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seduction is an high form of power if you're more seductive in your approach

if you're more indirect people will do what you want

or go in your direction without ever even realizing

it what makes for a great seducer is very simple i can summarize it very simply

you mentioned seduction there the art of seduction why did you

write a book about the topic of seduction seduction is a high form of power

because you make people feel pleasure you make them feel excited

or interested in you and then their their resistance to your ideas slowly lowers

and you have the ability to influence them

and to move them in the direction that you want

if you yell at them like we were talking about your child

and you tell them do this do that they were they're resented

and for good reason but if you're subtler

if you're more seductive in your approach

if you're more indirect people will do what you want

or go in your direction without ever even realizing it

so it was a sub theme in the 48 laws of power

and so I was sort of interested in the psychology of

that and why some people are good and some people are awkward about it so

when I finished the 48 laws of power I thought

this would be a natural segue the next book what are the qualities of a great seducer well

i like to distinguish between cold seducers

and warm seducers a cold seducer is something you don't want to be that's the typical image

that we might have of a male seducer

but even of a female seducer like the great courtesans etc whether just after money

or the men are just after sex that's not my ideal my ideal

is kind of a back

and forth quality where it's not domination it's sort of like a game

that you're playing it's like a mating game

it's like a courtship ritual where both part people are kind of seducing each other and

so what makes for a great seducer is very simple I can summarize it very simply you are outer directed

so when you meet somebody for the first time

or you're on a date or whatever it is you're not having

that internal monologue going does she like me

or does he like me am i dressed well am i

saying stupid things what can i do to impress them no you turn it off

and you're outer directed and you're listening to them

and you're entering their spirit and you're hearing them say things that

that give you idea of what they're missing in life of

what they want of what their needs are of what makes them an individual

you're absorbing it you're entering into their spirit

and then you can reflect it back to them you can give them gifts you can take them to places

that show that you're attentive to them because

if you look at how we are in our day -to -day life normally people never pay us attention

they're always so self -absorbed they're never thinking about us.

The times where you get the sense that people are actually interested in who you are as an individual is pretty rare.

If you give that feeling to someone, it's incredibly powerful because we all want to be validated.

We all want to be recognized.

So the seducer is not someone who's all worried about him or herself and thinking.

They're involved in the other person.

They're absorbed like a sponge inside their psychology, inside their world.

A lot of this is, you know, very applicable to romance and dating, etc, etc. It feels for whatever reason,

I, you know, not necessarily something I've read much about in your work,

but it feels like dating and romance and relationships have become much more complicated in the modern world,

that it's become much more difficult to seduce somebody.

What is the, what are the attributes of someone then that is not good at seducing?

Anti -seducer has many qualities.

I have a whole chapter on the anti -seducer.

I try and define it.

There's several of them.

I don't have them all memorized, but one quality that's very anti -seductive is preaching and moralizing.

It's like telling people, oh, that's wrong what you just said, or your politics are ugly,

or you're not really good at this or something or other.

Having a moral superiority, a sense of sanctimonious, sanctimony, in a realm which should be about pleasure, which should be that kind of equality,

that kind of back -and -forth dynamic, where you're asserting your moral superiority, is deeply, deeply anti -seductive, the element of preaching to people.

Not being generous, and I mean not just with money.

Money is important.

but not being generous with your spirit, right?

You want to be open.

You want to give as much as you can to the other person of yourself, of your time, of your money, of your energy, et cetera.

So being all kind of crimped and I don't want to give, I don't want to spend money.

I want to take you to the cheap place to eat.

I don't want to give you much time is very, very anti -seductive.

When you were talking a second ago about the person who goes on the date

and they're thinking about themselves and what their hair looks like or whatever else, that spoke to an insecure person.

Is insecurity a seductive quality or is it an anti -seductive quality?

It is anti -seductive.

Now, there is a part of weakness that is seductive.

So I would say vulnerability is seductive, but insecurity is anti -seductive.

There's a big difference.

Why does vulnerability draw people to you?

Because the sense, so if I can define seduction in simple terms,

most of the time we are closed to the influence of other people, particularly now we have these walls up because life is harsh.

People are coming at us with their advertisements, with their pleas, with their wanting money, with this and the other.

And we've all learned to be very defensive, right?

and seduction is an openness is the opposite of that

and you felt it when you were child towards your parents you felt very vulnerable

and open and and there was an element of your parents

and how they treated you that was very much like a seduction right

so seduction is about being open to the other person to the extent where you can even fall in love

you can fall under their spell

and the sense of letting go of your ego letting go of your defensiveness

and letting other another person enter your world is being seduced it requires vulnerability

if you meet the typical um scenario is of a man who's not vulnerable at all he's

so powerful and in control

and everything has no vulnerabilities it's frightening you know for a woman

it could be very frightening like this he's he's so strong he's

so invulnerable there's something wrong about it you know maybe he's

a serial killer maybe he's got skeletons in his closet something isn't right about

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that what what seduces you about a puppy about a child about an animal is their vulnerability

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it makes you want to hug them it makes you want to help them right the sense

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which if you came upon a a tiger that's there

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and they don't need that well that's not seductive i mean on your screen it is

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but if they're there in your living room that's not seductive

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but that puppy is right vulnerability the sense that somebody needs protection or help

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brings out qualities in us that we don't normally have

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that i think allow for seduction so that is being vulnerable

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that is i can be influenced by

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that other person i am open to the to their spirit

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it right that's being vulnerable the word vulnerable I hate to sound like a professor

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so excuse me in seduction comes from the road the root of it means a wound vulnus

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so you have a wound inside of you and you need healing

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and the other person naturally wants to help you right

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but being insecure is the off means I'm so self -absorbed I'm

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so worried about myself that I can't get out of it

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and we've all had that experience when you meet somebody

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and they and you can sense you can smell their insecurity in them i'm not judging them

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because we all have insecurities it makes you feel insecure it makes you feel a little bit awkward whereas

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if you meet someone who's not like that who's confident etc it brings out

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that quality in you so if you're on a date

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and there's someone who's you smell that kind of insecurity it makes you awkward

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and insecure it creates a kind of a problem.

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So that would be the difference between the two.

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Этот урок разговорной практики построен на видео «A Powerful Technique To Seduce & Influence Anyone: Robert Greene». Чаще всего повторяются слова: seductive, seducer, seduction, anti, sense. В этом видео 127 предложений и 1565 слов для шедоуинга. Речь длится 9:23. Говорящий говорит в естественном темпе, около 167 слов в минуту, близком к повседневной речи. 84% слов входят в 3000 самых частых слов английского языка; остальные стоит разобрать перед занятием.

Ключевая лексика этого видео

15 слов из видео, которые стоит выучить, с произношением и значением:

Слово	Произношение	Значение
vulnerability существительное	/ˌvʌln(ə)ɹəˈbɪlɪti/	уязви́мость, рани́мость
vulnerable прилагательное	/ˈvʌln(ə)ɹəbl̩/	уязви́мый, рани́мый
insecurity существительное		небезопасность, комплекс
absorb глагол	/æbˈsɔɹb/	поглоща́ть, поглоти́ть
insecure прилагательное	/ɪnsəˈkjʊɹ/	небезопа́сный, опа́сный
awkward прилагательное	/ˈɔk.wɚd/	нело́вкий, неуклю́жий
element существительное	/ˈɛləmənt/	элеме́нт, звено́
moral прилагательное	/ˈmoɹəl/	мора́льный, нравоучи́тельный
deeply наречие	/ˈdi(ː)pli/	глубоко́
ideal прилагательное	/aɪˈdi(ə)l/	идеа́льный
romance существительное	/roʊˈmæn(t)s/	рома́н
define глагол	/dɪˈfaɪn/	определя́ть, определи́ть
psychology существительное	/saɪˈkɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/	психоло́гия, пси́хика
generous прилагательное	/ˈd͡ʒɛn(ə)ɹəs/	великоду́шный, благоро́дный
indirect прилагательное	/ˌɪn.daɪˈɹɛkt/	ко́свенный, непрямо́й

Грамматика в этом видео

Конструкции, которые говорящий использует чаще всего, с точными словами из видео:

Конструкция	В видео
Условные предложения if + предложение, will/would + глагол — условие и его результат	if you're more indirect people will do
Пассивный залог be + причастие прошедшего времени — важно, что происходит, а не кто это делает	be validated · be recognized · are closed
Present Perfect have/has + причастие прошедшего времени — прошлое действие, важное сейчас	I've read · have become · have hit

Произношение, на которое стоит обратить внимание

Говорящий использует 41 сокращённых и редуцированных форм, например you're, they're, don't. Произносите их коротко, так, как слышите.

Звуки «sh» и «zh»: harsh /ˈhɑɹʃ/, distinguish /dɪˈstɪŋ.ɡwɪʃ/, domination /ˌdɑːməˈneɪʃən/, seduction /sɪˈdʌk.ʃn̩/, courtship /ˈkɔɹt.ʃɪp/
Длинные слова — следите за ударением: vulnerability /ˌvʌln(ə)ɹəˈbɪlɪti/, psychology /saɪˈkɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/, superiority /sʊˌpɪə(ɹ).iˈɒ.ɹɪ.ti/, naturally /ˈnæt͡ʃ.(ə.)ɹə.li/, necessarily /ˌnɛs.əˈsɛɹ.ə.li/

Звуки, трудные для русскоязычных:

/w/ — губы округлены, это не /v/: awkward /ˈɔk.wɚd/, whereas /(h)wɛɹˈæz/, equality /ɪˈkwɑ.lɪ.ti/, weakness /ˈwik.nɪs/, distinguish /dɪˈstɪŋ.ɡwɪʃ/
/h/ — лёгкий выдох, а не русское «х»: whereas /(h)wɛɹˈæz/, harsh /ˈhɑɹʃ/, heal /ˈhiːl/
Звонкие согласные в конце слова — не оглушайте их: absorb /æbˈsɔɹb/, awkward /ˈɔk.wɚd/, complicated /ˈkɑm.plɪˌkeɪ.tɪd/, whereas /(h)wɛɹˈæz/, defensive /dɪˈfɛn.sɪv/

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Прослушайте всё видео один раз молча и выпишите незнакомые слова.
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Запишите себя и сравните с оригиналом, обращая внимание на такие слова, как vulnerability, vulnerable, insecurity.

Что такое техника Shadowing?

Shadowing — это научно обоснованная техника изучения языка, изначально разработанная для подготовки профессиональных переводчиков и популяризированная полиглотом доктором Александром Аргуэльесом. Метод прост, но эффективен: вы слушаете аудио на английском от носителей языка и немедленно повторяете вслух — как тень, следующая за говорящим с задержкой в 1–2 секунды. В отличие от пассивного прослушивания или грамматических упражнений, Shadowing заставляет мозг и мышцы рта одновременно обрабатывать и воспроизводить реальные речевые паттерны. Исследования показывают, что это значительно улучшает точность произношения, интонацию, ритм, связную речь, понимание на слух и беглость речи — что делает его одним из самых эффективных методов для подготовки к IELTS Speaking и реального общения на английском.

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