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Serenity Cox, my guest tonight.

You know exactly where you can find her, at Serenity Cox links to everything all of her social media

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it's a real pleasure to meet you it's a pleasure to meet you as well thanks for having me

so i was driving in the car with my wife earlier

and i was like should i just hit her with some dumb fucking joke right off the bat

and i was gonna say did you think it was fate that you became a porn star with the last name Cox.

And I was like, well, she'll definitely get it, but it's not funny.

So let me start and ask you, how did you initially get into the adult entertainment industry in whatever form that was,

whether it was camming first or going right into scenes, OnlyFans, whatever you wanted to do,

what was the thing that you jumped into where you crossed the line from vanilla to the world we live in?

It's so hard for me to answer that in a concise way.

I tend to get really wordy because it was a very long journey with a lot of steps to it.

It's a journey I took with my husband.

And it all started out with our exploring a hot wife dynamic in our marriage.

And then one thing led to another.

And eventually our content creation started with just sharing videos of our journey.

And it started very low key.

It started on the first platform we used was FetLife.

And then the second platform used was Pornhub.

It was all just free stuff because we really, we weren't in it to make money.

We just wanted to share.

We were so excited genuinely for our own, like the shit that we were doing.

We wanted other people to see it.

So we were just like, this is great.

Let's put it out there.

So it was just us having a blast and posting footage of it on the internet.

And then a few years later, it became actually like a conscious like kind of business.

Still, we're just filming our fucking around in our journey that we're having.

Pardon my language.

But yeah, that's how it started.

It was just making videos of our journey.

So if this gets too personal, please stop me.

Can I ask, did you come into your marriage in a swinger open relationship type of situation?

This is I've been interviewing so many performers who started as hot wife or swinger lifestyle.

And I find it so fascinating because I've been with my wife for almost 20 years now.

We met when we were like 19.

I'm 38.

So I have no concept of like, you know, spreading out.

I've never even like, you know, been one of those guys.

Oh, yeah, I went around fucking college.

No, I've been with my wife the whole time.

Was it something you went into your relationship with knowing this was the idea?

Was it something

that came up later where it was almost like we need to spice this up in a positive

or negative way? what was the turn for you guys um

again it was just very like a very we went into

our relationship totally regular monogamous i wouldn't say regular we were always very uh maybe adventurous in our sex life

but we were monogamous it was just the two of us it wasn't until later in our relationship

that we decided to take a path into non -monogamy

and trying out new things um but yeah it was um um yeah

and I tried probably every interview I've done it has a

different timeline they're like after six years I thought I'm just after seven I don't even remember

but there was a like it was a gradual change where

our you know our just between the two of us sex

life um started involving a lot of like role play about involving other people

and a lot of fantasy talking about involving other people

and it became very apparent that like my husband had these strong um turn -ons with involving me and other men, which I thought was really cool.

I'd never even heard of that kind of thing before my relationship with him.

And I don't even think he really knew until we did our, you know, research together, that there was a term for it, hot wife.

So we kind of just explored these themes that both of us found exciting.

It's just in our, you know, solo bedroom time, we started exploring them together.

And, you know, over the years, like it was years and years, And then over the years,

we just kind of got a little bit more bold and more confident in our own relationship and thought, let's just do this.

Like, there's nothing to lose here.

We're both, you know, so well connected and so confident and in our relationship that, you know, let's just go for it.

So we just did.

Let me.

OK.

There was one thing you said in there that got me interested.

And let me say, first off, you don't have to tell me his actual job.

Is your husband the general manager of a baseball team?

Because I'm just wondering, you have the coolest layout I've ever had on this show.

As my camera goes blurry, don't worry, my face isn't on this.

What is going on there?

Can I ask that?

Well, in another hour or so, the Blue Jays are playing.

So we booked one of the hotel rooms that overlooked the field.

so uh yeah the game isn't on yet

but i mean that's that's an incredible thing okay

so you said something in there you were like fuck it

what do we have to lose um i have read a

few interviews with you where uh your husband is blurred in it right was there any concern about jobs

or anything like

because the fun thing to say is there's nothing to lose

as i put all of my body parts on the internet for people to see

and then the other reality of it potentially there's things to lose over here was there any like concern

or fear about that i think i said i meant

that about our relationship nothing to lose in

because we didn't start with content we started with our lifestyle

so there was nothing we didn't feel there's anything to lose in our relationship

because we were just so happy

and it was a together thing um there definitely was some concern

when we started posting uh online and we took probably we were a bit naive in the beginning, we took some precautions, like early, early content.

Those people who've been following me for a while know that I used to wear a mask and, or have like our faces not in it.

Um, and it was very like, nobody knew we were doing this.

Um, but it was like the time and the genre, like it just, it became really popular really quickly.

And then we made a conscious decision that I was going to show my face.

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And so at first, when I started doing that, we like geo blocked our province.

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And like, we, you know, we're still a bit cautious about it, who weren't sure how people would react.

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But over time, like, people did find out.

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And we made the decision to just lean into it.

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Because really, we were just two happy people who, who liked sharing what we were doing on the internet um

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and luckily it didn't uh you know like i know not every story is like the fairy tale

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that we had yeah

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but for us like it we never had any any issues

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there was a bit of like drama at my workplace

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when people first found out there was a bit of a shock um but it smoothed over

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fairly quickly

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and you know at the end of the day i was

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it didn't change who i was at work with my friends

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and my family it's not like it didn't change who i was as you know as a person and you know, had some interesting discussions with a lot of people who I normally wouldn't have those discussions with.

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But it was kind of, it was just a way of kind of, like, let me just free word.

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So part of what we were doing was, even though, yeah, it was just, you know, for a turn on for us and an exhibitionist thing,

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it was also, I really liked the idea of normalizing relationships

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that sort of outside the box or the society's norms um

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so if we were confident enough to do that in videos

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i thought we should be confident enough to explain ourselves

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and talk about our passions with the people in our lives um

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so we did that and we took that opportunity

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which is a lot harder than putting it out there for faceless people on the internet um

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but in the end like it it was it was very healthy

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that yeah yeah that is that's a big jump for me personally the thought of

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that is you know terrifying here show all of your minuscule

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parts out to everybody in the world um the one thing

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you said there was drama there at your other job i'm only asking this

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because you have talked about that other job before

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and it kind of leads into another part of the discussion what was

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that other job do you still discuss just what it was not where it was

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or anything like

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that oh yeah um yeah i was a a nurse for most most of my life um yeah

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so i was i was a immersed a nurse in the emergency department um

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and yeah just until last year that's so great my wife

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and i are in the middle of an er watch for the first time

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and i the show we are you ever see the show

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we are yeah yeah yeah yeah no we're not just standing outside of the hospital like watching the people go in

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But it looks fucking insane We watched The Pit too What is that on HBO?

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That one's really good too Have you seen that?

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I don't know that one Oh, it's real good HBO Max Throw that on But it looks fucking hectic

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and insane So that leads me into my next question I've seen a bunch of articles recently And again,

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I understand this is not the same concept I'll show you

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how I'm going to tie it together I read an article

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recently about how The number one profession Where there is cheating going on

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is now nursing it used to be like cops and firemen

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and now it's nursing what is it about nursing

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that maybe doesn't work with monogamy is that a thing

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or no did you see

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that did you get hit on by guys before you were in this open relationship um in my experience i didn't

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i i didn't find

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that was to be true in my in my really okay

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um i never i never cheated on my husband i mean

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like i not without consent sure no not without him encouraging

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you to do it i also never mixed my my lifestyle

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and hobby of what my husband and i did with my workplace

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and that was just the kind of person i was it may have been happening

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but i wasn't uh aware of it

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so i don't know like none of my friends in the nursing profession were you know having affairs

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and and cheating that

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but i mean it's there's there's a lot of there's a lot of nurses out there

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so sure sure well let's i mean let's let's play around

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with the psychology of it maybe a little bit you're seeing

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really tragic things all day you can see i mean you're

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seeing positive things as well somebody getting better a life being saved this

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and that but you're watching people who pass away

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or a kid who comes in with an injury and this and that

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and then maybe mr hot doctor over there is the shoulder

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for you to really like kind of let it go on

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and then you know maybe he looks like he's okay go ahead

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that sense i i will say because with my colleagues i've formed some very strong bonds.

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And a lot of it is around the, you know, like trauma bonding.

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It's like around the things you see that other people in your life don't necessarily see or, or, or don't quite get the same way.

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So there is a sense I've made strong friendships around that and had some really intense moments around that, but in a non -sexual way.

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So I can see how others would bring that together in a, in a sexual way as well.

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Like that makes sense.

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You have a point.

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There are two people I cannot make laugh in the world.

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There's a lot of other people, but there's two specific groups of people, and it's dominatrixes and nurses.

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I just bomb every time.

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I don't know why you guys are too serious, too smart to deal with my stupidity.

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I respect that.

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I understand the world needs those people.

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So thank you for being a nurse for all of those years and saving lives.

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I have some swinger questions for you, right?

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And they might seem silly, but I'm coming at this from the street level person.

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I have, like I said, no understanding.

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And I really want to relate to people like it's maybe there are misconceptions here or there.

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Can I ask, are there any major misconceptions about the hot wife lifestyle?

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And how does hot wifing differ from any other type of swing?

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Are there different types of swinger lifestyles?

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I'll start by saying I'm not an expert.

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Okay, fair enough.

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Well, we'll do it all in your experience.

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In my experience.

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Perfect.

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I will say that in my experience,

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I've met many couples who have various types of open relationships and consensual non -monogamous relationships.

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And it seems to me that each relationship may have similar dynamics, but nobody's exactly the same.

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Everyone has different rules.

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Everyone has different comfort levels.

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Everyone has slightly different dynamics.

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And there's a whole spectrum of swinging couples and hot wife couples and what they do or don't do.

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So what was the question?

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I don't remember.

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I asked too many questions at once.

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I made a nurse laugh.

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I asked too many questions at once and they just stack up, essentially.

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Are there any misconceptions from what you've seen?

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Have you ever told anybody that and they're almost like, oh, my God, that's disgusting.

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You just let yourself get gangbanged by 50 guys every night

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and you're like well no it's not quite like that there's definitely misconceptions um

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the the person people see

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when they watch my content for example um people only see me in in these these scenarios

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and just assume that it's like every single day um

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when really it's i mean it's actually quite frequent but

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but it's not you know it's not like 90 of my

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life is being a hot wife that's just you know a pastime like some people you know play hockey and i

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um a misconception uh also one misconception

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that a lot of just people in my personal life might have had

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when they first found out this what we're doing is

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that it's it goes both ways some people think you know

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it's one person pressuring the other person to do something so like my husband you know,

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is, you know, pushing me to have sex with other men, you know, for his enjoyment.

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And other people think that it's me, my poor husband, I'm out, you know, sleeping with all these men.

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When really, it's like, for us, anyway, it was years and years of just like talking

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and growing together and making decisions about what we were going to do and what, you know, excited us.

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And we did this together.

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And it's a little bit tricky with hot life.

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And because it's kind of one -sided from an outside perspective

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because the woman is going out and having all these experiences and the husband isn't.

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So it does appear a little bit one -sided.

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So there can be a lot of misconceptions about that when really, you know, my enjoyment is coming from the experiences and his enjoyment is coming from,

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you know, seeing me having these experiences or bringing the stories home to him and then the moments that we have afterwards.

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So there is a lot of misconceptions about the drive behind those kind of relationships uh you know

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and and it's tough for people to see from the outside

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but the relationships the ones you described in the middle there

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that are not yours the dominant woman telling the guy i'm gonna go get fucked

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or the guy being like you have to go do this blah they don't last unless they're like crazy abusive

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and codependent and all this and

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but those aren't like real lasting relationships you're not going to

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find a couple who are 10 years into the swinger lifestyle

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and the chick's like i don't really like this

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that much ever it just i don't that

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that is a misconception like it seems like if you were in this and everyone's happy

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then this is maybe how you were supposed to be like

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i don't understand why anyone comments on anybody else's happiness that's just me going off on a rant there

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so i apologize beautiful thing about human beings is where you

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know even though we're all the same species we're also very different

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and we all you know we're allowed to have different types of relationships

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and what works for one person it doesn't have to work for somebody else as long as we're happy

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and you found

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that person who has the same you know path to happiness as you do it's uh it's it's fun

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that we can all have our different you know paths

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and sure sure uh two last questions about swing our lifestyle number one do you guys have rules set up

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or is it just a constant communication like is there something you know not to bring to him

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because he doesn't he's not into this um yes and yes

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so we do have some rules um for example like there's certain things

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that we're not into some hot wife couples are into uh

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get us real out of a little bit of degradation

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or cooking um my personal relationship we're not into

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that i don't you know make a big scene about like how much better another guy is than my husband

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and or like deny my husband and some people are like

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that and they both really love it and get off on it

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and that's cool but that's just for us we don't do

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that um another thing is we're not uh polyamorous

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so as as many guys as i you know can go out

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and see or even even befriend um it doesn't turn into a romantic thing

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and i don't have like a romantic relationship with with other

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guys who are not my husband it's more just like a fun free

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and sexual kind of relationship so as long as things don't cross

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that kind of line that that's obviously a hard rule

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that we have that just brought up another question

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so two more questions about swinger lifestyle this one here is

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uh have you had to push people away after the fact either men

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or women or or anything in this life and i apologize is your husband allowed to

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do you guys go both ways is it just about the

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enjoyment he has watching you not go both ways you know

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what i meant like is he allowed to be with women

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as well for sure he is um he hasn't like gone out

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and had sex with other women um he's like we've been

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in group situations where he's like had you know like blowjobs

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or like sexy contact with other other women um

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but he hasn't actually like uh like gone out the way i do it

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and like had sex with another woman i would be totally cool with it

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if he did um but we just haven't

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and maybe it will in the future

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but at this point it just hasn't been something

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that we've done sure that makes almost this last question a little bit moot

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but i always love asking this to people in the lifestyle

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has any one of you ever it would be better

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if he was also engaging with women

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but have either of you ever taken a bullet for the

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other one i love the concept of a swinger couple meeting a couple

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and the guy in that other couple is like gorgeous

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and the girl's like

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and the wife's like look you're gonna have to you're gonna have to do

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that okay or vice versa you know maybe the guy is looks like me

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and uh the woman there is like this yuck i don't want to do

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that um has anyone ever had to take a bullet have

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you ever been like like i'm not saying it would go

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you you would be you know i don't want to do that but has he ever been like, yeah, you should be with that guy.

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And you've been a little bit like, okay.

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All right.

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No, I can't say that we've had that situation.

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Okay.

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I can see.

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Yeah, it's a good question.

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But no, it doesn't really apply to us in the experiences that we've had.

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Okay.

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All right.

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Fair enough.

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Fair enough.

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Let me get into some of your content here.

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You are, I believe, still a Vixen girl.

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I am.

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Yes.

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What is, I interviewed someone the other day who her first entrance into this she goes

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so brazzers contacted me and i'm just thinking of all the performers out there who try

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and put together their only fans and this and that

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and this beautiful girl over here brazzers just gives her a call

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and goes hey do you want to like do real big time stuff

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so as i'm looking at your list of things you've done

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which i do a little game called stat check we'll go to

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that in a little bit um i mean it's all vixen sites

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that was your jump into the mainstream right like i assume

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you produced a lot of your own content for a while

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and then to jump into mainstream or no um

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so i my main my main content is still my own

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content sure very vixen i love you vixen i'm still i'm under contract with vixen as well

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and that's my professional um my professional work um

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but you know there's the two branches of the adult industry there's the amateur

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or you know independent content creators and there

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and there's the professional studio house uh big time productions right um i do both

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so my main thing

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that i do on a day -to -day basis is my only fans my porn hub my um my husband

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and i making our own content screwing around with friends just

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having a good time going to ball games you know making content out of it um

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and like that's like that's that's our joy that's what we

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do vixen came out long um i guess two years ago now

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and i had no idea

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because i didn't really i didn't know anything about porn i just knew

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that like our you know our own stuff that we do and like i didn't know

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mainstream porn and vixen comes along

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and says like hey we have this new channel it's called milfy

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and would you be interested in in like doing like production porn

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and at first i was just like like who's vixen

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when really like they're like like yeah yeah who's bang bros

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i've never heard of these brothers before yeah okay yes yep yeah so they came because like obviously

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it makes sense for them to seek it

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because independent only fans amateur stuff is so big right now

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and they have

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and a lot of these girls have such big followings it

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makes sense for these you know mainstream companies to get those girls

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so they can get their audiences right

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so i'm sure like they were looking to see who's doing what

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and anyway i guess they came across me um reached out

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and then several months later i you know i gave them

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a shot i had no interest in doing you know professional porn

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because i was like i don't do acting like i want

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i'm showing my real life i'm showing you know what i do i'm not an actor um

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but they were so sweet they were so absolutely sweet

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and they made this hot wife scene for me to do

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and like kaden cross wrote this script and directed it

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and it was just very simple but it was something

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that i was familiar with something that i was comfortable with um

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and so i went out to la and i shot this like 2023

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and it was so much fun um And then after that, like, you know, I did a few more and then they signed me and now I do,

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you know, 10 scenes a year or something.

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And we kind of incorporated that into our own hot wife dynamic.

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Because it was the first time that I was doing something without my husband.

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I mean, I've had, you know, but it was the first time I've done something,

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you know, content or video related without him because he films everything

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and it's everything like we work together as a team um

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and so i was i wasn't sure how that would work but he was like this is actually really exciting because

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you know it's it we can think about it like i go on these dates

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and i come home and i tell him all about it

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and he's like it's like you're going on these dates

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but only you're going out to like these fantasy scenarios

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that vixen can write for you and having these experiences

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that you wouldn't necessarily have you know with guys you know here in toronto i love

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but um you know it was it's just like these things

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and then i you know i come back to him

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and i tell him all about my experiences on set um

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and that feeds into our dynamic that we love

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so i i do that

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but i still also do my my independent stuff um at the same time not

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that i think you're going to like the bad part of town to film scenes, but there's also, it's safer, I would think, for the most part.

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You hear some bad stories about mainstream sets, but...

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For the most part, it's also safer.

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It's like you're going into an environment with a professional.

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If you are my wife and I'm into this and I'm sending you out, I go, oh, this is the best way for her not to be killed in a hotel room

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or something like that so like some of these scenarios

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that i've been able to like act out

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or like you know do you want to on a vixen set are things

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that you know it's because sometimes you have a fantasy

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but it doesn't really make sense in reality

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because a yeah it's not safe or it's not you know something

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that you can make happen in a way that makes sense

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but you know in a in a set you can

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and you can live out these fantasies

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and then bring it home in a controlled and safe way

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and vixen were just that's the thing I learned was like they're

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so wonderful to their performers like they'll fly me out there

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they take care of me they'll like take me out to dinner

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and ask me make sure that you know debrief afterwards make sure

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that I'm comfortable and I'm okay and it just felt so

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you know nice and I had no idea before before I met them um and then

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when I talked to other people they're like you know most people they do a lot of other stuff

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and then they get to the companies like Vixen.

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It's all I know.

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It's all I know.

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I mean, you literally, this starts out at, I think Vixen shoots the most beautiful stuff.

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Now, that's not everybody's preference.

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That's not even necessarily my preference.

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But you can't say the color isn't beautiful, the quality isn't beautiful, the camera.

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I mean, everything works.

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Me, I'm a gritty, dirty scumbag.

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I like the middle of the road stuff.

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But yeah, I mean, you can't start on like a, a better company than that so congratulations on that that is awesome

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that is hard work

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and you're right i never knew this until i started doing this show uh

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but i i also do another kind of side show called

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brand new faces where i bring on new girls who are trying to get into the industry

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and kind of tell them what i know get their story see

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if they're really like into this and um through doing this i have learned

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that there is a whole nother tier

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that is equally as big as the mainstream in the independent girls like i would see a girl

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and someone would say oh

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that girl does only fans i would go oh i can try

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and get her on now go on

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and she has a million followers where the fuck did these

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come from like i mean this is this is my ignorance

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this is just some independent girl quote unquote you know um

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so it's really nice

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that there's a crossover now what's really cool about it is

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i feel like it puts more power in your hands being able

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because you are the one

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that can turn down vixen you're not a woman emailing vixen

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going i need to be on your site please blah blah

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how much creative control did you have over those scenes

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or did you step back

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and go i'm going to experience this from the other side

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um they're actually really i haven't taken too much creative control at this point

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but they are very open to um like they've told me

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numerous times they're just like let us know what you want to do

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if there's anything you want like tell us

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and we'll make it happen um

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so maybe we're we're discussing my next year of contract

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so you know maybe i'll get a little more creative

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but for right now i just kind of you know i give some ideas

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and they'd make it happen there's something i can't talk about it yet there's something coming out

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that i really wanted to do and they've you know made it happen uh

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so later this summer it's gonna it's gonna be out there

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and um and the other thing that like creative control yeah um but also

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So there was one scene I did where I kept thinking back to one part of it where I wasn't sure.

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There was some things I said in like the dirty talk.

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I was like, I was kind of cringing trying to remember what I had said.

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And I was like, I want it.

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Like, I'm not sure if I felt like that was totally me, what I said.

460

And they let me completely review the scene before it was out

461

and go through it and let them know if they hadn't.

462

It was just me overthinking.

463

When I watched it back, it was beautiful.

464

It was fine.

465

Everything I said was totally respectful

466

and like you know it was it was all it was all great um

467

but the fact

468

that they you know gave me like a a file of a of a movie that's not been out yet

469

and let me review it and they said they would change it

470

if I was not okay with it like that was like

471

that was I thought pretty big uh professional it's it's not

472

you know there's this perception of porn from the outside it's like oh serenity comes on she gets

473

and then she goes home they don't account for the other 95 of your work that's social media editing this

474

that blah blah blah

475

and they also don't account for like you know in the moment can i ask this

476

so you said offensive was it was it you don't have to tell me what it was was it offensive

477

or was it did you find it corny what you had said

478

when you thought back like were you like oh you got the biggest fucking muscles

479

and the guy's like that's not really dirty talk oh your

480

fucking hairline is wonderful it's like well serenity that's not getting dicks hard um was it was just something

481

or was it overly aggressive like come on bitch

482

and you're like well look you're supposed to be more sub in this scene um it was uh

483

i don't know actually okay all right there's something

484

that felt a little bit out of out of character but um

485

but no it was okay i don't know in my mind

486

like sometimes you just like say a lot of things and

487

that beats too quiet though saying saying a lot of things

488

but you're right i only recently got my wife into dirty talking

489

because we're just too cynical for it we've always been i'd be like do you want me to you hard

490

and she'd be like i don't know can you me hard i guess And it's like, well, the mood is killed now.

491

Now I can't say another word.

492

We've got to be silent.

493

But I kind of expressed to her.

494

I was like, look, what we say in...

495

I will never judge you for this.

496

I am like a big mouth, and I call people out, and I joke, and this is how I bust balls here.

497

But anything in here, this is us.

498

And you're totally good.

499

Whatever you say, I won't call you out for it.

500

And that's been opening up, and that's a nice thing.

501

um so if you secretly want to slide in the thing you're going to be shooting into this list

502

but let me ask you what are some types of scenes

503

or niches or fetishes or anything like that um

504

that you're looking forward to adding to your portfolio in the next year

505

or so something where you're like man i need to shoot

506

that type of scene because i don't have that in my repertoire

507

and it can be multiple too whenever you got um

508

so in my in my personal independent stuff we do we

509

do a variety of everything we do kind of fetishy stuff we do like it's mostly like two guys

510

and a girl stuff um we do like bondage we do

511

soft we do hard like it's just we do a little variety of everything um

512

but in the in the vixen stuff um i want to do more of their deeper channel uh

513

which i did tell them and i did one scene with deeper

514

but it was a hot wife scene it was really hot it was it was great

515

but i was like you know that's cool like deeper is

516

there like kink fetish like a little bit more out there channel um

517

and we did hot wife which was like cool

518

because i'm comfortable with it

519

but um i said you know what next time i want

520

to do a deeper with like lots of like shiny pretty bondage

521

or like something like a lot of like rope something really you know we do it in our private life

522

but i want to do it in a way where they like make it look beautiful you know what i mean

523

so i want that that vixen touch on the on the you know rope work

524

or bondage right you know using like the highest end of

525

a beautiful kink where i don't know i just want like no

526

that makes that makes total sense to me you want to see the thing

527

that you like doing occasionally or often

528

or whatever it is you want to see it in the

529

highest scale right like do you watch back your own stuff not for like editing purposes

530

or anything do you ever like you're with your husband you're like oh getting frisky

531

and then you're like let's put one of them really all

532

the time yeah yeah yeah we watch our own stuff i

533

don't watch very much uh porn at all anymore that's not our own stuff

534

that sounds that sounds kind of terrible but no

535

because you know how you were feeling in that moment

536

so we and we have so much content now um

537

so yeah we'll go back through our own stuff and watch it

538

and you know have a good time with

539

that um it doesn't sound terrible it sounds like

540

when you work at starbucks

541

and after like six months you're like i can't smell coffee anymore i'm gonna lose my mind

542

and it's like well i love coffee but

543

if you work there long enough you're just kind of like ah i've seen it all

544

so is that why you don't watch porn

545

and you're like yeah i know all that

546

or you just don't really find a need for it it's

547

because i don't find a need for it it's

548

because i i like what we do the only time you know i do watch porn

549

when i want inspiration or um like for example if we're

550

if we're playing around with like um dp

551

or something that's like you know you finding the right angles to show it off

552

and you know we have limited people in our independent stuff

553

we don't have a whole studio to get all like the the right angles

554

and everything um

555

so you know watching it for seeing what other people do who are doing you know scenes

556

that i want to do

557

so that's kind of i don't really watch it to get

558

off i'll watch it to learn i mean that's yeah

559

when we want to get off we just watch our own experiences really oh my god

560

that is such confidence congratulations on having that confidence um i couldn't imagine

561

that i i would be so disgusted with myself um um

562

so your typical stuff is two guys

563

and a girl you said right to go two guys

564

and you know do you have like a constant guy you go back to does

565

that switch out like how do you uh schedule

566

and like plan your own personal stuff um

567

so oh sorry it's getting louder here i hope that's not

568

you're good don't what are you gonna do shut it down you're good you're fine we'll work around it Okay, so for our own stuff,

569

um we we do have one very good friend who is

570

bless his heart he's like he's he's always down to film something

571

and that's been such a like he's such a good time uh

572

so a lot of our our content is um with one of our good friends um

573

but we do switch it up like i'll have you know

574

i still i still go out on the dating apps

575

and like find guys

576

and um you know we i do this segment in my

577

only fans called a date diary where i'll go out

578

and um on a date with a new guy

579

and like sure use raunchy stuff um there's so we

580

and then i'll you know hook up with other content creator gentlemen

581

and you know we do we do that

582

but like for we have a very small group of our regular folks

583

that we we do content with or and we don't always do content like we still

584

have threesomes outside of filming just for our own fun really okay all right nice

585

so where do we see this going it sounds like you

586

got in for the purest reason it feels like where you

587

were like this is fun this is i enjoy doing this

588

my first uh my first podcast was a comedy show we had listeners

589

but we didn't have as many listeners as this does

590

but it was just fun you would just jump on i

591

would talk to my friend every week for an hour cut it up post it it was great

592

so you got into this for the right reasons i i

593

speak to a lot of performers who are like i'm trying to get to this

594

and i'm out i have no interest in this do you have any like major goal or milestone

595

that you're looking to hit is it retirement is it you want to film the world's biggest gangbang

596

and you're done do you want to start you keep doing

597

like gilf porn at 75 years old like where do you see your road going um for us it's

598

when it's off being fun we're done um right now it's still really fun and

599

we are lucky i say we

600

because you know it's not just serenity cox like my husband

601

is is a partner in it um like we're lucky

602

because both of us have professions that we can fall back on we don't we need to be doing this.

603

We're doing this because it's an absolute blast.

604

And luckily, we've both taken breaks from our other professions because this supports us much better than our other professions did.

605

And we're just so fortunate to be able to do this.

606

So we're just rolling with it.

607

And when and if this isn't doing it for us anymore, then And, you know, we'll stop.

608

We have things that we can fall back on.

609

And we'll still be doing the lifestyle things.

610

We'll still be, you know, screwing around with our friends and just having fun.

611

Okay.

612

All right.

613

Hopefully we'll be set up financially from this so that we won't have to go back to work.

614

And that is the goal.

615

That's always the goal.

616

I ask this every time.

617

Is there any kind of type of scene?

618

I used to call this game sack shit animals

619

and kids I would ask is there a type of scene

620

or something you wouldn't want to shoot

621

and performers would be like well I wouldn't fuck a kid

622

and I'd be like yeah no I got

623

that those are off the table we're not talking about you know like defecation type stuff kids

624

or animals alright out so

625

when I ask you this let's work within the realm of

626

pornography you can find on the internet not the dark web is there any type of scene

627

that you have no interest in pursuing that they come to you the vixens you know the deal whatever

628

a site comes to you and you're able to take it potentially

629

and they go we want you to shoot this type of scene

630

and you immediately just kind of go nah it's not really

631

me doesn't fit my brand doesn't fit my personality is there

632

anything that's kind of out um naughty nurse okay all right I've been asked a lot.

633

Are you scared you're going to get pigeonholed into the same role every time?

634

Oh, let's just get Serenity.

635

She's a nurse.

636

Yeah, go ahead.

637

No, because it's such a, no, it just bugs me because I feel like it's such a sexualized profession.

638

And whenever people find out that I'm a nurse, they're like, oh, you should do nurse porn.

639

You should be the like slutty nurse.

640

And I'm like, no. And I don't like I know a lot of people do it.

641

It's like it's fine.

642

I'm not I'm not that, you know, hurt or offended by it.

643

But I just see how hard in there's a lot of professions like this,

644

how hard like women have worked to be taken seriously in specific professions.

645

and I just don't want to add to that, you know, sexualization of those professions.

646

So I don't do teacher porn.

647

I don't do nurse porn.

648

I don't do police officer or army chick or like any of these things that like I feel.

649

I just don't feel good about that.

650

Totally understand.

651

I that is such an interesting perspective.

652

I've never thought of that before.

653

You respect how much goes into that profession.

654

So you don't want to do a like a characterization or a cartoon of it almost.

655

Right.

656

Is that what it sounds like?

657

And I know that it's lighthearted and like, you know, we know that it's just a fantasy when people are doing it in porn.

658

But just for me personally, I'm like, I can't go there.

659

I interviewed Gage, who was a major porn star in the early 2000s.

660

She's one of my favorites, you know, right around the time I turned 18, definitely not 15 years old.

661

So one of my favorites of all time.

662

And she told us, you know, in depth, I grew up in Arkansas.

663

It was very racist down there.

664

It was blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

665

So I had the question, like, did you have any concerns or issues doing interracial points?

666

She said interracial was totally fine.

667

The stuff she wouldn't do was stepbrother and stepsister because she said everyone back in my town was doing that already.

668

And I did not want to get judged for that.

669

And I was like, you know what?

670

Respect.

671

I totally get it.

672

There's you don't want to.

673

Yeah, I get that.

674

um serenity so i i kind of asked it already

675

but what what does the future hold do we um what can i expect

676

if i go on your only fans right now by the

677

way folks at serenity cox links in the episode description as

678

always as they always are we support creators here am i getting any

679

not that i want it

680

but am i getting any polished stuff am i getting you in your daily life with your husband and my, I know you do no pay -per -view, I believe I read that.

681

That's correct.

682

Yeah.

683

Okay.

684

Awesome.

685

So what is the experience, the Serenity Cox experience if I sign up for your OF today?

686

Okay.

687

So the Serenity Cox experience, I've actually never been asked this.

688

This is great.

689

So my only fans is a subscription only, no pay -per -view.

690

It is just two videos a week of me and my lifestyle doing what we do.

691

Generally, it's my husband filming me with a gentleman, sometimes with a lady and sometimes other.

692

But yeah, two videos a week, plus little updates in between photos and that.

693

But I get asked a lot.

694

I don't do any of the paid custom stuff.

695

I don't do any of the pay -per -view stuff.

696

It's just what I want to post and i'm just you know thankful

697

when people want to tune in and watch that

698

and i also do a monthly live stream

699

which is always my most fun time of the month is

700

just an hour of intimate uh one on well people on one with me i i have to say

701

and i'm not just blowing smoke here i really respect uh

702

that you are in this it seems like for the right reasons

703

and i think your message is awesome I think your message on fucking nursing is awesome, and I've never considered that before.

704

I have read you are very tied in with sexual health, and you promote that, right?

705

Really hard?

706

I do like to promote sexual health.

707

Yeah, sure.

708

I just kind of let it go.

709

We should all be promoting sexual health in this industry.

710

Yeah, but you're qualified to do it.

711

If I stand on a corner handing out condoms, I look like a real fucking weirdo.

712

You're a nurse.

713

You're able to talk about sexual health i start going listen

714

biologically people go you're an idiot don't speak to me

715

so um we need more qualified people like you speaking about important issues in the world

716

so yeah thank you for

717

that i always tell my people actually a lot of people

718

do ask in my in my private messages on only fans um one thing i do like people know is

719

that i do answer all my messages on only fans myself i don't use

720

that platform for for sexting i use it for communicating

721

and a lot of people do ask me like really great questions about sexual health

722

and about relationships and about you know

723

what i'm doing and like it's i have some great conversations in my only way from messaging

724

and i love that but i don't sext

725

and a lot of people don't like that

726

but that's all right they'll get over it uh they can enjoy the two videos a week

727

and everything else and then head on over to vixen

728

and see all your scenes exactly uh

729

but most importantly where they can head is the episode description

730

so they can make sure they follow you across all social media folks it's free

731

so at least

732

if you have no money you're broke you can't sign up for the of follow her on social media um

733

and most importantly if you do have that right there you go

734

and hey follow follow all the vixen accounts and then

735

when they post a clip of her scene go oh my god i heard serenity before she was

736

so great You should have her on more

737

and also pay her more money anyway and give her more creative control Type that out literally word for word

738

Serenity Cox we can find you at Serenity Cox and thank you

739

so much for coming on with me tonight Thanks for chatting with me I'm gonna watch a ball game now

740

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Vocabulary and speaking notes for this lesson

This B2 speaking lesson is built on the video “Serenity Cox Goes Deeper Than Ever”. This video has 740 sentences and 8538 words to shadow. The speech runs for 44:42. The speaker talks fast, about 191 words per minute, so expect linked and reduced sounds. 86% of the words are among the 3,000 most common in English; the rest is worth studying before you start.

Key vocabulary in this video

The 15 most advanced words in the video, with pronunciation and meaning:

Word	Pronunciation	Meaning
vixen noun	/ˈvɪk.sən/	A female fox.
serenity noun	/səˈɹɛnɪti/	The state of being serene; calmness; peacefulness.
profession noun	/pɹəˈfɛʃ.ən/	A promise or vow made on entering a religious order.
misconception noun	/ˌmɪs.kənˈsɛp.ʃən/	A mistaken belief, a wrong idea.
swinger noun	/ˈswɪŋəɹ/	One who swings.
performer noun	/pɚˈfɔɹmɚ/	One who performs for, or entertains, an audience.
enjoyment noun	/ɪnˈd͡ʒɔɪ.mənt/	The condition of enjoying anything.
bondage noun	/ˈbɑn.dɪd͡ʒ/	The state of being enslaved or the practice of slavery.
monogamous adjective	/məˈnɑɡəməs/	Involving marriage to one person at a time.
cheat verb	/ˈt͡ʃiːt/	To violate rules in order to gain, or attempt to gain, advantage from a situation.
scenario noun	/sɪˈnɛəɹioʊ/	An outline or model of an expected or supposed sequence of events.
interracial adjective	/ˌɪntəˈɹeɪʃəl/	Between or among two or more different races.
kink noun	/ˈkɪŋk/	A tight curl, twist, or bend in a length of thin material, hair etc.
monogamy noun	/məˈnɑɡəmi/	The practice of being married to one person as opposed to multiple.
listener noun	/ˈlɪs(ə)nɚ/	Someone who listens, especially to a speech or a broadcast.

Phrasal verbs you will hear

Word	Pronunciation	Meaning
go out verb		To leave, especially a building.
find out verb		To discover, as by asking or investigating.
come out verb	/ˌkʌm ˈaʊt/	To be discovered; to be revealed.
fall back on verb		To turn to as a substitute; to rely on as a backup.
go ahead verb	/ˌɡoʊ əˈhɛd/	To proceed with; to begin.
go back to verb		To stem from; to originate in.
set up verb	/ˌsɛt ˈʌp/	To make ready for use.
act out verb	/ˌækt ˈaʊ̯t/	To perform something specific.

Sentences worth repeating

Short, complete lines from the video that you can reuse in everyday conversation:

It's a journey I took with my husband.
Let's put it out there.
No, I've been with my wife the whole time.
Is your husband the general manager of a baseball team?
Are there any misconceptions from what you've seen?

Grammar in this video

The structures the speaker uses most, with the exact words from the video:

Structure	In the video
Present perfect continuous have/has been + -ing — an action that started earlier and is still going on	I've been interviewing · who've been following · that's been opening
“Used to” used to + verb — a past habit or state that is no longer true	used to wear · used to be · used to call
Present perfect have/has + past participle — a past action that still matters now	I've been · I've done · I've ever had
Passive voice be + past participle — the focus is on what happens, not who does it	is blurred · being saved · be killed

Pronunciation to watch

The speaker uses 285 contractions and reduced forms, such as don't, I'm, you're. Say them the short way, as you hear them.

The “sh” and “zh” sounds: profession /pɹəˈfɛʃ.ən/, misconception /ˌmɪs.kənˈsɛp.ʃən/, interracial /ˌɪntəˈɹeɪʃəl/, conscious /ˈkɑn.ʃəs/, cautious /ˈkɔːʃəs/
Long words — get the stress right: serenity /səˈɹɛnɪti/, misconception /ˌmɪs.kənˈsɛp.ʃən/, monogamous /məˈnɑɡəməs/, interracial /ˌɪntəˈɹeɪʃəl/, monogamy /məˈnɑɡəmi/

How to practise with this video

Listen to the whole video once without speaking and note the words you do not know.
Start at 0.75× speed, shadow it sentence by sentence, then go back to normal speed once it feels easy.
Record yourself and compare with the original, paying attention to words like vixen, serenity, profession.

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Vocabulary and speaking notes for this lesson

Key vocabulary in this video

Phrasal verbs you will hear

Sentences worth repeating

Grammar in this video

Pronunciation to watch

How to practise with this video

What is the Shadowing Technique?