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If you've ever been in a conversation that feels forced, awkward, or boring, it's probably because you haven't learned how to be more playful.
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I used to avoid people because I used to never know what to say.
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I just blamed it on being a naturally anxious person.
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Once I learned how to be more playful, being social actually became fun.
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Most of us try to answer questions normally.
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We try so hard to not be awkward or say something embarrassing.
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especially when it's somebody that we want to impress.
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Being playful is the opposite of that.
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You stop trying to be perfect and you can just let go and actually have fun.
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People will naturally be drawn to you, not because you became more impressive.
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but because you actually look like you're having fun being yourself.
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One of the easiest ways to become more playful is to stop giving the safest answer all the time.
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Sometimes instead of giving the real answer right away, decide to make it playful and say something a little out of pocket, a little unexpected.
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What's up guys welcome back today we're clabbing cheeks.
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My boys.
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you There's a photo behind the cash register of this Olympian, right?
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That used to come to the restaurant as a regular.
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And the last time she stopped by, we asked her to sign it.
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When this person came up to the cash register and noticed the photo behind me, he asked me like, Oh, wow, she came here one time.
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And I said, she used to work here, actually.
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"What?
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No way, really?" No man, I'm just kidding.
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The whole time the person was laughing and he was like, "Hey, honestly, man, you should have stuck to the first story because that was really funny.
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Like I really believed you for a second." For example, if you have a scar, right?
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If you have a scar and someone's like, Hey, how did you get that scar?
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And you know, you got it from cutting yourself from, you know, cooking last week instead of just giving them the real boring
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answer you could be like oh yeah you know what two
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weeks ago i had to fight off like seven gang members to save this old lady
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and you know like one of them cut me the point is to get the other person laughing and joking with you.
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Notice something light.
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Decide to make it playful.
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Give a surprising answer before revealing the boring answer.
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Genuinely, if it's something you find amusing and is funny, then say it.
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If you think my examples are funny, steal them, use them, try them and see how people react.
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Make it your own and find ways to make it more fun for you.
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The more that you're having fun yourself, the better that your jokes will land.
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Teasing only works if it feels shared.
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If it feels like You're laughing with them.
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You're not laughing at the expense of somebody else.
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But if you do this well, it can be one of the best ways to banter with anybody.
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It shows affection without being too nice and being too safe.
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And it shows that you can play.
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It shows that you can have fun.
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Look, she's literally wearing the flag.
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She is the flag.
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Wow!
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I'm gonna make sure this man never gets in the moment.
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You're playing with the moment.
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The point isn't to make someone else feel bad.
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It's for both of you to be comfortable and be laughing with each other.
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Habit number three is fake seriousness.
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This is something I do a lot with my friends
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or I utilize this a lot at work when I want to have more fun.
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Usually when customers come in and they ask for a napkin, it's obviously free, but sometimes I make it hard for them.
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Napkin?
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Sure.
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It's going to be $5, sir, ma 'am.
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I smile.
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I look at them in the eye and they're like, no way.
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And I'm like, I'm just joking.
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You risk being a little bit annoying, but at the same time, people will feel so much more comfortable around you because you're comfortable enough to make jokes around them.
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There was this girl in my class who was wearing a pink shirt, pink Nike shoes, and she had a pink phone case.
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So when I sat next to her, I decided to say, "Hey, Can I guess?
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Thank you.
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And she looks at me and she's like, Guess what?
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Can I guess...
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your favorite color and she looks at herself in her phone
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and oh oh my god i wonder what it could be So, can I?
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And she's like, She gives me this face, right?
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Sure.
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Go ahead.
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And I'm like, green You're not really trying to be clever or witty.
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You're just showing that you're willing to look silly, to look dumb.
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And that's what actually allows the other person to feel like they can also be silly with you.
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And sometimes, you know, I like to push people's buttons, but I always try to make sure that I'm sensitive to the other person's actual insecurities.
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And I dial it back if I feel like I'm being a little too mean, or a little too specific about my roasts or my jokes.
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The only reason why I think I'm a little bit better at making people laugh to this day is
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because I've said so many dumb things in my life, and a lot of them actually felt flat.
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It was awkward.
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People didn't laugh.
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People thought I was weird or annoying.
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But the moments that I've gotten people to laugh, is like the things I've stuck to and refined over the years.
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When you show other people that you're confident enough to be teased also, that's what makes it safe to be around you and to be playful.
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Yeah, I don't know.
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It's just, I think it's sick.
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I think it's sick when people can laugh at themselves and not take themselves so seriously.
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One of the biggest mistakes I used to make is only being playful to the people that I was trying to impress.
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What really changed is when I started The more comfortable you are at failing at anything in your life,
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the more likely that you'll actually achieve it.
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You might as well laugh and enjoy the process too.
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And ironically, that's actually what makes you more fun to talk to.
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My name is Karl.
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If this video helped you at all, make sure to like, comment and subscribe and make sure to send this to someone who you think will benefit also.
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And I'll see you.
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on the next one.
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Peace.
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Лексика и советы по произношению к этому уроку
В этом видео 96 предложений и 1126 слов для шедоуинга. Речь длится 6:25. Говорящий говорит в естественном темпе, около 175 слов в минуту, близком к повседневной речи. 87% слов входят в 3000 самых частых слов английского языка, поэтому лексика простая.
Ключевая лексика этого видео
15 слов из видео, которые стоит выучить, с произношением и значением:
| Слово | Произношение | Значение |
|---|---|---|
| playful прилагательное | /ˈpleɪfl̩/ | игри́вый |
| awkward прилагательное | /ˈɔk.wɚd/ | нело́вкий, неуклю́жий |
| bore глагол | /boɹ/ | надоеда́ть, надое́сть |
| scar существительное | /skɑɹ/ | шрам, рубе́ц |
| naturally наречие | /ˈnæt͡ʃ.(ə.)ɹə.li/ | есте́ственно |
| silly прилагательное | /ˈsɪl.i/ | глу́пый, дурно́й |
| impress глагол | /ɪmˈpɹɛs/ | производи́ть впечатле́ние, произвести́ впечатле́ние |
| tease глагол | /tiːz/ | чеса́ть |
| pocket существительное | /ˈpɑ.kɪt/ | карма́н, карма́шек |
| impressive прилагательное | /ɪmˈpɹɛsɪv/ | впечатля́ющий, внуши́тельный |
| sensitive прилагательное | /ˈsɛn.sɪt.ɪv/ | чувстви́тельный, чу́ткий |
| reveal глагол | /ɹɪˈviːl/ | выявля́ть, раскрыва́ть |
| steal глагол | /stiːl/ | красть, укра́сть |
| habit существительное | /ˈhæb.ɪt/ | привы́чка, обы́чай |
| shoe существительное | /ˈʃu/ | ту́фля, боти́нок |
Фразовые глаголы, которые вы услышите
| Слово | Произношение | Значение |
|---|---|---|
| go ahead глагол | /ˌɡoʊ əˈhɛd/ | дава́й, приступа́йте |
Произношение, на которое стоит обратить внимание
Говорящий использует 31 сокращённых и редуцированных форм, например you're, I'm, I've. Произносите их коротко, так, как слышите.
- Звуки «sh» и «zh»: shoe /ˈʃu/, anxious /ˈæŋkʃəs/, affection /əˈfɛk.ʃən/
- Длинные слова — следите за ударением: naturally /ˈnæt͡ʃ.(ə.)ɹə.li/, unexpected /ʌnɪkˈspɛktɪd/, genuinely /ˈd͡ʒɛn.ju.ɪn.li/, ironically /aɪˈɹɑnɪkli/
Как заниматься с этим видео
- Прослушайте всё видео один раз молча и выпишите незнакомые слова.
- Начните со скорости 0,75×, повторяйте предложение за предложением и вернитесь к обычной скорости, когда станет легко.
- Запишите себя и сравните с оригиналом, обращая внимание на такие слова, как playful, awkward, bore.
Грамматика в этом видео
Конструкции, которые говорящий использует чаще всего, с точными словами из видео:
| Конструкция | В видео |
|---|---|
| «Used to» used to + глагол — прошлая привычка или состояние, которых больше нет | used to avoid · used to come · used to work |
| Present Perfect have/has + причастие прошедшего времени — прошлое действие, важное сейчас | you've ever been · I've said · I've gotten |
| Пассивный залог be + причастие прошедшего времени — важно, что происходит, а не кто это делает | be drawn · be teased |
Что такое техника Shadowing?
Shadowing — это научно обоснованная техника изучения языка, изначально разработанная для подготовки профессиональных переводчиков и популяризированная полиглотом доктором Александром Аргуэльесом. Метод прост, но эффективен: вы слушаете аудио на английском от носителей языка и немедленно повторяете вслух — как тень, следующая за говорящим с задержкой в 1–2 секунды. В отличие от пассивного прослушивания или грамматических упражнений, Shadowing заставляет мозг и мышцы рта одновременно обрабатывать и воспроизводить реальные речевые паттерны. Исследования показывают, что это значительно улучшает точность произношения, интонацию, ритм, связную речь, понимание на слух и беглость речи — что делает его одним из самых эффективных методов для подготовки к IELTS Speaking и реального общения на английском.