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Do you ever feel like you're overcomplicating every little detail in your life?
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Are you tired of being an overthinker and watching it stall your progress?
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Well, welcome to the club because I am exactly the same way.
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Fun fact, it took me a couple of months to create this YouTube channel
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and upload my first video because I was overthinking every little detail.
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In this video, I'm going to talk about strategies and techniques that helped me to overcome this mindset.
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How to stop overthinking.
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So what's the difference between productive thinking and overthinking?
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Where do we draw the line?
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Productive thinking is goal -oriented.
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It leads to clarity.
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It's time -bounded.
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You have time frame in which you have to make a decision.
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It is flexible, meaning you adapt as you go.
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It's empowering.
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It doesn't drain you of energy and it motivates you.
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Overthinking, on the other hand, drains energy, consists of looping thoughts,
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it's unproductive, time -consuming, and it leads to avoidance and procrastination.
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There is one crucial thing you have to understand about overthinking.
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Overthinking does not equal problem solving.
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If you think that you can solve all of your problems just by passively thinking about them, I hate to break it to you,
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but it's not going to happen.
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Problem solving is action -oriented.
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It helps you to solve your problem and take action.
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Overthinking, on the other hand, is quite passive and it's just rumination.
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Overthinking rarely leads to any results.
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Problem solving, on the other hand, is a powerful strategy that can help you to get out of this vicious cycle.
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It's important to understand that distinction because a lot of people assume
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that just by thinking about the problem for hours they will find a solution.
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In reality, however, it's not how things work.
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So what do we do about it?
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How do we get out of this vicious cycle and beat overthinking once and for all?
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Let's talk about some of the things that work for me.
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Set boundaries when making decisions.
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Overthinking is quite time -consuming.
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The more you think about something, the more time you waste.
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When I was about to create this YouTube channel, I wasted weeks and months thinking about the most unimportant things that you can possibly imagine.
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When I look back on some of the things
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that I was worried about just a couple of months ago i understand how pointless it was
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and how much time i have wasted in the process
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if i just started right then i would achieve much more
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so as humans
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when we make decisions we always try to find the best possible outcome we always try to make decisions
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that will lead us to success but unfortunately right
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and wrong decisions don't really exist because no matter what you do whether it's failing or whether it's being very successful,
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you still get a very valuable thing.
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You get experience and you get data.
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And when you get that kind of information, you can later adapt to it.
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You can find something valuable in the lessons.
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What I'm really trying to say with this is that doing something and starting something is always better than doing nothing.
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In a lot of cases, people waste time just by waiting, just by thinking, just by, you know, not doing anything but if they just started,
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it would be much more productive and maybe they wouldn't miss so many opportunities.
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Even if your decision was not good, at least you have the experience, at least you have that data and you can learn from it.
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I know that as a society, we try to avoid failure at all costs.
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We don't like the idea of failure, but failure is a better teacher than success.
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That's why some people say fail faster because failure gives you so much data.
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So the best thing you can do is to make a decision and then adapt to it.
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Allocate a specific time frame to make a decision and then just step away.
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And once the decision is made, you will have this feeling of completion and you won't have the need to return to it later.
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Let's say you need to make a decision.
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Just give yourself one week.
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And once that one week is over, don't return to it.
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Don't think about it anymore.
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Just move on.
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If the decision that you're making is more important, let's say it's something that will affect your life in a big way,
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you can give yourself a couple of months.
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But don't overcomplicate the process.
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Don't give yourself too much time because ultimately it's going to be a waste.
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And don't think that by collecting a lot of data and constantly researching something, you will make better decisions.
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In a lot of cases, it just overcomplicates the process.
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When you have too much information at hand, instead of being useful, sometimes it leads to analysis paralysis.
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It's not about how much time you give to yourself.
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It's about reaching a certain conclusion and then not returning to it.
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By setting that kind of limitations, you will regain control over your mind and you will also get mental clarity.
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Remember, thinking about something for a very long time doesn't lead to better decisions or better outcomes.
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Calm your mind.
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If your mind is racing and you don't know what to do about it,
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the best thing you can do is to do something that calms your mind.
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I know that we're all different and something that calms me down might not necessarily bring you a peace of mind.
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But I'm going to share my personal favorites.
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Things that I personally recommend would be stuff like meditation, journaling, or physical activity.
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My number one solution for overthinking is journaling.
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I love journaling so much.
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I've been journaling since 2020 and I can't stop.
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I believe that journaling is one of the most powerful techniques to stop your racing mind from overthinking.
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So I know that there are a lot of techniques that you can use when it comes to journaling,
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but my personal favorite would be brain dumping.
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If you don't know what brain dumping means, it basically means writing everything down without filters.
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It means writing every single thought you have in your mind and not thinking about it too much.
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You don't need to reread it, you don't need to think about it deeply,
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you just need to get everything out on paper and then forget about it.
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These entries are just for you, no one will ever see them and they will help you to process your emotions and thoughts.
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I personally feel extremely relieved once I dump all my thoughts into my journaling app.
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It's generally my number one strategy when it comes to overthinking and it always helps me.
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When it comes to brain dumping, if the problem you're dealing with is on a simpler side, then a couple of sessions might be enough.
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But if you're dealing with something more serious that really bothers you, you might need more time.
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What I tend to do is I try to reach the end of thought.
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I write about the problem so many times that by the end of the session, I feel bored of it.
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I feel tired of talking about it.
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The funny thing is that once you talk about the problem too many times, once you write everything you know about it,
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it will get boring and tiring to talk about it again and your thoughts will disappear on their own.
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Once you bore all of those thoughts on paper, it almost feels like your brain doesn't need to process them anymore
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and you will get the peace of mind that you deserve.
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Let me know in the comment section
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if you're interested in the topic of journaling because over the years I've accumulated a lot of techniques that I can share.
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Another thing that I recommend when you're going down the overthinking spiral is physical activity.
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However, when I'm talking about physical activity, I'm not talking about excessive workout.
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I'm not talking about cardio.
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I'm talking about something slower, something calmer, something like yoga.
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Moving your body around can help you to get out of your head.
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Yoga is great, but you can also try just going out and taking a 30 -minute walk.
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I feel like walking outside
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or spending more time in nature always helps me to get out of my head and calm my mind.
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An important side note, if you're going outside to take a walk, please don't take your headphones with you.
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Just listen to your environment and don't distract yourself with content.
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Last but not least, meditation is a brilliant way to get rid of your repetitive thoughts.
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I'm not going to talk about why meditation is useful and good for you, because you probably already know that meditation has a lot of benefits,
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both for your physical and mental health.
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I've been meditating on and off for years.
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And I can definitely say that if you're consistent, meditation is very beneficial.
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Despite struggling with consistency when it comes to meditation, when I do it regularly, I can almost tell that I'm more aware of my thoughts.
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And to some degree, being aware of your thoughts almost solves half of the problem when it comes to overthinking.
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So if you have never tried meditation, I think you should definitely try it because it helps a lot.
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Productive distractions.
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Sometimes the best way to end the vicious cycle of overthinking is to distract yourself with something.
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But I'm not talking about distractions like scrolling on TikTok or Instagram.
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I'm not talking about binge watching Netflix.
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I'm talking about productive distractions that feel meaningful and also bring you joy.
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The reason why I don't recommend watching Netflix
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and drown yourself in cheap entertainment is because I don't want you to escape from your thoughts.
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I want you to just distract yourself with something more productive.
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Because when I distract myself with cheap dopamine, like TikTok or Instagram, I tend to feel really bad afterwards.
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Yes, things like Netflix or TikTok, they are distractions as well.
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But they are more like escaping from yourself, escaping from your mind.
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I think your distractions should be productive and meaningful.
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And I'm not talking about productive in terms of checking boxes off.
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I'm not talking about that kind of productivity.
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I mean that it has to feel meaningful and it has to bring you some kind of joy.
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You know, it's something that you do and then you feel really good afterwards.
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Maybe it's socializing with your friends, maybe it's spending time with your family, maybe it's watching your favorite movie.
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One of the most important things that I can suggest is to not silence your thoughts and escape from them.
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by indulging in cheap dopamine.
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It's better to process your negative emotions and feelings sooner than later.
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By drowning yourself in dopaminergic activities, you will only prolong your misery.
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It's okay to do something else to distract yourself from overthinking, but it's not okay to use escapism to do that.
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I think picking up a hobby and doing something
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that you used to enjoy in the past is one of the best solutions to overthinking.
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Maybe you can do something that you really like to do as a kid.
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Maybe you can draw, maybe you can paint.
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If you like cooking, you can try that.
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You should do something that really brings you joy.
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I'm pretty sure that would be a lovely experience.
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Just do something that will pull you out of this overthinking cycle.
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Sometimes the best solution to your problem might be to distract yourself and to do something else instead of fixating on it.
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Our brain always process information in the background.
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So even if you think that when you do something else nothing happens,
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maybe your brain is working on the solution and it will come to you pretty soon.
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Because I'm pretty sure you had those moments in your life when solutions came to you at the most unexpected times.
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By productively distracting yourself, at least you're doing something that you enjoy instead of wasting time on overthinking.
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Just do it mindset.
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If nothing works, sometimes the only solution is to just do the thing.
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I know that this quote is very cliche and a lot of people use it, I would say even overuse it,
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but it's so commonly used because it works.
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Sometimes ignoring the thoughts and just doing the things is the best solution.
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As I previously mentioned, taking any step is better than doing nothing.
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It's better than to stay static.
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When I was overthinking everything about this channel, at some point I got really tired and I just decided that I'm gonna start no matter what.
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Even if it's not perfect, even if I understand certain things, I will just start making and uploading videos.
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I think a lot of people wait for this magical moment
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when they will have all the answers and all of their problems will be solved.
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However, it rarely happens.
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Chances are that if you're an overthinker, you're also a perfectionist.
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And waiting for the perfect moment might seem like a logical solution, but unfortunately it's not.
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It's better to start right now, even if what you're doing is far from perfect, but at least you're not wasting your time.
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In fact, now that I'm making my fifth YouTube video, I can see that most of the things that I was worried about were quite irrelevant.
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My experience as a content creator was the reason why I had so many questions, but most of these problems were solved in the process.
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Don't waste your precious time worrying about something that's not even important.
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Please remember that watching YouTube videos will not change your life
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and in order to change it you have to implement the steps that I'm talking about.
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So let's revise some of the actionable steps you can take.
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Recognize that problem -solving and overthinking are not the same things.
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Set timeframes when making decisions.
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Distract yourself with meaningful activities such as hobbies.
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Just do it because overthinking is pointless unless you take action.
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I hope this video was helpful.
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Thank you so much for subscribing, liking and commenting.
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I really appreciate your support.
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I will see you in the next one.

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15 слов из видео, которые стоит выучить, с произношением и значением:

СловоПроизношениеЗначение
solve глагол/sɒlv/реша́ть, реши́ть
distract глагол/dɪˈstɹækt/отвлека́ть, отвле́чь
productive прилагательное/pɹəˈdʌk.tɪv/продукти́вный, производи́тельный
meditation существительное/mɛdɪˈteɪʃn̩/медита́ция, разду́мье
distraction существительное/dɪsˈtɹæk.ʃən/отвлече́ние
technique существительное/tɛkˈniːk/те́хника
meaningful прилагательное/ˈmiː.nɪŋ.fl̩/зна́чимый
dump глагол/dʌmp/выбра́сывать, вы́бросить
adapt глагол/əˈdæpt/приспоса́бливать, приспосо́бить
vicious прилагательное/ˈvɪʃəs/злой, зло́бный
afterwards наречие/ˈæf.tɚ.wɚdz/по́зже, потом
rarely наречие/ˈɹɛəɹli/ре́дко, нечасто
outcome существительное/ˈaʊtkʌm/исход
yoga существительное/ˈjoʊ.ɡə/йо́га
emotion существительное/ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/эмо́ция, чу́вство

Фразовые глаголы, которые вы услышите

СловоЗначение
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go out глаголвыходи́ть, вы́йти
pick up глаголподбира́ть, подобра́ть

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Конструкции, которые говорящий использует чаще всего, с точными словами из видео:

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Present Perfect Continuous have/has been + -ing — действие началось раньше и продолжаетсяI've been journaling · I've been meditating
Условные предложения if + предложение, will/would + глагол — условие и его результатif I understand certain things, I will just
Present Perfect have/has + причастие прошедшего времени — прошлое действие, важное сейчасhave wasted · I've accumulated · have never tried
Пассивный залог be + причастие прошедшего времени — важно, что происходит, а не кто это делаетis made · will be solved · were solved

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  • Звуки «sh» и «zh»: meditation /mɛdɪˈteɪʃn̩/, distraction /dɪsˈtɹæk.ʃən/, vicious /ˈvɪʃəs/, emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/, conclusion /kənˈkluːʒən/
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Звуки, трудные для русскоязычных:

  • /w/ — губы округлены, это не /v/: afterwards /ˈæf.tɚ.wɚdz/, workout /ˈwɝk.aʊ̯t/, wenge /ˈwɛnɡeɪ/
  • /h/ — лёгкий выдох, а не русское «х»: helpful /ˈhɛlp.fl̩/, hobby /ˈhɑ.bi/, headphones /ˈhɛdfoʊnz/
  • Звонкие согласные в конце слова — не оглушайте их: solve /sɒlv/, productive /pɹəˈdʌk.tɪv/, afterwards /ˈæf.tɚ.wɚdz/, upload /ˈʌpˌloʊd/, bound /ˈbaʊ̯nd/

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Что такое техника Shadowing?

Shadowing — это научно обоснованная техника изучения языка, изначально разработанная для подготовки профессиональных переводчиков и популяризированная полиглотом доктором Александром Аргуэльесом. Метод прост, но эффективен: вы слушаете аудио на английском от носителей языка и немедленно повторяете вслух — как тень, следующая за говорящим с задержкой в 1–2 секунды. В отличие от пассивного прослушивания или грамматических упражнений, Shadowing заставляет мозг и мышцы рта одновременно обрабатывать и воспроизводить реальные речевые паттерны. Исследования показывают, что это значительно улучшает точность произношения, интонацию, ритм, связную речь, понимание на слух и беглость речи — что делает его одним из самых эффективных методов для подготовки к IELTS Speaking и реального общения на английском.

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