Shadowing Practice: 【放心來信】別人的情緒不是你的責任！放下「過度警覺」，把注意力還給自己 - Learn English Speaking with YouTube

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I don't want to get angry with them, until I choose to respect them every choice and decision.
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Usually, if they need help, I will be very happy to help.
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But when I'm angry or angry, they will say I'm very emotional, very self-conscious, and just think about myself, and will take my own problems and make them out of their own.
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I don't know how to do it.
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I don't want to do this with this love.
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I don't want to lose them, but I feel like this relationship is more and more and more and more.
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I feel like they're talking about their relationship, but I feel like they're not willing to understand my feelings and feelings.
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and you talk to your friends and friends will not have some interaction that is, I really want you to contribute a lot so I really hope in my need you can also do this for me but when you do this for me you can't like me so much I will feel like you are not aware of me but you have noticed that I just said I will be able to keep my eye on my mind 都以他人为主 他人取向 我的感官是他人取向 而不是生物取向 我遇到事情 第一个考虑的是 别人的感受 别人的需求 而不是我的 这件事情是训练来的 所以你小时候经验到 或是你个人的性格特质 在这方面 能够获得更好的训练 更好的成果的时候 你的训斂成度就很高 你可以想想你花了几十年 训练出这个能力 可是跟你一起交往的朋友 更好的训练,更好的成果的时候,你的训练程度就很高 你可以想象你花了几十年训练出这个能力 可是跟你一起交往的朋友,他在这方面的能力可能并没有你那么好 他可能有的时候还是比较会考虑自己的需求,自己的感受 然后没有办法像你一样 这么长以别人的感受为主的时候 有时候你在跟他互动的时候,有可能就会觉得被忽略 There may be a reason why you don't have to be like you as you like.
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The reason is that you're not the same as you're doing.
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So in this case, there are two questions about how to discuss the issue, and how to reject others.
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Actually, this is a very important thing, which is how to keep ourselves, and how to build a relationship.
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So, if I'm in the relationship with each other, sometimes I'm worried about people's love, or people's love, or people's love, That is a big issue.
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That is, our most important point of view is that we all have to be in their own mind.
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Is that all of them in their own mind?
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I think it's not bad.
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I think it's not bad.
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It's not bad.
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Even I should say that we should be honest.
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We should always be in our own needs and be in our own needs.
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In our culture, it's pretty much encouraged.
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You're a very good person.
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You're a very good person.
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基本上在文化上是比較正向鼓勵的 但是這會出現一個很大的問題 那就是你可能在日常生活中 感覺到你的情緒不是那麼穩定 因為你的注意力、你的感官 全部都是在別人的反應 因此別人只要反應不好 你又很容易會往你身上想 這種他人取向的感官最大的困難就是 我們有時候沒有辦法把別人的情緒不好 当成就是别人情绪不好 我们会把别人的情绪不好 当成是不是跟我有关 因为那是我小时候的经验 今天爸妈不开心 就是跟我有关 所以爸妈今天脸上表情不太对 我今天是不是有什么事情没做好了 这种很警觉的习惯 过度警觉的习惯 被我们带来成年之后 在我们的关系里面 的确就会遇到很大的 让我们非常内耗的一个状态 所以我反而会觉得 if Hientes Because the next funktion is to work together with the experience.
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In my mind, I fly away.
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even though I don't have any ideas I have some ideas and I will write in my website or in my word Evernote I think I can do these things I have a success I feel like I have a lot of experience I have a lot of experience or I have a lot of experience and these things are I have a lot of I'm thinking about some things.
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I think this book is really cool.
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I think it's really cool.
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And I'm going to say, I'm going to say this is cool.
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And then he's with me, he's not a friend.
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He's like, it's really cool.
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But it's not a good thing.
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Because it's not a good thing.
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Because I think that's a good thing.
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It's just because I know.
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I know, I know.
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Because it's just because I know.
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这是让我很兴奋很兴奋的事情 我觉得有时候有些人会问我说 人生要怎么样有热情 某方面来说这方面就很像是我们人生的热情 可是要怎么样有这个热情呢?
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某方面来说你要学会 知道怎么取悦你自己 你要怎么了解自己 你要怎么让你自己可以注意力放到自己身上 然后你才会开始探索 什么东西你是有兴趣的有热情的 然后别人可能觉得很无聊 but the thing is that you feel like it is a good fun thing there are some people who are going to look at the mā蚁 and walk through the path and then suddenly find a way to find a way to find a way and then feel so interesting and then you're going to be like, why are you so funny?
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but he feels so interesting this is his life a really great thing I think that we've been thinking too many times if we're doing something for what we're doing is to be for people to be happy or for the world to be happy or for what we're doing to achieve or for what we're doing to achieve I have toど quarto waste something.
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That's what I wanted to explain.
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这个东西会付出什么代价 希望这个不同的角度 对于现在在收听跟收看的观众跟听众朋友 以及麻吉同学 你们都会觉得能够有一点帮助 好的 那么今天放心来信 新的版本 希望大家会喜欢 那不管你喜不喜欢 欢迎留言让我知道 或者是有怎么样的故事 你觉得你想听哪一个类型的 你也可以留言让我知道 我可以跟大家分享 也可以让我知道一下 I'm going to share with you today's Bowen's this is a family of the theory of the theory If you think of it, do you want to hear more?
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Thank you!
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So, I'll see you next time!
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Context & Background

The transcript from the video emphasizes the emotional complexities in relationships and how our perceptions of others' feelings can significantly impact our own emotional stability. The speaker discusses feelings of anxiety and the tendency to internalize others' emotions as a responsibility. This discourse is invaluable for English learners as it introduces different perspectives on emotional understanding while presenting rich conversational language and expressions that can enhance speaking skills.

Top 5 Phrases for Daily Communication

  • "It's not your responsibility to manage others' emotions." - A reminder to prioritize personal emotional health.
  • "Sometimes I feel overwhelmed by the emotions of others." - Sharing personal feelings can strengthen connections.
  • "We should focus on our own needs and feelings." - Encouraging self-awareness in conversations.
  • "How can I better communicate my feelings?" - Posing questions fosters better dialogue.
  • "I respect your choices, even if I don't understand them." - Acknowledges differences in perspectives and emphasizes respect.

Step-by-step Shadowing Guide

To effectively utilize the shadowing technique with this video, follow these steps:

  1. Watch the Video: Start by watching the entire video without interruption to grasp the themes and emotional nuances presented.
  2. Listen Closely: Revisit the video and pay attention to the speaker's tone, cadence, and the context of their words. This will help with your pronunciation and rhythm.
  3. Begin Shadow Speech: As you listen, simultaneously repeat phrases verbatim. Focus on mimicking the speaker’s delivery and intonation to develop a natural flow.
  4. Practice with Repetition: Rewind and repeat difficult sections several times. The aim is to internalize the language and express it speaking as naturally as the speaker.
  5. Engage in Reflection: Finally, after practicing shadow speak, take a moment to reflect on how these phrases can apply to your daily interactions. Consider how improving emotional awareness in communication can impact your conversations in English.

In conclusion, by integrating these practices, learners can enhance their language skills while also developing a deeper understanding of emotional communication. Embrace the shadowing technique and allow it to guide you to greater fluency in English conversations.

What is the Shadowing Technique?

Shadowing is a science-backed language learning technique originally developed for professional interpreter training and popularized by polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. The method is simple but powerful: you listen to native English audio and immediately repeat it out loud — like a shadow following the speaker with just a 1–2 second delay. Unlike passive listening or grammar drills, shadowing forces your brain and mouth muscles to simultaneously process and reproduce real speech patterns. Research shows it significantly improves pronunciation accuracy, intonation, rhythm, connected speech, listening comprehension, and speaking fluency — making it one of the most effective methods for IELTS Speaking preparation and real-world English communication.

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