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Growing up my sisters and I would dare each other to run to the mailbox
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and Maybe even raise the flag
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if we had the nerve to show we were there And I know it doesn't sound that thrilling, but this was a no-go zone our mailbox was
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Off-limits to anyone but our dad who was a career military officer
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And I think growing up we just thought that was the norm that only soldiers got the mail
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Because our lives were dictated by rule and order and fear and our dad was a very intimidating,
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towering figure, which is why it really came out of nowhere
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when he was diagnosed with terminal cancer and within three weeks we were planning his funeral.
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So my four sisters and I were very fortunate enough to be able to go home to Austin, Texas and be at his side and be able to say goodbye,
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which is a gift, and everything was just really new and unexpected it.
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And so too was the revelation when our father told us from the hospice bed, all of his five girls around him and all of us well into our 30s, that we had a brother.
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And he had a son in Germany.
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His son was German.
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And he had had his son two years before he met my mom.
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And she knew about it before they got married.
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Of course, we looked right at her.
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And she knew, but she, like him, and had always kept it a secret.
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And so all I could think of, we had always wanted a brother growing up, and my dad would be made fun of by his army buddies.
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And I would say, oh Pat, you can only shoot pink.
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Look at all your girls.
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And so all I could think of was I just have to meet him.
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I have to meet this guy.
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So after the funeral, I learned that I was going to Germany for work.
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And so I reached out to him, to Michael, and I wrote him and I said, I think I'm going to be in a town that's about three hours away.
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If I train from you, would you want to meet?
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And he wrote back right away and he said, yes.
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my wife and our son, who was an adult son, would love to meet you.
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Please stay the weekend with us." So I was dying.
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So we exchanged photos so we could find each other in the train station.
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And on the train ride, I was just looking at his photos.
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My eyes were just locked because he looked so familiar.
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It was just transfixing.
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And when I got to this train station, it was huge, an industrial city.
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It wasn't a cute, quaint, you know, European station.
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It was massive, but I saw him right away.
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He was coming through the crowd.
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Really, I was seeing my dad coming through the crowd and towards me, and he had this yellow rain parka,
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and we hugged, and he said in a really thick German accent, welcome home.
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He said, it's raining outside, but there is sunshine in my heart.
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I saw this instant connection, and he grabbed my bags, and he walked with the same heavy gait as my dad
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and the same slope as his dad and the same slope shoulders, and we went to his car and drove to his home and at some point on the drive he turned to me,
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we were both in the front seat, and he said, I wrote you all those letters, all you girls.
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He said, you never wrote back.
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Why?
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And all I could think about was that mailbox that we could never touch.
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And I just said, I am so sorry.
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I said, I didn't know.
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We didn't know.
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I am just so sorry.
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And that whole weekend, I found myself apologizing for things I had no idea were happening and things I couldn't answer for.
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And over dinner the last night, he was telling me about
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when he learned who his real dad was he grew up thinking his grandparents were his parents
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and he was 16 and he said you know your dad
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or dad and i started writing at that time when he was 16 and he said i've kept all of
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dad's letters he said do you want to read them
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and i said yes of course i do my dad was
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such a quiet man a man of few words he was only quiet
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or he was yelling i mean there was no in between
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so the idea of my dad sitting down to hand write
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letters to his secret son in germany was like I would love to see these letters.
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And so at the end of the night as we were going up to the guest room, he handed me these binders.
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You know, he was a proper German.
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I mean, these things were so organized.
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So they were in chronological orders starting like in the late 60s, early 70s.
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Each letter was in its own lamination or photos.
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And I was, it was like a, this is your life.
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It was like, we're having twins talking about me and my sister.
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We're moving to Texas.
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And there are all of these family photos that I'd never seen before.
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You know, at some point in your life, you've seen every single childhood photo or family photo.
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I didn't even know these photos existed.
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And at some point, it was like the middle of the night, 3 in the morning, I started to feel that something was just off.
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Because I was reading my dad's letters, and then I would read Michael's reply, and I'd flip it, read my dad's letter, Michael's reply, And at some point I was thinking,
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well, how are Michael's letters here in this binder?
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They should be like in our garage in Austin, Texas.
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And so the next morning I asked Michael, I said, how do you have your own letters?
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I mean, shouldn't they be in the U.S.?
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And he said, well, every time I wrote dad, he would always put my letter back in his envelope and send it back to me.
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And he said, I just always figured he didn't want them to be found.
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and I think he was right.
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And Michael never met our dad.
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My dad went to Germany at some point.
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They set a time to meet.
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Michael was ready.
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My dad didn't show.
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I don't know why.
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I can't ask him.
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And my father was a wonderful father to my sisters and I, but I think in my gut, he was just afraid.
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And I thought a lot about fear since meeting Michael
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and how it can just get in the way of connecting and of living your life.
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And when I left Michael's home, I had a couple of days in Berlin to walk around and my head was just spinning.
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And I just kept thinking, I never want fear to get in the way of living, especially in a city where people had torn down the walls to live.
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I just thought I can't let anything get in between having connection
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and relationships and the opportunity to just raise my flag and say I am here.
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Thank you so much.

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Deze spreekles op niveau B2 is gebaseerd op de video “Caroline reckons with a family secret”. Deze woorden komen het vaakst terug: dad, letter, photo, wrote, Michael. Deze video bevat 95 zinnen en 1234 woorden om na te spreken. Het gesproken deel duurt 6:05. De spreker praat snel, ongeveer 203 woorden per minuut, dus reken op verbonden en ingeslikte klanken. 87% van de woorden hoort bij de 3.000 meest gebruikte Engelse woorden, dus de woordenschat is goed te volgen.

Belangrijke woorden in deze video

De 15 moeilijkste woorden uit de video, met uitspraak en betekenis:

WoordUitspraakBetekenis
litter zelfstandig naamwoord/ˈlɪt.ɚ/strooisel
binder zelfstandig naamwoord/ˈbaɪndɚ/binder
slope zelfstandig naamwoord/sloʊp/helling
chronological bijvoeglijk naamwoord/ˌkɹɑnəˈlɑd͡ʒɪkəl/chronologisch
diagnose werkwoord/ˈdaɪ.əɡˌnoʊs/diagnosticeren
grandparent zelfstandig naamwoord/ˈɡɹæn(d)pɛəɹənt/grootouder
hospice zelfstandig naamwoord/ˈhɑspɪs/hospice
intimidate werkwoord/ɪnˈtɪmɪdeɪt/intimideren, inschuchteren
thrill werkwoord/θɹɪl/opwinden
yell werkwoord/jɛl/schreeuwen
envelope zelfstandig naamwoord/ˈɛnvə(ˌ)loʊp/envelop, briefomslag
norm zelfstandig naamwoord/nɔːm/norm
revelation zelfstandig naamwoord/ˌɹɛv.əˈleɪ.ʃən/revelatie, openbaring
organize werkwoord/ˈɔɹɡənaɪz/organiseren
hug werkwoord/hʌɡ/elkaar omarmen

Phrasal verbs die je zult horen

WoordBetekenis
grow up werkwoordopgroeien

Zinnen om te herhalen

Korte, volledige zinnen uit de video die je in alledaagse gesprekken kunt gebruiken:

  • If I train from you, would you want to meet?
  • I said, I didn't know.
  • I didn't even know these photos existed.

Grammatica in deze video

De structuren die de spreker het meest gebruikt, met de exacte woorden uit de video:

StructuurIn de video
Lijdende vorm be + voltooid deelwoord — het gaat om wat er gebeurt, niet om wie het doetwere dictated · was diagnosed · would be made
Present perfect have/has + voltooid deelwoord — iets uit het verleden dat nu nog telti've kept · you've seen

Uitspraak om op te letten

De spreker gebruikt 19 samentrekkingen en verkorte vormen, zoals didn't, can't, I'd. Spreek ze kort uit, zoals je ze hoort.

  • De klanken “sh” en “zh”: lamination /ˌlæm.ɪˈneɪ.ʃən/, revelation /ˌɹɛv.əˈleɪ.ʃən/, sunshine /ˈsʌnʃaɪn/
  • Lange woorden — let op de klemtoon: chronological /ˌkɹɑnəˈlɑd͡ʒɪkəl/, intimidate /ɪnˈtɪmɪdeɪt/, lamination /ˌlæm.ɪˈneɪ.ʃən/, revelation /ˌɹɛv.əˈleɪ.ʃən/, apologize /əˈpɑləˌd͡ʒaɪz/

Klanken die Nederlandstaligen lastig vinden:

  • Stemhebbende eindmedeklinker — /b/, /d/, /g/, /z/, /v/ niet verscherpen: organize /ˈɔɹɡənaɪz/, hug /hʌɡ/, apologize /əˈpɑləˌd͡ʒaɪz/, nerve /nɝv/
  • /æ/ — opener dan de Nederlandse “e”: grandparent /ˈɡɹæn(d)pɛəɹənt/, lamination /ˌlæm.ɪˈneɪ.ʃən/, accent /ækˈsɛnt/
  • /g/ — een harde plofklank, geen Nederlandse “g”: diagnose /ˈdaɪ.əɡˌnoʊs/, grandparent /ˈɡɹæn(d)pɛəɹənt/, organize /ˈɔɹɡənaɪz/, hug /hʌɡ/

Zo oefen je met deze video

  1. Luister de hele video één keer zonder te spreken en noteer de woorden die je niet kent.
  2. Begin op 0,75× snelheid, spreek zin voor zin na en ga terug naar normale snelheid zodra het makkelijk gaat.
  3. Neem jezelf op en vergelijk met het origineel; let daarbij op woorden als litter, binder, slope.

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Shadowing is een wetenschappelijk onderbouwde taalleermethode die oorspronkelijk is ontwikkeld voor professionele tolkentraining en gepopulariseerd door polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. De methode is eenvoudig maar krachtig: je luistert naar native Engelse audio en herhaalt het onmiddellijk hardop — als een schaduw die de spreker volgt met slechts 1–2 seconden vertraging. In tegenstelling tot passief luisteren of grammaticadrills, dwingt shadowing je hersenen en mondspieren om echte spraakpatronen tegelijkertijd te verwerken en te reproduceren. Onderzoek toont aan dat het de uitspraaknauwkeurigheid, intonatie, ritme, verbonden spraak, luisterbegrip en spreekvaardigheid aanzienlijk verbetert — waardoor het een van de meest effectieve methoden is voor IELTS Speaking-voorbereiding en echte Engelse communicatie.

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