ฝึกพูดภาษาอังกฤษด้วยเทคนิค Shadowing จากวิดีโอ: Small Talk Success: A Simple Trick to Go From Awkward 😬 To Brilliant 😎
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Let's talk about small talk.
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If you're the kind of person who starts sweating as soon as the Zoom call starts
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and not everyone has joined just yet, and you need to make a little bit of a conversation and that stresses you out.
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So, Jane, my manager, will join us in a sec.
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Okay?
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Okay.
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Mm-hmm.
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Or if you are at an event and the moment they give you a break, you run outside to buy coffee,
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trying not to bump into anyone so you wouldn't have to talk to them.
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Then this, my friend, is for you.
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Before you even begin, let me know in the comments below, how do you feel about small talk?
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So, let's use a scale.
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Put a number between 1 to 10 in the comments, where 1 is, I hate small talk.
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It's horrible.
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It's a horrible experience for me.
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And 10 is I'm a small talk master.
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Yeah, baby.
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So, let me know, put your number down and let's get started with the video.
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If you are new to my channel, welcome.
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And this is the place for you if you want to speak English with confidence, fluency, and freedom.
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And if you like this video, consider subscribing.
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Back to small talk.
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Now, why is small talk so freaking scary?
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As a speaker of English as a second language, you probably experience some sort of self-judgment anyway when speaking English.
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And that has to do with the fact
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that you simply don't feel like you can express yourself in
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English the same way you can express yourself in your native language.
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And you feel that gap when communicating with people, especially with new people.
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When there is this new interaction with another human being, we are afraid of being judged and we want to be okay.
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And sometimes you don't know exactly what to say and how to interact.
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And we're afraid of those silent moments.
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And we're afraid of making mistakes and
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that people are not going to get who we are because we wouldn't be able to express ourselves fully because of English.
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Now, even native speakers or even small talk in your native language might be intimidating.
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So I believe that it's that initial interaction that we know is important and we have to do it, but we don't know exactly how to do it successfully.
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Especially if you're an introvert and all you want to do is just speak to your computer.
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I just felt so incredibly alone.
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You were right there next to me and you didn't say a word.
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Nothing.
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Also in American English and American culture, small talk is really valued.
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And for people who don't share the same cultural values,
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it might seem a little weird to talk about the weather or the commute when we're here to talk about something else.
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And if you don't share the same culture, small talk might come across as a burden, not necessarily because of English, but because you don't see the point in it.
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So when we want to talk about small talk and how to become better at small talk, it's important to discuss it within the cultural context.
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In American culture, small talk, which is this informal back and forth conversation about something that is not related to anything specific,
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especially if you're about to start a meeting.
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So it's not related to the content of the meeting.
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It's really important to establish trust and to start building a relationship.
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And this is why it is important to understand how to manage it and how to master it,
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even if you don't passionately feel that it's important for connection and communication.
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Now, if you are afraid speaking English, then let me tell you this.
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When you interact with someone, be it a native speaker or a non-native speaker,
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people are usually not obsessed or they usually don't pay attention with what you say.
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Especially when you're first meeting with them and you're having this initial interaction,
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because people want to have a healthy conversation and usually what they're concerned about is themselves.
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So usually what goes inside a person's head is not, ooh, they used have worked instead of worked.
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But okay, so what can I answer her or him?
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So the conversation will keep on flowing and rolling.
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Now, if you want to become more successful at small talk, then here are a few tips that are definitely going to help you do that as of this moment.
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The one thing that has incredibly helped me overcome my fear of small talk was to make it about the other person.
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This is the best advice that I can give you.
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It is not about you.
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Again, it is not about your mistakes.
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It is not about your English.
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It is not about how smart you are.
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It is about the other person.
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And the one value that will keep you in the right direction is curiosity.
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Be genuinely curious about the other person.
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A lot of times people think that, ooh, small talk is so superficial and artificial.
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Not if you make it about them and not if you're genuinely curious about the other person.
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And in a sec, I'm going to give you a few tips on how exactly to do that.
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And a few very technical, simple tips that you are going to love, I guarantee.
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So first of all, when you make it about the other person, you have less self-judgment, which is very freeing.
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And when you have less self-judgment, then you're more fluent.
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Because judgment takes up a lot of space in our head.
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And that prevents the words from becoming available and clear.
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And everything is less smooth and more stuck, which we don't want.
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So let go of self-judgment, make it about them.
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Also approach the other person with respect.
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Respect for their privacy.
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So no weird questions like, how much do you make?
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Or how much rent do you pay here?
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Or do you have any kids?
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And yes, when people come from a culture where family is one of the cultural values,
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it sounds strange not to talk about family or children, but in some cultures, it is less appropriate.
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People are more personal, individual, and they don't want to talk about whether or not they have kids
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and maybe justify their choice whether or not to have kids at all.
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Right?
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This is not a good topic or a great situation to be in when you are just introduced to someone.
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And also I would avoid controversial topics, religion, politics.
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sex, like keep it for later.
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Okay?
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I'm all about talking about controversial topics, especially politics, but not at the beginning because you don't know who the other person is.
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You don't know they might get offended by something that you may say.
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So you want to be respectful of their privacy and of their freedom to lead the conversation.
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Now, let's get practical with a few tips on what you can do to make your conversation very, very successful.
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First, be the leader of the conversation rather than the follower.
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When you lead the conversation, you have more confidence and your entire goal is to get the other person to talk.
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Again, making it about them.
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And how do you do that?
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By asking simple questions that have an open answer.
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So try to avoid yes, no questions.
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Was your flight here okay?
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Mm-hmm.
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Great.
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But instead, ask open questions that are simple.
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So is this your first time here?
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No, actually I've been here before.
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And then you have an opportunity to ask a follow-up question.
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You get an answer that is more than just yes or no. And then you ask something,
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you take one word or an idea that was presented in the answer, and you ask a question about that.
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Oh, cool.
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And how do you like it?
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I love it.
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I mean, the beaches here are beautiful.
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Again, an opportunity to take the answer and turn it into a question.
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Ah, really?
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See, I haven't been to the beaches here just yet.
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Which one's your favorite?
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So I'm responding and coming up with a follow-up question.
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Now, if you get asked a question, even if you get asked a yes, no question, and that is because they haven't watched my video,
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then you might want to elaborate a little more.
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For example, was your flight here okay?
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Yeah, actually it was pretty good.
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I mean, they haven't lost my luggage, which is what they did last time.
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So I think it was okay, right?
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So even if you get asked a question that you can answer with a simple yes or no, try to make it interesting and turn it into another conversation topic.
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If the person in front of you is sensitive, they will take what you said and continue the conversation asking a question about that.
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One more trick that I'm going to share with you is something that I've learned from Chris Voss from his masterclass, Teaching the Art of Negotiation.
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Now, he talks about it in the context of negotiation, but I find it exceptionally useful when used in small talk.
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The first thing is mirroring.
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Mirroring is basically the act of you taking the last part of what the other person has just said
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and repeating it in a form of a question.
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For example, so is this your first time here?
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No, actually I've been here before.
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You've been here before?
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See what I did?
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I took the last part and turned it into a question.
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Yeah, I was at another conference about three years ago.
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Another conference?
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Yeah, it was a conference for female football fans and we discussed the misogyny that women experience in the industry.
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In the industry?
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Well, you see where this is going.
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So the cool thing about it is that the other person usually doesn't notice it because it's part of the conversation.
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So you didn't have to come up with anything here.
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You didn't have to think of no words or what questions to ask.
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You simply take the last part and turn it into a question.
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The other person is going to think that you're super interesting, compassionate, and they're going to want to keep on talking to you.
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Another thing that Chris Voss discusses is labeling.
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Labeling is naming an emotion that someone in front of you is experiencing.
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And the reason why he says it's important to do that is because when you label a negative emotion,
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it automatically reduces the levels of stress simply by naming the emotion that the other person is experiencing.
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Now, to label an emotion is basically to say, it seems to me that you're very upset.
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It feels like you're really frustrated.
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He's not suggesting that you should say something like, you are frustrated or you are upset or you are angry,
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but the way you experience it, it seems to me.
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It feels that.
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Okay?
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Now, instead of labeling an emotion, because this is probably something that you wouldn't want to do in a conversation.
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Oh my God, I love how sunny it is.
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It seems to me that the sun triggers some negative emotions.
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Maybe something that had to do with your childhood?
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Unless it's a positive emotion.
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You seem very happy to be here, right?
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But you could say something about the other person.
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For example, going back to the original conversation.
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So is this your first time here?
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No, actually I've been here before.
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Oh, cool.
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And how do you like it?
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I love it.
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I mean, the beaches here are beautiful.
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Ah, really?
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See, I haven't been to the beaches here just yet.
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Which one's your favorite?
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You've got to go check out the Southern Shore.
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I mean, it is so beautiful and usually there's no one there.
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Okay, maybe I'll check it out.
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Seems to me like you're a summer person.
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So I put a label on this person's experience.
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Now, whether I'm right or not, it doesn't really matter as long as I keep it positive and fun,
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it will encourage the other person to speak a little bit more and to get in the conversation.
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Whether it would be, I'm a totally summer person.
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I mean, for me, vacation is lying on the beach drinking margaritas.
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Or, no, no, no, no, no, I'm a winter person.
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I mean, I was born in Alaska, right?
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For me, snow is life.
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Again, a trigger to continue the conversation.
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Okay, that's it for today.
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I mean, there's plenty more we can talk about, but for now, I think that is more than enough for you to get started
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and start having these awesome conversations out there.
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Now, I have two questions for you
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and I'd love for you to answer them in the comments so we can start a conversation.
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The first is, what has helped you so far in small talk and informal conversations?
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If you had to overcome a challenge, share it with us and share with us what has helped you.
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And the second one, what is one thing
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that you're going to take from this conversation and put it to use as of today?
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If you liked this video and you'd like to learn more
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and understand how you too can become confident and clear when speaking English, I invite you to comment over to my website
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because it has a lot of great resources for you for free that you can put to use.
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It's very practical and it will help you get results immediately.
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Also, comment over to Instagram because that's where I get more personal and share with you stuff that I only share there.
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Have a beautiful, beautiful week and I will see you next week in the next video.
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Bye!
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I mean, I thought that it was really, really not cool the way...
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Please don't!
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Love, that was a muck example.
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Is this your first time here?
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No, actually I've been here before. Is this your...
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Is this your first time here?
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ทำไมการฝึกพูดกับวิดีโอนี้ถึงสำคัญ?
การฝึกพูดภาษาอังกฤษเป็นเรื่องที่ท้าทาย โดยเฉพาะเมื่อคุณต้องเผชิญหน้ากับการสนทนาเล็ก ๆ น้อย ๆ ที่มักทำให้รู้สึกไม่สบายใจในสถานการณ์ต่าง ๆ เช่น การประชุมออนไลน์หรือการเข้าร่วมงานอีเวนต์ ในวิดีโอนี้ เราจะได้เห็นว่าการสนทนาเล็ก ๆ น้อย ๆ เป็นสิ่งสำคัญต่อการสร้างความไว้วางใจและความสัมพันธ์กับผู้อื่น การฝึกพูดภาษาอังกฤษโดยใช้วิดีโอจะช่วยให้คุณมีความมั่นใจในการสื่อสารและสามารถปรับปรุงการออกเสียงภาษาอังกฤษได้อย่างมีประสิทธิภาพ
ไวยากรณ์และสำนวนในบริบท
ในวิดีโอนี้มีการใช้โครงสร้างประโยคและสำนวนที่ช่วยให้การสนทนาดูธรรมชาติมากขึ้น ตัวอย่างที่น่าสนใจได้แก่:
- "Let's talk about small talk." - การเริ่มต้นสนทนาโดยการแนะนำหัวข้อที่คุณต้องการพูดถึง
- "How do you feel about small talk?" - การตั้งคำถามเพื่อกระตุ้นให้เกิดการสนทนา
- "It's important to establish trust." - การพูดถึงความสำคัญของการสร้างความไว้วางใจในการสื่อสาร
การใช้โครงสร้างเหล่านี้จะช่วยให้คุณเข้าใจวิธีการสร้างประโยคที่เหมาะสมในการสนทนาและทำให้การพูดเป็นเรื่องที่ง่ายขึ้น
กับดักการออกเสียงที่พบบ่อย
การพูดภาษาอังกฤษมีเสียงที่แตกต่างจากภาษาไทย ซึ่งอาจทำให้เกิดความสับสนเกี่ยวกับการออกเสียง คำที่มีแนวโน้มจะทำให้ผู้เรียนสับสนได้แก่:
- “small talk” - คำนี้มีการออกเสียงที่ต้องระมัดระวัง เนื่องจากเสียง "l" และ "t" อาจเกิดความสับสนได้
- “establish” - เสียง "th" ในคำนี้อาจทำให้ผู้เรียนรู้สึกท้าทายในการออกเสียง
การปรับปรุงการออกเสียงภาษาอังกฤษสามารถทำได้โดยการฝึกทำตามเสียงในวิดีโอผ่านการ ชาโดว์อิ้งภาษาอังกฤษ หรือการทำซ้ำตามเสียงที่ได้ยิน เพื่อให้เกิดความคุ้นเคยและพัฒนาไปในทิศทางที่ถูกต้อง
ไวยากรณ์ในวิดีโอนี้
โครงสร้างที่ผู้พูดใช้บ่อยที่สุด พร้อมคำพูดจริงจากวิดีโอ:
| โครงสร้าง | ในวิดีโอ |
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| Present perfect have/has + กริยาช่อง 3 — เหตุการณ์ในอดีตที่ยังเกี่ยวข้องกับปัจจุบัน | has joined · have worked · I've been |
| Passive voice be + กริยาช่อง 3 — เน้นสิ่งที่เกิดขึ้น ไม่ใช่ผู้กระทำ | being judged · is really valued · are just introduced |
| Relative clauses who / which + อนุประโยค — ข้อมูลเพิ่มเติมเกี่ยวกับคนหรือสิ่งของ | person who starts · people who don · talk, which is |
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Shadowing เป็นเทคนิคการเรียนรู้ภาษาที่ได้รับการรับรองทางวิทยาศาสตร์ พัฒนาขึ้นสำหรับการฝึกนักแปลมืออาชีพ วิธีการนี้เรียบง่ายแต่ทรงพลัง: คุณฟังเสียงภาษาอังกฤษจากเจ้าของภาษาและพูดตามทันที — เหมือนเงาที่ตามผู้พูดด้วยช่วงเวลาห่าง 1-2 วินาที การวิจัยแสดงว่าเทคนิคนี้ปรับปรุงความแม่นยำในการออกเสียง ทำนองเสียง จังหวะ การเชื่อมเสียง การฟังเข้าใจ และความคล่องแคล่วในการพูดได้อย่างมีนัยสำคัญ