Shadowing Practice: How to Lock In and Transform Your Life (using science) - Learn English Speaking with Video
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The difference between people who actually achieve their goals and those who don't isn't discipline.
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It's actually about building strategic systems and identities that make success inevitable.
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And we are not in the business of waiting for the
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arbitrary start date of the new year to start working on our goals and creating our dream life.
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If you're a bit like me and determined to make the most of the rest of the year,
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kickstart your lock-in and comeback season,
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and emerge on the very first day of the new year as the best version that you can be,
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then I made this video for you.
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I'll walk you through a complete lock-in system with three tried
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and tested evidence-backed levers that you can pull to build your dream life before the end of the year.
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Five months ago, I had a baby and completely paused on every single goal that I'd set for myself,
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which was exactly what I needed to do for that season.
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But now I'm coming back into the arena and as we approach the end of the year,
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I've realized that I have a choice.
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Either coast into the new year and change nothing
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or commit to transformation right now and step into the new year with my best foot already forward.
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And one of the most valuable lessons I've learned is that ultimately in life,
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you choose your hard.
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Building a fit, healthy body by sleeping,
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exercising, and eating right is hard.
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Being unfit, unhealthy, and feeling limited by your physical body is also hard.
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So if you're ready to make a change starting from today,
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then keep watching this video.
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If you're new here, my name's Izzy.
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I'm a mum, tech co-founder, and Cambridge trained doctor.
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And right now, I'm on a mission to help you create your dream life.
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So without further ado, let's dive in.
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Also, I've created a completely free companion for this video,
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which is the Great Lock-In Starter Pack,
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which has all my favourite resources and some AI prompts
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that I've designed to help to guide you through getting momentum
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as you get off the ground with setting your goals and really committing to them.
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If you'd like to check it out,
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I'll leave a link down below.
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So what is a lock-in?
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A lock-in isn't just about working harder,
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it's also about working smarter by pulling the right levers intentionally until progress becomes unavoidable.
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The first lever is the focus lever.
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The sun's rays do not burn until brought to a focus.
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This is a quote by Alexander Graham Bell,
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which is absolutely so resonant for this focus lever.
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Because focus is the starting point of every lock-in.
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It's about deciding what truly matters this season and actively releasing what doesn't.
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There are two parts to this lever.
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Firstly is the visualization.
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Visualize yourself at the end of the year.
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Where do you want to be?
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I recommend thinking about this in four key areas,
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which are health, relationships, career slash finances, and growth.
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And so the way that I like to think about this is write out everything
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that you think could maybe be on that list.
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In the health category, I usually break this down into sleep,
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nutrition, movement, mind, and beauty.
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So think about each of these areas of your health
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and consider is there anything you'd like to add or remove from them.
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And I intentionally mention remove here
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because part of locking in is really focusing the raise of our attention onto a couple of key things that really matter.
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And so actually making sure that we can constantly prune things out of our lives,
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whether that's possessions or habits that are no longer serving us,
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or even relationships that are really no longer contributing positively to our lives,
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then once you've got your long list of all the things that you kind of want to do,
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it's time to eliminate and select.
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Psychological studies have found that we are most likely to succeed at a goal
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when we are focusing on just one key goal.
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This doesn't mean that you only have to choose one goal,
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but what it does mean is that you shouldn't choose 20 goals.
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You should choose as few goals as possible.
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And so I personally like to cap this at maximum three goals that I'm really focusing all my energy on.
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So have a look at your long list
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and then choose only the top one to three goals to only go all in on for the great lock-in.
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This doesn't mean that we completely abandon everything else,
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but it means you don't focus on them because every single morning
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when we wake up and every single night when we go to sleep,
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we want to be thinking about striving towards our chosen goals.
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People think focus means saying yes to the thing that you've got to focus on,
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but that's not what it means at all.
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It means saying no to the hundred other good ideas that there are.
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So what feels most alive for you right now?
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What one change, if you successfully executed on,
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would have the most positive impact on your life?
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And you'd look back and think,
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wow, I'm really proud of myself.
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So here's where most people get stuck.
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They genuinely don't know where to start.
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And I've realized that there are kind of two camps here.
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So some of you will have this massive,
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overwhelming list of goals, as in everything feels important and you don't know what to cut out and what to prioritize.
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And then maybe others would literally be looking at a blank page thinking,
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I don't even know what my goal should be.
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I don't know where to begin.
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And so one really helpful thinking tool is using AI tools to help you to unpick your own thinking
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and figure out your answers to these questions.
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And so at this point in my lock-in journey,
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I turned to Claude, which I've been using for just over a year now,
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built by Anthropic, who are very kindly sponsoring this video,
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which kind of blows my mind because I've literally been using and loving Claude over the last year.
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So this is how I used it to help me to navigate my own mind and figure out my own priorities.
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It didn't just give me a template or tell me what to do.
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It actually just asked me lots of questions that made me think differently about my own goals.
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So I had this long list,
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like 15, 20 goals, and everything felt kind of important.
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And so I basically popped the whole thing into Claude and I said,
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look, I've got all these ideas and they all feel quite important to me.
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And can you help to act as my life coach and ask me further clarifying questions to figure out my priorities,
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to focus on really locking in on and making progress on.
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And what Claude did is ask me follow-up questions that made me think differently.
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Things like, which of these goals am I pursuing because I genuinely want them versus I think I should want them?
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Or if I could succeed at only one thing this year,
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which one would actually create the most meaningful change?
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But what if you're on the flip side and you're not even sure what your goals should be?
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So in case any of you are in that camp,
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I actually tested out Claude to see if it could help with this use case.
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And I opened up a new conversation and said,
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I want to lock in and make progress towards something,
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but I'm staring at a blank page and I don't know what to work on.
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I know I want to improve my life,
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but I don't know what to focus on.
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So how should I even start figuring out what my goals should be?
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Please act as my life coach and ask me questions that will help me find my own answers.
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And the key thing here is Claude didn't make my decisions for me.
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It just helped me to think more clearly
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and ask the questions I wasn't asking myself
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and challenging my thinking in areas that I wasn't necessarily aware that I was missing something.
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Because at the end of the day,
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it's not about getting quick answers to something.
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It's actually about having a thinking buddy that helps you to find your own answers.
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And once I'd actually selected the goals I wanted to focus on,
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Claude was really helpful in actually elaborating on a systematic plan of how to get there using an evidence-based framework,
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which I had shared with Claude that I wanted to use.
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I've put together a bunch of free prompts in the lock-in starter pack
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that you can copy and paste into Claude to try it out yourself.
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If you're interested in trying out Claude,
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then I've popped a link down in the description below.
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Once we have clarity on the goals that we're focusing on,
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the next lever is the identity lever.
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And this is about becoming the person who achieves these goals.
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Every action you take is a vote for the person you wish to become.
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The identity lever is about shifting from behavior level change,
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which is, I should work out,
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to identity level change, which is,
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I'm someone who moves every day.
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Because once you know what you want,
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you need to decide who you need to be in order to get there.
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Identity level change is less about forcing discipline and more about aligning your self image with your goal.
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So what I suggest here is visualizing yourself at the end of your lock-in.
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Step into the version of you who has achieved the goals that you want to work on.
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Take a deep breath, maybe close your eyes and imagine,
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okay, what does this version of me think, act, choose?
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What do they believe about themselves?
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What are the narratives that she says to herself?
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And then for each goal,
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come up with some kind of identity.
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So for example, for me,
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one of my goals is to sleep earlier and have a fixed consistent bedtime.
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So my task here is to switch the narrative from,
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I should sleep early, sounds so boring,
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to instead, I'm a person who has early nights.
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And immediately, even just saying this out loud,
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I feel this sigh of relief.
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This feels much more spacious,
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much more aspirational, much more relaxed and enjoyable.
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The third lever to make the most of your great lock-in is the systems lever.
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The foundation of this lever is that design beats discipline.
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The system lever is about architecture.
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It's not about willpower.
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And there are three subsections to this, keystone, friction, and implementation.
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A keystone habit is the anchor of your lock-in.
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It's the one daily or weekly behavior that transforms everything else and has a domino effect on the rest of your life.
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For me, one great example is something in the health category,
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which is sleep,
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which is a big reason why sleep is one of my three top goals to focus on during this lock-in.
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Because as soon as I've slept well,
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I have more energy, I'm more creative,
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I'm more likely to feel excited to create YouTube videos or to work on my business.
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I'm more likely to be able to show up as my best self for my baby
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and my husband and pour in all the love and care that my family deserves.
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And I'm also much more likely to be able to show up for myself and take care of myself,
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whether that's showing up for my daily exercise or my skincare
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or taking all the supplements that I've planned out or making sure that I'm eating healthy meals.
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The second part of the systems lever is friction.
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And this is all about your environment.
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Your environment becomes your silent accountability partner.
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So it's crucial that you design your environment,
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schedule and queues so that your lock-in habits become the path of least resistance.
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Kind of like water flowing down a mountain,
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it follows the easiest path and the way that we do this is by either adding or removing friction.
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So for habits and actions that we want to encourage,
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we want to reduce the friction for those.
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So for example if you want to go to the gym first thing in the morning,
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maybe lay out your gym clothes the night before.
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Or if I want to journal every day,
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I put my journal on my desk every single day.
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Or for example if I want to make sure that I I drink a whole bottle of water,
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first thing as soon as I wake up,
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I can make sure that I always have my water bottle topped up,
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ready by my bedside.
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So as soon as I wake up in the morning,
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my bottle's already there.
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This also means adding friction to things that are distractions that we want to avoid.
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Examples of this include if you have a snacking habit,
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putting the snacks far out of reach rather than making them obvious on the table,
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or deleting apps which are distracting or lead you to doom scrolls such as Instagram.
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It also means automating whatever you can.
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So for example, when I was working on investing as one of my goals,
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one thing that I did was set up automatic investment.
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This was while I was working as a doctor.
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So every month when I got my paycheck,
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I would automatically set up a direct transfer to my investment account.
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And then in my investment account,
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I had set up an automatic investment in a basket of ETFs.
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So specific funds that I wanted to invest in every single month.
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And this would all happen automatically,
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which meant that my investment was so seamless and completely had no friction once I'd set up this system.
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The third part of the systems lever is implementation.
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And this is all about implementation intentions,
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where you translate your goals into daily and weekly anchors.
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So you define when, where,
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and how you're gonna do all of the things that are gonna get you towards your goal.
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These have been proven across multiple studies to massively increase the likelihood
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that you're actually going to take action and make it happen.
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For example, if one of your goals is to meditate every day,
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then your implementation intention could be,
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when I wake up after I've brushed my teeth and done my skincare,
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I sit on my bed and meditate using a timer for 15 minutes.
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This works by reducing cognitive load because you've already made the decisions about how you're going to make all these things happen.
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So those are the three most powerful levers
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that I've found to really lock in your goals and make meaningful progress before the end of the year.
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And one thing I think about a lot is when watching personal development content like this on YouTube,
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it's easy to just watch the content and not actually take any action in our lives.
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And so right now, right here,
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before you click off this video,
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maybe even pause the video for a second,
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think of two action points that you're taking away from this video and that you're actually going to make happen.
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Feel free to either comment them below,
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send them to me as an email,
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or just like write a note to yourself somewhere in your journal or like message it to a friend.
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Because the most important thing is that you actually take action having watched this.
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Because my deepest wish for you is that you watch these videos
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and you actually take action to improve your life and move closer towards building the life of your dreams.
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If you enjoy this video,
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I think you would like this one over here where I talk about key habits
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that can help you to level up and become the best version of yourself.
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So check that out over there.
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As always, thank you for watching,
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take care of yourself and remember that the journey is the destination.
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I'll see you in the next video.
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Bye!
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Bu dersin kelimeleri ve konuşma notları
Bu B2 seviyesindeki konuşma dersi “How to Lock In and Transform Your Life” videosuna dayanıyor. En çok tekrarlanan kelimeler: goal, lever, lock, focus. Bu videoda gölgeleme çalışması için 247 cümle ve 2743 kelime var. Konuşma bölümü 12:14 sürüyor. Konuşmacı hızlı konuşuyor, dakikada yaklaşık 224 kelime; bu yüzden birbirine bağlanan ve zayıflayan sesler duyacaksınız. Kelimelerin %86’i İngilizcede en sık kullanılan 3.000 kelime arasında; geri kalanına başlamadan önce bakmakta fayda var.
Bu videodaki önemli kelimeler
Videodaki en ileri düzey 15 kelime, telaffuzu ve anlamıyla:
| Kelime | Telaffuz | Anlam |
|---|---|---|
| lever isim | /ˈliː.və/ | kaldıraç |
| friction isim | /ˈfɹɪkʃən/ | sürtünme |
| meditate fiil | /ˈmɛ.dɪˌteɪt/ | meditasyon yapmak |
| skincare isim | /ˈskɪn.kɛɹ/ | cilt bakımı |
| visualize fiil | /ˈvɪʒuəˌlaɪz/ | tasavvur etmek |
| intentionally zarf | /ɪnˈtɛn(t)ʃənəli/ | kasten, kasıtlıca |
| snack isim | /snæk/ | atıştırmalık, çerez |
| pause isim | /pɔːz/ | mola, teneffüs |
| anchor isim | /ˈæŋ.kəː/ | çıpa, demir |
| meaningful sıfat | /ˈmiː.nɪŋ.fl̩/ | anlamlı, manalı |
| prioritize fiil | /pɹaɪˈɒɹ.ə.taɪz/ | önceliklendirmek |
| seamless sıfat | dikişsiz | |
| spacious sıfat | /ˈspeɪʃ.əs/ | geniş, engin |
| subsection isim | alt bölüm, alt kesim | |
| bedtime isim | /ˈbɛdtaɪm/ | uyku vakti, yatma vakti |
Duyacağınız deyimsel fiiller
| Kelime | Telaffuz | Anlam |
|---|---|---|
| figure out fiil | açığa çıkarmak | |
| wake up fiil | /ˌweɪk ˈʌp/ | uyanmak |
| get off fiil | inmek | |
| put together fiil | birleştirmek, bir araya getirmek | |
| show up fiil | ortaya çıkmak |
Tekrar etmeye değer cümleler
Videodan, günlük konuşmada yeniden kullanabileceğiniz kısa ve tam cümleler:
- I've realized that I have a choice.
- I'll leave a link down below.
- Where do you want to be?
- I don't even know what my goal should be.
- I don't know where to begin.
Bu videodaki dil bilgisi
Konuşmacının en çok kullandığı yapılar, videodaki sözcüklerin aynısıyla:
| Yapı | Videoda |
|---|---|
| Present perfect have/has + fiilin üçüncü hâli — geçmişte olan ama şimdi de önemli olan bir eylem | I've realized · I've learned · I've created |
| İlgi cümlecikleri who / which + cümle — bir kişi ya da şey hakkında ek bilgi | people who actually · person who achieves · change, which is |
| Edilgen yapı be + fiilin üçüncü hâli — kimin yaptığı değil, ne olduğu önemli | was set · have been proven |
Dikkat edilecek telaffuzlar
Konuşmacı I've, I'm, you're gibi kısaltılmış biçimleri 71 kez kullanıyor. Bunları duyduğunuz gibi kısa söyleyin.
- “sh” ve “zh” sesleri: friction /ˈfɹɪkʃən/, visualize /ˈvɪʒuəˌlaɪz/, intentionally /ɪnˈtɛn(t)ʃənəli/, aspirational /ˌæspəˈɹeɪʃənəl/, spacious /ˈspeɪʃ.əs/
- Uzun kelimeler — vurguyu doğru yere koyun: intentionally /ɪnˈtɛn(t)ʃənəli/, genuinely /ˈd͡ʒɛn.ju.ɪn.li/, aspirational /ˌæspəˈɹeɪʃənəl/, prioritize /pɹaɪˈɒɹ.ə.taɪz/, unavoidable /ˌʌnəˈvɔɪdəbəl/
Bu videoyla nasıl çalışılır
- Videonun tamamını konuşmadan bir kez dinleyin ve bilmediğiniz kelimeleri not edin.
- 0,75× hızla başlayın, cümle cümle tekrar edin ve kolaylaşınca normal hıza dönün.
- Kendinizi kaydedin ve orijinaliyle karşılaştırın; lever, friction, meditate gibi kelimelere özellikle dikkat edin.
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