Shadowing Practice: Focus on Yourself Not Others | Powerful Motivational Speech - Learn English Speaking with Video
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Let me begin with a lesson that took me years to learn and longer to accept.
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Most of our frustration in life comes from paying attention to the wrong things.
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Not from lack of intelligence, not from lack of opportunity, but from misplaced focus.
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We spend too much time watching what others are doing, saying, earning, failing at, or getting away with,
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and too little time refining the one thing we can actually control ourselves themselves
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and the price for that mistake is always high.
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One, life improves when attention comes home.
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Jim Rohn used to say, don't wish it were easier, wish you were better.
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That sentence alone could save a person decades of disappointment.
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Most people look outward
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when something goes wrong the economy the boss the system the family the unfairness of life
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but the mature individual eventually learns a sobering truth life responds not to complaints
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but to correction
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and correction always begins inward you don't fix your income by
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studying rich people's lifestyles you don't fix your health by criticizing
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unhealthy people you don't fix your character by pointing out flaws
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in others you fix your life by working on the one
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lever you can pull yourself two comparison is the thief of
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focus comparison has destroyed more potential than failure ever did
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when you focus on others you borrow standards
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that don't belong to you you measure progress on the wrong
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timeline you lose sight of your own pace one man compares salaries another compares titles another compares recognition
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and slowly almost invisibly they abandon their own path jim roan
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warned against this don't join an easy crowd you won't grow go where the expectations
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and demands to perform are high
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but here's the key those expectations must first be self -imposed when When you measure yourself against others,
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you outsource your standards.
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When you measure yourself against your potential, you reclaim control.
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Responsibility is the foundation of power.
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Here's a hard truth that separates adults from children.
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As long as something is someone else's fault, it is also someone else's responsibility.
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That means no power the moment you say this is my
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responsibility this is my discipline this is my correction to make
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you gain leverage Jim Rohn said it plainly the day you
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take complete responsibility for yourself is the day you gain the
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power to change anything not some things anything focusing on others weakens you.
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Focusing on yourself strengthens you.
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Why discipline beats jealousy every time?
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Jealousy is lazy ambition.
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It watches instead of works.
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It resents instead of refines.
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You see someone succeed and instead of asking, what habits built that?
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You ask, why not me?
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That question leads nowhere a better question is what must i become to deserve that result
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because results are not random they are earned discipline quiet boring
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repetitive discipline builds what envy never can jim roan often reminded
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people success is nothing more than a few simple disciplines practiced every day,
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not once, not when motivated, every day.
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And that work is always internal before it is external.
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Focus is a moral decision.
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People think focus is a productivity issue.
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It isn't.
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It's a character issue.
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To focus on yourself means saying no to distractions, refusing to gossip, declining to waste emotional energy,
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turning inward when others turn out, outward that requires strength weak people scatter attention strong people concentrate it
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when you stop reacting to others you gain emotional stability you recover mental energy
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you make better decisions your life becomes quieter
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but more powerful growth is a private activity real growth is
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unglamorous it happens early in the morning late at night in silence
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in repetition that's why most people avoid it it's much easier to comment on others
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criticize outcomes analyze mistakes that aren't yours but personal growth demands solitude Jim Rohn said,
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you cannot change your destination overnight, but you can change your direction overnight.
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And direction is chosen alone.
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No applause, no audience, just a decision.
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Stop trying to fix people who haven't asked.
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This lesson saves years of wasted energy.
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Most people do not want advice.
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They want validation.
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When you focus on fixing others, you neglect your own development.
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You build frustration.
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You invite resistance.
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Jim Rohn was clear.
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You cannot change people.
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They can only change themselves.
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So the wise person does something smarter.
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They become an example.
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Nothing persuades like progress.
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Nothing teaches like consistency.
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When you improve yourself, you give others permission to improve without saying a word.
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Personal standards create personal freedom.
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Freedom is not doing whatever you want.
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That's chaos.
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Freedom is having enough self -control that life stops controlling you.
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Your standards determine your income, your relationships, your health, your self -respect.
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And standards are not negotiated with society they are set internally
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when you raise your standards you stop blaming you stop complaining
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you stop waiting you start building Jim Rohn called this the
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major shift from external blame to internal command why silence often means growth
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when you focus on yourself people may misunderstand you they might say you've changed.
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You're distant.
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You're too serious.
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That's usually a sign you're doing something right.
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Growth often looks like withdrawal before it looks like progress.
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Silence is not weakness.
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It is concentration.
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And concentration builds momentum.
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10. Final lesson.
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Your life is your argument.
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Jim Rohn never chased approval.
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He built value and value attracts attention naturally
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if there is one idea to carry with you let it
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be this the more you work on yourself the less you are disturbed by others
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when your mind is disciplined habits are aligned standards are clear
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the noise of the world fades you stop explaining you stop
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defending you stop comparing you start becoming focus on yourself not
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because others don't matter but because you are your primary responsibility life doesn't improve by observation
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it improves by correction and correction always begins in the mirror so today don't ask
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what are they doing wrong ask what am i willing to improve that question answered daily changes It is everything.
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Bu dersin kelimeleri ve konuşma notları
Bu videoda gölgeleme çalışması için 108 cümle ve 1016 kelime var. Konuşma bölümü 8:08 sürüyor. Konuşmacı dakikada yaklaşık 125 kelimelik dengeli bir hızla konuşuyor; gölgeleme için rahat bir tempo. Kelimelerin %83’i İngilizcede en sık kullanılan 3.000 kelime arasında; geri kalanına başlamadan önce bakmakta fayda var.
Bu videodaki önemli kelimeler
Videodan öğrenmeye değer 15 kelime, telaffuzu ve anlamıyla:
| Kelime | Telaffuz | Anlam |
|---|---|---|
| discipline isim | /ˈdɪsəplɪn/ | disiplin |
| correction isim | /kəˈɹɛkʃən/ | düzeltme |
| compare fiil | /kəmˈpɛɚ/ | karşılaştırmak, kıyaslamak |
| lesson isim | /ˈlɛs.ən/ | ders, çimke |
| silence isim | /ˈsaɪ̯ləns/ | sessizlik, sükût |
| earn fiil | /ɝn/ | hak etmek |
| concentration isim | /ˌkɑn.sənˈtɹeɪ.ʃən/ | konsantrasyon, motivasyon |
| habit isim | /ˈhæb.ɪt/ | alışkanlık, adet |
| overnight zarf | /əʊvə(ɹ)ˈnaɪt/ | geceleyin, o gece |
| frustration isim | /fɹʌsˈtɹeɪ.ʃən/ | bıkkınlık |
| jealousy isim | /ˈd͡ʒɛl.ə.si/ | kıskançlık |
| criticize fiil | /ˈkɹɪtɪsaɪz/ | eleştirmek, tenkit etmek |
| defend fiil | /dɪˈfɪnd/ | savunmak, korumak |
| mirror isim | /ˈmiɹɚ/ | ayna, gözgü |
| recognition isim | /ˌɹɛkəɡˈnɪʃ(ə)n/ | tanınma |
Bu videodaki dil bilgisi
Konuşmacının en çok kullandığı yapılar, videodaki sözcüklerin aynısıyla:
| Yapı | Videoda |
|---|---|
| Edilgen yapı be + fiilin üçüncü hâli — kimin yaptığı değil, ne olduğu önemli | are earned · is chosen · are not negotiated |
| Present perfect have/has + fiilin üçüncü hâli — geçmişte olan ama şimdi de önemli olan bir eylem | has destroyed · haven't asked · you've changed |
Dikkat edilecek telaffuzlar
Konuşmacı don't, you're, aren't gibi kısaltılmış biçimleri 17 kez kullanıyor. Bunları duyduğunuz gibi kısa söyleyin.
- “th” sesleri: withdrawal /wɪðˈdɹɔ(ə)l/, strengthen /ˈstɹɛŋ(k)θən/, thief /ˈθiːf/, unhealthy /ʌnˈhɛl.θi/
- “sh” ve “zh” sesleri: correction /kəˈɹɛkʃən/, concentration /ˌkɑn.sənˈtɹeɪ.ʃən/, expectation /ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/, frustration /fɹʌsˈtɹeɪ.ʃən/, recognition /ˌɹɛkəɡˈnɪʃ(ə)n/
- Uzun kelimeler — vurguyu doğru yere koyun: concentration /ˌkɑn.sənˈtɹeɪ.ʃən/, expectation /ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/, naturally /ˈnæt͡ʃ.(ə.)ɹə.li/, recognition /ˌɹɛkəɡˈnɪʃ(ə)n/, stability /stəˈbɪlɪti/
Bu videoyla nasıl çalışılır
- Videonun tamamını konuşmadan bir kez dinleyin ve bilmediğiniz kelimeleri not edin.
- Normal hızda cümle cümle tekrar edin; ritminiz konuşmacıyla aynı olana kadar her cümleyi yineleyin.
- Kendinizi kaydedin ve orijinaliyle karşılaştırın; discipline, correction, compare gibi kelimelere özellikle dikkat edin.
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