تدريب Shadowing: Everything changes when you stop playing it safe - تعلم التحدث بالإنجليزية عبر الفيديو
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Anthony Bourdain graduated from the Culinary Institute of America in 1978.
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He was 21.
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His plan was to cook.
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So he cooked.
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Line cook jobs across New York City, long shifts, loud kitchens, the kind of work that pays just enough to keep doing it.
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By the mid-1990s, he was running the kitchen at Les Halles, a French brasserie in Manhattan,
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executive chef, a career that from the outside looked finished in the best possible way.
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The problem was, he also wanted to be a writer.
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He'd tried twice.
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His first novel, Bone in the Throat, came out in 1995, almost completely ignored.
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His second, Gone Bamboo, followed in 1997.
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Same result.
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So he kept cooking.
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He ran his kitchen.
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He paid his bills.
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And in 1999, he sat down and wrote an essay about what professional kitchens actually looked like from the inside.
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Blunt, funny, occasionally disgusting.
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He called it, Don't Eat before reading this.
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It ended up at the New Yorker.
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They published it.
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Kitchen Confidential followed, then no reservations.
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Then parts unknown.
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18 years of traveling the world, eating everything, talking to everyone.
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A career that traced back entirely to one moment where he sent something to a place he wasn't sure he belonged.
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What Bourdain did with that career, and what he kept saying over and over in different ways across 18 years of television,
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was essentially one argument.
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That the life most people are carefully building for themselves is missing the most important thing
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and that the most important thing is almost always on the other side of something uncomfortable.
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Most people live inside a plan they never actually made, a job that pays well enough, a city they know how to navigate, restaurants they like, routes they've memorized,
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routines that make the days feel manageable, a life that when you describe it to someone sounds completely.. fine.
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Fine is the word that keeps coming up, and the thing about fine is it doesn't alarm anyone, It doesn't raise any flags.
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It's comfortable and clean and completely sufficient, and it will carry you from your 20s to your 50s without ever once making you feel like something is wrong,
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right up until the moment you realize that nothing surprising has happened to you in years.
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Most people plan the surprising out of their lives without meaning to.
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They make sensible choices.
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They take the job that makes obvious sense instead of the one they're not sure they can do.
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They stay in the city where they already know people instead of the one they've been thinking about for three years.
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None of these are bad decisions individually.
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All of them stacked on top of each other year after year, quietly add up to a life where nothing unexpected ever gets in.
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Bourdain spent his 30s doing exactly this.
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Good at his job.
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Had a title.
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Had a kitchen that ran the way he wanted.
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And two failed novels in a drawer somewhere, and a writing dream he'd mostly made his peace with.
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From the outside, it looked like a man who had figured out what he was and accepted it.
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What actually happened is that he got bored enough to stop playing it safe and do something that made no obvious sense.
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Be open to experience.
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Be willing to try new things.
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Don't have a rigid plan.
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Accept random acts of hospitality without judgement or fear.
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Don't be afraid to wander.
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Don't be afraid to eat a bad meal.
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You know, if you don't risk the bad meal you'll never get the magical one.
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But I think most important, you know, be humble. Be grateful.
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Be aware Be aware of the fact that you are probably the stupidest person in the room, as far as you are the least prepared,
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least equipped person to know who's really in charge of what's really going on.
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The rigid plan is not just a travel problem.
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It's the version of yourself that already knows what you're capable of and arranges your life accordingly.
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It sets the ceiling before you've hit it.
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It builds the box before you've run out of room.
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And it does all of it with perfectly reasonable justifications which is exactly what makes it so hard to argue with.
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Bourdain's essay had no business landing where it did.
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His resume for that submission was two novels nobody bought and 20 years of cooking professionally.
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The New Yorker published it anyway.
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The plan can't account for the things that haven't happened yet.
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The bad meal is a specific concept.
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Take risks.
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Step outside your comfort zone.
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Embrace failure.
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All language that's been said so many times, it's become background noise.
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Bordan was not talking abstractly.
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He was talking about the fermented shark in Iceland
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that smells like ammonia and tastes like something that should not legally be food.
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The unmarked restaurant down the alley in Hanoi, with no menu and no prices, and no clear indication that what you're about to eat won't make you sick for a week.
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Things he actually did, repeatedly on purpose, because he believed that the physical experience of committing to something you weren't sure about was the entire point.
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The bad meal is not a metaphor for failure, it's a metaphor for the moment, before you know how something is going to go, the job you weren't sure you were qualified for,
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the move to a city where you don't know anyone.
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All of it lives in the same category.
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All of it requires the same thing, which is the willingness to eat something before you know whether it's going to be terrible
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or the best thing you've ever tasted.
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Most people skip this moment.
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They read the reviews first.
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They eliminate as much uncertainty as possible before committing,
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which feels like wisdom and is actually just a very sophisticated way of making sure you never accidentally stumble into something extraordinary.
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Bourdain's career is basically a long argument against research.
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He showed up to places he knew nothing about and figured it out from there.
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He sat down at tables with people whose names he couldn't pronounce in languages he didn't speak
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and ate whatever they put in front of him.
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Not because he was fearless, he talked about fear constantly, but because he understood that fear was the tax you paid on everything worth doing,
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and there was no way around it, only through it.
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The thing he kept coming back to was the idea that the experience itself was the point, not the destination, not the story you get to tell afterward.
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The actual experience of being somewhere unfamiliar and not knowing how it was going to go.
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The bad meal isn't something you survive on the way to the good one.
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The bad meal is the whole lesson.
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The discomfort is the education.
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else's shoes or at least eat their food, it's a plus for everybody.
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Open your mind, get up off the couch, move.
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Most people are closer to the other side of the world than they think.
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The neighborhood they've driven past a hundred times and never walked through.
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The restaurant with no English menu, the conversation they've been avoiding because they already know it's going to be uncomfortable.
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All of it is the other side of the world.
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All of it requires the same thing.
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The willingness to show up somewhere you don't entirely know what you're doing and stay long enough to find out.
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Most people have already decided how they feel about the places they've never been, the food they've never eaten, the people whose lives look nothing like theirs.
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They form that opinion from a distance and they're keeping it.
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Because going to actually look means risking being wrong.
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And being wrong about something you've held onto for years is genuinely uncomfortable more uncomfortable honestly than any bad meal.
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Anthony Bourdain spent 18 years arguing against this from every angle he could find.
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He built an entire career out of showing people what it actually looked like inside the places they'd written off.
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One table at a time, one meal at a time, and he never stopped.
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Right up until he did.
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You're probably gonna find out about it anyway.
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So here's a little preemptive truth-telling.
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There's no happy ending.
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المفردات وملاحظات التحدث لهذا الدرس
يحتوي هذا الفيديو على 114 جملة و1382 كلمة للتدرب على الترديد. مدة الكلام 7:59. يتكلم المتحدث بسرعة طبيعية، نحو 173 كلمة في الدقيقة، قريبة من المحادثة اليومية. 86% من الكلمات ضمن أكثر 3,000 كلمة شيوعًا في الإنجليزية، ويُستحسن مراجعة الباقي قبل البدء.
أهم المفردات في هذا الفيديو
15 كلمة أقل شيوعًا من الفيديو، مع النطق والمعنى:
- meal /ˈmiːl/ (اسم) — وَجْبَة, أكلة. Food that is prepared and eaten, usually at a specific time, and usually in a comparatively large quantity.
- uncomfortable /ʌnˈkʌm.fɚ.tə.bl̩/ (صفة) — غَيْر مُرِيح. Not comfortable; causing discomfort.
- argue /ˈɑɹ.ɡju/ (فعل) — جَادَلَ, حَاجَّ. To show grounds for concluding (that); to indicate, imply.
- menu /ˈmɛn.juː/ (اسم) — قَائِمَة, قَائِمَةُ الطَّعَام. The details of the food to be served at a banquet; a bill of fare.
- essay /ˈɛs.eɪ/ (اسم) — مَقَالَة, بَحْث. A written composition of moderate length, exploring a particular issue or subject.
- metaphor /ˈmɛt.ə.fɚ/ (اسم) — اِسْتِعَارَة. The use of a word, phrase, concept, or set of concepts to refer to something other than its literal meaning, invoking an implicit similarity between the thing…
- ignore /ɪɡˈnɔː/ (فعل) — تَجَاهَلَ, طَنَّش. To deliberately not listen or pay attention to.
- lesson /ˈlɛs.ən/ (اسم) — دَرْس, حِصَّة. A section of learning or teaching into which a wider learning content is divided.
- carefully /ˈkɛɹf(ə)li/ (ظرف) — بِعِنَايَة. With care; attentively, circumspectly.
- afterwards /ˈæf.tɚ.wɚdz/ (ظرف) — أَخِير, بَعْدَ ذٰلِك. At a later or succeeding time; after that;
- comfort /ˈkʌm.fət/ (اسم) — رَاحَة. Contentment, ease.
- occasionally /əˈkeɪʒənəli/ (ظرف) — أَحْيَانًا. On occasion: at relatively infrequent intervals, from time to time, sometimes.
- angle /ˈæŋ.ɡəl/ (اسم) — زَاوِيَة. A figure formed by two rays which start from a common point (a plane angle) or by three planes that intersect (a solid angle).
- belong /bɪˈlɒŋ/ (فعل) — اِنْتَمَى. To have its proper place.
- routine /ɹuˈtin/ (اسم) — رُوتِين. A course of action to be followed regularly; a standard procedure.
الأفعال المركبة التي ستسمعها
- come up (فعل) — طَلَعَ. To emerge or become known, especially unexpectedly.
- get up (فعل) — قَامَ, نَهَضَ. To move in an upward direction; to ascend or climb.
- sit down (فعل) — جَلَسَ, قَعَدَ. To assume a sitting position from a standing position.
- talk about (فعل) — تَكَلَّمَ فِي, تَكَلَّمَ عَلَى. Used to draw attention to the speaker's characterization of someone or something.
نطق يحتاج إلى انتباه
يستخدم المتحدث 39 من الصيغ المختصرة، مثل don't, they've, you're. انطقها بصيغتها القصيرة كما تسمعها.
- أصوات “sh” و“zh”: essentially /ɪˈsɛnʃəli/, occasionally /əˈkeɪʒənəli/, sufficient /səˈfɪʃənt/, destination /dɛstɪˈneɪʃən/, shoe /ˈʃu/
- الكلمات الطويلة — انتبه لموضع النبر: uncomfortable /ʌnˈkʌm.fɚ.tə.bl̩/, essentially /ɪˈsɛnʃəli/, occasionally /əˈkeɪʒənəli/, extraordinary /ɪksˈtɹɔːrdɪn(ə)ɹi/, destination /dɛstɪˈneɪʃən/
كيف تتدرب بهذا الفيديو
- استمع إلى الفيديو كاملًا مرة واحدة دون أن تتكلم، ودوّن الكلمات التي لا تعرفها.
- ابدأ بسرعة 0.75×، وردّد جملة جملة، ثم عُد إلى السرعة العادية عندما يصبح الأمر سهلًا.
- سجّل صوتك وقارنه بالأصل، مع الانتباه إلى كلمات مثل meal, uncomfortable, argue.
القواعد في هذا الفيديو
أكثر التراكيب التي يستخدمها المتحدث، مع العبارات نفسها من الفيديو:
| التركيب | في الفيديو |
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| المضارع التام المستمر have/has been + -ing — حدث بدأ سابقًا وما زال مستمرًا | they've been thinking · they've been avoiding |
| المضارع التام have/has + اسم المفعول — حدث ماضٍ ما زال له أثر الآن | they've memorized · has happened · you've hit |
| جمل الوصل who / which + جملة — معلومة إضافية عن شخص أو شيء | man who had · justifications which is · thing, which is |
| المبني للمجهول be + اسم المفعول — التركيز على ما يحدث لا على من يفعله | been said · were qualified |
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