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Is there anything more terrifying than awkward silence?

You are standing in front of someone, you have said hello, you have talked about the weather, and suddenly your mind goes blank.

You stare at them, they stare at you, and you just want to run away.

We have all been there.

But what if I told you that being a great conversationalist is not about being funny or clever?

It's actually about a simple set of techniques that anyone can learn.

Today I'm sharing the secrets of social elegance.

I'm going to teach you how to talk to anyone, anywhere and never run out of things to say.

Hello everyone, my name is Lucy and welcome back to my channel where we discuss etiquette and elevating your daily life.

Many people hate small talk.

They think it is fake or shallow, but in the world of etiquette, it's like a kind of appetizer.

It warms people up before you go to the main course of a deep relationship.

If you can master these first few minutes of conversation, you can open doors to new careers, friendships, opportunities.

Here are my three golden rules for effortless conversation.

Let's go!

Rule number one, stop asking dead-end questions.

The biggest conversation killer is the question, how are you?

Why?

Because it always gets the answer like a robotic answer.

Good and you?

The end of conversation, that's all.

Instead of how are you or did you have a good weekend?

Try to upgrade your question to a more open-ended one.

Try what was the highlight of your week so far or what are you working on that is keeping you busy lately?

Do you feel the difference?

They require a real answer and they give the other person opportunity to complain,

to brag, to tell a story and that is where the conversation begins.

I really like jasmine.

This is green jasmine and I really like it.

Rule number two is about listening.

I call it finding the golden thread.

When someone answers you, they usually give you free information, little hooks that you can grab onto.

So your job is to listen for the hook, not just wait for your turn to speak.

Let's say you ask someone, where are you from?

They say, I'm from Chicago, but I moved here for a new job.

So a bad conversationalist would say, oh cool, I'm from London.

But a rational conversationalist would hear the golden thread, moved for a new job.

So you ask, oh, a new job, that is exciting, what field are you in?

Or was it a difficult transition moving cities?

By focusing always on the details of the answer, you never run out of things to say because they are always giving you constantly the next topic.

If you are truly stuck and panic-set-sin, use the ultimate safety net – the compliment plus question combo.

People love to talk about themselves.

If you do not know what to say, observe something about them and then compliment it and ask where it came from.

For instance, oh, that is a beautiful scarf.

I love the color.

Is it a specific fabric?

Oh, you seem to know everyone in this room.

Have you been part of this group for a long time?

These instantly make you feel charming and observant, and you make them feel good and you take the pressure off yourself to be interesting.

You just have to be interested, that is all.

Before we wrap up here are two quick reminders.

First, the body language.

When you are talking to someone, turn fully your body to that person who you are talking to.

It shows respect.

Second, the exit.

If the conversation is dying, do not just drift away. Be polite.

Say, it was so lovely catching up with you, but I'm so sorry, I have to say hello, for example, to the host,

or I have to go to grab a drink.

In the end, please mind, conversation is a muscle.

The more you use it, the stronger it gets.

I have a challenge for you.

Next time you are in elevator

or a coffee shop try to ask a stranger an open-ended

question just one let me know in the comments are you an introvert

or extrovert and do you find small talk easy or terrifying

if you enjoyed these tips please hit that like button

and subscribe i have so many secrets to share with you thank you for watching and go start a conversation today

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