Shadowing Practice: S1E01 Clip | Power-hungry New York Women - Learn English Speaking with Video

Les maken...
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It's like the riddle of the Sphinx.
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Why are there so many great unmarried women and no great unmarried men?
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I explore these sorts of issues in my column, and I have terrific sources of my friends.
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When you're a young guy in your 20s, women are controlling the relationships.
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By the time you're an eligible man in your 30s, you feel like you're being devoured by women.
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Suddenly, the guys are holding all the chips.
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I call it the mid-30s power flame.
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It's all about age and biology.
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I mean, if you want to get married, it's to have kids, right?
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And you don't want to do it with someone older than 35, because then you have to have kids right away, and that's about it.
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I think these women should just forget about marriage and have a good time.
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I have a friend who'd always gone out with extremely sexy guys and just had a good time.
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One day, she woke up and she was 41.
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She couldn't get any more dates.
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She had a complete physical breakdown, couldn't hold on to her job, and had to move back to Wisconsin to live with her mother.
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Trust me, this is not a story that makes men feel bad.
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Most men are threatened by successful women.
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If you want to get these guys, you have to keep your mouth shut and play by the rules.
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I totally believe that love conquers all.
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Sometimes you just have to give it a little space.
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And that's exactly what's missing in Manhattan.
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The space for romance.
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The problem is expectations.
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Older women don't want to settle for what's available.
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By the time you reach your mid-thirties, you think, why should I settle?
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You know?
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It's like the older we get, the more we keep self-selecting down to a smaller and smaller group.
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What women really want is Alec Baldwin.
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There's not one woman in New York who hasn't turned down ten wonderful guys
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because they were too short or too fat or too poor.
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I have been out with some of those guys, the short, fat, poor ones.
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It makes absolutely no difference.
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They are just as self-centered and unappreciative as the good-looking ones.
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Why don't these women just marry a fat guy?
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Why don't they just marry a big fat tub of lard?
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Happy birthday, dear Miranda.
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Happy birthday to you.
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Another 30-something birthday with a group of unmarried female friends.
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We would all have preferred a nice celebratory conference call.
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Thank you for saying.
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Look, if you're a successful saleswoman in this city, you have two choices.
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You can bang your head against the wall and try to find a relationship, or you can say, screw it, and just go out and have sex, like a man.
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You mean with dildos?
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No. I mean without feeling.
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Samantha Jones was a New York inspiration, a public relations executive.
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She routinely slept with good-looking guys in their 20s.
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Remember that guy that I was going out with?
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Oh, God, what was his name?
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Drew.
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I didn't feel a thing.
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It was like, hey, babe, gotta go.
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Catch you later.
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And I completely forgot about him after that.
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But are you sure that that isn't just because he didn't call you?
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Sweetheart, this is the first time in the history of Manhattan...
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...that women have had as much money and power as men.
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Plus, the equal luxury of treating men like sex objects.
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Yeah, except men in this city fail on both counts.
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I mean, they don't want to be in a relationship with you, but as soon as you only want them for sex, they don't like it.
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All of a sudden, they can't perform the way they're supposed to.
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That's when you dump them.
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Oh, come on, ladies, are we really that cynical?
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What about romance?
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It's like that guy Jeremiah, the poet.
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I mean, the sex was incredible.
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But then he wanted to read me his poetry and go out to dinner and the whole chat bit.
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And I'm like, let's not even go there.
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What are you saying?
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Are you saying you're just gonna give up on love?
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Oh, no, no, no, no, no, believe me.
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The right guy comes along and you two right here, this whole thing, right out the window.
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No, no, no, no. The right guy is an illusion, you understand that?
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You can start living your life.
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So you think it's really possible to pull off this whole, um, women having sex like men thing?
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You're forgetting the last session.
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You're obsessed with that movie.
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Okay.
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Linda Fiorentino.
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Fuck me, that guy.
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I'm never having one of those, oh my god, what have I done, epiphonies.
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I hated that movie. Was it true?
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Were women in New York really giving up on love and throttling up on power?
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What a tempting thought.

Woordenschat en spreektips bij deze les

Deze video bevat 83 zinnen en 822 woorden om na te spreken. Het gesproken deel duurt 4:52. De spreker praat in een natuurlijk tempo van ongeveer 169 woorden per minuut, dicht bij een alledaags gesprek. 85% van de woorden hoort bij de 3.000 meest gebruikte Engelse woorden; de rest kun je beter vooraf bekijken.

Belangrijke woorden in deze video

15 minder gangbare woorden uit de video, met uitspraak en betekenis:

  • marry /ˈmæɹi/ (werkwoord) — trouwen, huwen. To enter into the conjugal or connubial state; to take a husband or a wife.
  • select /sɪˈlɛkt/ (werkwoord) — uitkiezen, selecteer. To choose one or more elements of a set, especially a set of options.
  • sexy /ˈsɛksi/ (bijvoeglijk naamwoord) — sexy. Having sex appeal; attractive.
  • inspiration /ˌɪn.spɪˈɹeɪ.ʃən/ (zelfstandig naamwoord) — inademing, inademen. The drawing of air into the lungs, accomplished in mammals by elevation of the chest walls and flattening of the diaphragm, as part of the act of breathing.
  • poetry /ˈpoʊ.ə.tɹi/ (zelfstandig naamwoord) — poëzie, dichtkunst. Literature composed in verse or language exhibiting conscious attention to patterns and rhythm.
  • sudden /ˈsʌd.ən/ (bijvoeglijk naamwoord) — plotseling, plotselinge. Occurring quickly with little or no warning or expectation; instantly.
  • luxury /ˈlʌk.ʃə.ɹi/ (zelfstandig naamwoord) — luxe. Very wealthy and comfortable surroundings; the state of being that they create.
  • column /ˈkɒləm/ (zelfstandig naamwoord) — zuil, kolom. A solid upright structure designed usually to support a larger structure above it, such as a roof or horizontal beam, but sometimes for decoration.
  • bang /ˈbæŋ/ (zelfstandig naamwoord) — knal, klap. A sudden percussive noise.
  • chip /t͡ʃɪp/ (zelfstandig naamwoord) — fiche. A small piece broken from a larger piece of solid material.
  • explore /ɪkˈsploɹ/ (werkwoord) — onderzoeken, bestuderen. To examine or investigate something systematically.
  • relation /ɹɪˈleɪʃ(ə)n/ (zelfstandig naamwoord) — familielid, bloedverwant. The manner in which two things may be associated.
  • biology /baɪˈɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/ (zelfstandig naamwoord) — biologie. The study of all life or living matter.
  • poet /ˈpoʊ.ət/ (zelfstandig naamwoord) — dichter, poëet. A person who writes poems.
  • babe /beɪb/ (zelfstandig naamwoord) — stuk. A baby or infant; a very young human or animal.

Phrasal verbs die je zult horen

  • come on /ˌkʌm ˈɒn/ — kom op, kom aan. Come along with me; join me in going.
  • go out (werkwoord) — naar buiten gaan. To leave, especially a building.
  • wake up /ˌweɪk ˈʌp/ (werkwoord) — wakker worden, ontwaken. To stop sleeping; to awake.

Uitspraak om op te letten

De spreker gebruikt 26 samentrekkingen en verkorte vormen, zoals you're, don't, couldn't. Spreek ze kort uit, zoals je ze hoort.

  • De “th”-klanken: thirty /ˈθɝti/, threaten /ˈθɹɛt.n̩/, throttle /ˈθɹɔ.tl̩/
  • De klanken “sh” en “zh”: inspiration /ˌɪn.spɪˈɹeɪ.ʃən/, luxury /ˈlʌk.ʃə.ɹi/, relation /ɹɪˈleɪʃ(ə)n/, expectation /ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/, illusion /ɪˈl(j)uːʒ(ə)n/
  • Lange woorden — let op de klemtoon: inspiration /ˌɪn.spɪˈɹeɪ.ʃən/, eligible /ˈɛl.ɪ.d͡ʒɪ.bəl/, biology /baɪˈɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/, expectation /ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/, celebratory /ˈsɛləbɹəˌtɔːɹi/

Zo oefen je met deze video

  1. Luister de hele video één keer zonder te spreken en noteer de woorden die je niet kent.
  2. Begin op 0,75× snelheid, spreek zin voor zin na en ga terug naar normale snelheid zodra het makkelijk gaat.
  3. Neem jezelf op en vergelijk met het origineel; let daarbij op woorden als marry, select, sexy.

Grammatica in deze video

De structuren die de spreker het meest gebruikt, met de exacte woorden uit de video:

StructuurIn de video
Present perfect have/has + voltooid deelwoord — iets uit het verleden dat nu nog telthasn't turned · have been · have preferred
Lijdende vorm be + voltooid deelwoord — het gaat om wat er gebeurt, niet om wie het doetbeing devoured · are threatened

Wat is de Shadowing-techniek?

Shadowing is een wetenschappelijk onderbouwde taalleermethode die oorspronkelijk is ontwikkeld voor professionele tolkentraining en gepopulariseerd door polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. De methode is eenvoudig maar krachtig: je luistert naar native Engelse audio en herhaalt het onmiddellijk hardop — als een schaduw die de spreker volgt met slechts 1–2 seconden vertraging. In tegenstelling tot passief luisteren of grammaticadrills, dwingt shadowing je hersenen en mondspieren om echte spraakpatronen tegelijkertijd te verwerken en te reproduceren. Onderzoek toont aan dat het de uitspraaknauwkeurigheid, intonatie, ritme, verbonden spraak, luisterbegrip en spreekvaardigheid aanzienlijk verbetert — waardoor het een van de meest effectieve methoden is voor IELTS Speaking-voorbereiding en echte Engelse communicatie.

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