쉐도잉 연습: 8 Signs of True Love - 영상으로 영어 말하기 배우기
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Are you wondering if you really fall in for the right person?
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Do you want to know if what you're feeling is actually the real deal?
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You think the passionate feelings you have for someone will last forever, but all too often you find yourself suddenly falling out of love
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and feeling disenchanted with them for reasons you may never fully understand.
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True love is about so much more than just chasing that fleeting, fairy tale feeling.
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Here are 8 definitive signs of true love.
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1. You understand each other.
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Does it feel like your partner understands you in a way that no one else ever has?
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Do you feel like a pair of good friends who know how to make each other laugh, comfort one another, and cheer each other up when having a bad day?
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Understanding is something that can only come from having a true emotional connection with someone
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which is why it's so vital to making a relationship work.
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They see the real you and accept you for who you truly are.
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They love all the things that make you so special and never once judge you for your flaws or past mistakes.
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2. You respect one another.
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Does your partner treat you as their equal?
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Are they willing to listen to you, value your opinions, and accept your differences?
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If your partner truly respects you, they won't ever try to control you or make your decisions for you
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because they know that you are your own person and they trust your judgement and your capabilities.
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Respect is a key ingredient for any strong and healthy relationship.
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True love can never flourish if there is no respect because it is the glue that holds relationships together.
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Respect is what makes you feel free to express yourself and remain honest with one another.
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3. You look out for each other.
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Does your partner always call you to know if you got home safely
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or make sure you never forget to eat or buy you little gifts to make you smile,
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cheer you on before a big test or presentation and and offer to drive or cook for you when you're too tired.
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It's these little things that show the essence of true love.
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When you love someone, you want to do all you can to keep them safe
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and protect them from any harm or danger.
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You don't ever want anything bad to happen to them
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because the thought of them getting hurt is almost too much for you to bear.
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So you look out for them and you don't doubt that they do the same for you too.
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4. You're supportive of one another.
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Do you and your partner inspire each other to reach for your goals?
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A person who truly loves you will never try to compete with you or outdo you.
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They don't get insecure when they see you succeed or belittle your accomplishments.
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But rather, they are genuinely happy for your success
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and supportive of you and all of your dreams because true love means only having each other's best interests at heart.
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There's no jealousy or rivalry there because you both just want the same thing.
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to see each other happy and fulfilled.
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5. You're patient with each other.
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True love is patient, kind and gentle.
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And while that certainly doesn't mean you
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and your partner won't ever get on each other's nerves or drive each other crazy sometimes,
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your love for one another is the reason why you won't ever give up on trying to make things work between you.
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You accept each other's flaws and talk openly about your problems.
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You don't just throw in the towel or run away from them when things get hard.
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You patiently stand by their side and put in the time and effort to resolve your issues together.
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6. You're willing to compromise.
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Do you think true love means no fights?
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Some people think that finding true love means never having to fight with your partner about anything
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but conflict is actually an inevitable part of any relationship.
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No two people will ever agree on everything all the time because no two people will ever have the same exact ideas,
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beliefs, needs, thoughts and feelings about everything.
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A healthy amount of conflict can actually be good for you
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and your partner because it shows honesty and open communication and
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when you're willing to compromise or make sacrifices for their sake then you're telling them that you really love them, care for them, and prioritize their well-being.
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7. You're not interested in anyone else.
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When you're really in love, you're simply not interested in being with anyone else.
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It is far deeper than your little crush from which you can get bored and move on with your life.
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You stay loyal and faithful to your partner because you know that what you two have is precious, beautiful, and rare.
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You care about the history you have together
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and the life you want to share with them
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and you wouldn't carelessly throw it all away just because it's not new or exciting anymore.
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Falling in love can make everyone else pale in comparison to the object of your affections.
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You can't ever think of ditching them just because someone else comes along and catches your eye.
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8. You change each other for the better Do you think your significant other is changing you for the better?
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As cheesy or cliche as it may sound, when you really deeply love someone,
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they inspire you to become a better version of yourself and they bring out all of your best qualities.
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You want to be the kind of person they deserve to be with, someone they can be proud to call their partner.
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partner.
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Their love has helped you love yourself more, and their unwavering support and belief have made you believe in yourself too.
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The myths surrounding what it means to find true love can be incredibly damaging
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if you let them skew your expectations and hold your partners to unrealistically high standards.
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But relationships don't need to be perfect just to be worthwhile.
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What matters most is that there is honesty, trust, respect, openness, and emotional intimacy in the love that you and your partner feel for one another.
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It takes a lot of time and effort to make a relationship with anyone, no matter how well matched you may be, work.
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That's why you first need to be sure
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that the person you're going to give your heart to is really the right one for you.
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How much do you think these points define true love?
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Are there other factors one must look out for?
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Do let us know in the comments below.
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Thank you.
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핵심 어휘 및 구문
- 이해하다 (understand): 누군가의 감정이나 생각을 받아들이고 인식하다.
- 존중하다 (respect): 서로의 의견과 다름을 받아들이고 귀 기울이기.
- 서포트하다 (support): 서로의 목표를 돕고 응원하는 것.
- 인내하다 (be patient): 어려운 상황에서도 포기하지 않고 함께하는 것.
- 타협하다 (compromise): 서로의 의견을 조율하여 중간점을 찾는 것.
- 사랑 (love): 깊은 정서적 유대감을 지닌 관계.
- 신뢰 (trust): 서로의 판단과 능력을 믿는 것.
- 연결 (connection): 감정적으로 서로 연결되어 있는 상태.
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