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Let me begin with a lesson that took me years to learn and longer to accept.
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Most of our frustration in life comes from paying attention to the wrong things.
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Not from lack of intelligence, not from lack of opportunity, but from misplaced focus.
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We spend too much time watching what others are doing, saying, earning, failing at, or getting away with,
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and too little time refining the one thing we can actually control ourselves themselves
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and the price for that mistake is always high.
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One, life improves when attention comes home.
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Jim Rohn used to say, don't wish it were easier, wish you were better.
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That sentence alone could save a person decades of disappointment.
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Most people look outward
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when something goes wrong the economy the boss the system the family the unfairness of life
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but the mature individual eventually learns a sobering truth life responds not to complaints
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but to correction
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and correction always begins inward you don't fix your income by
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studying rich people's lifestyles you don't fix your health by criticizing
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unhealthy people you don't fix your character by pointing out flaws
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in others you fix your life by working on the one
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lever you can pull yourself two comparison is the thief of
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focus comparison has destroyed more potential than failure ever did
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when you focus on others you borrow standards
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that don't belong to you you measure progress on the wrong
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timeline you lose sight of your own pace one man compares salaries another compares titles another compares recognition
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and slowly almost invisibly they abandon their own path jim roan
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warned against this don't join an easy crowd you won't grow go where the expectations
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and demands to perform are high
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but here's the key those expectations must first be self -imposed when When you measure yourself against others,
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you outsource your standards.
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When you measure yourself against your potential, you reclaim control.
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Responsibility is the foundation of power.
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Here's a hard truth that separates adults from children.
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As long as something is someone else's fault, it is also someone else's responsibility.
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That means no power the moment you say this is my
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responsibility this is my discipline this is my correction to make
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you gain leverage Jim Rohn said it plainly the day you
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take complete responsibility for yourself is the day you gain the
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power to change anything not some things anything focusing on others weakens you.
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Focusing on yourself strengthens you.
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Why discipline beats jealousy every time?
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Jealousy is lazy ambition.
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It watches instead of works.
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It resents instead of refines.
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You see someone succeed and instead of asking, what habits built that?
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You ask, why not me?
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That question leads nowhere a better question is what must i become to deserve that result
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because results are not random they are earned discipline quiet boring
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repetitive discipline builds what envy never can jim roan often reminded
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people success is nothing more than a few simple disciplines practiced every day,
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not once, not when motivated, every day.
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And that work is always internal before it is external.
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Focus is a moral decision.
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People think focus is a productivity issue.
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It isn't.
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It's a character issue.
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To focus on yourself means saying no to distractions, refusing to gossip, declining to waste emotional energy,
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turning inward when others turn out, outward that requires strength weak people scatter attention strong people concentrate it
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when you stop reacting to others you gain emotional stability you recover mental energy
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you make better decisions your life becomes quieter
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but more powerful growth is a private activity real growth is
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unglamorous it happens early in the morning late at night in silence
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in repetition that's why most people avoid it it's much easier to comment on others
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criticize outcomes analyze mistakes that aren't yours but personal growth demands solitude Jim Rohn said,
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you cannot change your destination overnight, but you can change your direction overnight.
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And direction is chosen alone.
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No applause, no audience, just a decision.
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Stop trying to fix people who haven't asked.
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This lesson saves years of wasted energy.
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Most people do not want advice.
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They want validation.
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When you focus on fixing others, you neglect your own development.
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You build frustration.
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You invite resistance.
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Jim Rohn was clear.
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You cannot change people.
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They can only change themselves.
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So the wise person does something smarter.
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They become an example.
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Nothing persuades like progress.
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Nothing teaches like consistency.
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When you improve yourself, you give others permission to improve without saying a word.
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Personal standards create personal freedom.
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Freedom is not doing whatever you want.
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That's chaos.
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Freedom is having enough self -control that life stops controlling you.
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Your standards determine your income, your relationships, your health, your self -respect.
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And standards are not negotiated with society they are set internally
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when you raise your standards you stop blaming you stop complaining
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you stop waiting you start building Jim Rohn called this the
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major shift from external blame to internal command why silence often means growth
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when you focus on yourself people may misunderstand you they might say you've changed.
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You're distant.
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You're too serious.
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That's usually a sign you're doing something right.
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Growth often looks like withdrawal before it looks like progress.
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Silence is not weakness.
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It is concentration.
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And concentration builds momentum.
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10. Final lesson.
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Your life is your argument.
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Jim Rohn never chased approval.
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He built value and value attracts attention naturally
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if there is one idea to carry with you let it
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be this the more you work on yourself the less you are disturbed by others
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when your mind is disciplined habits are aligned standards are clear
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the noise of the world fades you stop explaining you stop
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defending you stop comparing you start becoming focus on yourself not
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because others don't matter but because you are your primary responsibility life doesn't improve by observation
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it improves by correction and correction always begins in the mirror so today don't ask
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what are they doing wrong ask what am i willing to improve that question answered daily changes It is everything.
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이 레슨의 어휘와 말하기 포인트
이 영상에는 섀도잉할 문장 108개와 단어 1016개가 있습니다. 말하는 구간의 길이는 8:08입니다. 화자는 분당 약 125단어의 일정한 속도로 말해서 섀도잉하기에 편한 속도입니다. 단어의 83%가 영어에서 가장 많이 쓰이는 3,000단어에 속합니다. 나머지는 연습 전에 미리 확인해 두세요.
이 영상의 핵심 어휘
영상에 나오는 익혀 둘 만한 단어 15개를 발음, 뜻과 함께 정리했습니다.
| 단어 | 발음 | 뜻 |
|---|---|---|
| discipline 명사 | /ˈdɪsəplɪn/ | 규율 |
| correction 명사 | /kəˈɹɛkʃən/ | 정정, 보정 |
| compare 동사 | /kəmˈpɛɚ/ | 비교하다, 비유하다 |
| lesson 명사 | /ˈlɛs.ən/ | 수업, 과 |
| silence 명사 | /ˈsaɪ̯ləns/ | 침묵 |
| earn 동사 | /ɝn/ | 벌다 |
| concentration 명사 | /ˌkɑn.sənˈtɹeɪ.ʃən/ | 집중, 집중력 |
| habit 명사 | /ˈhæb.ɪt/ | 습관, 버릇 |
| jealousy 명사 | /ˈd͡ʒɛl.ə.si/ | 질투, 부러움 |
| defend 동사 | /dɪˈfɪnd/ | 방어하다 |
| mirror 명사 | /ˈmiɹɚ/ | 거울 |
| recognition 명사 | /ˌɹɛkəɡˈnɪʃ(ə)n/ | 인식 |
| chase 동사 | /t͡ʃeɪs/ | 쫓다 |
| nowhere 부사 | /ˈnoʊ.(h)wɛɹ/ | 아무데도 |
| refuse 동사 | /ɹɪˈfjuːz/ | 거절하다 |
영상에 나오는 구동사
| 단어 | 뜻 |
|---|---|
| point out 동사 | 가리키다 |
이 영상의 문법
화자가 가장 많이 쓰는 문형을 영상 속 실제 표현과 함께 정리했습니다.
| 문형 | 영상 속 표현 |
|---|---|
| 수동태 be + 과거분사 — 누가 하는지보다 무슨 일이 일어나는지에 초점 | are earned · is chosen · are not negotiated |
| 현재완료 have/has + 과거분사 — 과거의 일이 지금도 관련이 있을 때 | has destroyed · haven't asked · you've changed |
주의할 발음
화자는 don't, you're, aren't 같은 축약형과 약화된 형태를 17번 사용합니다. 들리는 대로 짧게 발음하세요.
- “th” 소리: withdrawal /wɪðˈdɹɔ(ə)l/, strengthen /ˈstɹɛŋ(k)θən/, thief /ˈθiːf/, unhealthy /ʌnˈhɛl.θi/
- “sh”와 “zh” 소리: correction /kəˈɹɛkʃən/, concentration /ˌkɑn.sənˈtɹeɪ.ʃən/, expectation /ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/, frustration /fɹʌsˈtɹeɪ.ʃən/, recognition /ˌɹɛkəɡˈnɪʃ(ə)n/
- 긴 단어 — 강세 위치에 주의: concentration /ˌkɑn.sənˈtɹeɪ.ʃən/, expectation /ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/, naturally /ˈnæt͡ʃ.(ə.)ɹə.li/, recognition /ˌɹɛkəɡˈnɪʃ(ə)n/, stability /stəˈbɪlɪti/
이 영상으로 연습하는 방법
- 먼저 말하지 않고 영상을 끝까지 듣고 모르는 단어를 적어 둡니다.
- 보통 속도로 한 문장씩 섀도잉하고, 화자의 리듬과 맞을 때까지 반복합니다.
- 자신의 목소리를 녹음해 원본과 비교하고, discipline, correction, compare 같은 단어에 특히 주의합니다.
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