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If Advent is the joyful and devout preparation for the celebration of Christmas, what is that?
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Here's Jesus who says, I came that my joy may be in you and your joy may be complete.
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What is he making complete?
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Okay, what is it?
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And then how do you find it?
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Yeah.
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So that's, you might say, is the central question of the Christian life.
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Hi, my name is Father Mike Schmitz.
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In this series, we're talking with three special guests about the spiritual discipline of
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Christian joy in preparation for the Advent series in the Ascension app, Joy to the World.
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And I'm releasing a new video on the Ascension app every day during
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Advent with reflection on what it means to be joyful.
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If you'd like to see more, be sure to download the Ascension app from the App Store on your smartphone or tablet,
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or you can visit ascensionpress .com slash fathermikeadvent.
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Today, first of our conversation, I'm joined by Bishop Robert Barron, Bishop of the Diocese of Rochester and Winona in the great state of Minnesota,
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also the founder of Word on Fire and the host of Catholicism Project, which how many years ago was Catholicism?
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It came out in 2011.
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That's incredible.
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Yeah, 15 years it's been.
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And it's made such an impact in the world.
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Yeah, thank God.
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I mean, as has
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Word on Fire, as an entire company, it just brought the gospel to so many people.
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Appreciate that a lot.
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We just had our 25th anniversary.
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We started really about the year 2000.
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So last year we had our 25th anniversary.
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Based out of Chicago.
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Yeah, started in Chicago.
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And it's just on WGN radio at 5 .15 on Sunday morning.
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I asked them, you know, how much would it cost to get a radio show?
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And they said about $50 ,000.
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And so I raised that money for my parish, and that's how we started.
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Wow.
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Yeah.
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And it's become this.
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Yeah, thank God.
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And so many people have come to know the gospel.
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And, you know, so I'm reflecting on this, reflecting on the fact that, you know, Pope Francis had talked about the joy of the gospel.
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And here we are in preparation for Advent.
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I came across something that said that
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Advent is described to Advent like this is that
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Advent is the joyful and devout preparation for the celebration of Christmas.
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And one of the things that it did for me is that it kind of reminded me that,
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you know, as Christians, we're not waiting for Christmas to be joyful.
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Like, note that if Advent is the joyful and devout preparation for a celebration of Christmas,
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then joy gets to be part—joy is part of the process.
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Yeah, and also liturgically, we've heard to Lent as a joyful season.
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Really?
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This joyful season of penitence.
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Yeah.
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Which is a clue.
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See, that joy, as we're describing it today, doesn't have really to do with happy, clappy feelings, right?
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It's something else.
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It's something deeper, more abiding.
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So that's interesting how the prayer of the church signals this difference.
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Kind of forms this for us.
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And so that's actually one of my first questions is, if Advent is the joyful and devout preparation for the celebration of Christmas, what is that?
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What is joy?
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Yeah, I mean, it's a really interesting question.
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And it's so central to our tradition.
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Yeah, we use the word all the time.
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Right.
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And the fact that Aquinas structures his whole moral theology not around law, I find it really interesting.
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If you look at the second part of the Summa where he talks about the moral life, right?
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Question 90, 9 -0, question 90 is when he first broaches the law.
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A lot of people say, well, morality is all about law, isn't it?
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But the first question he raises is about the Attitude, happiness, the one thing we all want.
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And then he explores what it isn't.
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It's not this, not this, not this, not that.
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It must be this, right?
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And then from that starting point, you develop your moral theology.
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This guy, Father Cervé Pincares, who was a great
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Dominican moral theologian, he rediscovered that for our time.
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This great book called The Sources of Catholic Ethics, I think, to my mind, the best book about moral theology since the Council.
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He was very influential on John Paul II.
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But he insisted upon that.
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You don't start moral theology with the law.
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You start it with happiness.
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What do we want?
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What is this elusive thing that we all want?
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And once you identify it, now you know how to structure your life.
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Like, what are you looking for?
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What is it?
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What are you looking for?
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Well, we're all looking for happiness.
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Everybody, from the saint to the worst sinner, is all looking for happiness.
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Okay, what is it?
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And then how do you find it?
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So that's, you might say, is the central question of the Christian life.
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Well, when you say that he goes through, Thomas Aquinas goes through, here's what it's not.
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Right.
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So what is that for us?
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Because we can conflate happiness and joy, but also we can say, like, well, I want that, whatever that is.
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But we pursue happiness or pursue joy, beatitude, we think, but we're pursuing the wrong thing.
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What is it not?
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Yeah, well, I find that text super clarifying.
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I've been teaching on it for years, where Thomas says, Wealth, pleasure, honor, and power are the four things that we typically seek.
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We think, that'll make me happy, right?
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And talk to most people.
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What do you want?
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You say to a young person in college, well, I want to be wealthy if I can.
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I can be powerful.
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I want to be famous.
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Wasn't there a survey a couple years ago talking to young people?
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What they most wanted, it wasn't wealth so much, or power.
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It was to be famous on the Internet, right?
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That I'm an influencer.
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Well, famous for what?
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I don't really care.
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It's fun to be famous.
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It doesn't matter, yeah.
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So wealth, pleasure, power, honor.
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Pleasure.
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Look, just give me enough pleasure of the senses or of sex or of booze or drugs or whatever it is.
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I'll be happy.
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Now, see, what happens, and Aquinas saw this, we're wired for God.
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That's what we really want, right?
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The heart's restless to the rest of God.
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So we really want God.
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So anything less than God will leave us empty and dissatisfied and eventually addicted because I'm going to keep wanting it,
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wanting it, wanting it, wanting it, and it won't satisfy me.
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I'll get more and more frustrated.
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And like Chesterton says, I'll be like this little train just circling obsessively around, right?
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Yeah.
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That's the problem.
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See, Aquinas saw that very clearly.
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And you know this.
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I mean, pastorally, a lot of our work is that, is helping people see, you know, you've tried this path, that's not it.
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I remember dealing, when I was in the parish, with, you know, this middle -aged guy, 45 or 50.
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And the opening line, he said to me, was, Father, all my dreams have come true, and I'm miserable.
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Really?
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Yeah, and it was beautiful, self -diagnosis.
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Right, exactly.
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Like, all my dreams, I've attained everything I ever wanted, and I'm miserable.
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In other words, I didn't find beatitudo, right?
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And so then I tried to kind of, okay, well, this is why.
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You're not meant for those things.
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But see, getting clarity on that is so important.
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And authentic joy or happiness, whatever you want to call it, authentic beatitudo has to do with that.
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Right.
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It's the right orientation of your life.
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So it doesn't involve power, pleasure, fame, or...
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Well, here's the trick.
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See, it's very interesting.
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The trick is, once I am rightly aligned toward the will of God, that's what I want.
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Seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and the rest will be given to you.
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Meaning, I think, then if you get wealth, you'll know what to do with it, and it won't wreck you.
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If you get pleasure, you'll know how to handle it, and it won't wreck you.
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If you get honored—so Thomas says honor is the flag of virtue.
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It's a cool description.
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It's a way of saying, hey, look at that guy.
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Look at her.
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She's really good.
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Honor is just the flag.
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Don't get addicted to the stupid flag.
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Oh, I want more flags, more flags. So stupid.
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That's honor.
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If I'm rightly aligned, then I can handle wealth, pleasure, power, honor.
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In fact, I can use them for God's purposes.
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That's the trick.
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But see, what happens is everyone gets addicted to these lesser goods, and they turn on you.
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See, they'll devour you.
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Anyone involved in pastoral ministry, we all know that, right?
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People get devoured by their addictions.
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It's for freedom that
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Christ has set you free, says Paul, to be free from those addictions.
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And now I'm ordered to God, and now I'm free to live the way God wants me to, and I can use whatever comes my way.
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Those things or anything else, like even sickness, even suffering, right?
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I know how to use it for the sake of God's purpose.
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Well, so then, and then, so I really appreciate that because we, like you said, we look for happiness,
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we look for joy in all those places.
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But if we're saying, okay, but here's what we're really made for.
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Yeah.
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And not just in the sense of we're made for the Lord.
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I mean, St. Augustine talks about this, our hearts are restless until they rest in you, oh Lord.
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Yeah.
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But there's that, what's promised there is a place of rest.
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Is that what joy is?
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Is joy a place of, is it peace? is joy, ecstasy, is joy, happiness.
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Yeah.
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Well, there's a couple ways to look at it.
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I love the word, you know, shalom, which runs through the Bible.
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And of course, the risen Jesus, that's what he says to his disciples, shalom.
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Peace is a good way to name it.
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Because peace is not the same as, again, happy, clappy feelings or feeling good.
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And again, I'm not against feeling good.
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You know, I'm a Catholic.
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I'm not playing either or games.
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Feeling good is great.
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Like the other a night, I get here in Nashville, and I had this filet mignon, and it was just great.
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And I mean, the filet mignon, that's a great sensual pleasure.
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Nothing in the world wrong with that.
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Wherever the Catholic sun does shine, there's music and laughter and good red wine.
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Great.
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But that's not the same as Beatitudo.
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That's a good thing.
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It's a blessing.
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But Beatitudo is something stranger and rarer and deeper.
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And Shalom kind of names it at peace, at the depth of your life.
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Only in God is my soul at rest.
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And the rest thing is interesting.
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It doesn't mean like I'm in a hammock.
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I'm just resting.
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It means something like savoring, I think.
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So like Aquinas says, there are two moves of the will, to seek the absent good, but then to savor the present good.
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It's like right now, there's something good, our conversation.
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We're both resting in it.
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You know, we're just, all right, I'm savoring this moment.
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Good, good.
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What God wants for all of us is to savor him, ultimately, to rest in him.
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So when someone's dying, we say, you know, may he rest in peace.
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It doesn't mean may he be in a hammock for all eternity.
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Take a nap.
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Right, take a nap.
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It means savor now the good that you've been seeking, and now you're in the presence of it.
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That's getting closer to beatitudo, joy, shalom, peace.
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That's what it's about.
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Now, at least in this life, good feeling and shalom don't always come together.
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Right.
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The hope is, this is heaven.
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The hope is, yes, that those will come together in this perfect harmony.
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Here below, shoot for shalom, shoot for beatitudo, and then you'll know what to do with good feeling and bad feeling.
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It's part of that.
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I've heard you say before, and it actually reframed a lot of the ways that I look at the first commandment about having no other gods.
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And I thought, okay, we've gots first.
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But you had framed it in such a way, I don't know if you do it regularly or if it's something I came across,
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and I was like, oh, my gosh, this has revolutionized how I approach it.
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But that sense of, is God the spiritual center of gravity in my life?
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That sense of, is he not just first in a line of things that are important, but he's the spiritual central.
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And it seems like that kind of joy would be this, I'm abiding in that place where the spiritual center of gravity is the center,
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as opposed to like wobbly.
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Yes.
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And see, now I'll go back to people like Ignacio Viola.
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If I'm detached from the finite goods of the world, he can say, whether I have a long life or short life, I don't care.
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Whether I'm famous or not, I don't care.
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Whether I'm wealthy or poor, whether I'm healthy or sick.
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So that's in this life, I'm living in the center,
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and I can look at my ever -changing fortunes with a kind of detachment because I'm seeking first the will of God.
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That's what I want.
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And in light of that desire, I can situate and organize all the other interests, happenings, events of my life um
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that's the in some ways the central challenge of the spiritual life
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i think how do i handle everything
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now in light of this i like the center of gravity language that's that's right
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or like the sun around which the planets revolve so
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because we there's a sun in all of our lives there's something some great center of gravity around
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which things revolve what happens to us sinners a lot is God becomes like a little planet that's revolving around.
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Usually, it's my own ego.
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It's the center of gravity.
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And so, wealth, pleasure, power, honor, God.
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And they're all kind of revolving around.
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Metanoia, conversion means, yeah, I'm changing that.
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I'm rearranging that.
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God is the...
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So, my life is not about me.
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That phrase I always liked, your life is not about this copernican revolution right in a way that's just like no here's god
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and that's the center metanoia is a copernican revolution in your spiritual life
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which is why it's so darn hard yeah that's why we resisted we sinners
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because look my life's kind of in order i know i'm kind of unhappy a lot
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but at least it's in order you know i always think of it it's a cure of ours
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when he was asked what have you learned about human beings after all these years of hearing
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you know thousands of confessions he said that people are much sadder than they seem which strikes me as dead right.
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Most of us play kind of a game with ourselves and with each other about, oh, I'm doing fine.
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But most of us are sadder than we seem because the spiritual equilibrium is off, and we don't have God in the center of our lives.
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And the joyful person, the way you're pursuing it correctly, is that person that's made that Copernican revolution.
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Wow, I need to sit with what
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St. John Gandy said.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah because it resonates in so many ways
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and it's and it's not even necessarily just
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that people are putting on a face as much as it is where i'm distracting myself right um
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and so even as we enter into like you know advent into christmas there's
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that that sense of i'm i'm i'm happier why well
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because i'm full of distractions i'm feeling my life with nostalgia i'm feeling my life with things
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that are memories of other times
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when i was happy as opposed to entering into silence that
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that season of advent being an opportunity where it's i can listen that's dead right
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because that's pascal isn't it right
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that most of our lives are he called them divertissement diversions i divert myself with
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and in his case was gambling he was a gambler
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so he played the great pascal one of the great minds of the western world
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but he spent hours and hours at gambling tables right at least he got
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that one analogy out of it the wager yeah yeah that's right no that's
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Right, the Pascal's Wager is born from that thing.
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But most of us sinners,
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he said, spend most of our lives distracting ourselves from the central question of conversion and metanoia, following Christ.
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We divert ourselves, and then we convince ourselves, well, I guess I'm doing okay.
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I'm kind of basically happy.
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He says, put down the diversions.
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And actually, Advent and Lent, both, are great seasons for that.
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Naming, what are my diversions?
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We all have them.
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We all have them.
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Name them and set them aside.
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Like one thing I did was it was last, no, two years ago for the first time.
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I said during
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Lent, one day I'm putting the phone away.
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I'm going to put it in a drawer.
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And I made it.
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The whole day.
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Yeah.
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And I made a deal with my assistant.
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I said, if she had to reach me for some reason, we had a way to do it.
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But I just said, no, no, it's going to go in a drawer.
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And I'll look at it again the end of the day, but the entire day.
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And, you know, it was hard, but, man, it was liberating.
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Yeah, I bet.
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Because those stupid machines, they're a classic divertissement.
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They're a great diversion.
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They've been made that way.
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You refresh, you refresh, and it's like gambling.
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It's like the one -armed bandit.
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They're designed to be addictive, and they work.
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Like everyone, I'm addicted to it.
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So you have to set it aside.
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But name what your diversion is, and then try to at least set that aside.
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Which is funny, because we think about diversions, that's what makes me happy.
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What do you do to make you happy?
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Well, I play this, I do that, I do these other things.
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And so there's a connection, but at the same time, it's a false promise, right?
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Yeah.
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And here's Jesus who says, what is his promise?
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He says, I came that my joy may be in you and your joy may be complete.
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And that sense of what is he making complete?
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What is that thing?
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He's making following the will of God because our joy now in this real sense, whatever term you want to use,
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I'll say beatitudo, is to follow the will of God, is to align your will to the will of God.
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God is love.
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To love is to will the good of the other.
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So when our wills are aligned to God's will and purpose, that's what we do.
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That's what we look like, right?
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That's what Aquinas can say.
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It's such a weird but wonderful observation.
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If you want to see a happy man, look at Jesus on the cross.
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Now, why?
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Because he said, well, you need to love what he loved on the cross and despise what he despised on the cross.
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What do you despise?
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Wealth, pleasure, power, honor, right?
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All the things.
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There he is, stripped of all those things.
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None of them.
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He's utterly detached, which is why he becomes on the cross the great peacemaker.
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He's the single -hearted.
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He's hungry and thirsting for righteousness.
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Now go back to the Beatitudes.
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Again, that's Aquinas.
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You want to see the Beatitudes in action.
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It's the cross of Jesus.
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So that's, again, the weird thing.
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Who's a happy person?
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And we say, oh, well, this guy looks happy.
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Yeah, he's the happiest person you know.
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Point to the cross.
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Yeah.
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And, again, it's weird because it's not a place of good feelings, certainly.
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He's stripped of good feelings.
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But there's an image of a happy person.
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All the weirdness and wonder of Christianity is in that coin.
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It is weird and wonderful.
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Yeah.
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But that sense of like, it would involve a redefinition of what we're offering.
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Right.
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It's like, come to know Jesus and experience joy.
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Yeah.
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But someone says, well, that means I'm going to feel a certain way.
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And we would say it might.
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It might, yeah.
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But it's not a feeling thing.
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And again, feelings aren't bad.
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I think of like when I was in California as a bishop, one of my favorite things, if I found the time,
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toward the end of the day, I'd go for a hike up in the mountains right near my house.
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And it was really tough.
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It was a tough climb up.
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I got to the top, and then I would pray in my evening office sitting on this fence post overlooking the city of Santa Barbara.
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Then I would walk kind of down the hill to my house.
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And then I would sit, and my back porch, beautiful, in Santa Barbara, and I drink some water or something,
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and the endorphins are unleashed because you've been exercising.
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I love that.
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It was like the filet mignon.
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It was a great moment, great feeling.
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Okay, great.
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Thank you, Lord, for that.
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But it passed.
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Of course, it always passes.
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You finish the water.
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And I'm like, all right, now what's next?
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So don't equate happiness in this sense with that, but that's good.
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And when it happens, you should savor it and thank God for it.
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If you can embrace it.
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Embrace it.
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Yeah, it's a gift.
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But if it doesn't happen, you can still be happy.
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See, that's why you're much more in control of your life.
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Is that conditional?
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Right.
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If your joy depends upon good feelings, now, see, he goes, what happens?
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Oh, I better take some more drugs to get that feeling.
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I better take more booze to get that feeling.
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I better, now I'm addicted to all these things so I can get that feeling.
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I don't know.
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Seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and the rest will find its place.
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So the good feeling is like a planet going around, but so are bad feelings.
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And they find their place, right?
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But the focus is on the center.
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So the one thing that remains.
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Yeah, unum necessarium.
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Like you just said, I want to highlight this because I think it was really important, everything you said was, but that sense that,
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okay, good times, good feelings pass.
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But so do bad times and bad feelings pass.
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That's right.
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And so I'm detached from both.
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In what, like in nature of Loyola.
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Yeah.
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Right, that sense that I just— So you want
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Christ the same yesterday, today, and forever.
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Maybe I've discussed it with you before, I use it all the time, is that Wheel of Fortune image from the Gothic churches.
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That's the same idea.
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You live in the center of the wheel, not the rim that's always turning.
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That's life.
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It's always turning.
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But don't live on that.
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Live in the center and then watch it turn.
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That's okay.
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Whether I've got a long life or a short life, whether I'm wealthy or poor, whether I'm healthy or sick.
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Okay, I'm watching with a kind of insouciance, with a kind of detachment, a kind of indifference, spiritually speaking.
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But live in the center.
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That's the joyful place to live, right?
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Yeah, exactly.
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And I came across this quote that I kind of base this
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Advent reflection off by G .K.
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Chesterton.
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Yeah.
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And Chesterton had said, joy is the gigantic secret of the Christian.
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And that sense of that question—well, what would you say about that quote?
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Have you ever heard that before?
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Maybe I'm misquoting someone who was actually— I don't know if I have heard that.
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I mean, it's typical Chesterton, you know, brilliant and pithy and everything.
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No, that's what we're offering to the world, right?
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That's the secret is you don't find it in the typical ways.
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But we've got the secret, which is that's the treasure buried in the field, right?
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That's the pearl of great price.
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When you found that, sell everything.
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Sell the rest of it, wealth and pleasure, power.
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Sell all that.
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You found the pearl of great price, so get that.
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Or the treasure buried in the field is good because it's buried in me somewhere.
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It's this deep desire for God.
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And if I find that, get rid of everything else.
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Don't waste your time with the rest of it.
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Well, in some ways, the way as you're describing it, as you're kind of unpacking this in just impromptu, you know, just coming into it fresh,
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what I'm hearing is almost the equivalent of God himself.
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That God himself is the gigantic secret of the Christian.
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It's this sense of if you have him, then you have that sense of that abiding sense of well -being.
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You have the center of gravity.
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You have the thing that you're made for, beatitude.
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Right.
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And then there's Aquinas again.
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So it's not wealth, not pleasure, not power, not honor.
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What is it?
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His answer is God.
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The one thing that will fill us up and satisfy us is God.
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Or St. John of the Cross with the infinite caverns in us.
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And that's the infinite hunger for God.
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But I keep throwing all these finite things into it.
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Well, you put anything finite into the infinite cavern, it just goes.
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Exactly.
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It doesn't fill you up.
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It can't.
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But only God can fill you up.
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So that's the answer, you know?
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And seek that first, and God will fill you up.
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That's what he wants to do, right? And see,
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a lot of life—now we'll get into another subtlety in the spiritual order—is why does God strip us of these things?
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Now, see, again, John of the Cross, things like the dark night.
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The dark night is not like depression.
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The dark night is these moments of detachment.
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There can be the active dark night when I do it myself where I say, you know what?
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I'm too attached.
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Like, we put the cell phone on.
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It's this time of penance.
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Right.
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That's the active dark night.
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I'm going to put it.
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But then, see, the passive dark night, it's really interesting because it's like, all right, if I'm not willing to do it,
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God will do it for me.
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He'll take away from me what I'm attached to, wealth, pleasure, power, honor, whatever it is.
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And we say, oh, why did this happen to me?
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Why is God being so cruel?
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Yeah, to what end?
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What's he doing?
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But what he's doing is stripping things away that you might find him.
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It's tough stuff.
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That's high -octane Christian spirituality.
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When God—God is never just at the top of the holy mountain and up there indifferently waiting for us to climb.
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God is active, operative.
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He knows me better than I know myself.
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He knows my addictions better than I do.
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And so he's trying to rid me of them.
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So it's a way to read your own suffering sometimes.
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Well, as you're describing that, here's someone who's listening to this.
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And it's like, wait a second.
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Here is this.
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What you're saying is that at some point, God might need to purify me.
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Yeah.
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But my experience is that he's punishing me.
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Like, my experience is not that, oh, this is so good what he's doing.
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My experience is I am being crushed by this.
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what is the maybe that you'd say here's the the christian who is experience experiencing purification
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but they're experiencing as punishing what is a thing they can do
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or reorient their vision for seeing okay god i i see not punishing
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i see purifying maybe this again from is that whatever exists is god's will either his his active will
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Or his permissive will.
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So, I mean, whatever—you and I being here right now are the result of God's active will.
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Because it's happening.
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He wants this to happen.
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Something bad happens, well, Christ will say, through God's permissive will.
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God never actively wills bad things.
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But he permits what we experience as bad things.
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Always what?
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Out of love, because that's all God is.
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That's all he knows how to do.
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There's nothing in his bag of tricks except love, because that's what he is.
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Right?
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So he can't.
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In that way, we're more complex than God.
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God is simple, Aquinas says.
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And part of that simplicity is the simplicity of his nature.
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So all he knows how to do is love.
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So if something negative, at least from our perspective, is happening, we say, well, it's God's permissive will.
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So why would he permit it?
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And now see, it changes your whole perspective.
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Now, like, poor me, I'm getting punished.
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But, okay, why would God permit this to happen?
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out of some, now, purification or some,
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you know, stripping away or some detachment so I can fall more deeply in love with him, right?
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So it's an attitudinal shift.
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Again, that's metanoia, go beyond the mind you have, right?
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Right, with that attitude, that's so important.
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So basically, if I know the character of God, like you said, I know that he is love.
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That's all he knows how to do.
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And I trust it.
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I trust him.
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then maybe I can say what I used to see as this is punishment, or this is God even being indifferent to me.
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He doesn't care.
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He's just allowing me to get buffeted about by suffering and death and illness.
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Now I say, but I know his heart.
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I know he actually is good.
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He's love.
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It's hard, but I think theology really informs spirituality in an important way.
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If you know that's God's nature.
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When Aquinas says, can God sin?
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And the objection is, well, yeah, heck, if I can sin, I'm free, and God's God, and he's totally free.
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Of course, God could sin.
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He doesn't, but he could.
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And Aquinas goes, no, God can't sin.
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It would be repugnant to his nature.
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It would be like saying God can make a square circle.
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So he can't sin.
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He can't will something evil for me.
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So whatever is happening to me under that aegis of the permissive or active will, God's about the work of love in my life.
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Now, if I can move into that space, you know, and in prayer say not, I'm angry at you, but,
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all right, Lord, help me understand what is happening in my life right now.
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I want to cooperate with you.
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Right.
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Even in a situation where I don't want this to be the case.
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Right.
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Kind of Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane.
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Like, I don't want this to be the case.
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Let this cup pass from me.
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Yeah.
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But I'm willing to—I want to will what you will, and I do will what you will.
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You know, here's something in Aquinas I've always loved, because let's go back to Jeremiah, and it's in the Bible, it's in all of us,
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when we say, like, oh, I'm trying to be a good person, what do I get?
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I got nothing.
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And here's this jerk over there, who's a terrible life, and he's got a big house, and everything's going great.
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And Thomas says, yeah, but that's looking in a purely worldly way, that maybe God is punishing him with that big house,
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because that big house is not good for him, and that big house is leading him down a bad path.
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It's actually God's way of punishing him.
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And that you're not getting the big house or the raise or whatever it is or the fame, that's purifying you.
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That's God expressing his love for you.
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So we have to change our attitude.
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There's a worldly vision.
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Whoever gets more wealth, plusher, power, honor, they're really doing well.
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Don't play that game.
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God wants you to become his friend.
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That's what God wants.
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And even in some ways, sparing you.
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Yes.
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Because he knows me well enough.
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Yes, that if you got, or I got the wealth and the power, that it wouldn't be good.
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It would actually lead me down a bad path.
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So Aquinas says, that could be the devil giving you those things.
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Well, I remember a man, he taught moral theology at St. Thomas and St. Paul Seminary in St. Paul.
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And at one point, I asked him his vocation, sorry, he was a married man, father of a bunch of kids.
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And he said, you know, I discerned seminary before I got married and everything.
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And he said, and I looked at the life of a priest and I thought, that is my ideal, my dream.
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But he said, but I prayed about it for a long time.
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He was discernment.
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And he said, I realized, though, that the potential for me to,
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for the life of a priest to cater to all of my worst inclinations and temptations.
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He said, I would be the priest who, like, hey, it's four o 'clock, turn off the light, lock in the door.
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Like, I'm now going to go and live for me.
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And he says, I realized that God couldn't, wasn't calling me to that life because he was calling me to a life
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that would actually purify me of my self -love.
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And of my, where I walk home, I come home from work and my kids are there and they don't care how hard I worked yet.
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That's right.
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They're like, Dad, we need you now for this thing.
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But that was a much more spiritually demanding life.
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Yeah.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. So is...
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Christmas, if joy is the gigantic secret of the Christian, does Christmas or does
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Christianity, does it declare joy or does it bring joy?
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Well, I would say this, see, Christmas now.
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So we've been talking about our hunger for God and all that.
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But see, the real story of the Bible, especially of Christianity, is not our quest for God, but God's quest for us.
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God's after us, right?
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And so he comes as a baby to lure us because we're distracted by all these things.
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But, like, you know the experience when you're at a party or something and someone brings in a baby, right?
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The baby's here.
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Everyone comes over.
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Everyone's attracted, right, to look at the baby.
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I always think of that as how God has sent prophets
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and he sent the Torah and he sent the temple on us.
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And Israel falls away.
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So he finally comes as this irresistible baby.
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It's God's entry into our human condition and project and all that.
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Because he wants us to find him.
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I think we all get caught up in this illusion
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that God's kind of distant and he's playing games and he's kind of this Promethean idea.
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That if I climb the mountain, I steal fire, he's gonna get mad.
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That's completely repugnant to the Bible.
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The Bible is all about God wants us into his life and be his friends.
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And so Christmas is that.
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God has climbed right into the midst of our humanity and then is trying to draw us to—again, that's Chesterton, isn't it?
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Is that we actually look down into the face of God.
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That's Christianity, right?
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It's all the religious.
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I'm going to look up toward the transcendent mystery.
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Fine, he is the transcendent mystery.
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But now I look down into the face of a baby and I say, well, that's how God has found me.
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That's why it's a source of joy, I think, Christmas.
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But I love that image of the baby at the party.
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Yeah, everyone's distracted with the baby.
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Or even into a couple's life.
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It's this necessary and often joyful reorientation of everything we are.
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Yeah.
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So here's a couple, and they're living for each other, maybe, hopefully, for themselves a lot.
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And then the introduction of a child is now— Revolution.
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Everything is now— It's the Copernican revolution.
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Touched by this new life.
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And here's Christianity.
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Here's Christmas.
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We're doing our thing.
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And then here comes the Lord.
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And it reorients, touches every part of our lives.
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And he demands that either we say, no, I'm going to ignore the baby.
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Yeah.
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Or put the baby like it's one of the things we do.
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Well, and of course, you know, so yes, the baby attracts.
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We look down on the face of Christ but also they tried to kill him right away.
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So that's why I love the Bible is so honest and so clear.
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It's not sentimental that right away, Herod and all Jerusalem tremble because this baby's coming.
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Who is this baby?
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The king?
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What are you talking about?
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And then once he finds out, I'm going to kill that baby.
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Man, there's one of the best expressions of human sinfulness.
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God becomes one of them.
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God becomes an innocent, vulnerable baby, and my move is to kill him.
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Right.
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But see, there's sin, you know?
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And so from the beginning, the baby entranced the human race, and the baby is opposed, which comes to its full expression on the cross, right?
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So, yeah, all of that drama of I want beatitude, but when beatitude shows up as a baby, I want to kill him, right?
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Because it demands something.
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That's how messed up we are.
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Well, and even I think of John 11, where Jesus raises Lazarus.
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And it says there's these two kind of responses to Jesus raising this man from the dead.
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It's many of those who came to Martha and Mary about their brother began to believe in him.
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And then a couple of verses later, others tried to kill him.
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As a result of first his presence in our world in the incarnation
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and then him revealing who he really is in John 11.
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Yeah, yeah.
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These are our responses.
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No, and there's the great mystery.
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The mysterium indiquitatis, as they say the mystery of evil.
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Like, why are we resistant to the one thing that will make us happy?
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That's the drama.
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And I think much of the drama in our literature and art is traceable to that.
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It's the one thing we want, we resist it.
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And it's a tragedy.
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But see, God in the incarnation tries to run around our resistance.
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And that's why, you see, the cross, like Balthazar's language, he goes to the limits of God -forsakenness.
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God goes into God -forsakenness.
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He goes into the worst of our humanity so that when we're running away from the Father, we're running into the arms of the Son.
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That was his attempt to save us, right?
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Now, again, we can still resist that.
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That's the mystery of hell, is that even this...
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This acrobatic act of love on God's part, the incarnation, the cross, even that can be resisted.
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Now, there's the mystery of the Nebuchadnezzar to the ultimate degree.
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But it's like surrender to him.
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He's done everything he possibly can to save us, to give us the one thing we want.
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So how about try surrendering to him?
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I think it's fascinating that, you know, when we began speaking about joy, one of the first things you brought up was the cross.
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Yeah.
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And I think a lot of times where come to the Lord and know joy, we might separate it from the cross.
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We say the joy of the resurrection, which is great, which is real, the joy of life in the Holy Spirit, which is real.
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But at the same time, to recognize that you said, here's Jesus on the cross.
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That is a happy man.
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Yeah, absolutely.
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And it goes so powerfully against not only, I think, what we might common sense approach,
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but also what I don't want that.
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Like, I might trade that in for I just want to be happy.
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Like, I just, I don't need extremes.
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Like, I don't need the pinnacle of joy.
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I just, I want to be okay.
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And there's something right in that.
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I think we're like a saint has found a kind of equilibrium in the surrender to God's will.
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And knowing it'll involve the ups and downs of, again, think of our friend
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Mother Teresa, you know, that we discovered really after she died.
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We didn't know the depth of the darkness she was experiencing.
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But to me, it just made her more beautiful and more powerful as a saintly figure because she found the center, no question about that.
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She experienced great highs of ecstasy, and she heard, literally, heard the voice of Jesus speaking to her.
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And then for 50 years, she didn't, and she felt darkness.
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Okay, but she had found this center, this equilibrium.
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That's her holiness, right?
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The good feelings and all that came and went, but she stayed on beam of the true source of joy.
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It's hard stuff, though.
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That's hard stuff in the spiritual order.
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And it seems like, like you said, it goes back to seek first the kingdom of God.
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Seek first God himself.
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Right.
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Is it I want the gift of God or I want the giver?
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Right.
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And I think maybe it's the last time you and I talked, we both hit upon that famous distinction.
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Do I love the benefits of God, Or do I love the will of God?
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And see, a lot hinges on that.
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And God will sometimes give you a lot of benefits in the beginning of the spiritual to kind of draw
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you into friendship.
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And people full of consolations, and I love prayer, I love the Mass.
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Great, great.
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But see, he will also take those things away from you because you're not meant to fall in love with his benefits.
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So I love God as long as things are going great for me.
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As long as I have Celine Dion and nice hikes and friendship and I'm in good health.
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Okay, great.
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But he wants you to fall in love with him and his will, not his benefits, right?
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And that's tough stuff.
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That's high -octane.
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But it's real love as opposed to kind of a mercenary love or that kind of sense of God.
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You get my heart so long as transactional.
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I'll love you that I might get something from you.
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Circumstantial.
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Yeah, and that's the great saints now all come to that moment.
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And so God wants more for us than we want because I want to be okay.
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I want to be okay.
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But God's like, no, I want more for you than, okay, I want joy.
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He wants you divinized.
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The goal of the Christian life is not being a morally upright person.
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That's great.
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I'm all in favor of it.
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It's not to be a guy that gets along with everybody.
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The goal of the spiritual life is to be divinized.
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Deus fit homo and homo fiorit Deus, the Church of the Fathers always said.
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God became man that man might become God.
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But that's serious stuff.
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I mean, God becomes one of us
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that our nature might be elevated to participation in his nature is the way you say it more exactly.
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Man.
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It's not just marginally more ethical or marginally more kind to people.
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A new person.
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You're meant to become a new creation, not just a nice guy.
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That's why, you know, Flannery and Connors think about being a Christian does not mean just having a heart of gold.
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Yeah.
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That's what most people think.
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Oh, he's a Christian.
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Got a heart of gold.
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No, it means you're a new creation, right?
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and now that expresses itself ethically in certain clear ways but
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it's a much more serious game that we're playing so in this looking at joy
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is I'm going to say is it this or that because my guess would be you might say both but
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is joy clearly joy is a fruit of the spirit
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So we know joy is a fruit of the Spirit.
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Is it also a virtue?
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Well, it's a very interesting question, because, you know, again, we're
784
Catholics, and so we like the both and.
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Yeah, exactly.
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In fact, I'm going to preach on it tonight a bit, because the gospel for tonight is new wine, new wineskins, right?
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And that whole idea of as grace rushes in, you know, gratia saponit naturam, right?
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Grace supposes nature and elevates nature,
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so that nature should be strong enough to kind of receive and elastic enough to receive the new life of grace, right?
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So Aristotle, I remember learning this in Philosophy 101, what's happiness?
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And he says the one thing everybody wants, right?
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What is it?
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He says activity of soul in accord with perfect virtue.
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So what's distinctive to us, he said, well, it's our souls.
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Animals seek happiness and sensual pleasure and all this stuff.
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But we have a higher thing.
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And so what's the highest activity of our highest faculty?
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It would be the moral life.
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The moral life is led in accord with virtue.
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When you avoid the extremes, this and that, the medium, so now courage and prudence and temperance and justice, that's happiness for Aristotle.
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Okay, Thomas agrees with that.
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Yeah.
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That's natural happiness, you might say.
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Is that eudaimonia?
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Yeah, eudaimonia, he would have said.
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Having a happy demon in you, like having a happy— So it's doing good more than feeling good.
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Would that be accurate?
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Yeah, because he would have made that distinction for sure.
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Aristotle knew that too, that it wasn't just a matter of, hey, I've got a lot of money, so I feel good.
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He thought it was a moral act.
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Okay, and Aquinas would say, yes, and.
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He would say, there's the wineskins that are now ready to receive what he calls supernatural justice,
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supernatural prudence, supernatural and so on.
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And then the fruits of the Holy Spirit, and then the theological virtues.
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So you're like pouring all this new wine, but into the ample and elastic wineskins of the natural of Eudaimonia.
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So that would be my elaborate way of saying both and, right?
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So I'm going to urge people tonight, in fact, in light of that gospel image, you know, Now, if you're kind of feeling lost spiritually,
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I don't know, what's in there?
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One way is, well, work like on the Ten Commandments in your life and work on the basic.
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Like, you know, when the Lord says to the rich young man, you know, I want eternal life.
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Well, you know the commandments.
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Yeah, I've done these.
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Well, the commandments are—Thomas says they're the first principle of the natural law, the Ten Commandments.
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So, yeah, try to be a decent, virtuous person.
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But then, okay, and I've done all that for my youth.
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All right, now you're ready.
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See for the new wine.
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But he wasn't, see which tells me he wasn't really following the king.
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He said he was, but he went away sad because he couldn't take in the new wine.
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That, to me, would be a biblically -based
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Catholic both -and proposition.
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Get Aristotle and Aquinas in the same picture.
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Good, good.
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This was a gift and a virtue.
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Yeah.
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It's not something we receive, but also something we have to exercise.
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Yeah, I think—look, I mean, God is God.
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He can do whatever he wants.
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God can remake me from the ground up.
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But it seems to be his preferred method, that there's a kind of scaffolding in place that comes from nature.
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So, gratia saponit naturam, it rests upon nature.
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And then Thomas says, at perficit am, it perfects it.
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It's beautiful.
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So, we don't have to destroy nature to get grace.
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Grace elevates and it perfects nature.
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There's the burning bush, right?
847
Right.
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The bush is on fire but not consumed.
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So your natural virtues now become more radiant and more beautiful when grace invades them.
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And the fact that we're made in this, our nature, made in God's image, is oriented towards these good things.
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It's oriented towards this.
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So when I, by God's grace, here's a fruit of the Spirit, I can live this way, but I have to exercise this.
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It's not contrary to how we're created to live like this.
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It builds upon that.
855
So the joy that is a fruit of the Holy Spirit, that is a gift, right?
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It's like faith, hope, and charity.
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Charity in that full sense is a gift of the Holy Spirit.
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I can't really practice my way to charity.
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I receive it.
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But I can prepare.
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Since grace builds on nature, I can prepare with the natural virtues to receive it.
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That seems to be God's way.
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He likes to operate that way.
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The movement from small to big seems to be part of God's providence.
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Right, mustard seed becomes a big tree.
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That principle, or give me the five little loaves of the fish,
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and from that, yeah, that's a good image actually for it because what do you have?
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Yeah.
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What do you have?
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Well, we got this.
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What's this to feed so many?
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Give it to me.
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I'll elevate it and multiply it for the feeding of the world.
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But he loves to get us involved.
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It's like, what do you have?
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Well, I got some of these natural virtues.
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Like, yeah, good.
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Give them to me.
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Give him to me, and I will turn you into a saint.
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But he likes building on nature, I think.
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So that's so good, because I think that leads us into this last question.
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And I think this will be online right before Advent starts.
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And so here, as people are invited into, here's this season of joyful and devout preparation for the celebration of Christmas.
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What is a thing that would kind of pave that way?
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You say, okay, as you enter into the season of Advent,
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what is something we can do to prepare our hearts for this joy that God's made us for, this beatitude that God has made us for?
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You know, I go back to what we said earlier about distractions and diversions and all that, is try to identify those.
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What is it that's distracting me all the time?
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What am I preoccupied with?
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And to try to name it, see it, and to set that aside.
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and also to awaken your sense of anticipation.
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Lord, I know these things don't satisfy me.
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I know they don't.
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I've tried over and over again.
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I was thinking of every single
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Billy Graham sermon at the same basic structure, which was, I know you've tried this, you've tried this, you've tried that.
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They haven't worked, have they?
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I got what will work.
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Every sermon you ever gave me has that basic structure.
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Good.
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That's gospel stuff you know uh identify the divertissement identify the distraction the diversion
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what's what's drawn you down bad paths all right now lord i'm going to set that aside
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come come lord jesus right so
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so the first step might actually make you a little bit sad yeah you know
905
because the diversion is not there and i might have to and enter it like truly as as the church says,
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enter into a desert with joy.
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Yes.
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I don't know if you find this.
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I've been a priest for 40 years now and a bishop for, I don't know, how many years? But every Advent, every
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Lent, I start moving to the same place.
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All right, Lord, I'm still—it's like Merton's prayer.
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I have no idea where I'm going.
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I still—I'm still lost.
914
I'm still diverted.
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I'm still seeking the wrong stuff.
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And not that it's hopeless.
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but it's coming back to that moment
918
and admitting again you're a sinner go back to the beginning go back to the fundamentals of the spiritual life
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that's a good exercise and it's what we need
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in order to set ourselves up to receive the joy
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that God wants for us it's why the church brings us back to
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that moment again and again alright let's try it again praise God for that
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praise God for this conversation thank you so much for taking the time again
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And I'm so, so grateful.
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Once again, if you're interested in this series over the course of Advent called Joy to the World,
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you can get the Ascension app or go to ascensionpress .com slash Fr.
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Mike Advent.
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I wish you, Barron, thank you so much.
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Thank you for the work you do in the church and for just the man you are in this world.
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Well, thank you.
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It was my joy to be with you, Mike.
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Thanks.
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Thanks, Mike.
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God bless.
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Thank you.
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אוצר מילים והערות הגייה לשיעור הזה
שיעור הדיבור הזה מבוסס על הסרטון “The Difference Between Happiness and Joy Explained”. בסרטון הזה יש 935 משפטים ו-8942 מילים לתרגול Shadowing. הדיבור נמשך 48:33. הדובר מדבר מהר, כ-184 מילים בדקה, אז צפו לצלילים מחוברים ומקוצרים. 85% מהמילים נמצאות בין 3,000 המילים הנפוצות ביותר באנגלית; כדאי ללמוד את השאר לפני שמתחילים.
אוצר מילים מרכזי בסרטון הזה
15 מילים מהסרטון שכדאי ללמוד, עם ההגייה והמשמעות שלהן:
| מילה | הגייה | משמעות |
|---|---|---|
| advent פועל | /ˈæd.vɛnt/ | ביאה, ביאת המשיח |
| happiness שם עצם | /ˈhæpinɪs/ | אושר \ אֹשֶׁר |
| spiritual שם תואר | /ˈspɪɹɪt͡ʃuəl/ | רוּחָנִי |
| moral שם תואר | /ˈmoɹəl/ | מוּסָר |
| virtue שם עצם | /ˈvɝt͡ʃu/ | מַעֲלָה, מַעֲלַת טֻכֹּות |
| diversion שם עצם | /dɪˈvɝ.ʒən/ | הסחה |
| preparation שם עצם | /ˌpɹɛpəˈɹeɪʃ(ə)n/ | הֲכָנָה |
| mystery שם עצם | /ˈmɪs.t(ə.)ɹi/ | תַּעֲלוּמָה, רז |
| gravity שם עצם | /ˈɡɹævɪti/ | כובד |
| gospel שם עצם | /ˈɡɑspəl/ | בְּשׂוֹרָה |
| theology שם עצם | /θiˈɒ.lə.d͡ʒi/ | תאולוגיה \ תֵּאוֹלוֹגיָה |
| celebration שם עצם | /ˌsɛl.ɪˈbɹeɪ.ʃən/ | חֲגִיגָה |
| punish פועל | /ˈpʌnɪʃ/ | הֶעֱנִישׁ |
| distract פועל | /dɪˈstɹækt/ | הסיח את הדעת |
| addict שם עצם | /ˈæd.ɪkt/ | מָכוּר |
Phrasal verbs שתשמעו
| מילה | משמעות |
|---|---|
| turn off פועל | כיבה, כִּבָּה |
משפטים שכדאי לחזור עליהם
משפטים קצרים ושלמים מהסרטון שאפשר להשתמש בהם בשיחה יומיומית:
- What is this elusive thing that we all want?
- What are you looking for?
- I don't know, what's in there?
- It's like, what do you have?
- What is it that's distracting me all the time?
דקדוק בסרטון הזה
המבנים שהדובר משתמש בהם הכי הרבה, עם המילים המדויקות מהסרטון:
| מבנה | בסרטון |
|---|---|
| הווה מושלם ממושך (Present perfect continuous) have/has been + -ing — פעולה שהתחילה בעבר ועדיין נמשכת עכשיו | I've been teaching · you've been seeking · you've been exercising |
| משפטי תנאי (Conditional sentences) if + clause, will/would + verb — תנאי ותוצאה שלו | if you get wealth, you'll know · If you get pleasure, you'll know |
| הווה מושלם (Present perfect) have/has + past participle — פעולה שקרתה בעבר ועדיין יש לה חשיבות או השפעה עכשיו | it's been · have come · we've heard |
| סביל (Passive voice) be + past participle — הדגש הוא על מה שקורה, לא על מי שעושה את הפעולה | is described · will be given · was asked |
הגייה ששווה לשים לב אליה
הדובר משתמש ב-229 קיצורים וצורות מקוצרות, כמו I'm, don't, we're. אמרו אותם בצורה הקצרה, כפי שאתם שומעים אותם.
- הצלילים של “th”: theology /θiˈɒ.lə.d͡ʒi/, wealthy /ˈwɛl.θi/, authentic /ɔˈθɛn.tɪk/
- הצלילים של “sh” ו-“zh”: diversion /dɪˈvɝ.ʒən/, preparation /ˌpɹɛpəˈɹeɪʃ(ə)n/, celebration /ˌsɛl.ɪˈbɹeɪ.ʃən/, punish /ˈpʌnɪʃ/, bishop /ˈbɪʃəp/
- מילים ארוכות — שימו לב להטעמה: preparation /ˌpɹɛpəˈɹeɪʃ(ə)n/, theology /θiˈɒ.lə.d͡ʒi/, celebration /ˌsɛl.ɪˈbɹeɪ.ʃən/, supernatural /ˌsu.pəɹˈnæ.tʃə.ɹəl/, equilibrium /ɛkwɪˈlɪbɹɪəm/
צלילים שדוברי עברית מתקשים בהם:
- /w/ — שפתיים מעוגלות, לא /v/: wealthy /ˈwɛl.θi/, equilibrium /ɛkwɪˈlɪbɹɪəm/, wage /weɪd͡ʒ/, quest /kwɛst/, wherever /(h)wɛɹˈɛvɚ/
- /æ/ — פתוח יותר מה-“אֶ” העברית, לא כמו “a” ב-“cup”: advent /ˈæd.vɛnt/, happiness /ˈhæpinɪs/, gravity /ˈɡɹævɪti/, distract /dɪˈstɹækt/, addict /ˈæd.ɪkt/
- /r/ — הלשון לא נוגעת בשום מקום, לא ה-“ר” הגרונית: spiritual /ˈspɪɹɪt͡ʃuəl/, moral /ˈmoɹəl/, preparation /ˌpɹɛpəˈɹeɪʃ(ə)n/, mystery /ˈmɪs.t(ə.)ɹi/, gravity /ˈɡɹævɪti/
איך לתרגל עם הסרטון הזה
- הקשיבו לכל הסרטון פעם אחת בלי לדבר, ורשמו את המילים שאתם לא מכירים.
- התחילו במהירות 0.75×, תרגלו Shadowing משפט אחר משפט, וחזרו למהירות רגילה כשזה מרגיש קל.
- הקליטו את עצמכם והשוו למקור, תוך תשומת לב למילים כמו advent, happiness, spiritual.
מהי טכניקת השאדואינג?
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