Shadowing Practice: Why are weddings so damn expensive? - Learn English Speaking with Video
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<<Phone ringing"Hello?" I'm, uh, planning a wedding for next spring." "a quick quote for a venue for a family gathering" "between 120 and 130 guests." "for 125 people" "we're aiming for April 16th" "the 16th" "That's going to be a $15,000 food and beverage minimum" "The food and beverage minimum is $17,000." This 2000 dollar difference is what's known as the "wedding mark-up" where some venders charge a higher price for weddings than for other similar parties so why are weddings so expensive?
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The wedding website "The Knot"surveyed thousands of its members and found that the average cost of their weddings was thirty-one thousand dollars last year that's not including honeymoon wedding dresses average at thirteen hundred dollars and catering comes in its $68 dollars per person. And those numbers are a lot higher if you live in places like New York Chicago DC or San Francisco the wedding industry is kinda weird and it's an industry that I have quite a bit of experience in my way Isabel and I run a wedding videography business in Washington DC and here's my take on my way to so expensive There's this economic concept called asymmetric information. With most things you buy you have a pretty good gauge in what you're getting for what you pay for.
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you pretty sure that an 8 dollar avocado is way too much because you've bought avocados before. Familiarity with a market produces balanced information between buyers and sellers and so they can settle on a fair price This is like economics 101.
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but most people shopping for wedding stuff and very little if any experience with what they're buying.
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cake, dress, napkins, catering, venues, flowers.
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This is something you just don't buy very often so you have a very good gauge on what should be paying.
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This is made a lot harder by the fact that we wedding vendors have a hard time posting our prices. You usually have to reach out and inquire to get any sort of pricing information.
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Imagine if you had asked for pricing for every item in the grocery store. Shopping would be a lot harder. When I first was starting my business I read on a blogs about marketing to prospective clients.
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And overwhelming message that I kept reading is "steer away from talking about price" Blogger: "we've put together a free report that shows you how to answer "price question" with those email leads in a way that steers them away from price quickly so you can get them on the phone or to a meeting where you can book them!" And then there's Pinterest. Planning: "Pinterest can be really useful I think using it as a starting point" It's an amazing tool for wedding inspiration or if you have an experience wedding planner by your side, but usually doesn't help with the price question.
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"...and you see all these like amazing dresses and you can click on it to like get more information.
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you're going to get a lot more pictures , but you're not gonna find any pricing information. And of course there's always the option to "repin" it if you'd liked. If you are like a normal person with a budget like you're setting yourself up to be let down. Another thing that makes wedding so expensive is the once in a lifetime mentality.
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The classic line for brides shopping for a wedding dress is: Designer: "It's the dress of your life , and if there's ever one picture will have of you, it's the one in your wedding dress wedding dress." That's wedding dress designer and artist talking on Planet Money. I'm as guilty as anyone at this: Here's were very first ads. it's all about that once in a lifetime feel.
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It's just really hard not to splurge when you put so much weight into one day.
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So, it's easy to look at this and think there's no doubt that wedding vendors are ripping off their clients.
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But there's another side to the story that i think is important to mention.
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Planner: "Corporate flowers for example all there's probably going to be direction but maybe there's a little bit more flexibility where as a bride had dreamt up a certain flowers and she in want to talk to the florist multiple times about the bouquet and the ribbon treatment and the fact that her grandmother's broaches gonna be on that Bouquet.
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It's a lot of time and energy spent on those flowers and that's gonna be reflected in the price." The upshot of this is that the emotional weight of weddings usually means more work for vendors, and thus higher prices. And the most demanding clients are the ones that set the prices for everyone. So the best thing you can do to avoid being swindled is to demand the price range before hearing a sales pitch.
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we vendors might hate it but it's the fair thing to do.
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Vocabulario y notas de pronunciación para esta lección
Esta lección de conversación de nivel B2 se basa en el vídeo “Why are weddings so damn expensive?”. Las palabras que más se repiten: wedding, price, dress, dollar, vendors. Este vídeo tiene 18 frases y 820 palabras para practicar shadowing. La parte hablada dura 4:30. El hablante habla rápido, unas 182 palabras por minuto, así que espera sonidos enlazados y reducidos. El 84 % de las palabras está entre las 3.000 más comunes del inglés; conviene repasar el resto antes de empezar.
Vocabulario clave de este vídeo
Las 15 palabras más avanzadas del vídeo, con su pronunciación y significado:
| Palabra | Pronunciación | Significado |
|---|---|---|
| vendor sustantivo | /ˈvɛn.dɚ/ | vendedor, vendedora |
| avocado sustantivo | /ˌɑvəˈkɑdoʊ/ | aguacate, palta |
| bouquet sustantivo | /buːˈkeɪ/ | ramo, ramita |
| planner sustantivo | /ˈplænɚ/ | agenda |
| catering sustantivo | /ˈkeɪ.tɚ.ɪŋ/ | servicio banquetero, catering |
| beverage sustantivo | /ˈbɛv(ə)ɹɪd͡ʒ/ | bebida, bebienda |
| steer verbo | /stɪɹ/ | dirigir, conducir |
| gauge sustantivo | /ˈɡeɪd͡ʒ/ | medida, patrón |
| bride sustantivo | /bɹaɪd/ | novia |
| asymmetric adjetivo | /ˌeɪ.səˈmɛt.ɹɪk/ | asimétrico |
| broach verbo | /bɹoʊt͡ʃ/ | espitar |
| florist sustantivo | /ˈflɒɹɪst/ | florista |
| inquire verbo | /ɪnˈkwaɪɹ/ | investigar, informarse |
| napkin sustantivo | /ˈnæpˌkɪn/ | servilleta, toballeta (disused) |
| overwhelm verbo | /ˌoʊ.vɚˈwɛlm/ | apabullar, arrollar |
Phrasal verbs que vas a escuchar
| Palabra | Significado |
|---|---|
| let down verbo | alargar |
| put together verbo | construir, elaborar |
| reach out verbo | tender la mano |
| rip off verbo | estafar, timar |
Gramática en este vídeo
Las estructuras que más usa el hablante, con las palabras exactas del vídeo:
| Estructura | En el vídeo |
|---|---|
| Oraciones condicionales if + oración, will/would + verbo — una condición y su resultado | if there's ever one picture will have |
| Voz pasiva be + participio pasado — importa lo que ocurre, no quién lo hace | is made · be let · be reflected |
| Present perfect have/has + participio pasado — una acción pasada que sigue importando ahora | you've bought · we've put |
Pronunciación a tener en cuenta
El hablante usa 17 contracciones y formas reducidas, como you're, gonna, I'm. Dilas en su forma corta, tal como las oyes.
- Palabras largas — cuida el acento: avocado /ˌɑvəˈkɑdoʊ/, asymmetric /ˌeɪ.səˈmɛt.ɹɪk/, mentality /mɛnˈtæləti/, flexibility /ˌflɛksɪˈbɪlɪti/
Sonidos difíciles para hispanohablantes:
- s + consonante al inicio — sin añadir una “e” delante: steer /stɪɹ/, splurge /splɝd͡ʒ/, swindle /ˈswɪndəl/
- /v/ — no es /b/: los dientes tocan el labio inferior: vendor /ˈvɛn.dɚ/, avocado /ˌɑvəˈkɑdoʊ/, beverage /ˈbɛv(ə)ɹɪd͡ʒ/, overwhelm /ˌoʊ.vɚˈwɛlm/, prospective /pɹəˈspɛktɪv/
- /dʒ/ — no es la “y” ni la “ch”: beverage /ˈbɛv(ə)ɹɪd͡ʒ/, gauge /ˈɡeɪd͡ʒ/, splurge /splɝd͡ʒ/
Cómo practicar con este vídeo
- Escucha el vídeo entero una vez sin hablar y anota las palabras que no conoces.
- Empieza a velocidad 0,75×, haz shadowing frase por frase y vuelve a la velocidad normal cuando te resulte fácil.
- Grábate y compara con el original, prestando atención a palabras como vendor, avocado, bouquet.
¿Qué es la Técnica de Shadowing?
Shadowing es una técnica de aprendizaje de idiomas respaldada por la ciencia, desarrollada originalmente para la formación de intérpretes profesionales y popularizada por el políglota Dr. Alexander Arguelles. El método es simple pero poderoso: escuchas audio en inglés nativo y lo repites en voz alta de inmediato, como una sombra que sigue al hablante con solo 1-2 segundos de retraso. A diferencia de la escucha pasiva o los ejercicios de gramática, el shadowing obliga a tu cerebro y músculos de la boca a procesar y reproducir simultáneamente patrones de habla reales. Las investigaciones muestran que mejora significativamente la precisión de la pronunciación, la entonación, el ritmo, el habla conectada, la comprensión auditiva y la fluidez al hablar, convirtiéndola en una de las metodologías más efectivas para la preparación del IELTS Speaking y la comunicación en inglés en el mundo real.