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How attractive do you think you seem to other people?
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Are you insecure about certain parts of yourself?
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Everyone has their own insecurities about themselves, and may fear how it may come off for other people.
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But you never know those very same qualities in yourself
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that you're insecure about are traits that some people may actually appreciate
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And find attractive
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while there's certainly some truth in the saying no one can know you better than you know yourself
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When it comes to attractiveness Sometimes we just can't tell
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because we're so hard on ourselves to help you with
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that Here are eight flaws that actually make you more attractive Number one you're shy
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Do you speak in a soft voice but prefer to keep quiet most of the time?
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Are you the type to duck your head or fidget when people look at you?
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While you may have a hard time believing this, there are actually a lot of people out there who find shyness an attractive trait to have.
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In a world where sociable, talkative, take-charge types of people are all clamoring to be the center of attention,
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there may be something refreshing about being with someone who likes to listen more than they like to talk.
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After all, shy people are often seen as more mysterious, intriguing, and down-to-earth compared to others.
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Number two, you're clumsy.
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Another trait that some find surprisingly attractive is clumsiness.
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In fact, psychology says that men, in particular, tend to find clumsiness in women to be attractive, not only because it makes them seem more genuine,
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youthful and excitable, but also because it makes them feel needed.
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Clumsiness also makes people feel compelled to approach you and to help you out when you're in a rut.
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Number three, you're easily embarrassed.
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Do you often get flustered when people tease you or get embarrassed when your friends poke fun at you for something?
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Do you tend to blush, squeal or cover your face when this happens?
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While this may seem like a flaw to some people, Being easily embarrassed is quite an attractive trade to others, especially to men.
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Similar to the previous point, people who are easily embarrassed seem more genuine because they don't try to hide their true feelings.
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Number four, you're nerdy.
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Those who get called nerds or geeks often get a bad reputation for loving something deeply.
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But what's so wrong with that?
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Whether it's comic books, anime, video games, Broadway musicals, or some other obscure interest, not a lot of people can relate to.
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Being a nerd isn't something you should be ashamed of.
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In fact, there are some who find nerds attractive for the very same reasons they're criticized for.
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They're driven, excited, and most of all passionate about the things they enjoy.
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Number five, you're too honest.
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Do you always say what you mean?
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To those who are tired of listening to everyone telling them what they want to hear, it can be nice to have someone who always tells the truth, no matter what.
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Being honest can be a very attractive trait, because it means that you're not going to waste their time by beating around the bush
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or by playing mind games with them.
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Despite how difficult it may be, you are able to just come out and say what they need to hear.
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Number six, you're an oversharer.
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Oh, I shouldn't have said that.
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Sorry, I've been talking and sharing so much.
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Does this sound like you?
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Well, the good news is, one of the silver linings to being an oversharer is that it makes you seem more sincere and approachable.
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While some may prefer mystery, there are those who like it when someone is an open book.
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This may be because your openness creates a comfortable environment for them to open up
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and to share things about themselves they don't usually share.
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It makes it easier for them to develop closeness and intimacy in a relationship.
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Number seven, you take things slow.
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Do you always take a long time making decisions because you tend to overthink things and focus on all the details?
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Do you always have a lot going on in your mind?
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You're probably a deep thinker and the type who likes to observe the situation before forming an opinion
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Unlike those who are always craving excitement or chasing one thrill after the other in their lives
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You appreciate and savor the peace and quiet in your life
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and prefer to take your time with things
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and To people who feel the same way this can be a very appealing quality to have
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and number eight you crave support As humans, it's normal to crave affection from others.
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Though it's true that sometimes people who openly desire warmth, sympathy, and encouragement from others can be a bit off-putting at times,
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especially when they seem too needy or desperate.
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There is something nice about being with someone who makes you feel needed.
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Whether it's kind words, sweet gestures, thoughtful gifts, or simply time and attention, having a partner who wants and asks for support can be a very attractive quality.
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Did you find any of these surprising or insightful?
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Vocabulaire et conseils d’expression pour cette leçon
Cette leçon d’expression orale de niveau B2 s’appuie sur la vidéo « Your Imperfection Makes You More Attractive ». Les mots qui reviennent le plus souvent : attractive, seem, trait, embarrassed. Cette vidéo contient 72 phrases et 1007 mots à répéter en shadowing. La partie parlée dure 5:36. Le locuteur parle vite, environ 180 mots par minute : attendez-vous à des liaisons et à des sons réduits. 87 % des mots font partie des 3 000 mots les plus courants en anglais, le vocabulaire est donc facile à suivre. 12 de ses 72 phrases sont des questions : un bon entraînement pour l’intonation interrogative et les réponses courtes.
Vocabulaire clé de cette vidéo
Les 15 mots les plus avancés de la vidéo, avec leur prononciation et leur sens :
| Mot | Prononciation | Sens |
|---|---|---|
| trait nom | /tɹeɪt/ | trait |
| embarrassed adjectif | /ɪmˈbæɹ.əst/ | embarrassé, gêné |
| clumsiness nom | /ˈklʌm.zi.nəs/ | maladresse, inélégance |
| crave verbe | /kɹeɪv/ | souhaiter, désirer |
| flaw nom | /flɔ/ | défaut, fissure |
| insecure adjectif | /ɪnsəˈkjʊɹ/ | insécurisé |
| approachable adjectif | /əˈpɹəʊ.t͡ʃə.bəl/ | approchable, abordable |
| attractiveness nom | attractivité, attrait | |
| clamor nom | /ˈklæm.ɚ/ | clameur |
| clumsy adjectif | /ˈklʌmzi/ | empoté, gauche |
| compel verbe | /kəmˈpɛl/ | contraindre, forcer |
| excitable adjectif | /ɪkˈsaɪtəbəl/ | excitable |
| fidget verbe | /ˈfɪd͡ʒ.ɪt/ | gigoter, remuer |
| fluster verbe | /ˈflʌstəɹ/ | confondre, embrouiller |
| insightful adjectif | /ɪnˈsaɪt.f(ə)l/ | perspicace |
Les verbes à particule que vous entendrez
| Mot | Prononciation | Sens |
|---|---|---|
| come out verbe | /ˌkʌm ˈaʊt/ | sortir |
| open up verbe | ouvrir |
Des phrases à répéter
Des phrases courtes et complètes de la vidéo, à réutiliser dans la conversation de tous les jours :
- How attractive do you think you seem to other people?
- Are you insecure about certain parts of yourself?
- Do you always say what you mean?
- Does this sound like you?
- Did you find any of these surprising or insightful?
La grammaire de cette vidéo
Les structures que le locuteur utilise le plus, avec les mots exacts de la vidéo :
| Structure | Dans la vidéo |
|---|---|
| Propositions relatives who / which + proposition — une précision sur une personne ou une chose | someone who likes · people who are · Those who get |
| Voix passive be + participe passé — l’accent est mis sur ce qui arrive, pas sur qui le fait | are often seen · are added |
Prononciation à surveiller
Le locuteur utilise 22 contractions et formes réduites, comme you're, don't, they're. Prononcez-les sous leur forme courte, telles que vous les entendez.
- Les sons « th »: thinker /ˈθɪŋ.kɚ/, youthful /ˈjuθfəl/, thrill /θɹɪl/, warmth /wɔɹmθ/, thoughtful /ˈθɔːtfəl/
- Les sons « sh » et « zh »: shyness /ˈʃaɪnəs/, sociable /ˈsoʊʃəbəl/, blush /ˈblʌʃ/, refresh /ɹɪˈfɹɛʃ/, notification /ˌnoʊtɪfɪˈkeɪʃn̩/
- Mots longs — placez bien l’accent: approachable /əˈpɹəʊ.t͡ʃə.bəl/, excitable /ɪkˈsaɪtəbəl/, intimacy /ˈɪn.tɪ.mə.si/, encouragement [ɪnˈkʌɹɪd͡ʒmənt], notification /ˌnoʊtɪfɪˈkeɪʃn̩/
Les sons difficiles pour les francophones :
- /tʃ/ et /dʒ/ — à ne pas adoucir en « ch » et « j »: approachable /əˈpɹəʊ.t͡ʃə.bəl/, fidget /ˈfɪd͡ʒ.ɪt/, encouragement [ɪnˈkʌɹɪd͡ʒmənt], gesture /ˈd͡ʒɛs.t͡ʃɚ/
- /r/ anglais — langue recourbée, sans frotter la gorge: trait /tɹeɪt/, embarrassed /ɪmˈbæɹ.əst/, crave /kɹeɪv/, insecure /ɪnsəˈkjʊɹ/, approachable /əˈpɹəʊ.t͡ʃə.bəl/
- /ŋ/ final — sans prononcer de /g/ après: craving /ˈkɹeɪ.vɪŋ/, lining /ˈlaɪnɪŋ/
Comment s’entraîner avec cette vidéo
- Écoutez la vidéo en entier une fois sans parler et notez les mots que vous ne connaissez pas.
- Commencez à la vitesse 0,75×, répétez phrase par phrase, puis revenez à la vitesse normale quand cela devient facile.
- Enregistrez-vous et comparez avec l’original, en faisant attention à des mots comme trait, embarrassed, clumsiness.
Qu'est-ce que la technique du Shadowing ?
Le Shadowing est une technique d'apprentissage des langues fondée sur la science, développée à l'origine pour la formation des interprètes professionnels. Le principe est simple mais puissant : vous écoutez de l'anglais natif et le répétez immédiatement à voix haute — comme une ombre suivant le locuteur avec un décalage de 1 à 2 secondes. Les recherches montrent une amélioration significative de la précision de la prononciation, de l'intonation, du rythme, des liaisons, de la compréhension orale et de la fluidité.