Shadowing Practice: If the Narcissist was Honest ๐Ÿ˜‚ - Learn English Speaking with Video

ื‘ื—ืจ ืžืฆื‘ ืชืจื’ื•ืœ

ื›ืœ ืžืฆื‘ ืคื•ืชื— ื—ื“ืจ ืชืจื’ื•ืœ ื‘ืžืกืš ืžืœื.

32 ืžืฉืคื˜ื™ื
ืื ื”ืžืฉืคื˜ื™ื ืงืฆืจื™ื ืื• ืืจื•ื›ื™ื ืžื“ื™, ืœื—ืฅ ืขืœ ืขืจื•ืš ื›ื“ื™ ืœื”ืชืื™ื ืื•ืชื.
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Hey, it's great to meet you.
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Oh, thank you so much.
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Yeah, you too.
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So I'm a narcissist.
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Yeah.
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But you seem so nice.
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Oh, I'm pretending.
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Really?
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Yeah, I figured out if I'm charming and funny and give you lots of attention and affection,
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then I can get you to fall in love with me.
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Why do you need me to fall in love with you?
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Oh, because then you're less likely to leave once I start lying
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and belittling and gaslighting you and chipping away at your self -worth in order to control and manipulate you.
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Huh.
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Yeah, it works especially well
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if you have a history of trauma where you tend to blame yourself even though you're the one being neglected
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that sounds like abuse.
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Oh, it definitely is.
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Why would you do that?
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Oh, I'm deeply insecure.
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I can see that.
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Yeah, I have a massively fragile ego and a fear of rejection,
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so I've created a fantasy world in which I'm the center of the universe and everyone else is inferior.
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Well, thank you for telling me all this up front before we formed a complicated trauma bond
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that would have caused me years of misery.
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Yeah, well, I just want people to know what they're getting into.
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I mean, you by chance don't struggle with a lack of boundaries and self -esteem issues, do you?
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I do, actually.
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Dang it, we probably would have made a great pair.
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Yeah, I bet.
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Good thing you showed me these red flags up front.
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Well, if there's one thing I am, it's honest and transparent in the beginning.

ื”ื•ืจื“ ืืคืœื™ืงืฆื™ื”

ื›ืœ ืžื” ืฉืืชื” ืฆืจื™ืš ื›ื“ื™ ืœื“ื‘ืจ ื‘ืฉื˜ืฃ

ื”ื’ื™ื™ืช AIืฆื™ื•ืŸ ืœื›ืœ ืžืฉืคื˜
ืชืจื’ื•ืœ IPAืฉืœื•ื˜ ื‘ื›ืœ ืฆืœื™ืœ
ืื•ืฆืจ ืžื™ืœื™ืื‘ื ื” ืืช ืžืื’ืจ ื”ืžื™ืœื™ื ืฉืœืš
ืžืฉื—ืง ืื•ืฆืจ ืžื™ืœื™ืืœืžื“ ืชื•ืš ื›ื“ื™ ืžืฉื—ืง
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ื”ืžืœืฅ ืขืœ ืกืจื˜ื•ืŸ

ืื•ืฆืจ ืžื™ืœื™ื ื•ื”ืขืจื•ืช ื”ื’ื™ื™ื” ืœืฉื™ืขื•ืจ ื”ื–ื”

ืฉื™ืขื•ืจ ื”ื“ื™ื‘ื•ืจ ื”ื–ื” ืžื‘ื•ืกืก ืขืœ ื”ืกืจื˜ื•ืŸ โ€œIf the Narcissist was Honest ๐Ÿ˜‚โ€. ื‘ืกืจื˜ื•ืŸ ื”ื–ื” ื™ืฉ 32 ืžืฉืคื˜ื™ื ื•-271 ืžื™ืœื™ื ืœืชืจื’ื•ืœ Shadowing. ื”ื“ื™ื‘ื•ืจ ื ืžืฉืš 0:59. ืจืง 81% ืžื”ืžื™ืœื™ื ื ืžืฆืื•ืช ื‘ื™ืŸ 3,000 ื”ืžื™ืœื™ื ื”ื ืคื•ืฆื•ืช ื‘ื™ื•ืชืจ ื‘ืื ื’ืœื™ืช, ื›ืš ืฉืื•ืฆืจ ื”ืžื™ืœื™ื ืžืืชื’ืจ.

ืื•ืฆืจ ืžื™ืœื™ื ืžืจื›ื–ื™ ื‘ืกืจื˜ื•ืŸ ื”ื–ื”

9 ืžื™ืœื™ื ืžื”ืกืจื˜ื•ืŸ ืฉื›ื“ืื™ ืœืœืžื•ื“, ืขื ื”ื”ื’ื™ื™ื” ื•ื”ืžืฉืžืขื•ืช ืฉืœื”ืŸ:

ืžื™ืœื”ื”ื’ื™ื™ื”ืžืฉืžืขื•ืช
trauma ืฉื ืขืฆื/หˆtษนษ”m.ษ™/ื˜ึฐืจึธืื•ึผืžึธื”
complicated ืฉื ืชื•ืืจ/หˆkษ‘m.plษชหŒkeษช.tษชd/ืžืกื•ื‘ืš, ืžึฐืกึปื‘ึธึผืšึฐ
chip ืฉื ืขืฆื/tอกสƒษชp/ืฉึฐืื‘ึธื‘
boundary ืฉื ืขืฆื/หˆbaสŠndษนi/ื’ึฐึผื‘ื•ึผืœ
charm ืฉื ืขืฆื/tอกสƒษ‘ษนm/ืงืกื
transparent ืฉื ืชื•ืืจ/tษนรฆnsหˆpรฆษนษ™nt/ืฉึธืืงื•ึผืฃ
misery ืฉื ืขืฆื/หˆmษชz(ษ™)ษนi/ืื•ืžืœืœื•ืช
fragile ืฉื ืชื•ืืจ/หˆfษนรฆdอกส’ษ™l/ืฉื‘ื™ืจ
narcissist ืฉื ืขืฆืื ืจืงื™ืกื™ืกื˜

Phrasal verbs ืฉืชืฉืžืขื•

ืžื™ืœื”ืžืฉืžืขื•ืช
figure out ืคื•ืขืœื”ึตื‘ึดื™ืŸ, ืžืฆื ืชืฉื•ื‘ื”

ืžืฉืคื˜ื™ื ืฉื›ื“ืื™ ืœื—ื–ื•ืจ ืขืœื™ื”ื

ืžืฉืคื˜ื™ื ืงืฆืจื™ื ื•ืฉืœืžื™ื ืžื”ืกืจื˜ื•ืŸ ืฉืืคืฉืจ ืœื”ืฉืชืžืฉ ื‘ื”ื ื‘ืฉื™ื—ื” ื™ื•ืžื™ื•ืžื™ืช:

  • Hey, it's great to meet you.
  • Why do you need me to fall in love with you?
  • Why would you do that?

ื”ื’ื™ื™ื” ืฉืฉื•ื•ื” ืœืฉื™ื ืœื‘ ืืœื™ื”

ื”ื“ื•ื‘ืจ ืžืฉืชืžืฉ ื‘-10 ืงื™ืฆื•ืจื™ื ื•ืฆื•ืจื•ืช ืžืงื•ืฆืจื•ืช, ื›ืžื• I'm, you're, don't. ืืžืจื• ืื•ืชื ื‘ืฆื•ืจื” ื”ืงืฆืจื”, ื›ืคื™ ืฉืืชื ืฉื•ืžืขื™ื ืื•ืชื.

  • ื”ืฆืœื™ืœื™ื ืฉืœ โ€œshโ€ ื•-โ€œzhโ€: affection /ษ™หˆfษ›k.สƒษ™n/, rejection /ษนษชหˆdอกส’ษ›kสƒษ™n/
  • ืžื™ืœื™ื ืืจื•ื›ื•ืช โ€” ืฉื™ืžื• ืœื‘ ืœื”ื˜ืขืžื”: complicated /หˆkษ‘m.plษชหŒkeษช.tษชd/, inferior /ษชnหˆfษชษน.i.ษš/, manipulate /mษ™หˆnษชp.jสŠ.leษชt/

ืฆืœื™ืœื™ื ืฉื“ื•ื‘ืจื™ ืขื‘ืจื™ืช ืžืชืงืฉื™ื ื‘ื”ื:

  • /รฆ/ โ€” ืคืชื•ื— ื™ื•ืชืจ ืžื”-โ€œืึถโ€ ื”ืขื‘ืจื™ืช, ืœื ื›ืžื• โ€œaโ€ ื‘-โ€œcupโ€: transparent /tษนรฆnsหˆpรฆษนษ™nt/, fragile /หˆfษนรฆdอกส’ษ™l/, massively /หˆmรฆs.ษชv.li/
  • /r/ โ€” ื”ืœืฉื•ืŸ ืœื ื ื•ื’ืขืช ื‘ืฉื•ื ืžืงื•ื, ืœื ื”-โ€œืจโ€ ื”ื’ืจื•ื ื™ืช: trauma /หˆtษนษ”m.ษ™/, pretend /pษนษ™หˆtษ›nd/, boundary /หˆbaสŠndษนi/, charm /tอกสƒษ‘ษนm/, transparent /tษนรฆnsหˆpรฆษนษ™nt/
  • ืขื™ืฆื•ืจ ืงื•ืœื™ ื‘ืกื•ืฃ ืžื™ืœื” โ€” /b/, /d/, /g/, /z/, /v/ ื‘ืœื™ ืœื”ืคื•ืš ืื•ืชื ืœืื˜ื•ืžื™ื: complicated /หˆkษ‘m.plษชหŒkeษช.tษชd/, pretend /pษนษ™หˆtษ›nd/

ืื™ืš ืœืชืจื’ืœ ืขื ื”ืกืจื˜ื•ืŸ ื”ื–ื”

  1. ื”ืงืฉื™ื‘ื• ืœื›ืœ ื”ืกืจื˜ื•ืŸ ืคืขื ืื—ืช ื‘ืœื™ ืœื“ื‘ืจ, ื•ืจืฉืžื• ืืช ื”ืžื™ืœื™ื ืฉืืชื ืœื ืžื›ื™ืจื™ื.
  2. ืชืจื’ืœื• Shadowing ืžืฉืคื˜ ืื—ืจ ืžืฉืคื˜ ื‘ืžื”ื™ืจื•ืช ืจื’ื™ืœื”, ื•ื—ื–ืจื• ืขืœ ื›ืœ ืžืฉืคื˜ ืขื“ ืฉื”ืงืฆื‘ ืฉืœื›ื ืชื•ืื ืืช ื”ื“ื•ื‘ืจ.
  3. ื”ืงืœื™ื˜ื• ืืช ืขืฆืžื›ื ื•ื”ืฉื•ื• ืœืžืงื•ืจ, ืชื•ืš ืชืฉื•ืžืช ืœื‘ ืœืžื™ืœื™ื ื›ืžื• trauma, complicated, chip.

ืžื”ื™ ื˜ื›ื ื™ืงืช ื”ืฉืื“ื•ืื™ื ื’?

ืฉืื“ื•ืื™ื ื’ ื”ื™ื ื˜ื›ื ื™ืงืช ืœืžื™ื“ืช ืฉืคื” ืžื‘ื•ืกืกืช ืžื“ืข ืฉืคื•ืชื—ื” ื‘ืžืงื•ืจ ืœื”ื›ืฉืจืช ืžืชื•ืจื’ืžื ื™ื ืžืงืฆื•ืขื™ื™ื ื•ืคื•ืคื•ืœืจื™ืช ืขืœ ื™ื“ื™ ื”ืคื•ืœื™ื’ืœื•ื˜ ื“"ืจ ืืœื›ืกื ื“ืจ ืืจื’ื•ืืœืก. ื”ืฉื™ื˜ื” ืคืฉื•ื˜ื” ืืš ืขื•ืฆืžืชื™ืช: ืืชื” ืžืงืฉื™ื‘ ืœืื•ื“ื™ื• ื‘ืื ื’ืœื™ืช ื™ืœื™ื“ื™ืช ื•ื—ื•ื–ืจ ืขืœื™ื• ื‘ืงื•ืœ ืจื ืžื™ื“ โ€” ื›ืžื• ืฆืœ ื”ืขื•ืงื‘ ืื—ืจื™ ื”ื“ื•ื‘ืจ ืขื ืขื™ื›ื•ื‘ ืฉืœ 1โ€“2 ืฉื ื™ื•ืช ื‘ืœื‘ื“. ื‘ื ื™ื’ื•ื“ ืœื”ืื–ื ื” ืคืกื™ื‘ื™ืช ืื• ืชืจื’ื™ืœื™ ื“ืงื“ื•ืง, ืฉืื“ื•ืื™ื ื’ ืžื›ืจื™ื— ืืช ื”ืžื•ื— ื•ื”ืฉืจื™ืจื™ื ื‘ืคื” ืœืขื‘ื“ ื•ืœืฉื—ื–ืจ ื“ืคื•ืกื™ ื“ื™ื‘ื•ืจ ืืžื™ืชื™ื™ื ื‘ื• ื–ืžื ื™ืช. ืžื—ืงืจื™ื ืžืจืื™ื ืฉื–ื” ืžืฉืคืจ ืžืฉืžืขื•ืชื™ืช ืืช ื“ื™ื•ืง ื”ื”ื’ื™ื™ื”, ื”ืื™ื ื˜ื•ื ืฆื™ื”, ื”ืงืฆื‘, ื”ื“ื™ื‘ื•ืจ ื”ืžื—ื•ื‘ืจ, ื”ื‘ื ืช ื”ืฉืžื™ืขื” ื•ืฉื˜ืฃ ื”ื“ื™ื‘ื•ืจ โ€” ืžื” ืฉื”ื•ืคืš ืื•ืชื• ืœืื—ืช ื”ืฉื™ื˜ื•ืช ื”ื™ืขื™ืœื•ืช ื‘ื™ื•ืชืจ ืœื”ื›ื ื” ืœIELTS Speaking ื•ืœืชืงืฉื•ืจืช ื‘ืื ื’ืœื™ืช ื‘ืขื•ืœื ื”ืืžื™ืชื™.

ื˜ื›ื ื™ืงืช Shadowing: ืงืจื ืืช ื”ืžื“ืจื™ืš ื”ืžืœื ืฉืœื‘ ืื—ืจ ืฉืœื‘ โ†’