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how to get into a social flow that is so strong

so magnetic that it effortlessly pulls people into your life i have hit this

so many different times in my life countless nights out

and even during the daytime i've gotten into extreme social flows to the point where i'm literally walking around

and i feel like i'm just like oozing this this like aura

i don't even know what else to call it right maybe

you've been there maybe you haven't hopefully you've been there without alcohol.

What I've noticed is that with a lot of beginners, with guys that are just starting out trying to get better with their social confidence,

if you get past that initial anxiety

and you've ever gone out for a night out

or you've taken massive action one day and you've really pushed past that initial layer of resistance, you start to get into a social flow, right?

And the first couple nights out when I first started doing this over 10 years ago, I was not getting into social flow

I was not getting into a crazy high

I was I did not have a magnetic aura I had crippling social anxiety

and I was very dependent on alcohol there was no way I was going to go out

and do this stuff during the daytime and

so for me it was uh it was it was really difficult at first all right

so there was zero social flow

but I want I want to talk to you guys in this video about how to actually do this sober

and there's a couple different practical steps that I want to go over

and then there's just a little bit of understanding about the process itself.

Okay.

I'm not going to talk too much about my journey in this video.

So if you guys want to know more about my whole backstory, cause I'm 35 years old now,

but if you want to know more about my entire transformation and how I've helped a thousand plus men transform as well,

or even more details of my coaching program, link is in description.

You can check out that in -depth training.

I go over all of that and a whole lot more, but let's talk about how to actually get into that social flow.

All right.

At first there's going to be high levels of resistance, high levels of anxiety.

Okay.

The only way that you will ever get into a sober flow is to go past

that point for an extended period of time.

So I'll give you an example.

You want to go out and do this daytime or nighttime to get into a social flow.

Um, you, you can't, you can't do this without taking action consistently for a prolonged period of time.

So what I tell clients honestly is that, hey, if you do have high levels of anxiety or you haven't been in social flow consistently,

one of the first things you could actually start doing at home as a prerequisite to kind of get the ball rolling,

get a little bit of social lubricant going, is you just start talking out loud.

A lot of the times in my day -to -day right now, guys, I get into a social flow just from speaking on camera.

Now I'm not going to, I'm not going to catch a flow five minutes into recording,

but if I film enough content over and over and over again, if I'm talking out loud,

even though there's nobody, there's nobody in this room right now, it's just me and a camera and this really bright light on my face.

But if I talk here long enough out loud with enough of an expressive tone, with a, with a less,

with, with a little bit of a filter, or as little of a filter as possible, and I say things that are pushing my emotions out,

I will catch a social flow, right?

So the first thing I tell guys is, hey, you want to go out, get into social flow and build that flow over time?

It starts with just warming up.

Starts with warming up.

So you want to start talking out loud in an expressive way where you force yourself to laugh,

where you talk louder than you normally would, right?

So that's where it starts.

Even just five to 10 minutes can be a great warmup

If you also have an opportunity to do so,

you could call a friend on the phone and speak to them for five to 10 minutes out loud as well.

Now we actually get out into the world.

This could be daytime, this could be nighttime.

We're trying to get into a social flow.

What I recommend doing first is just taking the first step by saying things to people in passing, right?

If nothing else, you have very low levels, just start saying things to people in passing.

That alone can really boost your state.

If you've been working inside all day, looking at a fucking laptop and you're feeling drained you're feeling sleepy

and then you do five to ten minutes talking out loud

and then you go outside

and you just start talking to people in passing like literally greetings

and compliments that alone can start to wake you up a little bit

however

if you really want to get into a social flow like

what i was talking about the beginning of this video i'm talking about like you you're on a high

and anybody you talk to is like really drawn into you and you're just in a completely different emotional state,

it's going to take more action than that, right?

But what's going to happen is you start to go past the zone that you've ever, that you're normally comfortable at, right?

So for most men, I think the easiest way is to go up and start approaching women.

If you actually go up and do a direct approach on a girl, like you actually stop a girl and let her know

that you just saw her and you thought she looked cute and you wanted to just see how her day's going,

you wanted to meet her really quick, right?

That is extremely uncomfortable for most men.

Now, if you can't do that and you, now, if you haven't been doing that and you start trying to do that, get ready.

Because after like one, two, or three, you might feel a little bit uncomfortable right

or you go talk to a couple people it might feel uncomfortable

if you have high levels of social anxiety but

if you keep going

and you go to from three to five approaches to 10 approaches to 15

or even 20 approaches at some point

you get over like like your nervous system actually calms down at some point the first three

or five you're really freaking out because you're not used to doing this.

And it's like, what is going on?

Is this rejection?

Like I want to go home.

If you stay past that point though,

eventually the nervous system really calms down and you start to get desensitized to whether or not you're going to get rejected.

And now you're going to be in this really, really optimal state, really optimal state, which is, it's literally like a drug.

It's a, it's literally a drug.

That's, that's what it is like

if i were to look back at earlier in my journey

i was literally chasing this high i would go out at nighttime

and really look forward to getting into these crazy high states

and by the way i'm not saying you need to go like

that guys what i'm trying to show you in this video is

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that if you just are somewhat social on a daily basis

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and you just push your your social comfort zone a little bit, you'll, you'll raise your baseline social flow.

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Like right now I can wake up and I'm pretty social.

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I haven't done any social warmup.

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I haven't approached anybody.

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I could turn the camera on without even warming up and just go into it.

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Right.

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And so your baseline levels of social flow will go up and up and up with consistency.

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So there's two parts to this as I'm kind of riffing here.

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One part of it is if you do this on a daily basis, a minimum amount of action on a daily basis,

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you're going to build momentum.

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You're going to build consistency and your baseline is going to start to go higher and higher and higher.

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And your ability to just talk to people

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and have a really powerful vibe and aura to you that will start getting stronger and stronger and stronger.

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So the daily consistency is a big part to this.

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But the other part of it is in one day out in any one session,

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you really need to push it way further than whatever your comfort zone is.

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Because I was the guy at one point where I would just go out

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and try to do my three interactions or my two interactions a day, or just say something to three people, which is great.

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That's a, that's a great first step.

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And you can totally make progress that way,

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but you're not going to get into an extreme social flow to the point where your confidence is like

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elevated higher than it's ever been on a day -to -day, right?

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The only way you do that is a prolonged amount of action.

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You take, like if you're used to doing like three interactions on the night out, or you approached three girls, or you did something like that,

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like try doing 20 one day, try doing like legitimate, like 20 approaches.

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And at some point in that process, it might be at eight, 12, 15, 20.

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I don't know.

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I have clients that have done like 30 or even 40 or 50, not that you need to go that high.

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But what I'm saying is once you get past a certain point, just it's, it's just like anything else, right?

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If I, if I turn the camera on and I talk after five minutes, I'm not going to be in a crazy social flow.

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But if I've been recording for an hour, I'm going to be in a crazy social flow.

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Or if I'm running on the treadmill, the first three minutes, I'm barely even warmed up.

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And then at some point I really get into the flow of things it takes time to get into that flow, right?

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So you need uninterrupted, prolonged amount of action.

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But the reason that the social flow is so crazy is that once you hit that level,

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it's like something flips in your brain and you can now just pretty much go up and talk to anybody.

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Like your fear of rejection for the day, unfortunately, it's only for the day.

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It's not like you unlock it and then you're just like God mode the rest of your life.

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But for the next like hour or two, your emotional state is at a completely different frequency

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and you can actually go out and you have like zero fear of rejection

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and you could probably push it a lot further than you ever have before right

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so i wanted to talk about this

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because i don't i think there's a lot of men out there

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that never hit you never catch your your social flow you never really hit

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that level you just kind of you maybe you watch content like this

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and you do a couple approaches here and there

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or maybe you only do drunk approaches or maybe you only watch content

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and you don't even really do the thing whichever level you're at

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It's good if you're doing at least a couple of days, but if you never really,

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really push it, dude, you just don't unlock that next level.

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And there is a next level, man.

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And once you get there, I'm telling you, there are several people that I met on either nights out

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or days out where I was in just an insane flow

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and we just had a really amazing conversation because my vibe was just so powerful, right?

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Men and women, this is not just for picking up girls.

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This is for networking.

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This is for social confidence this is for being able to interact with anybody it's literally a superpower

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and once you start building this thing up

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you're going to realize like damn this actually leads to freedom this leads to unlimited opportunity in my life

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because essentially every person you talk to you could either make a friend

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or a business partner or a potential lover right

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when it's done properly so if you're not pushing it

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and you're not getting into social flow start prioritizing this i encourage

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you guys start pushing yourself one two three times a week get out there

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and start practicing this could be in your day -to -day

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this could be you taking a dedicated time out of your day to go practice your social skills

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it could be on the weekends on nights out all right it doesn't matter

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which one but whatever fits your lifestyle it's important

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that you start pushing it because there's so much benefit

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that can come from your life

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if you get this side of your life also handled all right

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if you want help increasing your social confidence getting into more interactions building up

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that social flow and really just getting your dating life handled.

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If you want to achieve your dream dating life, guys, click the link down below.

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Check out the in -depth training.

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I go over my whole backstory, the clients, my coaching program, and how it can help you really achieve your dream dating life, all right?

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Links down below.

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That's all for this video.

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Do yourselves a favor.

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Make a commitment this week to get out the house

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and start pushing yourself to being more social and hit that social flow, man.

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It feels awesome.

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영상에 나오는 익혀 둘 만한 단어 15개를 발음, 뜻과 함께 정리했습니다.

단어	발음	뜻
anxiety 명사	/æŋˈzaɪ.əti/	걱정, 불안
interaction 명사	/ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/	상호작용
daytime 명사	/ˈdeɪtaɪm/	하루, 낮
uncomfortable 형용사	/ʌnˈkʌm.fɚ.tə.bl̩/	불편하다
rejection 명사	/ɹɪˈd͡ʒɛkʃən/	거절
aura 명사	/ˈɔːɹə/	영기, 령기
filter 명사	/ˈfɪltɚ/	여과기, 필터
magnetic 형용사	/mæɡˈnɛtɪk/	자석의
vibe 명사	/vaɪb/	분위기
practical 형용사	/ˈpɹæk.tɪ.kəl/	실질적인
encourage 동사	/ɪnˈkʌɹ.ɪd͡ʒ/	격려하다
chase 동사	/t͡ʃeɪs/	쫓다
skill 명사	/skɪl/	기술, 스킬
insane 형용사	/ɪnˈseɪn/	제정신이 아니다
layer 명사	/ˈleɪ̯ɚ/	층

영상에 나오는 구동사

단어	발음	뜻
go out 동사		나가다
go up 동사		올라가다
get out 동사		나오다, 나가다
get over 동사		극복하다
pick up 동사		줍다
wake up 동사	/ˌweɪk ˈʌp/	눈뜨다, 일어나다

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화자가 가장 많이 쓰는 문형을 영상 속 실제 표현과 함께 정리했습니다.

문형	영상 속 표현
현재완료진행 have/has been + -ing — 전에 시작해 지금도 계속되는 동작	you've been working · haven't been doing · I've been recording
현재완료 have/has + 과거분사 — 과거의 일이 지금도 관련이 있을 때	have hit · i've gotten · you've been
관계절 who / which + 절 — 사람이나 사물에 대한 추가 정보	guys that are · state, which is · people, which is
동사 + -ing enjoy, keep, stop… + -ing — 뒤에 -ing형이 오는 동사	started doing · start doing · start talking

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화자는 you're, I'm, you've 같은 축약형과 약화된 형태를 66번 사용합니다. 들리는 대로 짧게 발음하세요.

“sh”와 “zh” 소리: interaction /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/, rejection /ɹɪˈd͡ʒɛkʃən/, essentially /ɪˈsɛnʃəli/, transformation /ˌtɹæns.fɔɹˈmeɪ.ʃən/, emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/
긴 단어 — 강세 위치에 주의: anxiety /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/, interaction /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/, uncomfortable /ʌnˈkʌm.fɚ.tə.bl̩/, consistency /kənˈsɪs.tən.si/, consistently /kənˈsɪstəntli/

한국어 화자가 어려워하는 소리:

/f/ — ㅍ(/p/)으로 바꾸지 말고 윗니를 아랫입술에 대기: uncomfortable /ʌnˈkʌm.fɚ.tə.bl̩/, comfort /ˈkʌm.fət/, filter /ˈfɪltɚ/, frequency /ˈfɹiːkwənsi/, lifestyle /ˈlaɪfˌstaɪl/
/v/ — ㅂ(/b/)과 구별하기: vibe /vaɪb/, lover /ˈlʌvɚ/, yourselves /jəˈsɛlvz/, whichever /wɪt͡ʃˈɛvɚ/, expressive /ɪkˈspɹɛsɪv/
/z/ — ㅈ이 아니라 성대를 울리는 /s/: anxiety /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/, yourselves /jəˈsɛlvz/, desensitize /diːˈsɛnsɪtaɪz/, ooze /uːz/, prerequisite /pɹiˈɹɛkwəzət/

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