Shadowing Practice: 3 Impromptu LEAP into Conflict Communication - Learn English Speaking with Video

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One of the most challenging impromptu speaking situations is dealing with conflict or criticism right in the moment.
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Try to think of a time where you had to deal with a conflict situation.
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Pause the video if you need a moment to think of a time.
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All right, if you have a scenario in mind, think about how did you react to the conflict?
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Did you fight, respond aggressively?
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Did you flight, run away from the conflict, freeze where you just accommodated or smooth things over?
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Or did you face the conflict?
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As sort of a silly example, years ago, one minor conflict situation that I had with my husband was
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that he would leave his socks all over the house.
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It irritated me to no end.
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So first I tried the aggressive approach.
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Can't you just pick up your socks rather than leave them for me?
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And then I tried the flight approach.
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I just ignored them and they multiplied like bunny rabbits.
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Then I tried the freezing, the accommodating approach where I just started picking up the socks and didn't really even bring it up.
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And finally, when I got tired of doing that, I faced the conflict
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and had a conversation with my husband about how I would really appreciate it
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if he would do his part in helping us keep a
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neat home where we would feel good about inviting people over rather than having socks all over the house.
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So you can think of situations at home or at work, and elsewhere, and what your usual response is.
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Any response could be appropriate depending upon the situation.
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If a mugger approaches you with a gun and wants your wallet,
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it is best to simply either run away or accommodate by giving them your wallet.
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Most situations, facing your conflict is the best way to go, and you can face it by being assertive and not aggressive.
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In the homework, there's an example of, for example, if you're talking with someone who's always late aggressively, you might say, why are you always late?
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Can't you be on time?
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Or you might be assertive using I statements where you talk about your feelings, the behavior, and the consequences.
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For example, I feel frustrated when you aren't ready to go on time.
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I don't like to be late, which is a consequence to yourself.
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You can practice using that.
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And then, yes, there is another acronym.
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There is the LEAP acronym where you can leap into conflict communications,
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where the L stands for listen reflectively.
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That's where you might start out with a phrase.
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So what you're saying is, or it sounds like, and you might even repeat a little bit so that they can understand that you understand,
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then you find something to empathize with, that you might, you understand how they feel because you've been in a similar situation,
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and then find something to agree on.
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It could be on one small point.
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There is a point of agreement.
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It could be agreeing on the big picture, but find something to agree on.
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And finally, partner together toward a solution.
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Now, the confidence tip for this lesson is very much tied
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to the leap idea where you can deal with criticism in the moment.
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So leap into conflict and have better outcomes in your work and your life.

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Woordenschat en spreektips bij deze les

Deze spreekles is gebaseerd op de video “3 Impromptu LEAP into Conflict Communication”. Deze woorden komen het vaakst terug: conflict, situation, leap, socks, example. Deze video bevat 44 zinnen en 562 woorden om na te spreken. Het gesproken deel duurt 3:51. De spreker praat in een gelijkmatig tempo van ongeveer 146 woorden per minuut, prettig om te shadowen. 85% van de woorden hoort bij de 3.000 meest gebruikte Engelse woorden; de rest kun je beter vooraf bekijken. 7 van de 44 zinnen zijn vragen, dus het is goede oefening voor vraagintonatie en korte antwoorden.

Belangrijke woorden in deze video

15 woorden uit de video die het leren waard zijn, met uitspraak en betekenis:

WoordUitspraakBetekenis
leap werkwoord/ˈliːp/springen, wippen
sock zelfstandig naamwoord/sɑk/sok, kous
accommodate werkwoord/əˈkɑməˌdeɪt/onderbrengen, herbergen
aggressive bijvoeglijk naamwoord/əˈɡɹɛs.ɪv/agressief
wallet zelfstandig naamwoord/ˈwɑl.ət/portemonnee, portefeuille
freeze werkwoord/ˈfɹiːz/bevriezen
consequence zelfstandig naamwoord/ˈkɑn.sɪ.kwəns/gevolg, consequentie
aggressively bijwoordagressief
ignore werkwoord/ɪɡˈnɔː/negeren
lesson zelfstandig naamwoord/ˈlɛs.ən/les
smooth bijvoeglijk naamwoord/smuːð/vlot
silly bijvoeglijk naamwoord/ˈsɪl.i/ondoordacht, dom
invite werkwoord/ɪnˈvaɪt/uitnodigen, nodigen
phrase zelfstandig naamwoord/ˈfɹeɪ̯z/uitspraak
depend werkwoord/dɪˈpɛnd/afhangen

Phrasal verbs die je zult horen

WoordBetekenis
pick up werkwoordoppakken, optillen
run away werkwoordvluchten, weglopen

Zinnen om te herhalen

Korte, volledige zinnen uit de video die je in alledaagse gesprekken kunt gebruiken:

  • Did you fight, respond aggressively?
  • Can't you be on time?
  • That's where you might start out with a phrase.

Uitspraak om op te letten

De spreker gebruikt 8 samentrekkingen en verkorte vormen, zoals can't, you're, aren't. Spreek ze kort uit, zoals je ze hoort.

  • De “th”-klanken: smooth /smuːð/, empathize /ˈɛmpəˌθaɪz/

Klanken die Nederlandstaligen lastig vinden:

  • Stemhebbende eindmedeklinker — /b/, /d/, /g/, /z/, /v/ niet verscherpen: aggressive /əˈɡɹɛs.ɪv/, freeze /ˈfɹiːz/, phrase /ˈfɹeɪ̯z/, depend /dɪˈpɛnd/, pause /pɔːz/
  • /æ/ — opener dan de Nederlandse “e”: react /ɹiːˈækt/, rabbit /ˈɹæbɪt/, acronym /ˈækɹənɪm/
  • /g/ — een harde plofklank, geen Nederlandse “g”: aggressive /əˈɡɹɛs.ɪv/, ignore /ɪɡˈnɔː/

Zo oefen je met deze video

  1. Luister de hele video één keer zonder te spreken en noteer de woorden die je niet kent.
  2. Spreek zin voor zin na op normale snelheid en herhaal elke zin tot je ritme gelijk is aan dat van de spreker.
  3. Neem jezelf op en vergelijk met het origineel; let daarbij op woorden als leap, sock, accommodate.

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Shadowing is een wetenschappelijk onderbouwde taalleermethode die oorspronkelijk is ontwikkeld voor professionele tolkentraining en gepopulariseerd door polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. De methode is eenvoudig maar krachtig: je luistert naar native Engelse audio en herhaalt het onmiddellijk hardop — als een schaduw die de spreker volgt met slechts 1–2 seconden vertraging. In tegenstelling tot passief luisteren of grammaticadrills, dwingt shadowing je hersenen en mondspieren om echte spraakpatronen tegelijkertijd te verwerken en te reproduceren. Onderzoek toont aan dat het de uitspraaknauwkeurigheid, intonatie, ritme, verbonden spraak, luisterbegrip en spreekvaardigheid aanzienlijk verbetert — waardoor het een van de meest effectieve methoden is voor IELTS Speaking-voorbereiding en echte Engelse communicatie.

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