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it occurred to me that hundreds of thousands maybe millions of people every single day
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learn language without any prior knowledge of language
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and as as if this isn't wonderful enough like a wonder miraculous the same is also true for wisdom
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everyone who we see as wise from whom we're trying to learn
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and who we see has it all figured out at at least it seems,
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whatever wisdom they have, they acquired it with no wisdom at all.
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And so truly everything that we're looking for is already looking for us in that sense.
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This is a very scientific thing to say, just like language.
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We are looking for language, we have no idea how to speak, otherwise we would already be able to speak.
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And so there is a way in nature that makes us yearn
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for something that we do not have and that very yearning itself is also met by something.
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Because the yearning isn't enough.
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There is something in nature that also provides that which we are looking for in the physical sense, language, as a baby, as a child.
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But then we go up to say, I also want to know things.
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I also want to understand myself.
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I also want to see what this life really is.
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And that yearning too, we did not invent.
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And so that yearning too will be met.
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And it is being met.
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But we go around thinking that we are responsible for our own peace, for our own love, for our own wisdom.
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and we try to create something out of nothing.
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And we're stressed out that if we fail in this, we fail as a human being.
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And so we're busy trying to figure out how to do something that we do not have, that we do not know how to do.
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We're constantly trying to create the means for our ends.
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We're constantly trying to create the means that will take us to the goal, the goal being peace, wisdom,
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understanding, happiness, whatever it is that we have set as our goal.
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We are constantly trying to create the means to those ends.
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But those means are actually blocking us because the ends are already there.
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We are constantly trying to say, oh, maybe my career can be a means to an end.
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Maybe my career can make me happy.
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Maybe if I surround myself with enough people,
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maybe if I become popular Maybe if I am desired I become desirable to myself
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Maybe if I do a lot of charity A lot of good things I can become good
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Everything is a means to an end
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but this life is not really like the first job that demands three years of experience
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but we're trying to get the job to get experience this is not like that
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in life everything is provided and all we need to do is to permit it
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to say I am open I am ready to receive this.
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But our means are blocking this perception, or rather our activities so busy,
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so concerned, so involved, and everything is so important and so dangerous and so perilous. and
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so we're constantly looking out for our means trying to hold
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them together trying to put them together trying to protect them
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so that they can reach their end
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and this is our concern this is our work
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and this is what we're busy with
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and we are too busy to receive the very things for which we are doing all of this for
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and this will never end
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because the means are constantly changing trying to procure something that is changeless because peace is not something that's changing
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peace is the stillness, the everlasting condition how can that be achieved with a constantly changing plan this planning,
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this scheming this doing and achieving
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and trying all of it is not only unnecessary it is counter to the very thing
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that we're trying to achieve
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and the obvious question is well how can I stop this this seems like the right thing if I do nothing
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am I supposed to just sit on my hands all day nothing is going to get done
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that way I need to pay rent I need to go do things
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but all we need to do is to finally discern the
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important from the unimportant we can know exactly what to do by knowing what not to do is cheating
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and deceiving and lying going to get me ahead is this going to get me towards peace
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and happiness and fulfillment and meaning in life because every time I cheat every time I deceive,
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every time I even look at that which is not mine,
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I feel the pangs, the limitations,
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the heat of jealousy, of resentment.
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Why didn't I get this?
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Or I deserve it and others are getting it.
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This is like a burning.
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This is like a fire.
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Every time I engage in this, I burn like this.
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And so is this maybe an indication from life that this is not the way?
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And here we can see how life shows us what is not the way.
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And inevitably what will remain will be the way, although by that time we will have the very thing.
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There will be no way to peace.
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We will say, I have let go of so much.
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Now I realize the letting go is the peace itself.
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And we say, I want wisdom.
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I want knowledge.
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I want to be secure in this world.
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I want to understand this world.
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I want to be one with it, whatever our ideas about it are.
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If we act like we are the judges of this, that we know better than life, every single time we say this should not have been like this
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or i approve this this is exactly what i would have done
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and that's what's happening so naturally this is the right thing that's going on
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every single time we say this we necessarily admit that we know better
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but isn't this whole seeking because we don't know better
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so this ignorance this illusion that we know better is blocking our reception of wisdom
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that the whole world is trying to impart into us just like it is trying to impart language
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and the baby is open it doesn't have the ignorance it doesn't have those ideas
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that are falsely blocking the receptors of everything it needs It's empty.
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There are no ideas.
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There are no understandings of anything, which can be misunderstandings.
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It's just open.
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And so it's watching the mothers,
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the fathers, everyone else's mouths and actions and how they act in the world and how they react to things.
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And from that, it is learning associations and saying, this sound that is coming out of the mouth, it has something to do with this situation,
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with this emotion, with what is currently happening.
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And so that is how it is picking up one word,
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two words, three words, and then associating them with each other and seeing the differences also.
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Just like in that way we are shown by life,
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every single time you think you know better and you act out of that
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you get into misery you get into confusion you get into suffering you get into anger into resentment into hopelessness
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and so when people say surrender this is what it means Surrender does not mean to give up,
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to lose hope, and to, I might as well die.
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No, not surrender like that.
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Surrender, I recognize.
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I recognize there is something that knows.
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And that is not me.
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Because I am seeking for wisdom.
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If I am seeking wisdom, if I am seeking peace, then it means I don't have it.
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So why not let the one who does have it, in fact, the one that is the source of it, why not let that one take over?
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and also not take over in a passive sense but again the openness of the child the curiosity,
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the attention the non-judgmental observation of every single thing that is going on I see this, I wonder about this
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and I'm just going to put my attention on it without
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any of my preconceived notions without any making up any ideas without imagining anything just by perception,
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by observation, by witnessing.
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That's when everything unfolds in the thing that we're looking at.
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That's how the child looks at language
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and language unfolds into it and all of a sudden it starts speaking
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and becomes even more eloquent than the ones whom it learned language from.
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Just like that wisdom can unfold in us now that we have the language
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and it can come into this mind and it can take over and it can finally be accepted, be permitted.
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And it's the same with peace.
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By being open, by surrendering in this way,
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by letting go of every notion of every idea of I know better or things should be like this instead of this,
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and by condemning all those things we think are wrong and by praising and admiring and almost worshipping
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the things that we think are right, if we let go of both of those,
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both of those, and if we don't permit anyone else's ideas,
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if we say, if this makes sense to me, it will unfold anyway.
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If we stay empty like this and open and surrendered,
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then every single thing which we are rightfully seeking will come and we will need it
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and so truly every single thing that you are looking for is looking for you

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If you’re looking to improve English pronunciation or master the shadowing technique, this video is a goldmine. Its slow, reflective pace makes it easy to follow, while the natural flow of ideas mimics real-life conversation—no stilted phrases here. The speaker uses relatable concepts (like learning language as a child) that keep you engaged, so practicing doesn’t feel like a chore. Plus, the focus on "yearning" and "stillness" adds emotional depth, helping you connect with the language on a deeper level—key for sounding authentic when you speak.

Breaking Down Natural English Phrasing

Let’s look at a few lines that showcase natural speech: - "it occurred to me that hundreds of thousands maybe millions of people every single day learn language without any prior knowledge": The casual "maybe" and "every single day" make this sound like a friend sharing a thought, not a formal lecture. Notice how "prior knowledge" is used instead of "previous experience"—it’s concise and common in everyday talk. - "we are busy trying to figure out how to do something that we do not have, that we do not know how to do": The repetition of "that we do not" creates a rhythmic flow, a trick native speakers use to emphasize a point. It’s also a great example of how to structure complex ideas simply. - "all we need to do is to permit it to say I am open I am ready to receive this": The run-on structure ("I am open I am ready") is intentional, mimicking the way we speak when we’re passionate—no need for perfect punctuation here. This is how real conversations sound, and practicing it will make your speech feel more human.

A Simple Shadowing Routine for This Video

Try this shadow speak exercise to make the most of the video:

  1. Watch the video once to understand the message. Focus on the speaker’s tone—how they slow down for emphasis and rise in pitch when asking implicit questions.
  2. Play a 5-second clip, pause, and repeat it immediately, copying the rhythm, stress, and pronunciation. Don’t worry about mistakes—just aim to match the "feel" of the speech. This is the core of shadowspeaks practice.
  3. Record yourself repeating the clip. Compare it to the original: Did you stress "yearning" the same way? Did you pause after "miraculous"? Adjust and try again.
  4. Gradually increase the clip length to 10-15 seconds. Over time, you’ll notice your pronunciation and fluency improving—all while learning meaningful ideas.

Learning English with YouTube doesn’t get better than this. The video’s content and style work together to make practice effective and enjoyable—so hit play, start shadowing, and let your speech grow naturally.

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The structures the speaker uses most, with the exact words from the video:

StructureIn the video
Passive voice be + past participle — the focus is on what happens, not who does itis also met · will be met · being met
Relative clauses who / which + clause — extra information about a person or thingeveryone who we · that which is · anything, which can
Present perfect have/has + past participle — a past action that still matters nowhave set · have let

What is the Shadowing Technique?

Shadowing is a science-backed language learning technique originally developed for professional interpreter training and popularized by polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. The method is simple but powerful: you listen to native English audio and immediately repeat it out loud — like a shadow following the speaker with just a 1–2 second delay. Unlike passive listening or grammar drills, shadowing forces your brain and mouth muscles to simultaneously process and reproduce real speech patterns. Research shows it significantly improves pronunciation accuracy, intonation, rhythm, connected speech, listening comprehension, and speaking fluency — making it one of the most effective methods for IELTS Speaking preparation and real-world English communication.

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