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I've wasted 23 years of my own life before I realized thinking about my life was keeping me from living it.

I'm currently in Barcelona and something I've been thinking about is the difference between reflection and rumination.

What makes someone an overthinker?

How do you deal with it?

Is there even a cure?

So I want to share my thoughts.

Act 1.

Reflection vs. Rumination.

They look identical from the outside.

Both feel like thinking hard about your life.

But reflection ends.

You think about the thing, you get somewhere, then you stop thinking about it thinking about it.

But rumination doesn't stop.

There's a psychologist, her name is Susan, and she spent her career on this.

Her research found that rumination feels like insight while making people worse at solving problems and more depressed.

I think this is like the perfect definition of overthinking

because honestly every single time I overthink about something I always feel 10 times worse than how I felt initially

and I never arrived with better solutions.

I never arrived with a clearer answer.

I just arrived feeling ten times more stressed, anxious and unhappy.

Act two.

What makes an overthinker an overthinker?

I think I've genuinely just been an anxious overthinker my whole life.

And I've always wondered, like, what makes me this way?

Why am i like this you know i have friends that

when something happens to them they can think about it for a little bit move on make a decision

and just not think about it again

but for some reason i feel stuck there's so many things

that you just have no control over that really impact you

and that can be really really scary to not have control over things

so by overthinking something by really ruminating it by thinking about

all the possible scenarios all the possible solutions you feel like

you have this control over where your life is going to go

when in reality you don't act three what do i overthink

about i overthink a lot about relationships actually i think relationships

are the type of thing where you truly don't have full control over it

because there's another person involved another person with their own perspectives

their own thoughts their own opinions on how to live life

i think everyone has you know like a conception in their head of how they want to be treated, how they want other people to feel about them.

Yeah, I think that like as you get older, you just need to deal with the fact that you can't control people's perceptions of you.

I've always wished that I could compartmentalize my feelings better.

I feel like when something is on my mind, I literally just can't do anything.

Like I can't focus, I can't concentrate, I often like can't eat.

I look at people, especially like my guy friends, and it feels like when something really big is in their lives and they have to go to work, they'll just work.

Or they're hanging out with friends, they'll just hang out with friends and they'll think about

that issue later and compartmentalize that to a very specific time of their life.

For me, it just like bleeds into my entire life, my entire being.

and it feels like these thoughts like literally flood every aspect.

I feel like these days I've been struggling a little bit with work.

Act four, why you need to get a life respectfully.

I think reflection asks you to sit with your life but rumination like asks you to stop living it essentially.

Like this video is truly just for people like me, people who overthink so much, who are really anxious about a lot of things and are paralyzed by this like death loop of

anxiety thoughts and I truly think the answer is to just get a life.

Go do things, go outside, hang out with friends.

These loops need to be stopped because at the end of the day they really don't benefit anyone especially you.

I think for so long I've let thoughts kind of dictate my life, let my like anxiety stop me from doing a lot of things and honestly fuck that guys.

Final act.

What does a rich inner life mean?

That is the ultimate question isn't it?

I think for me at this point in my life it is traveling.

Look I've I've spent an embarrassing amount of time thinking about my life.

If you add it up probably years and did it amount to anything?

No, nothing except more anxiety

and we've talked about self-awareness a lot on this channel on

the trap of it you know I think people can say

that they're self-aware by over processing things

but honestly it's stalling the world is out there completely indifferent to your analysis of it

and it's unfortunately don't have a five-step morning routine for you to overcome overthinking I'm sure there's

so many better videos out there for you.

But I think the cure is much simpler and much harder than that.

Book the thing, ask the question, leave the apartment.

Your thoughts will be waiting for you when you get back.

They're very loyal that way, but you'll be slightly different.

And I think that's the only thing that's ever worked.

So go get a life, respectfully.

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이 B2 수준 말하기 레슨은 영상 “Why you need to get a life, respectfully”을(를) 바탕으로 합니다. 가장 자주 반복되는 단어는 다음과 같습니다: thinking, thoughts, rumination, overthink, overthinker. 이 영상에는 섀도잉할 문장 75개와 단어 898개가 있습니다. 말하는 구간의 길이는 4:29입니다. 화자는 분당 약 200단어로 빠르게 말하므로 연음과 약하게 발음되는 소리가 많습니다. 단어의 85%가 영어에서 가장 많이 쓰이는 3,000단어에 속합니다. 나머지는 연습 전에 미리 확인해 두세요.

이 영상의 핵심 어휘

영상에서 가장 어려운 단어 9개를 발음, 뜻과 함께 정리했습니다.

단어	발음	뜻
reflection 명사	/ɹɪˈflɛkʃən/	반사
embarrass 동사	/ɪmˈbæɹəs/	난처하다, 창피 주다
indifferent 형용사	/ɪnˈdɪf.ɹənt/	무관심하다
bleed 동사	/ˈbliːd/	피를 흘리다
conception 명사	/kənˈsɛpʃən/	임신, 수태
stall 명사	/stɔːl/	가판대, 판매대
psychologist 명사	/ˌsaɪˈkɑl.ə.d͡ʒɪst/	심리학자
scenario 명사	/sɪˈnɛəɹioʊ/	각본, 대본
loyal 형용사	/ˈlɔɪəl/	충실하다, 충성하다

이 영상의 문법

화자가 가장 많이 쓰는 문형을 영상 속 실제 표현과 함께 정리했습니다.

문형	영상 속 표현
현재완료진행 have/has been + -ing — 전에 시작해 지금도 계속되는 동작	I've been thinking · I've been struggling
현재완료 have/has + 과거분사 — 과거의 일이 지금도 관련이 있을 때	I've wasted · I've always wondered · I've always wished
수동태 be + 과거분사 — 누가 하는지보다 무슨 일이 일어나는지에 초점	be treated · are paralyzed · be stopped

주의할 발음

화자는 I've, can't, don't 같은 축약형과 약화된 형태를 30번 사용합니다. 들리는 대로 짧게 발음하세요.

“sh”와 “zh” 소리: rumination /ˌɹuːmɪˈneɪʃən/, reflection /ɹɪˈflɛkʃən/, anxious /ˈæŋkʃəs/, conception /kənˈsɛpʃən/, perception /pɚˈsɛpʃ(ə)n/
긴 단어 — 강세 위치에 주의: rumination /ˌɹuːmɪˈneɪʃən/, compartmentalize /kəmˌpɑɹtˈmɛntəlˌaɪz/, respectfully /ɹɪˈspɛkt.fə.li/, psychologist /ˌsaɪˈkɑl.ə.d͡ʒɪst/, genuinely /ˈd͡ʒɛn.ju.ɪn.li/

한국어 화자가 어려워하는 소리:

/f/ — ㅍ(/p/)으로 바꾸지 말고 윗니를 아랫입술에 대기: reflection /ɹɪˈflɛkʃən/, respectfully /ɹɪˈspɛkt.fə.li/, indifferent /ɪnˈdɪf.ɹənt/
/z/ — ㅈ이 아니라 성대를 울리는 /s/: compartmentalize /kəmˌpɑɹtˈmɛntəlˌaɪz/, paralyze /ˈpæɹəˌlaɪz/
/r/과 /l/ 구별하기: reflection /ɹɪˈflɛkʃən/, compartmentalize /kəmˌpɑɹtˈmɛntəlˌaɪz/, respectfully /ɹɪˈspɛkt.fə.li/, paralyze /ˈpæɹəˌlaɪz/

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자신의 목소리를 녹음해 원본과 비교하고, reflection, embarrass, indifferent 같은 단어에 특히 주의합니다.

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