Shadowing Practice: 3 Phrases To Keep A Conversation Going #communicationskills - Learn English Speaking with Video

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Three phrases to keep a conversation going.
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One, tell me more.
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Most people stop talking because they're not sure anyone wants to hear the rest of what they have to say.
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This phrase is the fastest way to let them know they do.
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Someone says they've been having a rough time at work.
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Instead of jumping to advice, just say, tell me more and watch how much comes out next.
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Two, what was that like?
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This moves the conversation from what happened to how it actually felt.
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And that's where people stop giving you the summary version and start telling you the real one.
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Someone mentions they just moved to a new city instead of, oh, nice.
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Do you like it?
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Try.
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What was that like?
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Completely different conversation.
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Three, what got you into that?
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The moment anyone mentioned something remotely interesting, this question finds a story behind it.
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And that story is almost always better than the thing itself.
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Someone says they restore old furniture on weekends instead of, oh, that's cool.
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Ask what got you into that.
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And now you're getting somewhere.
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Vocabulary and speaking notes for this lesson

This B1 speaking lesson is built on the video “3 Phrases To Keep A Conversation Going”. This video has 21 sentences and 199 words to shadow. The speech runs for 0:53. The speaker talks fast, about 226 words per minute, so expect linked and reduced sounds. 91% of the words are among the 3,000 most common in English, so the vocabulary is easy to follow. 4 of its 21 sentences are questions, so it is good practice for question intonation and short answers.

Key vocabulary in this video

The 13 most advanced words in the video, with pronunciation and meaning:

WordPronunciationMeaning
phrase noun/ˈfɹeɪ̯z/A short written or spoken expression.
summary noun/ˈsʌm.ə.ɹi/An abstract or a condensed presentation of the substance of a body of material.
furniture noun/ˈfɝ.nɪ.t͡ʃɚ/Large movable item(s), usually in a room, which enhance(s) the room's characteristics, functionally or decoratively.
restore verb/ɹɪˈstoɹ/To reestablish, or bring back into existence.
remotely adverb/ɹɪˈmoʊtli/At a distance, far away.
jump verb/d͡ʒʌmp/To propel oneself rapidly upward, downward and/or in any horizontal direction such that momentum causes the body to become airborne.
rough adjective/ɹʌf/Not smooth; uneven.
conversation noun/ˌkɑn.vəɹˈseɪ.ʃən/Expression and exchange of individual ideas through talking with other people; also, a set instance or occasion of such talking.
mention verb/ˈmɛnʃən/To make mention of; to speak of; to refer to; to name; to specify
completely adverb/kəmˈpliːtli/In a complete manner; thoroughly.
weekend noun/ˈwiˌkɛnd/The break in the working week, usually two days including the traditional holy or sabbath day. Thus in Western countries, Saturday and Sunday.
advice noun/ədˈvaɪs/An opinion offered to guide behavior in an effort to be helpful.
somewhere adverb/ˈsʌm.wɛɹ/In an uncertain or unspecified location.

Phrasal verbs you will hear

WordPronunciationMeaning
come out verb/ˌkʌm ˈaʊt/To be discovered; to be revealed.

Pronunciation to watch

The speaker uses 3 contractions and reduced forms, such as they're, they've, you're. Say them the short way, as you hear them.

  • The “sh” and “zh” sounds: conversation /ˌkɑn.vəɹˈseɪ.ʃən/, mention /ˈmɛnʃən/

How to practise with this video

  1. Listen to the whole video once without speaking and note the words you do not know.
  2. Start at 0.75× speed, shadow it sentence by sentence, then go back to normal speed once it feels easy.
  3. Record yourself and compare with the original, paying attention to words like phrase, summary, furniture.

What is the Shadowing Technique?

Shadowing is a science-backed language learning technique originally developed for professional interpreter training and popularized by polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. The method is simple but powerful: you listen to native English audio and immediately repeat it out loud — like a shadow following the speaker with just a 1–2 second delay. Unlike passive listening or grammar drills, shadowing forces your brain and mouth muscles to simultaneously process and reproduce real speech patterns. Research shows it significantly improves pronunciation accuracy, intonation, rhythm, connected speech, listening comprehension, and speaking fluency — making it one of the most effective methods for IELTS Speaking preparation and real-world English communication.

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