Shadowing Practice: 5 Gay Men vs 1 Secret Straight Guy... - Learn English Speaking with Video
Les maken...
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I'm gay.
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I'm gay.
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I'm gay.
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I'm gay.
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I'm gay.
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I'm gay.
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When did everyone realize they were gay?
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Um, probably like end of high school, after my first relationship.
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It was a girl, and it was just not for me.
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I think for me, it was in middle school.
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It was like before puberty.
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So I was just kind of figuring things out for myself.
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And also other kids were understanding too.
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So that really helped me to find myself when I would talk about it?
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15. Oh.
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So I know exactly when it was.
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I grew up in a very religious home and I too was in relationships with girls.
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So what I did was I hid myself for a long time.
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So I'm trying not to tear up.
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It wasn't until the pandemic when I came out to my little brother.
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I actually knew when I was eight.
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My grandma took me to see Mamma Mia, and if you've seen the movie, you know the beach scene.
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You know exactly what I'm talking about.
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And I knew something was just a little bit off about me
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when I realized that I was more attracted to Sky than I was Sophie.
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I'm like, something about him.
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You know, mine honestly is right after Twilight came out.
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It came out of Pattinson, I don't know.
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Who's team, who's team?
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Of course, of course.
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Pattinson for sure, Edward.
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I knew in middle school, like, there was something up with me.
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I was like, I like men, that's 100% but I called myself bisexual, and then freshman year in high school, I was just like, I'm gay.
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Like, the way I feel about women is nothing like the way I feel about men.
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Okay.
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I already revealed mine, but what is everyone's favorite celebrity crush?
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Mine is also a vampire.
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It's Paul Wesley from Vampire Diaries.
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He was like my gay awakening, yeah.
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Really?
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Yeah.
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Okay, well mine was Robert Pattinson, so I'm a vampire.
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Ross Lynch, something about that man is just, oh, just, ah, I just love Ross Lynch.
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Yeah.
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Prince and Idris Elba.
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Mine right now, I think, is Pedro Pascal.
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You're on the Pedro Pascal train.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Yeah, I am.
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I'm your daddy.
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Matt Balmer from White Collar.
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Like, the snake eyes are so sexy.
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That's it.
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What do you guys hate about straight men?
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Their inability to take criticism or take no as an answer.
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Like, what is up with that?
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Like, I understand patriarchy and all that, but still.
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I know, like, consent.
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Literally.
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their inability to have any sort of fashion.
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It's just T-shirts, jeans, or like just basketball shorts.
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You know, you see those men who clearly use like the three-in-one shampoos, and I'm just like, how?
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They brush their teeth with it.
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Yeah, like I swear.
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Oh my God, this one guy had a 10-in-one.
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I did not even want to ask what it meant.
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Lucifer, I just wanted to ask you, so you said at 15 is when you knew, right?
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That you were gay?
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Yes, that's when I came to terms with it for myself.
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And then you said during COVID was when you told your brother?
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Yes.
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So that whole time he didn't know?
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No. Really?
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How did that feel for you?
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Because were you guys close?
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We were, but I moved from Memphis when I was 18.
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OK.
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We've been long distance for all that time.
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I see.
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He really didn't make a big deal out of it.
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Just told me that he loved me no matter what.
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I see.
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Can I ask why did you not come out to him earlier if you guys felt so comfortable together with that?
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Yes.
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Yes, so for me, when I was growing up, the thing that mattered most was getting married and having a family.
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I had to keep that facade a long time.
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I was actually practicing to be a minister in 2012, right when President Obama declared gay marriage legalized nationwide.
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And when I was in...
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I want to hear more.
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Hey, have you spotted the mole yet?
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Well hang tight because we're going to get there.
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Until then, subscribe to our channel, and now let's get back to the video.
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That tank top that he's wearing is really tacky.
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Sorry, just the jeans and his shirt.
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Good luck guys.
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It kind of hurted a little bit.
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Kind of hurted.
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Why do you think they were suspicious of you?
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Um, mainly because I'm wearing just jeans and a t-shirt, but I look stylish and I look amazing, so...
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Lucifer, I remember you were mentioning that gay marriage was being legalized in 2012, but it was 2015, right?
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Yeah, that's what I thought.
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Yeah, so like, yeah, because it was, I remember it precisely, I was on the phone with my pastor actually, when that announcement was made.
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He was running in 2012, so yeah, he would've...
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Right, right. So 15?
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16?
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I'm bad at math.
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I'm terrible.
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Well, it took a while for it to actually go into legislation.
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Gotcha.
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So you can say 2012, but if you're technically, yes, it did tickle up a few years into that second term before it was actually registered.
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What are some things you look for in a guy?
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Oh, creativity, style, and confidence.
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Number one would be hygiene.
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Yeah.
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I bathe at least twice a day if you know not more in a drought, so Please look, you know,
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I got a freshen up so I expect that from someone else.
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Yeah, no, I get that I get that.
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Yeah, yeah, my boyfriend every time I work my ex-boyfriend Yeah, every time I'd come in like the room is just super messy and like I'm really big on bathroom cleanliness Yeah,
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it's the last place you are at night in the first place you're in the morning and most traditional
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men are just Dirty in the bathrooms right um for me definitely funny, and I mean obviously I feel a kid That's that's yeah, that's not started though
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Mine is basically somebody that could just hang
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and vibe with me I'm a very active person whether
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that be like I'm going out hiking I go out working out height doesn't really matter.
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I mean Haven't found anybody as tall as me yet 6'6 okay, how are you?
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6'2, but I have these on right now so a little bit taller.
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I love those by the way Oh, thanks.
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They're brand new.
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They're duck marks.
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Me too, me too.
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Look at...
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I love ducks.
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These are the brand new model.
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They have little...
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Yeah, I know.
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I saw those.
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I saw those.
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Did you miss the memo that we were supposed to wear boots today?
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Yes.
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I did.
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I do prefer men that are shorter than me.
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A little more on the submissive side.
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We're out.
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I hate the bottom.
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Oh.
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I'm just being honest.
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I guess because I was in such a controlled environment for so many years, I just have a way of controlling that space.
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Can we run down and say what we are?
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Like, you already answered.
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Yes.
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We'll say bottom.
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Top. Or verse.
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I say I'm a verse top.
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Yeah, verse bottom.
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He's definitely a bottom.
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Ricky is a bottom for sure.
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Did you see what this man is wearing?
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Had the midriff and all.
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Yeah, just takes the right person for me.
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Yeah, I agree.
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I think it's very dependent.
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But honestly, like, the verse comes in more so when it's with like hookups and stuff like that.
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Well, baby, I'm a Scorpio, so like...
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Me too!
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Oh, nice! So nice!
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When my dapped up Lucifer.
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That was, I was like, okay, that was a little, that was a little straight.
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That felt very hetero to me.
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Ew.
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Oh, and my other thing, if they're open to threesomes, because I want to do that.
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Hey, say it to the camera.
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If you're out there and you're open to threesomes, Lucifer is available.
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I think it's better on paper.
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I'm not going to, I just want to break the truth to you.
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Really?
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Because it's just like, it's just another person.
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It just gets a lot.
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I don't know.
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I just feel like- I completely agree.
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It's more of a novelty for sure.
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Is it like a lot of just sitting around or...?
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Sitting around.
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One person waiting.
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No, no, it's like two at a time.
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I mean, it's like great.
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Let's do a round of Smash or Pass.
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Dominic Fyke.
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Smash.
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Michael B.
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Jordan.
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Smash.
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Ooh, Kree 3.
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Ooh, Kree 3.
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The Rock.
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What?
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What?
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What?
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That was cringe.
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I'm so sorry.
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Oh my god.
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I'm sorry.
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Wait, that's so surprising to me, because you said that you were a top, like you like being in control.
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Dude, The Rock?
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Yeah.
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I can take it.
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You might be a bit shorter than you.
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Wait.
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Yeah, I am.
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But I mean, The Rock is huge.
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I bet I've been watching wrestling for a long time, too.
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Ain't nobody topping The Rock.
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Come on.
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That's sus.
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Rock's ugly.
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Good luck gentlemen.
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Thank you.
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Oh they bitches.
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They jealous.
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They see I'm totally star power.
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They just didn't want to share the money with me.
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I'm not someone that gets offended easily, but bitch that offended me.
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I am offended.
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This is the s* I'm talking about.
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This makes no damn sense.
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Look at me.
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What?
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Do I look straight to you?
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Come on.
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If you want to continue playing because you think
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that there's potentially still a liar among the four of you in the box, raise your hand on three, alright?
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One, two, three.
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Wait, raise your hand just continue playing?
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Yes.
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Oh, I'm not sure.
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So you four are confident that the mole is out, is that correct?
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I think so.
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I can unconfidently say.
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He's like my besties right here.
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So that means the game has ended.
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If the box turns green, you have correctly voted the mole out, and you four will share a cash prize.
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If the box turns red, that means the mole is still among you four, and they win the cash prize themselves. Are you guys ready?
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Oh my god, I knew I was unconfident.
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Don't act surprised.
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I said, I said.
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Why would I act surprised?
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This is...
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One of you aren't my besties.
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Alright.
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So the mole has one.
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And on the count of three, I'm gonna have the mole step forward.
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One.
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One, two, three.
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Oh man.
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We're all the most?
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No!
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Let's go!
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I think there was a mix-up you guys.
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Look at us, we are besties after.
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I was very confused.
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You had me with the fit, Ricky. For real?
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Dude, this is my girlfriend's tea.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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I thought everybody misheard the question.
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Dude, I took a step and I was like, are these people stupid?
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Like, why is everyone else stepping up?
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Like, I'm only straight, dude, y'all are gay.
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I thought that everyone was gay.
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Have either of you ever been mistaken as gay or more feminine?
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Yes.
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For a long time.
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I know, every night I feel like I'm gonna go out with my friends or whatever.
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I get hit on by more guys than girls sometimes, and it's very common, yeah.
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I got mistaken for being gay a lot of the time.
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I even, I'll be honest, I went on dates with guys because so many people were suspecting me of it, but I was just like, that's not me.
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After being on those dates, I was like, I like women.
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That's a fact.
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My story that I was telling was very genuine.
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I'd suppressed my, I guess,
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my alternative to being macho straight for a long time because I just don't fit the mold for the typical straight guy.
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There's always questions of, is he or isn't he?
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Hell, dude.
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I've been training for this for a week.
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How did you train for it?
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Bro, I FaceTimed all my gay homies.
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They were saying like, I'm gonna be a verse top because that's like the least sus, but it's also gay.
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Dude, I practiced walking, I practiced my fits.
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I was doing like 360 Snapchat videos, like, damn, do I look gay or not?
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Like, does my ass pop?
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I work at Urban Outfitters.
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There's a lot of gay men.
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He helped me pick up this nail polish.
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I called all my gay friends and I watched a whole bunch of drag.
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I watched so much drag, bro.
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And it's actually really good, so I would probably keep watching after this.
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I think my game plan was to just not offend anybody.
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I hope I stuck to that because I'm very inclusive.
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I applied for this episode because especially right now with the whole red pill movement, Aiden Ross, Andrew Tate, the toxic male influences out there,
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that it's very important to show other men, and especially younger men that are coming up into this world, that it is okay to be feminine.
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Is it okay to express your emotions?
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Is it okay to be vulnerable?
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Accept everyone.
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It doesn't matter what your looks, sexuality, gender are.
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Just accept everyone.
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Everyone's a little bit different.
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And don't be mad if you're not as confident as the people who are.
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Like not jumping to conclusions and not stereotyping anyone, letting them speak for themselves.
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Yeah.
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I changed my locks into a dude as well, bro.
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This is my homie Nick.
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He's in the bed.
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I said, yo, send me a selfie with your nipple.
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You send it, yeah.
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I put a picture of mine like that too.
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This is my boss.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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I don't do.
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I don't do.
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Because I was like, if I turn my phone on, they see my phone.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Show me your lock chain.
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Woordenschat en spreektips bij deze les
Deze video bevat 318 zinnen en 2328 woorden om na te spreken. Het gesproken deel duurt 13:53. De spreker praat in een natuurlijk tempo van ongeveer 168 woorden per minuut, dicht bij een alledaags gesprek. Slechts 81% van de woorden hoort bij de 3.000 meest gebruikte Engelse woorden, dus de woordenschat is pittig.
Belangrijke woorden in deze video
15 woorden uit de video die het leren waard zijn, met uitspraak en betekenis:
| Woord | Uitspraak | Betekenis |
|---|---|---|
| verse zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˈvɝs/ | vers |
| offend werkwoord | /əˈfɛnd/ | kwetsen, beledigen |
| dragon zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˈdɹæɡən/ | draak, lintworm |
| duck zelfstandig naamwoord | /dʌk/ | eend |
| inability zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˌɪnəˈbɪlɪti/ | onvermogen, impotentie |
| confused bijvoeglijk naamwoord | /kənˈfjuːzd/ | verward, in de war |
| reveal werkwoord | /ɹɪˈviːl/ | onthullen, zich ontpoppen |
| sexy bijvoeglijk naamwoord | /ˈsɛksi/ | sexy |
| ugly bijvoeglijk naamwoord | /ˈʌɡli/ | lelijk |
| conclusion zelfstandig naamwoord | /kənˈkluːʒən/ | conclusie, einde |
| potentially bijwoord | /pəˈtɛnʃ(ə)li/ | potentieel |
| genuine bijvoeglijk naamwoord | /ˈd͡ʒɛn.juˌɪn/ | echt, authentiek |
| consent werkwoord | /kənˈsɛnt/ | toestemmen, instemmen |
| daddy zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˈdædi/ | papa, pappa |
| tear werkwoord | /tɛɹ/ | scheuren |
Phrasal verbs die je zult horen
| Woord | Uitspraak | Betekenis |
|---|---|---|
| go out werkwoord | naar buiten gaan | |
| come out werkwoord | /ˌkʌm ˈaʊt/ | uitkomen |
| grow up werkwoord | opgroeien | |
| pick up werkwoord | oppakken, optillen | |
| run down werkwoord | aanrijden | |
| step up werkwoord | versnellen, verhogen | |
| work out werkwoord | /ˌwɝk ˈaʊt/ | uitrekenen |
Uitspraak om op te letten
De spreker gebruikt 75 samentrekkingen en verkorte vormen, zoals I'm, don't, you're. Spreek ze kort uit, zoals je ze hoort.
- De “th”-klanken: mathematics /mæθ(.ə)ˈmæt.ɪks/, threesome /ˈθɹi.səm/, bathe /beɪð/
- De klanken “sh” en “zh”: conclusion /kənˈkluːʒən/, potentially /pəˈtɛnʃ(ə)li/, polish /ˈpɑ.lɪʃ/, brush /bɹʌʃ/, emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/
- Lange woorden — let op de klemtoon: inability /ˌɪnəˈbɪlɪti/, potentially /pəˈtɛnʃ(ə)li/, celebrity /səˈlɛb.ɹɪ.ɾi/, mathematics /mæθ(.ə)ˈmæt.ɪks/, technically /ˈtɛk.nɪˌkəl.i/
Zo oefen je met deze video
- Luister de hele video één keer zonder te spreken en noteer de woorden die je niet kent.
- Begin op 0,75× snelheid, spreek zin voor zin na en ga terug naar normale snelheid zodra het makkelijk gaat.
- Neem jezelf op en vergelijk met het origineel; let daarbij op woorden als verse, offend, dragon.
Grammatica in deze video
De structuren die de spreker het meest gebruikt, met de exacte woorden uit de video:
| Structuur | In de video |
|---|---|
| Present perfect continuous have/has been + -ing — iets dat eerder begon en nog bezig is | I've been watching · I've been training |
| Present perfect have/has + voltooid deelwoord — iets uit het verleden dat nu nog telt | you've seen · We've been · Haven't found |
| Lijdende vorm be + voltooid deelwoord — het gaat om wat er gebeurt, niet om wie het doet | being legalized · was made · was actually registered |
| Betrekkelijke bijzinnen who / which + zin — extra informatie over een persoon of ding | men who clearly · people who are |
Wat is de Shadowing-techniek?
Shadowing is een wetenschappelijk onderbouwde taalleermethode die oorspronkelijk is ontwikkeld voor professionele tolkentraining en gepopulariseerd door polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. De methode is eenvoudig maar krachtig: je luistert naar native Engelse audio en herhaalt het onmiddellijk hardop — als een schaduw die de spreker volgt met slechts 1–2 seconden vertraging. In tegenstelling tot passief luisteren of grammaticadrills, dwingt shadowing je hersenen en mondspieren om echte spraakpatronen tegelijkertijd te verwerken en te reproduceren. Onderzoek toont aan dat het de uitspraaknauwkeurigheid, intonatie, ritme, verbonden spraak, luisterbegrip en spreekvaardigheid aanzienlijk verbetert — waardoor het een van de meest effectieve methoden is voor IELTS Speaking-voorbereiding en echte Engelse communicatie.