Pratique du Shadowing: Brené Brown on Empathy vs Sympathy - Apprendre l'anglais à l'oral avec la vidéo

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So what is empathy and why is it very different than sympathy?
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Empathy fuels connection, sympathy drives disconnection.
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Empathy, it's very interesting, Teresa Wiseman is a nursing scholar who studied professions,
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very diverse professions where empathy is relevant and came up with four qualities of empathy.
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Perspective taking, the ability to take the perspective of another person or recognize their perspective as their truth.
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Staying out of judgment, not easy when you enjoy it as much as most of us do.
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Recognizing emotion in other people and then communicating that.
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Empathy is feeling with people.
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And to me, I always think of empathy as this kind of sacred space
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when someone's kind of in a deep hole
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and they shout out from the bottom
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and they say I'm stuck it's dark I'm overwhelmed
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and then we look and we say hey I'm down I know what it's like down here
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and you're not alone sympathy is ooh it's bad huh no you want a sandwich
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empathy is a choice and it's a vulnerable choice
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because in order to connect with you I have to connect with something in myself
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that knows that feeling rarely if ever does an empathic response begin with at least I had a Yeah.
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And we do it all the time.
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Because you know what?
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Someone just shared something with us that's incredibly painful, and we're trying to silver lining it.
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I don't think that's a verb, but I'm using it as one.
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We're trying to put the silver lining around it.
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So I had a miscarriage.
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At least you know you can get pregnant.
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I think my marriage is falling apart.
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At least you have a marriage.
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John's getting kicked out of school at least Sarah is an A student.
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But one of the things we do sometimes in the face of very difficult conversations is we try to make things better.
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If I share something with you that's very difficult, I'd rather you say, I don't even know what to say right now, I'm just so glad you told me.
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Because the truth is, rarely can a response make something better.
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What makes something better is connection.
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What You'll Learn from This Clip

This video is a goldmine for english speaking practice—it teaches you how to use empathy in conversations, a skill that makes your speech more relatable and human. You’ll also learn to avoid common "silver lining" phrases that can disconnect you from others, like "At least you have..." Instead, practice responses like "I’m just so glad you told me," which build connection. Plus, you’ll pick up how to communicate emotion clearly, a key part of sounding natural in English.

Listen For These Sounds

Pay attention to connected speech and reductions in the dialogue. For example, "it's dark" often links to "it'sdark" in fast speech, with the "t" softening. You’ll also hear "I don't even know" reduced to "I dunno even know" in casual conversation. Notice how "what it's like" becomes "whadit's like"—the "t" in "what" blends into "it's." These small sounds are crucial for understanding and speaking like a native, so use a shadowing app to replay and mimic them.

Say It Like a Native

To mirror the speaker’s rhythm, focus on stress and pauses. Words like "empathy," "connection," and "vulnerable" are stressed to emphasize their importance. The speaker pauses before key points, like "Empathy is a choice," to let the idea sink in—copy that pause to sound more natural. Try shadow speak by repeating the lines right after the video, matching the speed and tone. A shadowing site can help you record and compare your speech, making it easier to improve english pronunciation. Remember, the goal is to feel the emotion behind the words—speak with warmth, and you’ll nail the rhythm in no time!

Qu'est-ce que la technique du Shadowing ?

Le Shadowing est une technique d'apprentissage des langues fondée sur la science, développée à l'origine pour la formation des interprètes professionnels. Le principe est simple mais puissant : vous écoutez de l'anglais natif et le répétez immédiatement à voix haute — comme une ombre suivant le locuteur avec un décalage de 1 à 2 secondes. Les recherches montrent une amélioration significative de la précision de la prononciation, de l'intonation, du rythme, des liaisons, de la compréhension orale et de la fluidité.