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seduction is an high form of power if you're more seductive in your approach
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if you're more indirect people will do what you want
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or go in your direction without ever even realizing
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it what makes for a great seducer is very simple i can summarize it very simply
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you mentioned seduction there the art of seduction why did you
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write a book about the topic of seduction seduction is a high form of power
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because you make people feel pleasure you make them feel excited
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or interested in you and then their their resistance to your ideas slowly lowers
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and you have the ability to influence them
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and to move them in the direction that you want
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if you yell at them like we were talking about your child
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and you tell them do this do that they were they're resented
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and for good reason but if you're subtler
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if you're more seductive in your approach
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if you're more indirect people will do what you want
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or go in your direction without ever even realizing it
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so it was a sub theme in the 48 laws of power
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and so I was sort of interested in the psychology of
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that and why some people are good and some people are awkward about it so
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when I finished the 48 laws of power I thought
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this would be a natural segue the next book what are the qualities of a great seducer well
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i like to distinguish between cold seducers
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and warm seducers a cold seducer is something you don't want to be that's the typical image
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that we might have of a male seducer
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but even of a female seducer like the great courtesans etc whether just after money
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or the men are just after sex that's not my ideal my ideal
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is kind of a back
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and forth quality where it's not domination it's sort of like a game
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that you're playing it's like a mating game
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it's like a courtship ritual where both part people are kind of seducing each other and
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so what makes for a great seducer is very simple I can summarize it very simply you are outer directed
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so when you meet somebody for the first time
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or you're on a date or whatever it is you're not having
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that internal monologue going does she like me
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or does he like me am i dressed well am i
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saying stupid things what can i do to impress them no you turn it off
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and you're outer directed and you're listening to them
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and you're entering their spirit and you're hearing them say things that
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that give you idea of what they're missing in life of
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what they want of what their needs are of what makes them an individual
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you're absorbing it you're entering into their spirit
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and then you can reflect it back to them you can give them gifts you can take them to places
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that show that you're attentive to them because
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if you look at how we are in our day -to -day life normally people never pay us attention
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they're always so self -absorbed they're never thinking about us.
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The times where you get the sense that people are actually interested in who you are as an individual is pretty rare.
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If you give that feeling to someone, it's incredibly powerful because we all want to be validated.
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We all want to be recognized.
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So the seducer is not someone who's all worried about him or herself and thinking.
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They're involved in the other person.
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They're absorbed like a sponge inside their psychology, inside their world.
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A lot of this is, you know, very applicable to romance and dating, etc, etc. It feels for whatever reason,
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I, you know, not necessarily something I've read much about in your work,
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but it feels like dating and romance and relationships have become much more complicated in the modern world,
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that it's become much more difficult to seduce somebody.
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What is the, what are the attributes of someone then that is not good at seducing?
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Anti -seducer has many qualities.
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I have a whole chapter on the anti -seducer.
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I try and define it.
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There's several of them.
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I don't have them all memorized, but one quality that's very anti -seductive is preaching and moralizing.
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It's like telling people, oh, that's wrong what you just said, or your politics are ugly,
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or you're not really good at this or something or other.
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Having a moral superiority, a sense of sanctimonious, sanctimony, in a realm which should be about pleasure, which should be that kind of equality,
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that kind of back -and -forth dynamic, where you're asserting your moral superiority, is deeply, deeply anti -seductive, the element of preaching to people.
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Not being generous, and I mean not just with money.
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Money is important.
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but not being generous with your spirit, right?
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You want to be open.
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You want to give as much as you can to the other person of yourself, of your time, of your money, of your energy, et cetera.
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So being all kind of crimped and I don't want to give, I don't want to spend money.
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I want to take you to the cheap place to eat.
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I don't want to give you much time is very, very anti -seductive.
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When you were talking a second ago about the person who goes on the date
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and they're thinking about themselves and what their hair looks like or whatever else, that spoke to an insecure person.
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Is insecurity a seductive quality or is it an anti -seductive quality?
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It is anti -seductive.
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Now, there is a part of weakness that is seductive.
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So I would say vulnerability is seductive, but insecurity is anti -seductive.
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There's a big difference.
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Why does vulnerability draw people to you?
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Because the sense, so if I can define seduction in simple terms,
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most of the time we are closed to the influence of other people, particularly now we have these walls up because life is harsh.
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People are coming at us with their advertisements, with their pleas, with their wanting money, with this and the other.
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And we've all learned to be very defensive, right?
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and seduction is an openness is the opposite of that
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and you felt it when you were child towards your parents you felt very vulnerable
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and open and and there was an element of your parents
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and how they treated you that was very much like a seduction right
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so seduction is about being open to the other person to the extent where you can even fall in love
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you can fall under their spell
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and the sense of letting go of your ego letting go of your defensiveness
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and letting other another person enter your world is being seduced it requires vulnerability
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if you meet the typical um scenario is of a man who's not vulnerable at all he's
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so powerful and in control
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and everything has no vulnerabilities it's frightening you know for a woman
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it could be very frightening like this he's he's so strong he's
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so invulnerable there's something wrong about it you know maybe he's
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a serial killer maybe he's got skeletons in his closet something isn't right about
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that what what seduces you about a puppy about a child about an animal is their vulnerability
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it makes you want to hug them it makes you want to help them right the sense
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which if you came upon a a tiger that's there
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and they don't need that well that's not seductive i mean on your screen it is
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but if they're there in your living room that's not seductive
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but that puppy is right vulnerability the sense that somebody needs protection or help
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brings out qualities in us that we don't normally have
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that i think allow for seduction so that is being vulnerable
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that is i can be influenced by
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that other person i am open to the to their spirit
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it right that's being vulnerable the word vulnerable I hate to sound like a professor
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so excuse me in seduction comes from the road the root of it means a wound vulnus
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so you have a wound inside of you and you need healing
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and the other person naturally wants to help you right
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but being insecure is the off means I'm so self -absorbed I'm
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so worried about myself that I can't get out of it
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and we've all had that experience when you meet somebody
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and they and you can sense you can smell their insecurity in them i'm not judging them
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because we all have insecurities it makes you feel insecure it makes you feel a little bit awkward whereas
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if you meet someone who's not like that who's confident etc it brings out
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that quality in you so if you're on a date
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and there's someone who's you smell that kind of insecurity it makes you awkward
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and insecure it creates a kind of a problem.
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So that would be the difference between the two.
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Woordenschat en spreektips bij deze les
Deze spreekles is gebaseerd op de video “A Powerful Technique To Seduce & Influence Anyone: Robert Greene”. Deze woorden komen het vaakst terug: seductive, seducer, seduction, anti, sense. Deze video bevat 127 zinnen en 1565 woorden om na te spreken. Het gesproken deel duurt 9:23. De spreker praat in een natuurlijk tempo van ongeveer 167 woorden per minuut, dicht bij een alledaags gesprek. 84% van de woorden hoort bij de 3.000 meest gebruikte Engelse woorden; de rest kun je beter vooraf bekijken.
Belangrijke woorden in deze video
15 woorden uit de video die het leren waard zijn, met uitspraak en betekenis:
| Woord | Uitspraak | Betekenis |
|---|---|---|
| vulnerability zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˌvʌln(ə)ɹəˈbɪlɪti/ | kwetsbaarheid, zwakke plek |
| vulnerable bijvoeglijk naamwoord | /ˈvʌln(ə)ɹəbl̩/ | kwetsbaar |
| insecurity zelfstandig naamwoord | onzekerheid | |
| absorb werkwoord | /æbˈsɔɹb/ | absorberen, (in zich) opnemen |
| insecure bijvoeglijk naamwoord | /ɪnsəˈkjʊɹ/ | onbeveiligd |
| awkward bijvoeglijk naamwoord | /ˈɔk.wɚd/ | onhandig |
| element zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˈɛləmənt/ | element |
| moral bijvoeglijk naamwoord | /ˈmoɹəl/ | moreel |
| ideal bijvoeglijk naamwoord | /aɪˈdi(ə)l/ | ideaal, optimaal |
| define werkwoord | /dɪˈfaɪn/ | bepalen, determineren |
| psychology zelfstandig naamwoord | /saɪˈkɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/ | psychologie, zielkunde |
| generous bijvoeglijk naamwoord | /ˈd͡ʒɛn(ə)ɹəs/ | grootmoedig |
| indirect bijvoeglijk naamwoord | /ˌɪn.daɪˈɹɛkt/ | onrechtstreeks, indirect |
| puppy zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˈpʌpi/ | puppy |
| preach werkwoord | /pɹit͡ʃ/ | verkondigen, preken |
Phrasal verbs die je zult horen
| Woord | Betekenis |
|---|---|
| fall under werkwoord | vallen onder |
Grammatica in deze video
De structuren die de spreker het meest gebruikt, met de exacte woorden uit de video:
| Structuur | In de video |
|---|---|
| Voorwaardelijke zinnen if + zin, will/would + werkwoord — een voorwaarde en het gevolg | if you're more indirect people will do |
| Lijdende vorm be + voltooid deelwoord — het gaat om wat er gebeurt, niet om wie het doet | be validated · be recognized · are closed |
| Present perfect have/has + voltooid deelwoord — iets uit het verleden dat nu nog telt | I've read · have become · have hit |
Uitspraak om op te letten
De spreker gebruikt 41 samentrekkingen en verkorte vormen, zoals you're, they're, don't. Spreek ze kort uit, zoals je ze hoort.
- De klanken “sh” en “zh”: harsh /ˈhɑɹʃ/, distinguish /dɪˈstɪŋ.ɡwɪʃ/, domination /ˌdɑːməˈneɪʃən/, seduction /sɪˈdʌk.ʃn̩/, courtship /ˈkɔɹt.ʃɪp/
- Lange woorden — let op de klemtoon: vulnerability /ˌvʌln(ə)ɹəˈbɪlɪti/, psychology /saɪˈkɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/, superiority /sʊˌpɪə(ɹ).iˈɒ.ɹɪ.ti/, naturally /ˈnæt͡ʃ.(ə.)ɹə.li/, necessarily /ˌnɛs.əˈsɛɹ.ə.li/
Klanken die Nederlandstaligen lastig vinden:
- Stemhebbende eindmedeklinker — /b/, /d/, /g/, /z/, /v/ niet verscherpen: absorb /æbˈsɔɹb/, awkward /ˈɔk.wɚd/, complicated /ˈkɑm.plɪˌkeɪ.tɪd/, whereas /(h)wɛɹˈæz/, defensive /dɪˈfɛn.sɪv/
- /æ/ — opener dan de Nederlandse “e”: absorb /æbˈsɔɹb/, romance /roʊˈmæn(t)s/, naturally /ˈnæt͡ʃ.(ə.)ɹə.li/, whereas /(h)wɛɹˈæz/, dynamic /daɪˈnæm.ɪk/
- /g/ — een harde plofklank, geen Nederlandse “g”: ugly /ˈʌɡli/, tiger /ˈtaɪɡə/, distinguish /dɪˈstɪŋ.ɡwɪʃ/, monologue /ˈmɑnəˌlɔɡ/, segue /ˈsɛɡweɪ/
Zo oefen je met deze video
- Luister de hele video één keer zonder te spreken en noteer de woorden die je niet kent.
- Begin op 0,75× snelheid, spreek zin voor zin na en ga terug naar normale snelheid zodra het makkelijk gaat.
- Neem jezelf op en vergelijk met het origineel; let daarbij op woorden als vulnerability, vulnerable, insecurity.
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Shadowing is een wetenschappelijk onderbouwde taalleermethode die oorspronkelijk is ontwikkeld voor professionele tolkentraining en gepopulariseerd door polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. De methode is eenvoudig maar krachtig: je luistert naar native Engelse audio en herhaalt het onmiddellijk hardop — als een schaduw die de spreker volgt met slechts 1–2 seconden vertraging. In tegenstelling tot passief luisteren of grammaticadrills, dwingt shadowing je hersenen en mondspieren om echte spraakpatronen tegelijkertijd te verwerken en te reproduceren. Onderzoek toont aan dat het de uitspraaknauwkeurigheid, intonatie, ritme, verbonden spraak, luisterbegrip en spreekvaardigheid aanzienlijk verbetert — waardoor het een van de meest effectieve methoden is voor IELTS Speaking-voorbereiding en echte Engelse communicatie.