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Why do some things just look so cute?

What makes one teddy bear cuter than another one?

Why are cute avatars and logos on the front of billion dollar companies?

And why has Hello Kitty outsold most actual celebrities?

Since 1943 this innocent idea of making something look cute has actually become one of the most powerful tools in modern design.

But the story of how we got here is a pretty interesting one.

This cuteness isn't just a look, it affects our brains on a foundational level whether we want it to or not.

Two years ago I took a trip down to Cape Town with a friend to see the sights

and take in the views

but on one of our last days I walked past a store window and saw this little Squishmallow stuffed raccoon.

The moment I saw it I had this overwhelming impulse to grab it, squish it and show it to everyone else so that they could also see how cute it is.

Because as it turns out a little bit of cuteness actually goes quite a long way.

So let's get into it.

Part 1.

Cute is a feeling, not a face.

Alright, so

if you were to ask someone what makes something look cute

you would probably get an answer along the lines of a big head, big eyes, round body and soft tiny limbs.

Basically the proportions of an infant.

Which is why this has classically been referred to as the baby schema.

It was initially coined back in 1943

when an Austrian scientist named Konrad Lorenz noticed that both human babies

and baby animals all shared a very specific set of features.

And his big idea was that this was not by accident.

He argued that our response to cuteness is an evolutionary adaptation,

with cuteness triggering caregiving and protective behaviour which keeps vulnerable offspring alive long enough to grow up.

But as Joshua Paul Dale points out in his book on cuteness studies, the baby schema is only one route to cute.

That's the most famous one, but it's not the only way to get there.

If cuteness was just about caretaking, then technically a person should be at their cutest when they're just born, where they need the most care.

But that's not actually the case in real life.

Psychologists Gary Sherman and Jonathan Haidt pointed out that cuteness actually peaks later, from around 10 months to 3 years,

exactly when a child becomes more social, not more helpless.

So they proposed an extra element to cuteness, which is that it isn't just to protect but also to engage.

For example in one study French researchers had over 11,000 people rate hundreds of teddy bears

and the single biggest predictor of cuteness wasn't big eyes or baby face, it was actually just perceived softness.

So cuteness isn't just the formula of big eyes and small stubby limbs, there's also some added elements to it,

there's different ways to get too cute.

And by pretty much pulling on any of these levers you can increase something's cuteness

and the cool thing is they stack so the more you add the more cuteness you end up with.

There's also a feeling attached to it and that feeling has a very strong effect on us.

So what exactly is that feeling and how does it work?

Part 2.

Cuteness and the brain.

Alright so whenever I see

that raccoon part of me wants to sort of make sure it's safe and that it's chilling in a cozy space.

But then there's always another part of me that just wants to squeeze it half to death because well, it's squishy.

And that feeling is what is known as the paradox of cuteness.

An overwhelming sense to protect something mixed with an overwhelming sense to engage with the same thing,

often in a sort of non-hostile aggressive way such as squishing or tugging.

It's an example of something called dimorphous expression, when an overwhelming emotion produces a contradictory reaction.

An example of this would be tears of joy such as at a wedding or after winning a competition, it would be nervous laughter in an awkward situation

or before a stressful event

or even just the act of pulling your face into a frown when you taste something unbelievably tasty.

For a long time it's been easy to kind of just dismiss cuteness as something silly

but people are realizing more and more that cuteness actually taps into a very sort of visceral part of your brain.

Years after the baby schema was coined researchers put people in fMRI machines and showed them different faces.

They found that baby schema features light up something called the nucleus accumbens, a core part of the brain's reward system,

the same circuitry tied to motivation and the things that make us feel good.

And what's interesting about this and what's also kind of scary about it is with very little effort, cuteness can actually evoke a very strong reaction out of us.

Think about how most things have to earn a reaction out of us.

A song has to build.

A film sets everything up for an hour before it gets us.

Even video games need to include some kind of story or context for the gameplay to feel meaningful.

But cuteness skips all of that.

One image, no context, and we're already feeling something.

But that sort of mental hijacking is something

that brands figured out quite a long time ago

and especially in more recent years they have really started leveraging

cuteness to get strong reactions out of people to get them invested in their product or their brand.

Part 3 Corporate cuteness Let's look at Bicky Mouse, probably the most famous example.

The early 1928 version was kind of rat-like pointy

and a little rough around the edges

but over the decades he slowly drifted toward bigger eyes around a head and softer limbs.

The biologist Stephen Jay Gould actually mapped this out, tracking how Mickey's eyes, head and skull all crept toward more infant like properties over 50 years.

Then there's Hello Kitty who pulls a different lever entirely.

She has no mouth, she barely has a face, but because she's cute, Sonrio built a character that ended up outselling most actual celebrities.

And then there's the mischievous modern example of the Duolingo owl.

It takes cute aggression to another level.

It's a soft, round, big eyed little thing that's also quite threatening when you miss your Spanish lessons.

Most companies that make use of cute don't just do it for cuteness sake

because cuteness is sort of a great way to get someone to let their guard down

and it comes up in very small ways but once you start noticing it you sort of start seeing it everywhere.

So a small example would be

if you order food there's often a face on the delivery van

or the general sort of design of the app also leans a bit more towards cute.

It's to sort of negate feelings of frustration or impatientness when ordering food on an app like that.

Another good example is a lot of times when a page doesn't want to load and you get an error message, there will often be a sad face as opposed to just red text that said error.

Because when you see that little face, it sort of lets your guard down a little bit.

It softens your own reaction.

And so a lot of companies instinctively have started using this to get clients to just be less skeptical

and to be less harsh.

That's why these days a character

or soft minimal design ends up as the face of a huge company instead of a sharp professional logo

which was typically more prevalent in the past.

So the next time something soft and round catches your eye in a storefront, that little pull isn't really an accident.

Acuteness started as a primal way to keep young

or frail things alive but somewhere along the way it also became one of the most effective tools in modern design.

And I think one of the big takeaways for me sort

of doing the research for this topic was the fact that especially when it comes to aesthetics and design,

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it's not always about being as loud or as flashy as possible.

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It's more so just about consistently being able to get a reaction or to trigger some kind of feeling.

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And cuteness is really, really good at doing that.

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But with all that being said, I hope you found this interesting and I'll see you in the next one.

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Cheers.

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What makes something look cute? - Điều gì khiến một thứ trông dễ thương?
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Cuteness triggers caregiving - Cảm giác dễ thương kích thích hành vi chăm sóc.
Perceived softness - Sự mềm mại được cảm nhận.
Feeling safe and cozy - Cảm thấy an toàn và thoải mái.

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