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seduction is an high form of power if you're more seductive in your approach
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if you're more indirect people will do what you want
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or go in your direction without ever even realizing
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it what makes for a great seducer is very simple i can summarize it very simply
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you mentioned seduction there the art of seduction why did you
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write a book about the topic of seduction seduction is a high form of power
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because you make people feel pleasure you make them feel excited
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or interested in you and then their their resistance to your ideas slowly lowers
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and you have the ability to influence them
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and to move them in the direction that you want
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if you yell at them like we were talking about your child
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and you tell them do this do that they were they're resented
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and for good reason but if you're subtler
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if you're more seductive in your approach
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if you're more indirect people will do what you want
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or go in your direction without ever even realizing it
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so it was a sub theme in the 48 laws of power
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and so I was sort of interested in the psychology of
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that and why some people are good and some people are awkward about it so
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when I finished the 48 laws of power I thought
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this would be a natural segue the next book what are the qualities of a great seducer well
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i like to distinguish between cold seducers
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and warm seducers a cold seducer is something you don't want to be that's the typical image
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that we might have of a male seducer
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but even of a female seducer like the great courtesans etc whether just after money
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or the men are just after sex that's not my ideal my ideal
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is kind of a back
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and forth quality where it's not domination it's sort of like a game
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that you're playing it's like a mating game
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it's like a courtship ritual where both part people are kind of seducing each other and
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so what makes for a great seducer is very simple I can summarize it very simply you are outer directed
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so when you meet somebody for the first time
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or you're on a date or whatever it is you're not having
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that internal monologue going does she like me
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or does he like me am i dressed well am i
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saying stupid things what can i do to impress them no you turn it off
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and you're outer directed and you're listening to them
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and you're entering their spirit and you're hearing them say things that
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that give you idea of what they're missing in life of
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what they want of what their needs are of what makes them an individual
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you're absorbing it you're entering into their spirit
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and then you can reflect it back to them you can give them gifts you can take them to places
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that show that you're attentive to them because
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if you look at how we are in our day -to -day life normally people never pay us attention
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they're always so self -absorbed they're never thinking about us.
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The times where you get the sense that people are actually interested in who you are as an individual is pretty rare.
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If you give that feeling to someone, it's incredibly powerful because we all want to be validated.
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We all want to be recognized.
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So the seducer is not someone who's all worried about him or herself and thinking.
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They're involved in the other person.
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They're absorbed like a sponge inside their psychology, inside their world.
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A lot of this is, you know, very applicable to romance and dating, etc, etc. It feels for whatever reason,
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I, you know, not necessarily something I've read much about in your work,
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but it feels like dating and romance and relationships have become much more complicated in the modern world,
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that it's become much more difficult to seduce somebody.
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What is the, what are the attributes of someone then that is not good at seducing?
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Anti -seducer has many qualities.
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I have a whole chapter on the anti -seducer.
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I try and define it.
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There's several of them.
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I don't have them all memorized, but one quality that's very anti -seductive is preaching and moralizing.
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It's like telling people, oh, that's wrong what you just said, or your politics are ugly,
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or you're not really good at this or something or other.
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Having a moral superiority, a sense of sanctimonious, sanctimony, in a realm which should be about pleasure, which should be that kind of equality,
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that kind of back -and -forth dynamic, where you're asserting your moral superiority, is deeply, deeply anti -seductive, the element of preaching to people.
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Not being generous, and I mean not just with money.
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Money is important.
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but not being generous with your spirit, right?
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You want to be open.
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You want to give as much as you can to the other person of yourself, of your time, of your money, of your energy, et cetera.
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So being all kind of crimped and I don't want to give, I don't want to spend money.
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I want to take you to the cheap place to eat.
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I don't want to give you much time is very, very anti -seductive.
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When you were talking a second ago about the person who goes on the date
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and they're thinking about themselves and what their hair looks like or whatever else, that spoke to an insecure person.
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Is insecurity a seductive quality or is it an anti -seductive quality?
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It is anti -seductive.
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Now, there is a part of weakness that is seductive.
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So I would say vulnerability is seductive, but insecurity is anti -seductive.
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There's a big difference.
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Why does vulnerability draw people to you?
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Because the sense, so if I can define seduction in simple terms,
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most of the time we are closed to the influence of other people, particularly now we have these walls up because life is harsh.
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People are coming at us with their advertisements, with their pleas, with their wanting money, with this and the other.
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And we've all learned to be very defensive, right?
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and seduction is an openness is the opposite of that
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and you felt it when you were child towards your parents you felt very vulnerable
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and open and and there was an element of your parents
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and how they treated you that was very much like a seduction right
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so seduction is about being open to the other person to the extent where you can even fall in love
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you can fall under their spell
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and the sense of letting go of your ego letting go of your defensiveness
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and letting other another person enter your world is being seduced it requires vulnerability
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if you meet the typical um scenario is of a man who's not vulnerable at all he's
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so powerful and in control
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and everything has no vulnerabilities it's frightening you know for a woman
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it could be very frightening like this he's he's so strong he's
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so invulnerable there's something wrong about it you know maybe he's
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a serial killer maybe he's got skeletons in his closet something isn't right about
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that what what seduces you about a puppy about a child about an animal is their vulnerability
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it makes you want to hug them it makes you want to help them right the sense
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which if you came upon a a tiger that's there
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and they don't need that well that's not seductive i mean on your screen it is
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but if they're there in your living room that's not seductive
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but that puppy is right vulnerability the sense that somebody needs protection or help
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brings out qualities in us that we don't normally have
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that i think allow for seduction so that is being vulnerable
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that is i can be influenced by
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that other person i am open to the to their spirit
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it right that's being vulnerable the word vulnerable I hate to sound like a professor
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so excuse me in seduction comes from the road the root of it means a wound vulnus
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so you have a wound inside of you and you need healing
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and the other person naturally wants to help you right
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but being insecure is the off means I'm so self -absorbed I'm
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so worried about myself that I can't get out of it
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and we've all had that experience when you meet somebody
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and they and you can sense you can smell their insecurity in them i'm not judging them
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because we all have insecurities it makes you feel insecure it makes you feel a little bit awkward whereas
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if you meet someone who's not like that who's confident etc it brings out
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that quality in you so if you're on a date
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and there's someone who's you smell that kind of insecurity it makes you awkward
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and insecure it creates a kind of a problem.
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So that would be the difference between the two.
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這節口語課以影片“A Powerful Technique To Seduce & Influence Anyone: Robert Greene”為素材。 影片中反覆出現的詞有:seductive, seducer, seduction, anti, sense。 這段影片共有 127 個句子、1565 個單詞可供跟讀。 講話部分時長為 9:23。 說話人語速自然,每分鐘約 167 個詞,接近日常對話。 84% 的單詞屬於英語最常用的 3,000 詞,其餘的詞建議在練習前先學一下。

影片中的重點詞彙

影片中 15 個值得學習的單詞,附發音和釋義:

單詞發音釋義
vulnerability 名詞/ˌvʌln(ə)ɹəˈbɪlɪti/脆弱性
vulnerable 形容詞/ˈvʌln(ə)ɹəbl̩/脆弱的, 敏感的
absorb 動詞/æbˈsɔɹb/吸收
insecure 形容詞/ɪnsəˈkjʊɹ/不安全的
awkward 形容詞/ˈɔk.wɚd/彆扭 /彆扭
element 名詞/ˈɛləmənt/要素
moral 形容詞/ˈmoɹəl/道德的
deeply 副詞/ˈdi(ː)pli/深, 深深
ideal 形容詞/aɪˈdi(ə)l/理想的
romance 名詞/roʊˈmæn(t)s/戀愛 /戀愛, 浪漫
define 動詞/dɪˈfaɪn/界定
psychology 名詞/saɪˈkɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/心理學 /心理學
generous 形容詞/ˈd͡ʒɛn(ə)ɹəs/慷慨, 大方
indirect 形容詞/ˌɪn.daɪˈɹɛkt/間接 /間接
puppy 名詞/ˈpʌpi/小狗

影片中的語法

說話人最常用的結構,並附上影片中的原話:

結構影片中的用法
條件句 if + 從句,will/would + 動詞 — 條件及其結果if you're more indirect people will do
被動語態 be + 過去分詞 — 強調發生了什麼,而不是誰做的be validated · be recognized · are closed
現在完成時 have/has + 過去分詞 — 過去發生但與現在仍有關聯的事I've read · have become · have hit

需要注意的發音

說話人用了 41 次縮略和弱讀形式,例如 you're, they're, don't。請按聽到的簡短形式來說。

  • “sh” 和 “zh” 音: harsh /ˈhɑɹʃ/, distinguish /dɪˈstɪŋ.ɡwɪʃ/, domination /ˌdɑːməˈneɪʃən/, seduction /sɪˈdʌk.ʃn̩/, courtship /ˈkɔɹt.ʃɪp/
  • 長單詞——注意重音位置: vulnerability /ˌvʌln(ə)ɹəˈbɪlɪti/, psychology /saɪˈkɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/, superiority /sʊˌpɪə(ɹ).iˈɒ.ɹɪ.ti/, naturally /ˈnæt͡ʃ.(ə.)ɹə.li/, necessarily /ˌnɛs.əˈsɛɹ.ə.li/

中文母語者容易讀錯的音:

  • /v/ — 不要讀成 /w/,上齒輕觸下唇: vulnerability /ˌvʌln(ə)ɹəˈbɪlɪti/, vulnerable /ˈvʌln(ə)ɹəbl̩/, defensive /dɪˈfɛn.sɪv/, advertisement /ˈædvɚˌtaɪzmənt/, viewer /ˈvju.ɚ/
  • 詞尾子音 — 要讀清楚,後面不要加母音: absorb /æbˈsɔɹb/, awkward /ˈɔk.wɚd/, element /ˈɛləmənt/, romance /roʊˈmæn(t)s/, generous /ˈd͡ʒɛn(ə)ɹəs/
  • /r/ 和 /l/ 的區別: vulnerability /ˌvʌln(ə)ɹəˈbɪlɪti/, vulnerable /ˈvʌln(ə)ɹəbl̩/, moral /ˈmoɹəl/, naturally /ˈnæt͡ʃ.(ə.)ɹə.li/, necessarily /ˌnɛs.əˈsɛɹ.ə.li/

如何用這段影片練習

  1. 先完整聽一遍影片,不要開口,記下不認識的單詞。
  2. 先用 0.75 倍速逐句跟讀,熟練之後再回到正常速度。
  3. 錄下自己的聲音並與原聲對比,特別注意 vulnerability, vulnerable, absorb 這類單詞。

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