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Is there anything more terrifying than awkward silence?
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You are standing in front of someone, you have said hello, you have talked about the weather, and suddenly your mind goes blank.
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You stare at them, they stare at you, and you just want to run away.
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We have all been there.
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But what if I told you that being a great conversationalist is not about being funny or clever?
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It's actually about a simple set of techniques that anyone can learn.
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Today I'm sharing the secrets of social elegance.
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I'm going to teach you how to talk to anyone, anywhere and never run out of things to say.
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Hello everyone, my name is Lucy and welcome back to my channel where we discuss etiquette and elevating your daily life.
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Many people hate small talk.
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They think it is fake or shallow, but in the world of etiquette, it's like a kind of appetizer.
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It warms people up before you go to the main course of a deep relationship.
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If you can master these first few minutes of conversation, you can open doors to new careers, friendships, opportunities.
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Here are my three golden rules for effortless conversation.
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Let's go!
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Rule number one, stop asking dead-end questions.
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The biggest conversation killer is the question, how are you?
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Why?
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Because it always gets the answer like a robotic answer.
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Good and you?
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The end of conversation, that's all.
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Instead of how are you or did you have a good weekend?
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Try to upgrade your question to a more open-ended one.
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Try what was the highlight of your week so far or what are you working on that is keeping you busy lately?
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Do you feel the difference?
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They require a real answer and they give the other person opportunity to complain,
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to brag, to tell a story and that is where the conversation begins.
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I really like jasmine.
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This is green jasmine and I really like it.
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Rule number two is about listening.
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I call it finding the golden thread.
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When someone answers you, they usually give you free information, little hooks that you can grab onto.
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So your job is to listen for the hook, not just wait for your turn to speak.
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Let's say you ask someone, where are you from?
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They say, I'm from Chicago, but I moved here for a new job.
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So a bad conversationalist would say, oh cool, I'm from London.
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But a rational conversationalist would hear the golden thread, moved for a new job.
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So you ask, oh, a new job, that is exciting, what field are you in?
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Or was it a difficult transition moving cities?
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By focusing always on the details of the answer, you never run out of things to say because they are always giving you constantly the next topic.
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If you are truly stuck and panic-set-sin, use the ultimate safety net – the compliment plus question combo.
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People love to talk about themselves.
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If you do not know what to say, observe something about them and then compliment it and ask where it came from.
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For instance, oh, that is a beautiful scarf.
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I love the color.
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Is it a specific fabric?
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Oh, you seem to know everyone in this room.
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Have you been part of this group for a long time?
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These instantly make you feel charming and observant, and you make them feel good and you take the pressure off yourself to be interesting.
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You just have to be interested, that is all.
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Before we wrap up here are two quick reminders.
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First, the body language.
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When you are talking to someone, turn fully your body to that person who you are talking to.
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It shows respect.
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Second, the exit.
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If the conversation is dying, do not just drift away. Be polite.
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Say, it was so lovely catching up with you, but I'm so sorry, I have to say hello, for example, to the host,
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or I have to go to grab a drink.
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In the end, please mind, conversation is a muscle.
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The more you use it, the stronger it gets.
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I have a challenge for you.
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Next time you are in elevator
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or a coffee shop try to ask a stranger an open-ended
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question just one let me know in the comments are you an introvert
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or extrovert and do you find small talk easy or terrifying
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if you enjoyed these tips please hit that like button
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and subscribe i have so many secrets to share with you thank you for watching and go start a conversation today
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Vocabulário e dicas de fala para esta lição
Este vídeo tem 67 frases e 765 palavras para praticar shadowing. A fala dura 4:38. O falante fala em ritmo natural, cerca de 165 palavras por minuto, próximo de uma conversa do dia a dia. 87% das palavras estão entre as 3.000 mais comuns do inglês, por isso o vocabulário é fácil de acompanhar.
Vocabulário principal deste vídeo
15 palavras menos comuns do vídeo, com pronúncia e significado:
- thread /ˈθɹɛd/ (substantivo) — fio, linha. A cord formed by spinning or twisting together textile fibers or filaments into one or more continuous strands, typically used in needlework.
- hook /hʊk/ (substantivo) — gancho. A rod bent into a curved shape, typically with one end free and the other end secured to a rope or other attachment.
- compliment /ˈkɑmpləmənt/ (substantivo) — elogio. An expression of praise, congratulation, or respect.
- stare /stɛɚ/ (verbo) — fitar, encarar. To look fixedly (at something).
- jasmine /ˈd͡ʒæzmɪn/ (substantivo) — jasmim. Any of several plants, of the genus Jasminum, mostly native to Asia, having fragrant white or yellow flowers.
- topic /ˈtɑpɪk/ (substantivo) — tópico, assunto. A subject; a theme; a category or general area of interest.
- killer /ˈkɪlɚ/ (substantivo) — assassino, assassina. One who or that which kills.
- technique /tɛkˈniːk/ (substantivo) — técnica. The practical aspects of a given art, occupation etc.; formal requirements.
- silence /ˈsaɪ̯ləns/ (substantivo) — silêncio. The absence of any sound.
- transition /tɹænˈzɪʃ.ən/ (substantivo) — transição. The process of change from one form, state, style or place to another.
- muscle /ˈmʌs.əl/ (substantivo) — músculo. A contractile form of tissue which animals use to effect movement.
- friendship /ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/ (substantivo) — amizade. The condition of being friends.
- exit /ˈɛɡzət/ (substantivo) — saída. An act of going out or going away, or leaving; a departure.
- awkward /ˈɔk.wɚd/ (adjetivo) — desajeitado, bisonho. Lacking dexterity in the use of the hands, or of instruments.
- panic /ˈpænɪk/ (substantivo) — pânico. Overwhelming fear or fright, often affecting groups of people or animals; (countable) an instance of this; a fright, a scare.
Phrasal verbs que você vai ouvir
- come from (verbo) — vir de, ser de. To have as one's origin, birthplace or nationality.
- run away (verbo) — fugir. To flee by running.
- stand in (verbo) — substituir. To substitute for; to replace
- wrap up (verbo) — embrulhar, empacotar. To cover or enclose (something) by folding and securing a covering entirely around it.
Pronúncia para ficar de olho
O falante usa 5 contrações e formas reduzidas, como I'm. Diga-as na forma curta, do jeito que você ouve.
- Os sons de “sh” e “zh”: transition /tɹænˈzɪʃ.ən/, friendship /ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/, rational /ˈɹæʃ(ə)nəl/, shallow /ˈʃæloʊ/, conversationalist /ˌkɑːnvɚˈseɪʃənəlɪst/
- Palavras longas — acerte a sílaba tônica: elevator /ˈɛləˌveɪtɚ/, conversationalist /ˌkɑːnvɚˈseɪʃənəlɪst/, appetizer /ˈæpɪˌtaɪzə/, extroverted /ˈɛkstɹəˌvəɹtɪd/, introverted /ˈɪn.tɹəˌvɜːɹ.təd/
Como praticar com este vídeo
- Ouça o vídeo inteiro uma vez sem falar e anote as palavras que você não conhece.
- Comece na velocidade 0,75×, faça shadowing frase por frase e volte à velocidade normal quando ficar fácil.
- Grave a sua voz e compare com o original, prestando atenção a palavras como thread, hook, compliment.
O que é a Técnica de Shadowing?
Shadowing é uma técnica de aprendizado de idiomas com base científica, originalmente desenvolvida para o treinamento de intérpretes profissionais. O método é simples, mas poderoso: você ouve áudio em inglês nativo e repete imediatamente em voz alta — como uma sombra seguindo o falante com 1-2 segundos de atraso. Pesquisas mostram melhora significativa na precisão da pronúncia, entonação, ritmo, sons conectados, compreensão auditiva e fluência na fala.