์‰๋„์ž‰ ์—ฐ์Šต: Perrie Edwards on friend breakup with Jesy ๐Ÿ’” - ์˜์ƒ์œผ๋กœ ์˜์–ด ๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๊ธฐ

์—ฐ์Šต ๋ชจ๋“œ ์„ ํƒ

๊ฐ ๋ชจ๋“œ๋Š” ์ „์ฒด ํ™”๋ฉด ์—ฐ์Šต์‹ค๋กœ ์—ด๋ฆฝ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

28 ๋ฌธ์žฅ
๋ฌธ์žฅ์ด ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์งง๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๊ธธ๋ฉด Edit๋ฅผ ๋ˆŒ๋Ÿฌ ์กฐ์ •ํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
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I'm not saying she's this fucking monster, but take some accountability for your actions.
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What you sang about, right, is friend breakups.
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Sometimes you just won't win with people.
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You just don't say eye to eye at all.
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Again, I have to be careful how I say this because I don't want to seem like a bitch, but for me, what upsets me the most is when the other person doesn't take any accountability.
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That boils my blood.
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I'm not blaming everything on you.
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I'm not saying she's this fucking monster and everything was her fault and blah, blah, blah.
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But take some accountability for your actions and realize you were difficult.
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You did have difficult moments.
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Granted, there was reasons for those moments, but you can only pick somebody up so many fucking times before you start losing track of your own sanity.
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And you want to be there for that person, but if they can't accept the help and they can't accept the love that you're trying to show...
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No, because what you're talking about, you're talking about fairness as well.
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I could have done better, I suppose, but I thought what I was doing was enough.
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I thought I'd tried everything.
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So then to then sit there in further interviews and discuss it publicly and be like, I wasn't supported.
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You were though.
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Do you think you will rekindle the friendship?
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If I'm being completely transparent, part of me wanted to until the documentary.
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And then part of me withdrew again.
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And this is the thing.
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I'm not a horrible person and I haven't got a bad one in my body, but I can cut you off.
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Like I can't.
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You can do that.
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I can cut you out of my life like that.
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If you upset me and you hurt me in a way, there's not really any going back.
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I can forgive, but I don't want you in my space.
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And this is what I'm learning in therapy as well.

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์ด ๋น„๋””์˜ค๋Š” ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•œ ๊ฑธ๊นŒ์š”?

์˜์–ด ํšŒํ™” ์—ฐ์Šต์„ ํ•˜๋ฉฐ ์ผ์ƒ ๋Œ€ํ™”์˜ ๊ฐ์ •์„ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฒ•์„ ๋ฐฐ์šฐ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์€ ์ค‘๊ธ‰ ์ด์ƒ ํ•™์Šต์ž์—๊ฒŒ ์ถ”์ฒœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํŠนํžˆ ์นœ๊ตฌ ์‚ฌ์ด์˜ ๊ฐˆ๋“ฑ, ์ฑ…์ž„๊ฐ, ์šฉ์„œ์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊นŠ์€ ์ฃผ์ œ๋ฅผ ๋‹ค๋ฃจ๋Š” ๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹ถ๋‹ค๋ฉด, ์ด ๋น„๋””์˜ค๋Š” shadow speech (์‰๋„์ž‰) ์—ฐ์Šต์— ์ตœ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. IELTS ์Šคํ”ผํ‚น ์ค€๋น„์ƒ๋„ ๊ฐ์ •์ ์ธ ๋ฐœํ™”์™€ ๋…ผ๋ฆฌ์ ์ธ ํ‘œํ˜„์„ ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ ๋„์›€์ด ๋  ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š”.

๋นผ๋†“์„ ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด์™€ ๊ด€์šฉ๊ตฌ

  • take accountability for: "์ฑ…์ž„์ง€๋‹ค" - "Take some accountability for your actions" (๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ํ–‰๋™์— ์ฑ…์ž„์„ ์ง€์„ธ์š”)์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๊ฐˆ๋“ฑ ์ƒํ™ฉ์—์„œ ์ž์ฃผ ์‚ฌ์šฉ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
  • see eye to eye: "์˜๊ฒฌ์ด ์ผ์น˜ํ•˜๋‹ค" - "We didn't see eye to eye" (์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด ๋งž์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์–ด์š”)๋กœ ์นœ๊ตฌ ์‚ฌ์ด์˜ ๋ถˆ์ผ์น˜๋ฅผ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
  • boils my blood: "ํ”ผ๋ฅผ ๋“๊ฒŒ ํ•˜๋‹ค" (๊ทน๋„๋กœ ํ™”๋‚˜๋‹ค) - "That boils my blood" (๊ทธ๊ฑด ์ •๋ง ํ™”๊ฐ€ ๋‚˜์š”)์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๊ฐ•ํ•œ ๊ฐ์ •์„ ๋‚˜ํƒ€๋ƒ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
  • cut off: "์ฐจ๋‹จํ•˜๋‹ค, ๊ด€๊ณ„๋ฅผ ๋Š๋‹ค" - "I can cut you off" (๋‚˜๋Š” ๋„ˆ๋ฅผ ์ฐจ๋‹จํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด์š”)๋กœ ๊ด€๊ณ„ ์ข…๋ฃŒ๋ฅผ ์ง์ ‘์ ์œผ๋กœ ํ‘œํ˜„ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๋ฐœ์Œ์„ ์ œ๋Œ€๋กœ ์žก๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•

์ด ๋น„๋””์˜ค์˜ ํ™”์ž๋Š” ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ๊ตฌ์–ด์ฒด ๋ฐœ์Œ์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋ฏ€๋กœ, ์˜์–ด ๋ฐœ์Œ ๊ต์ •์— ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”. ํŠนํžˆ "fucking"๊ณผ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฐ•์กฐ ์–ด๊ตฌ์˜ ๋ฐœ์Œ์€ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ์„ธ๊ฒŒ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ณ , ๊ฐ์ •์ด ๋‹ด๊ธฐ๋„๋ก ๋ถ€๋“œ๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ ๋‚ด๋ฑ‰๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. "accountability"๋Š” [ษ™หŒkaสŠntษ™หˆbษชlษ™ti]๋กœ, ์ค‘๊ฐ„์˜ "t"๋ฅผ ์•ฝํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋ฐœ์Œํ•ด์š”. ๋˜ํ•œ "I could have done better"์—์„œ "could have"๋Š” [kสŠdษ™v]๋กœ ์ถ•์•ฝ๋˜์–ด ๋ฐœ์Œ๋˜๋‹ˆ, ์‰๋„์ž‰ํ•  ๋•Œ ๋น ๋ฅด๊ฒŒ ๋”ฐ๋ผํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”. ํ™”์ž์˜ ์–ต์–‘ ๋ณ€ํ™”๋„ ์ฃผ๋ชฉํ•˜์„ธ์š” - ํ™”๊ฐ€ ๋‚  ๋•Œ๋Š” ๋†’์€ ํ†ค, ํšŒ์ƒํ•  ๋•Œ๋Š” ๋‚ฎ์€ ํ†ค์œผ๋กœ ์ „ํ™˜๋˜๋ฉฐ ๊ฐ์ •์„ ์ „๋‹ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์„ธ๋ถ€์ ์ธ ๋ฐœ์Œ๊ณผ ์–ต์–‘์„ ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜๋ฉด, ์˜์–ด ํšŒํ™”๊ฐ€ ํ›จ์”ฌ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์›Œ์งˆ ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š”!

์‰๋„์ž‰์ด๋ž€? ์˜์–ด ์‹ค๋ ฅ์„ ๋น ๋ฅด๊ฒŒ ํ‚ค์šฐ๋Š” ๊ณผํ•™์  ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•

์‰๋„์ž‰(Shadowing)์€ ์›๋ž˜ ์ „๋ฌธ ํ†ต์—ญ์‚ฌ ํ›ˆ๋ จ์„ ์œ„ํ•ด ๊ฐœ๋ฐœ๋œ ์–ธ์–ด ํ•™์Šต ๊ธฐ๋ฒ•์œผ๋กœ, ๋‹ค์–ธ์–ด ํ•™์ž์ธ Dr. Alexander Arguelles์— ์˜ํ•ด ๋Œ€์ค‘ํ™”๋œ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ํ•ต์‹ฌ ์›๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋งค์šฐ ๊ฐ•๋ ฅํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค: ์›์–ด๋ฏผ์˜ ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ๋“ค์œผ๋ฉด์„œ 1~2์ดˆ์˜ ์งง์€ ์ง€์—ฐ์œผ๋กœ ์ฆ‰์‹œ ์†Œ๋ฆฌ ๋‚ด์–ด ๋”ฐ๋ผ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒโ€”โ€”๋งˆ์น˜ '๊ทธ๋ฆผ์ž(shadow)'์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ํ™”์ž๋ฅผ ๋”ฐ๋ผ๊ฐ€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ฌธ๋ฒ• ๊ณต๋ถ€๋‚˜ ์ˆ˜๋™์ ์ธ ์ฒญ์ทจ์™€ ๋‹ฌ๋ฆฌ, ์‰๋„์ž‰์€ ๋‡Œ์™€ ์ž… ๊ทผ์œก์ด ๋™์‹œ์— ์‹ค์‹œ๊ฐ„์œผ๋กœ ์˜์–ด๋ฅผ ์ฒ˜๋ฆฌํ•˜๊ณ  ์žฌํ˜„ํ•˜๋„๋ก ํ›ˆ๋ จํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์—ฐ๊ตฌ์— ๋”ฐ๋ฅด๋ฉด ์ด ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์€ ๋ฐœ์Œ ์ •ํ™•๋„, ์–ต์–‘, ๋ฆฌ๋“ฌ, ์—ฐ์Œ, ์ฒญ์ทจ๋ ฅ, ๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ ์ฐฝ์„ฑ์„ ํฌ๊ฒŒ ํ–ฅ์ƒ์‹œํ‚ต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. IELTS ์Šคํ”ผํ‚น ์ค€๋น„์™€ ์ž์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฌ์šด ์˜์–ด ์†Œํ†ต์„ ์›ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ถ„๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ํŠนํžˆ ํšจ๊ณผ์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

์„€๋„์ž‰ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•: ๋‹จ๊ณ„๋ณ„ ์ „์ฒด ๊ฐ€์ด๋“œ ์ฝ๊ธฐ โ†’