쉐도잉 연습: Easy Guide to Become More Charismatic - 영상으로 영어 말하기 배우기
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This episode is presented to you in the form of an audiobook.
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Do you ever feel like you're speaking, but no one's really listening?
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Does your hard work go unnoticed, no matter how much effort you put in?
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If you've ever felt invisible in your personal or professional life, you're not alone.
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According to Vanessa Van Edwards in her book, Cues, this could be because you lack charisma.
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Charisma is the most important quality that makes others pay attention to you.
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In her research, Van Edwards found that most of us are unknowingly sabotaging our own charisma.
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She explains that without charisma, you can't effectively communicate or connect with others, and that can hold you back in every area of life.
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The good news is that even if charisma doesn't come naturally to you, you can learn to convey charisma by adopting charismatic cues.
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That is because, for Van Edwards, charisma isn't magic.
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It's simply a science of small verbal and nonverbal signals that influence how others perceive you.
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In this episode, we'll break down exactly how to become charismatic.
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First, we'll dive into what charisma really means and how verbal and nonverbal cues reinforce or undermine it.
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Then, we'll explore which specific cues you should adopt and which ones you should avoid depending on your personality.
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Hopefully, by the end of this episode,
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you will know what to do so you can start projecting a charismatic image that gets people to notice and value you.
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When you enter a room full of strangers, it only takes a few seconds for people to form an opinion about you.
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They don't know your name, yet they've already decided whether you come across as confident, approachable, or someone worth engaging with.
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This instant judgment happens because of the cues you unconsciously send to those around you.
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Vanessa Van Edwards calls these cues the secret language of communication.
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She explains that every subtle signal we send, whether it's our posture, eye contact, or the way we walk, communicates more than we often realize.
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These cues tell the world, this is who I am, even before we open our mouths.
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Van Edwards explains that every conversation is a cue contest.
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We are constantly judging the cues of others while they are judging ours.
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Think about it.
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You meet someone at a party.
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If they give you a limp handshake and avoid eye contact, your brain automatically whispers, not confident.
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Now, here's where it gets interesting.
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Van Edwards discovered that the most charismatic people have mastered the art of balancing two types of cues, warmth and competence.
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Warmth cues are the ones that make people trust you.
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They're your smiles, open gestures, and friendly tone of voice.
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Competence cues, on the other hand, make people respect you.
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They're about standing tall, speaking clearly, and showing confidence.
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The key is finding the sweet spot between warmth and competence.
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Van Edwards explains that warmth earns trust.
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Competence earns respect.
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Together, they create charisma.
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Let's break this down.
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Imagine you're in a job interview.
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You wanna come across as capable, someone who knows their stuff, right?
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That's competence.
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However, if you're too focused on sounding smart and forget to smile or show some personality, the interviewer might think, okay,
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they know their stuff, but do I want to work with them?
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In this scenario, you've nailed competence, but you're missing warmth.
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On the flip side, picture someone who's bubbly and friendly, but can't answer basic questions about the job.
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Sure, they're likable, but the interviewer will be left wondering, do they actually know what they're doing?
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Too much warmth without competence will leave people questioning your abilities.
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Too much competence without warmth will make people feel intimidated by you.
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A charismatic person is like a big brother, someone you look up to as a mentor, yet also someone you genuinely care about.
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The perfect example of this balance is Keanu Reeves, the internet's favorite human being.
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Why do people love him so much?
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Because he's mastered the balance between warmth and competence.
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On the competent side, he's an exceptional actor completely dedicated to his craft.
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On the warmth side, he's humble, approachable, and treats everyone from co -stars to fans with kindness.
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Vanessa Van Edwards breaks it down even further with what she calls the four levels of charisma.
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It's like a roadmap to figure out exactly where you stand and where you might need to level up.
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Let's start at the bottom, no charisma.
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This is where warmth and competence are both missing you come across as cold, uncaring, and incompetent, even if that's not true.
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You might be the smartest, kindest person in the room, but guess what?
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If you're not showing it through your cues, people won't see it.
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Next level is you have some charisma, but high competence and low warmth.
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This is where many professionals land.
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If you're someone who values expertise, you're likely sending out competence cues.
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People respect you for your skills, but without any warmth, you may appear cold and intimidating.
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Then there's the opposite.
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You have some charisma with low competence, but high warmth.
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Here, the problem is that warmth without competence can feel unreliable.
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People love spending time with you, but people may not count on you or see you as a reliable person.
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Finally, the ultimate level is when you have a high level of charisma, high competence, and high warmth.
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This is where trust and respect meet.
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And it's why highly charismatic people inspire collaboration and loyalty.
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People want to work with you and they trust you to lead.
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So how do you move up the charisma ladder?
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That's where the real work begins.
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And according to Vanessa Van Edwards, it's absolutely possible to level up no matter where you're starting from.
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Charisma isn't a fixed trait.
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It's a skill.
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And like any skill, it gets better with practice.
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First, you need to figure out your starting point based on the four levels of charisma I have just explained.
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Next, you need to understand how to dial up the cues you're missing based on the situation
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and the individuals you are interacting with.
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Generally speaking, most people will know where they stand on the four levels of charisma.
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If you don't know, then take a moment to ask yourself, am I naturally warmer, more competent, or struggling with both?
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You need to be honest with yourself.
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Maybe you're the friendly, approachable type who lights up a room but freezes when it's time to present your ideas.
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Or maybe you're the hyper -focused expert whose sharpness commands respect but keeps people at arm's length.
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Knowing where you are is key.
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Van Edwards gives an easy exercise to help you balance warmth and competence.
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She calls it the friend and expert test.
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After any interaction, ask yourself, did I make them feel like I'm their friend?
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Did I show that I know what I'm talking about?
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If the answer to both is yes, then you're on the path to mastering charisma.
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For example, if you're pitching an idea, start with a relatable story or a joke to build connection.
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Then deliver your facts and figures with clarity and confidence.
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Think of warmth as a way to open the door and competence as the reason people want to walk through it.
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The cues you use don't have to be grand gestures.
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Simplicity is key.
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For example, if you want to convey warmth, all you need to do is make the other person feel appreciated.
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A simple smile, nodding when they speak, or maintaining eye contact can go a long way.
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If you want to show competence, you need to speak and act with confidence in what you're saying.
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It's about your tone of voice and how you articulate yourself.
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You also need to pay attention to your microexpressions and body language, and not only your words.
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When your microexpressions and body language align with your words, then people trust you.
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But when they don't, people will always believe your body over the words you say.
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That is because before you even say a word, your body is already communicating.
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In fact, research shows that up to 93 % of communication is nonverbal.
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Your body speaks before you do.
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Microexpressions and body language can reveal warmth, competence, or discomfort in the blink of an eye.
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So what are micro -expressions?
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They're those lightning -fast facial movements that reveal what someone is truly feeling.
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These expressions last less than a second, but they're packed with emotional information.
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For example, a genuine smile, what researchers call a Duchenne smile, activates not just the mouth,
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but also the muscles around your eyes.
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If someone's smile doesn't reach their eyes, they're probably faking it.
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And believe me, people pick up on that.
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If you want to show warmth, practice letting your smile fully engage your face.
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It makes you instantly more approachable.
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Another key micro expression is the raised eyebrows.
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Let's say you're telling a story and the other person's eyebrows lift slightly.
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That's a good sign.
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They're interested, but if they furrow their brows or press their lips tightly, it might mean confusion or doubt.
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Micro expressions are universal.
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No matter where you're from, a genuine smile or a look of disgust means the same thing.
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Now let's talk about the rest of your body.
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Van Edwards reminds us that every movement you make sends a signal.
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Are you confident, approachable, or closed off?
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Your body also has to match your words in order to build trust.
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For example, if you're saying, I'm really excited to be here, but your arms are crossed, guess what?
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No one's buying it.
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Posture is another big one.
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Standing tall with your shoulders back not only makes you look more confident, but also makes you feel more confident.
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This is what
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Van Edwards calls power posing.
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Even if you're nervous, adopting a strong, open posture can trick your brain into feeling more in control.
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The most charismatic people are like chameleons, not in a fake way, but in their ability to adjust their cues to fit any environment.
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Charisma starts with awareness of the situation, the people, and what they need from you in that moment.
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Different people respond to different cues.
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To connect effectively, you have to understand what they value most.
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Some people may prefer warmth and others competence.
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When in doubt, Van Edwards recommends to always start with warmth.
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It's the fastest way to build connection.
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Then add competence to solidify trust and respect.
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Here's the thing.
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You don't have to be perfect to be charismatic.
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The goal isn't to become a completely different person.
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Charisma is about building real, meaningful connections.
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It's about making people feel seen, valued, and inspired.
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This is the kind of impression that leaves a lasting impact.
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이 레슨의 어휘와 말하기 포인트
이 말하기 레슨은 영상 “Easy Guide to Become More Charismatic”을(를) 바탕으로 합니다. 가장 자주 반복되는 단어는 다음과 같습니다: warmth, charisma, competence, cue, Edwards. 이 영상에는 섀도잉할 문장 148개와 단어 1806개가 있습니다. 말하는 구간의 길이는 11:01입니다. 화자는 분당 약 164단어로, 일상 대화에 가까운 자연스러운 속도로 말합니다. 영어에서 가장 많이 쓰이는 3,000단어에 속하는 단어가 81%뿐이라 어휘가 어려운 편입니다.
이 영상의 핵심 어휘
영상에 나오는 익혀 둘 만한 단어 15개를 발음, 뜻과 함께 정리했습니다.
| 단어 | 발음 | 뜻 |
|---|---|---|
| warmth 명사 | /wɔɹmθ/ | 온기 |
| adopt 동사 | /əˈdɑpt/ | 입양하다 |
| microwave 명사 | /ˈmaɪkɹoʊˌweɪv/ | 마이크로파 |
| earn 동사 | /ɝn/ | 벌다 |
| reveal 동사 | /ɹɪˈviːl/ | 나타내다, 드러내다 |
| skill 명사 | /skɪl/ | 기술, 스킬 |
| connect 동사 | /kəˈnɛkt/ | 잇다, 연결하다 |
| genuine 형용사 | /ˈd͡ʒɛn.juˌɪn/ | 성실하다, 진짜의 |
| gesture 명사 | /ˈd͡ʒɛs.t͡ʃɚ/ | 제스처, 몸짓 |
| interviewer 명사 | /ˈɪntɚvjuɚ/ | 면접관 |
| universal 형용사 | /ˌjunəˈvɜɹs(ə)l/ | 우주(宇宙)의, 우주적 |
| muscle 명사 | /ˈmʌs.əl/ | 근육 |
| pitch 명사 | /pɪt͡ʃ/ | 투구 |
| remind 동사 | /ɹəˈmaɪnd/ | 생각나게 하다, 상기(想起)시키다 |
| impression 명사 | /ɪmˈpɹɛʃn̩/ | 인상 |
따라 말해 볼 만한 문장
영상에 나오는 짧고 완결된 문장으로, 일상 대화에서 그대로 쓸 수 있습니다:
- Do you ever feel like you're speaking, but no one's really listening?
- Imagine you're in a job interview.
- Let's start at the bottom, no charisma.
- Did I show that I know what I'm talking about?
- Are you confident, approachable, or closed off?
이 영상의 문법
화자가 가장 많이 쓰는 문형을 영상 속 실제 표현과 함께 정리했습니다.
| 문형 | 영상 속 표현 |
|---|---|
| 현재완료 have/has + 과거분사 — 과거의 일이 지금도 관련이 있을 때 | you've ever felt · they've already decided · have mastered |
| 수동태 be + 과거분사 — 누가 하는지보다 무슨 일이 일어나는지에 초점 | is presented · will be left · are crossed |
| 관계절 who / which + 절 — 사람이나 사물에 대한 추가 정보 | someone who knows · someone who values |
주의할 발음
화자는 you're, they're, don't 같은 축약형과 약화된 형태를 50번 사용합니다. 들리는 대로 짧게 발음하세요.
- “sh”와 “zh” 소리: impression /ɪmˈpɹɛʃn̩/, interaction /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/, collaboration /kəˌlæbəˈɹeɪʃən/, confusion /kənˈfjuːʒən/, facial /ˈfeɪ.ʃəl/
- 긴 단어 — 강세 위치에 주의: communicate /kəˈmjuːnɪkeɪt/, naturally /ˈnæt͡ʃ.(ə.)ɹə.li/, universal /ˌjunəˈvɜɹs(ə)l/, interaction /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/, collaboration /kəˌlæbəˈɹeɪʃən/
한국어 화자가 어려워하는 소리:
- /f/ — ㅍ(/p/)으로 바꾸지 말고 윗니를 아랫입술에 대기: craft /ˈkɹæft/, flip /flɪp/, confusion /kənˈfjuːʒən/, meaningful /ˈmiː.nɪŋ.fl̩/, freeze /ˈfɹiːz/
- /v/ — ㅂ(/b/)과 구별하기: microwave /ˈmaɪkɹoʊˌweɪv/, reveal /ɹɪˈviːl/, verbal /ˈvɜː.bəl/, convey /kənˈveɪ/, interviewer /ˈɪntɚvjuɚ/
- /z/ — ㅈ이 아니라 성대를 울리는 /s/: freeze /ˈfɹiːz/, pose /poʊz/, invisible /ɪnˈvɪzəb(ə)l/, expertise /ˌɛkspɜːˈtiːz/, charisma /kəˈɹɪzmə/
이 영상으로 연습하는 방법
- 먼저 말하지 않고 영상을 끝까지 듣고 모르는 단어를 적어 둡니다.
- 0.75배속으로 한 문장씩 섀도잉을 시작하고, 익숙해지면 보통 속도로 돌아갑니다.
- 자신의 목소리를 녹음해 원본과 비교하고, warmth, adopt, microwave 같은 단어에 특히 주의합니다.
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