹioʊ/각본, 대본
react 동사/ɹiːˈækt/반응하다
homework 명사/ˈhoʊmˌwɝk/숙제

영상에 나오는 구동사

단어뜻
pick up 동사줍다

따라 말해 볼 만한 문장

영상에 나오는 짧고 완결된 문장으로, 일상 대화에서 그대로 쓸 수 있습니다:

  • Did you fight, respond aggressively?
  • Can't you be on time?
  • That's where you might start out with a phrase.

주의할 발음

화자는 can't, you're, aren't 같은 축약형과 약화된 형태를 8번 사용합니다. 들리는 대로 짧게 발음하세요.

  • “th” 소리: smooth /smuːð/, empathize /ˈɛmpəˌθaɪz/

한국어 화자가 어려워하는 소리:

  • /f/ — ㅍ(/p/)으로 바꾸지 말고 윗니를 아랫입술에 대기: freeze /ˈfɹiːz/, phrase /ˈfɹeɪ̯z/, frustrate /ˈfɹʌsˌtɹeɪt/
  • /v/ — ㅂ(/b/)과 구별하기: aggressive /əˈɡɹɛs.ɪv/, invite /ɪnˈvaɪt/, assertive /əˈsɝtɪv/
  • /z/ — ㅈ이 아니라 성대를 울리는 /s/: freeze /ˈfɹiːz/, phrase /ˈfɹeɪ̯z/, pause /pɔːz/, empathize /ˈɛmpəˌθaɪz/

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