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Here's the truth, you've been showing up as a version of yourself that you're no longer aligned with,
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and it's time to change that.
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This is not just a reset video,
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this is you actually starting over.
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Not just because you want to,
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but because you feel like you need to.
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And somewhere along the way,
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you lost track of yourself,
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your habits, your energy, even your confidence.
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The way you've been showing up is not how you want to move in this next season.
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So today is the beginning of something new.
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If you've been feeling behind,
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stuck, or even just not like yourself lately,
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just know that you're not alone.
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This video is for anyone who needs a fresh start,
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mentally, physically, emotionally, all of the above.
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Let's talk about what it really takes to start over and how you're going to do that step by step.
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As you get older, you're going to experience the art of starting over multiple times.
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Whether that's in relationships, friendships,
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career, environment, you're going to start over.
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life ebbs and flows and you're thrown different roadblocks,
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you're going to be able to differentiate whether you need to reinvent your life altogether or refine it.
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It's the difference between reinvention and refinement because you can leave a career,
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you can move to a big city,
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but once the novelty of this big city fades,
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you might just find yourself back to where you were a few months ago.
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So that's why it's important to really take the time to understand whether
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your life needs a complete overhaul and reinvention or some fine-tuned tweaks or refinement.
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Let's talk about the two.
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Reinvention is resetting your life.
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It is creating a new version of yourself and your life.
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Refining is simply leveling up.
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You're already on the right path.
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You just need to sharpen it a bit.
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Before we move into reinvention or refinement,
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you need to perform a life audit.
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Look at the four categories of your life,
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career, environment, relationships, habits, and rank them on a scale of one to five.
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One being not so great, five being amazing.
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How do you feel like you're actually performing in each of these areas?
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And if you rank anything under a three,
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you need to explain why you feel that way.
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Now, when you're able to look at your life in this way,
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you're going to be able to identify whether there are certain areas that are trickling into others.
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You might not hate your job.
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Your relationship might be falling apart and that might be trickling into your performance at work.
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Little things like that are really hard to visualize when you're just living through it day by day.
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That's why a life audit is very important.
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If you rank anything about a one or a two,
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you might just need reinvention in that category.
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If you rank anything a three and above,
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you might just need a little refinement and that's great too.
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If you need to refine your life,
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then you should do this.
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Start by identifying the areas in your life that need tightening up in each of these categories.
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When I was a cheer coach,
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I used to have to have these tightening up conversations with my girls because every once in a while,
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our program would start falling apart.
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And this happened multiple times throughout the year.
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I would sit the girls down,
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we'd have a little huddle,
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and I would basically ask them what's going on here.
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I'm having you girls doing this over here,
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teachers are emailing me, some of you are showing up late.
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This is not the program that we've built.
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And we didn't come this far just to come this far and let the whole program burn down to the ground.
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We need to tighten that.
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Each girl would go around and share how they were feeling about the program,
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how they were feeling about their personal life if they felt inclined,
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and what was going on with them overall.
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After they did that, they'd go around
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and speak on what they were going to do to show up as a better teammate,
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as a better athlete, and show up better for themselves in general.
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After that, we would typically be back on the right page because we took the time to audit our lives,
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to talk about what was going on internally
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and why we're not showing up as the best version of ourselves for the people in our lives.
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Nine times out of 10,
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it always resulted in us showing up better the next day.
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You need to do the same for yourself.
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You need to look at yourself in the mirror,
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have a little tough love moment and ask yourself what's going on here.
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This is not the person that you've built up
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and you didn't come this far just to come this far
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and let everything that you've built up to this moment crashed to the ground.
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So let's refine certain areas of our lives.
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Let's refine our habits.
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If I'm not showing up in the best way that I can here,
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this is what I can do to show up better in this area.
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This is what I need to do in this area to show up better.
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And this is what I need to do in this area to show up better.
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You need to identify the areas that need tightening up,
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write it out, and make the change immediately.
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Next, it's important to understand that as the seasons change,
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new normals will arise.
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As you move through your early,
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mid to late 20s, early,
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mid to late 30s, 40s,
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50s, 60s, new seasons come and new normals arise.
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And you need to learn to adjust to these new normals.
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You're not always going to be the same you that you were in your early twenties.
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You're not always going to be the same you that you were in your mid twenties and your late twenties.
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And as you move into these different seasons,
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early thirties, mid thirties, late thirties,
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early forties, life is going to shift around you.
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And you can either catch up or stay behind and stay yearning for what once was.
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It's just a result of not only you getting older,
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but your environment getting older as well.
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You're not always going to feel the same way you felt about your job when you first started it.
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You're not always going to feel the same way about your friendships as they progress.
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But just because they're changing,
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just because the seasons are changing,
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doesn't mean that you no longer want to be friends with the people in your life anymore.
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It doesn't mean that you no longer want to be at your job anymore.
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You're just different.
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Your job just might be different and you just might need to adjust to this new normal.
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I deal with nostalgia pretty heavily.
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I know a lot of millennials do.
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And one thing I've realized when it comes to my friendships is
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that as we're moving through these different seasons of our lives,
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things are just going to change more and more.
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And it doesn't mean that I hate all my friends and that I need to get all new friends.
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It just means that I need to adjust to the changes that are happening and it's bittersweet and it's sad,
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and I'm definitely the type that will bring it up every single time we all hang out,
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but it's just because I'm sad that life is changing.
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And it's also me identifying that we're growing up and
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that how we used to keep up with each other is
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going to have to look a lot different now as we get older.
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I also feel the same way with my job as a creator.
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There are times where I wonder why I don't feel the spark that I did in the beginning often,
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and it's not because I don't love this anymore.
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It's just that I'm in a different season of life.
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I'm different.
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My mindset's different.
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I've matured so much throughout the years.
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I'm not who I was in my mid to late 20s anymore.
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I'm in my early 30s and I value different things now.
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And the way I look at my career as a creator has changed drastically.
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I might be feeling the way I am feeling because I'm not letting myself evolve.
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I'm not letting my channel evolve with who I am today.
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As the seasons change, it's important to realize that new normals are going to arise.
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And with those new normals,
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you need to learn to adjust and realize that you might not need to uproot everything and change things altogether.
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You just might need to adjust.
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And lastly, as you're making these changes during your refinement season,
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it's important to remember to maintain the changes that you've made.
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Okay.
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You can't come this far and see the positive growth
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and see the positive changes in your life just to turn around and take 10 steps back.
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Maintain the habits that you've built so you can actually see lasting change,
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lasting happiness, lasting contentment throughout your journey.
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Look back at your life audit as the weeks go on
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so you can remember how you were feeling just a few weeks ago.
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Check in with yourself as the weeks go on just so you can identify whether or not you're actually experiencing growth.
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If you're in a season of reinvention,
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then you should do this.
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Look at your life audit and figure out the area in your life that needs reinvention.
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You need to figure out everything that you need to do before you perform this overhaul.
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You need to figure out everything that needs to be done after.
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And you need to talk about the things that can actually go wrong.
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Whenever you are in a season of reinvention,
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everything is going to feel sticky.
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The days leading up to you making this big change feel heavy,
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feel intense they might just be the worst days of your life, honestly.
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And that is definitely a clear sign of life telling you that you need to move on from this thing,
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the situation, relationship, whatever it is,
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it's a clear sign that you are not where you need to be.
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However, it's important to remember that your worst days tend to lead to the best ones.
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So you might be in turmoil,
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you might be in chaos,
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and every day you walk into the building at work,
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you might want to just walk right back out to your car,
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but you need to figure these things out.
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Everything that you need to do leading up to that change,
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what is going to happen after you leave and what can go wrong?
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It's important that despite everything feeling chaotic,
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you figure these things out before prematurely jumping ship.
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I can't say that I've always done this the right way.
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When I was a teacher,
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I was so ready to leave the days leading up to my resignation.
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Every day felt like the worst day ever.
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However, I was trying very hard to make it to the end of the semester,
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which was in December.
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I left in October.
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I ended up leaving early because every single day just felt like turmoil
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and things just felt like they were getting worse and worse.
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But that was not the plan.
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And I don't recommend that.
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Make a plan for the days leading up.
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This is just for you to cover your bases.
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Look at your finances.
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Look at your savings.
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Look at maybe some things that you need to fix before you jump ship and before you jump to another area.
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Think of the things that you need to adjust emotionally, mentally, physically.
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It's really important for you to take a step back and look at everything that needs to be done before you leave.
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Also, you need to figure out what you're going to do when you leave.
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You can't just jump ship without a plan.
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Figure out your steps.
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Are you going to take a break from working altogether?
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Do you have the money in your account to be able to take this break?
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What are you going to do afterwards for work?
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What are you planning to do?
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Are you planning to go back to school?
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Are you planning to get a new job in a different field?
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Are you planning to get a new job in a similar field?
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What is the plan after that?
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What is your course of action?
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And lastly, what is everything that can go wrong?
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Because there will be things that go wrong.
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And nine times out of 10,
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those things will be dealing with money.
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What are you prepared to do if you have a financial blip?
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If you need a couple thousand dollars,
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are you prepared to pay a couple thousand dollars for an emergency?
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It's really important for you to answer these things before you up
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and move to a new city or before you just quit your job because you're unhappy.
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Figure these things out first before jumping ship.
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I support you changing your life and changing things up,
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but doing this in the most responsible way will make your life a lot better.
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Next, figure out what your end goal is.
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What is the ultimate goal of overhauling your life and write it out.
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Are you trying to reintroduce yourself to this new version of you?
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Are you trying to save your relationship?
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Are you trying to move up the corporate ladder?
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Are you trying to really invest in the best version of yourself
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and get yourself exactly where you feel like you deserve you should be?
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What is the end goal and keep it in your peripheral,
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write it out every day or look at it every day.
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So you can remember what all of this was for,
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because there are going to be days where things get so uncomfortable,
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so tough, so sticky.
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Reinvention isn't always beautiful and fun and exciting.
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It might feel that way in the beginning,
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but as the months go on and as the fun start to dry up and as the dreams start to wither,
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it's really important to remember why you got here in the first place and why you need to continue pushing forward.
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Keep the end goal in sight because there's going to be so many things that pop up that test you,
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that make you feel like you are not doing exactly what you need to do.
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And don't let that happen.
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Whenever I was leaving my job,
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I made the mistake of telling a lot of people what I was doing.
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I don't know why I did that.
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And I was met with a lot of criticism,
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just people not understanding why I was doing what I was doing.
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And it was because it's not their life.
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However, I was younger back then.
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I was what, 27?
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And I was a lot more impressionable and words honestly stuck a lot harder to me back then.
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And it made me start to second guess myself.
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It made me second guess myself.
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Now, if I was honestly sitting down and writing out what the end goal was every single day,
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those words wouldn't have stung as hard as they did.
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No, those words would have gone in one ear and gone right out the other.
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And I wouldn't have sat there after work every day,
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questioning myself and questioning those conversations with with people
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and feeling like what I was doing was dumb
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because I had confidence in myself and my abilities and I knew what my ultimate goal was.
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Now I'm living in my ultimate goal.
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And all those people that questioned what the end goal was
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and why I feel as though I deserve to just leave and do everything that I was planning to do.
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All those people that questioned me don't matter anymore because as time has gone on,
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my end goal has been in my forefront.
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It's been in my peripheral.
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It's been right here.
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I write it down every single day.
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I speak life into myself every single day
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So it's important to write out what the ultimate goal is
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and be confident in that goal And
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when anybody asks you Why you're doing all of this
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and why you're uprooting your life and
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when they tell you how silly it is You can give them a stern answer on who you are
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and your abilities and why you know You're not where you want to be
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and how you're going to get where you want to be
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and why you deserve it Be so confident in your abilities that you have no choice but to thrive.
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Be so confident in yourself that you have no choice but to thrive in this new person that you're becoming.
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And lastly, whether you need to reinvent yourself or refine yourself,
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nine times out of 10,
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if you're in a season of change,
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your habits probably need fine tuning.
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This is a time to reset your habits overall.
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Wake up a little bit earlier and reset your morning routine.
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Take the time in the morning to meditate,
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journal, pray, and just really get yourself set up for the day ahead.
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I love doing a little reset for my morning routine because typically it's just so easy to let it slide.
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It's so easy to wake up later and later as time goes on.
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It's so easy to wake up every single morning,
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check social media, make that a habit.
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And every single time I fine tune everything and make my morning routine a lot more intentional,
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everything else falls in line for me.
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I start to have more mental clarity.
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I start to be more productive throughout my day.
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And my anxiety starts to dwindle down.
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Fine tune your morning routine and make it a morning routine that leads to that person that you want to become.
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It's not just about writing down the things that need to be changed and changing those things,
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you need to change your habits overall and your morning routine might be a big one that needs refinement.
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Number two is your health.
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Making sure you're drinking an adequate amount of water,
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getting your exercise in daily,
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eating as healthy as possible and not leaning onto ultra processed foods,
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fast foods, alcohol, especially during a season of change.
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This will sabotage your growth and this will push you so far back that once you make the changes in your life,
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it's going to be really hard for you to celebrate the growth because you're not eating healthy.
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You don't have energy to thrive and you haven't been taking care of yourself.
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You might make these huge changes in your life,
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move to a new city,
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get a new job, et cetera,
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et cetera, and then fall into a deep depression because you weren't taking care of yourself along the way.
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So make sure that you are eating healthy,
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drinking your water, taking your vitamins during this time,
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staying away from the alcohol because alcohol can really mess up your mindset,
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your momentum, and it's not a good thing to lean on during a season of change.
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I'll tell you that.
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And lastly, when it comes to your habits,
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make sure that you are consuming media that is inspiring.
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You do not need negativity in your life.
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You don't need negative people spewing negative rhetoric into your ear.
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You don't need negative media infiltrating your mind and your life.
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Make sure you are consuming things that are positive,
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that give you energy to continue living the life that you want to live and that continue inspiring you day to day.
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And that is it.
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Let me know if you are starting over in your life down below,
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what you are wanting to do moving forward in the next few months
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or next year and how you're planning to do that.
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Thank you so much for joining me today.
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And I hope this video resonated with someone out there.
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And if it did, let me know down below.
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I'll see you guys in the next video.
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Peace out, Girl Scout.
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Bye.
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Bu dersin kelimeleri ve konuşma notları
Bu B2 seviyesindeki konuşma dersi “How to start over - resetting your life and routine from scratch” videosuna dayanıyor. Bu videoda gölgeleme çalışması için 327 cümle ve 3413 kelime var. Konuşma bölümü 17:16 sürüyor. Konuşmacı hızlı konuşuyor, dakikada yaklaşık 198 kelime; bu yüzden birbirine bağlanan ve zayıflayan sesler duyacaksınız. Kelimelerin %89’i İngilizcede en sık kullanılan 3.000 kelime arasında, bu yüzden kelime dağarcığını takip etmek kolay.
Bu videodaki önemli kelimeler
Videodaki en ileri düzey 15 kelime, telaffuzu ve anlamıyla:
| Kelime | Telaffuz | Anlam |
|---|---|---|
| refinement isim | /ɹəˈfaɪnmənt/ | arıtma, arıtım |
| audit isim | /ˈɔːdɪt/ | denetim |
| tighten fiil | /ˈtaɪ.tən/ | sıkmak |
| thrive fiil | /θɹajv/ | gelişmek, inkişaf etmek |
| arise fiil | /əˈɹaɪz/ | kalkmak |
| altogether zarf | /ɔl.tuˈɡɛð.ɚ/ | hep birlikte, topluca |
| uproot fiil | /ˌʌpˈɹut/ | köklemek |
| sticky sıfat | /ˈstɪki/ | yapışkan |
| consume fiil | /kənˈsum/ | kullanmak, harcamak |
| inspire fiil | /ɪnˈspaɪə(ɹ)/ | esinlemek, ilham vermek |
| mentally zarf | /ˈmɛntəli/ | aklen |
| bittersweet sıfat | /ˈbɪtɚˌswit/ | mayhoş, buruk |
| excite fiil | /ɪkˈsaɪt/ | heyecanlandırmak |
| meditate fiil | /ˈmɛ.dɪˌteɪt/ | meditasyon yapmak |
| negativity isim | /ˌnɛɡ.əˈtɪ.vɪ.ti/ | olumsuzluk, negatiflik |
Duyacağınız deyimsel fiiller
| Kelime | Telaffuz | Anlam |
|---|---|---|
| show up fiil | ortaya çıkmak | |
| figure out fiil | açığa çıkarmak | |
| start over fiil | baştan başlamak | |
| wake up fiil | /ˌweɪk ˈʌp/ | uyanmak |
| fall apart fiil | altüst olmak | |
| catch up fiil | yakalamak | |
| dry up fiil | kurumak | |
| grow up fiil | büyümek, yetişmek |
Tekrar etmeye değer cümleler
Videodan, günlük konuşmada yeniden kullanabileceğiniz kısa ve tam cümleler:
- What are you going to do afterwards for work?
- What are you planning to do?
- Are you planning to go back to school?
- What is your course of action?
- Are you trying to save your relationship?
Bu videodaki dil bilgisi
Konuşmacının en çok kullandığı yapılar, videodaki sözcüklerin aynısıyla:
| Yapı | Videoda |
|---|---|
| Present perfect continuous have/has been + -ing — önceden başlayıp hâlâ süren bir eylem | you've been showing · haven't been taking |
| “Used to” used to + fiil — artık geçerli olmayan eski bir alışkanlık ya da durum | used to have · used to keep |
| Present perfect have/has + fiilin üçüncü hâli — geçmişte olan ama şimdi de önemli olan bir eylem | we've built · you've built · I've realized |
| Edilgen yapı be + fiilin üçüncü hâli — kimin yaptığı değil, ne olduğu önemli | be done · was met · be changed |
Dikkat edilecek telaffuzlar
Konuşmacı you're, I'm, don't gibi kısaltılmış biçimleri 83 kez kullanıyor. Bunları duyduğunuz gibi kısa söyleyin.
- “th” sesleri: thrive /θɹajv/, altogether /ɔl.tuˈɡɛð.ɚ/, wither /ˈwɪðɚ/, athlete /ˈæθ.liːt/
- “sh” ve “zh” sesleri: emotionally /ɪˈməʊʃənəli/, impressionable /ɪmˈpɹɛ.ʃən.ə.bəl/, sharpen /ˈʃɑɹpən/, visualize /ˈvɪʒuəˌlaɪz/, sabotage /ˈsæb.əˌtɑʒ/
- Uzun kelimeler — vurguyu doğru yere koyun: altogether /ɔl.tuˈɡɛð.ɚ/, peripheral /pəˈɹɪf(ə)ɹ(ə)l/, emotionally /ɪˈməʊʃənəli/, impressionable /ɪmˈpɹɛ.ʃən.ə.bəl/, millennial /mɪˈlɛn.ɪ.əl/
Türkçe konuşanların zorlandığı sesler:
- /w/ — dudaklar yuvarlak, /v/ değil: bittersweet /ˈbɪtɚˌswit/, dwindle /ˈdwɪn.dəl/, wither /ˈwɪðɚ/, adequate /ˈæd.ə.kwɪt/
- Kelime başındaki ünsüz kümesi — araya ünlü eklemeyin: thrive /θɹajv/, trickle /ˈtɹɪkəl/, sticky /ˈstɪki/, dwindle /ˈdwɪn.dəl/, prematurely /ˌpɹiːməˈtjʊə(ɹ)li/
- /æ/ — “e”den daha açık: lastly /ˈlæstli/, sabotage /ˈsæb.əˌtɑʒ/, nostalgia /nɑˈstæld͡ʒə/, clarity /ˈklæɹ.ɪ.ti/, ladder /ˈlæd.ɚ/
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