ฝึกพูดภาษาอังกฤษด้วยเทคนิค Shadowing จากวิดีโอ: Active Listening Skills

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We're going to talk about active listening skills.
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So let's get into the details.
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Hey there, I'm Alex Lyon, and I actually have a one hour course on effective listening skills for leaders.
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I will tell you more about that at the end of the video.
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So listening is so important because good listening is probably the easiest way to connect with other people and build relationships.
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Active listening is the opposite of passive listening.
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And you have probably experienced this.
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The person you're talking to might technically be hearing some of what you're saying, but they are tuned out,
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they're on autopilot, and they're just not mentally engaged with what you're saying.
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And as the speaker, this can be very dissatisfying, very discouraging, when people really aren't paying attention to us.
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Like, why am I even talking in the first place?
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but active listening looks, sounds, and feels obvious.
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Active listening means listening completely.
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But before anybody does that well, there are two secrets, two prerequisites to active listening.
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Number one, you have to commit.
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You have to put aside whatever else might be distracting you and make listening a real priority.
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Good listening is first and foremost a choice that you make every time somebody speaks.
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Number two, it takes practice.
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Like any skill, you have to work at it.
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The good news is that listening is not mysterious or complicated, so let's talk about four qualities of active listening that you can put into practice.
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First, active listening involves nonverbal communication.
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And there are two sides to this.
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On the one hand, you're demonstrating that you're engaged in paying attention nonverbally.
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You put your devices completely away, you make eye contact, Your body posture is open and oriented toward the other person.
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Now on the other side, you're also noticing the speaker's nonverbal cues.
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There's an expression, you listen with your eyes.
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And part of that means you're noticing what's happening with the person visually on their mood or their emotion that they're showing.
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Do they look nervous, frustrated, annoyed?
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You can pick up on that by actively observing their nonverbal communication.
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Second, active listening involves verbal communication.
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Again, there are two sides to this.
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The most obvious part is asking good questions.
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Probably the most common pattern that good listeners demonstrate is
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that they ask a good question and then they let the speaker fully answer it.
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Like a good mental health therapist will ask thoughtful questions and then stop talking for a while and let the client speak.
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Honestly, what we're paying for in many cases It's just somebody to listen carefully to us.
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So a good question is a huge part of the listening pie.
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And the other part of verbal communication is those small utterances that show the other person that we're following them like, I hear you, yeah, that makes sense.
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Sometimes it's not even full words, it might just be, hmm, ah.
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Those little utterances keep us engaged and show the other person that we're following.
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Third, active listening involves responding to what somebody just said.
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So the pattern goes like this, You ask a question, they respond for however long that takes, and at the end of that talking turn,
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you give an informed response to them.
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So let's say you just ask a person what they've been up to lately.
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That's your question.
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And in their talking turn, they tell you that they have been doing diving lately.
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So you actively listen for a while while they're talking.
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At the end of their talking turn, it's your turn again, and this is where you show that you were actively following along and were interested in what they were saying.
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And you can do this by reflecting back what you just heard.
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You might say something like, wow, that sounds like an exciting sport.
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That's really cool that you're doing that.
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Or you could ask another follow-up question.
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I had no idea that you were into diving.
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How did you first get into that?
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Of course, you could do a little bit of both, like I just did.
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You could make an informed, reflective statement and then ask a follow-up question.
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The key is to respond to what they have just been saying.
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What you don't wanna do is just look at them blankly and not react when they're done talking.
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And you've probably had somebody do this to you.
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You tell them about part of your day or something about your life and they don't react.
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They just have this stone face.
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That's not active listening.
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If you want a gold star for active listening, then you have to respond to what they just said.
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Fourth, keep the focus on them and let them talk.
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Now this one might seem obvious because you're listening, but when you decide to go into that listening mode,
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just make a decision that this is gonna be all about the other person talking and not about you.
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Resist that temptation to jump in with your own story or to change the subject to your favorite topic.
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Keep your talking turns and questions concise, and then stick to whatever topic they're interested in.
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Now eventually, once they've done plenty of talking, there will usually be an opportunity later in the conversation for you to share your experiences.
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But my rule of thumb is to dedicate at least the first half of the conversation to a pure active listening.
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So I hope these four tips help you listen completely in your next conversation.
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Question of the day, which one of these tips do you need the most work on?
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I would love to read what you have to say below in that comment section.
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And I do have two follow-up videos on listening coming soon, on comprehensive listening and empathetic listening.
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And I'll link to those in the description below once they are posted.
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And I also have a one-hour course on effective listening skills for leaders.
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You can find out more about that by following the link in the description below the video, and you can find out all the details by following that link.
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So thanks, God bless, and I'll see you in the next video.
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คำศัพท์และข้อสังเกตด้านการพูดสำหรับบทเรียนนี้

วิดีโอนี้มี 78 ประโยค และ 1047 คำ สำหรับฝึกพูดตาม ช่วงที่มีเสียงพูดยาว 6:12 ผู้พูดพูดด้วยความเร็วเป็นธรรมชาติ ประมาณ 169 คำต่อนาที ใกล้เคียงกับบทสนทนาในชีวิตประจำวัน 90% ของคำอยู่ใน 3,000 คำที่ใช้บ่อยที่สุดในภาษาอังกฤษ คำศัพท์จึงตามได้ง่าย

คำศัพท์สำคัญในวิดีโอนี้

คำที่ควรเรียนรู้ 15 คำจากวิดีโอ พร้อมคำอ่านและความหมาย:

คำศัพท์คำอ่านความหมาย
topic คำนาม/ˈtɑpɪk/หัวข้อ, กระทู้
demonstrate คำกริยา/ˈdɛm.ənˌstɹeɪt/สาธิต
inform คำกริยา/ɪnˈfɔɹm/แจ้ง, บอก
dive คำกริยา/daɪv/ดำ
complicated คำคุณศัพท์/ˈkɑm.plɪˌkeɪ.tɪd/ซับซ้อน
mood คำนาม/muːd/อารมณ์, ใจ
priority คำนาม/pɹaɪˈɒɹɪti/สิทธิไปก่อน, ความสำคัญ
reflect คำกริยา/ɹɪˈflɛkt/สะท้อน
connect คำกริยา/kəˈnɛkt/เชื่อม, ต่อ
comprehensive คำคุณศัพท์/ˌkɑm.pɹəˈhɛn.sɪv/รอบด้าน
tune คำนาม/tjuːn/ทำนอง
resist คำกริยา/ɹɪˈzɪst/ต้าน, ต่อต้าน
emotion คำนาม/ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/อารมณ์
mysterious คำคุณศัพท์/mɪˈstɪɹi.əs/ลี้ลับ
technically คำกริยาวิเศษณ์/ˈtɛk.nɪˌkəl.i/วิชาการ

ไวยากรณ์ในวิดีโอนี้

โครงสร้างที่ผู้พูดใช้บ่อยที่สุด พร้อมคำพูดจริงจากวิดีโอ:

โครงสร้างในวิดีโอ
Present perfect continuous have/has been + -ing — การกระทำที่เริ่มก่อนหน้านี้และยังดำเนินอยู่have been doing · have just been saying
Present perfect have/has + กริยาช่อง 3 — เหตุการณ์ในอดีตที่ยังเกี่ยวข้องกับปัจจุบันhave probably experienced · they've been · they've done
Passive voice be + กริยาช่อง 3 — เน้นสิ่งที่เกิดขึ้น ไม่ใช่ผู้กระทำare tuned · are posted

การออกเสียงที่ควรระวัง

ผู้พูดใช้รูปย่อและรูปลดเสียง 30 ครั้ง เช่น you're, they're, we're ให้พูดแบบสั้นตามที่ได้ยิน

  • เสียง “th”: thumb /ˈθʌm/, therapist /ˈθɛɹəpɪst/, thoughtful /ˈθɔːtfəl/, empathetic /ˌɛmpəˈθɛtɪk/
  • เสียง “sh” และ “zh”: emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/, temptation /ˌtɛmpˈteɪʃən/
  • คำยาว — ลงเสียงหนักให้ถูกพยางค์: complicated /ˈkɑm.plɪˌkeɪ.tɪd/, priority /pɹaɪˈɒɹɪti/, comprehensive /ˌkɑm.pɹəˈhɛn.sɪv/, mysterious /mɪˈstɪɹi.əs/, technically /ˈtɛk.nɪˌkəl.i/

วิธีฝึกกับวิดีโอนี้

  1. ฟังวิดีโอให้จบหนึ่งรอบโดยยังไม่ต้องพูด แล้วจดคำที่ยังไม่รู้จัก
  2. เริ่มที่ความเร็ว 0.75× พูดตามทีละประโยค แล้วกลับไปใช้ความเร็วปกติเมื่อเริ่มคล่อง
  3. อัดเสียงตัวเองแล้วเทียบกับต้นฉบับ โดยสังเกตคำอย่าง topic, demonstrate, inform เป็นพิเศษ

เทคนิค Shadowing คืออะไร?

Shadowing เป็นเทคนิคการเรียนรู้ภาษาที่ได้รับการรับรองทางวิทยาศาสตร์ พัฒนาขึ้นสำหรับการฝึกนักแปลมืออาชีพ วิธีการนี้เรียบง่ายแต่ทรงพลัง: คุณฟังเสียงภาษาอังกฤษจากเจ้าของภาษาและพูดตามทันที — เหมือนเงาที่ตามผู้พูดด้วยช่วงเวลาห่าง 1-2 วินาที การวิจัยแสดงว่าเทคนิคนี้ปรับปรุงความแม่นยำในการออกเสียง ทำนองเสียง จังหวะ การเชื่อมเสียง การฟังเข้าใจ และความคล่องแคล่วในการพูดได้อย่างมีนัยสำคัญ

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