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Good English customer service isn't just about being friendly.

It's also about using the right words and expressions to show empathy, to show customers that you want to work with them, and sometimes, of course, to apologize if they're really angry.

And you wanna show them generally that you're there.

You wanna show them that you're willing to help resolve their issues, right?

So we're gonna be focusing on a few expressions that you can use to make your customer interactions more successful.

In this video we're going to talk about customer service, English expressions that you can use to apologize, to show empathy, to be positive.

And to work together with the customer you're dealing with.

How can we use these expressions to accomplish all of these things?

So first up, we're gonna talk about apologetic expressions.

Now, in most cases, hopefully you're not apologizing because you personally did something wrong.

You're making an apology generally because the customer is unhappy about something.

It can be a good way to sort of break through that frustration and anger and then start actually working on a solution, right?

So you're apologizing broadly for any frustration that they may be feeling for any inconvenience that they may have experienced.

Again, no matter who is to blame, it can, it can still be a good idea, right?

So here are a few examples that you can use to apologize like a pro.

I apologize for the inconvenience.

Specifically you might use that when someone has waited for a long time while you are trying to solve something.

Or, as we talked about more generally, they have gone through some kind of inconvenience and you want to sort of say, Hey, I see that now we're going to deal with it.

You may also say, I apologize for any frustration this may have caused.

This one is useful when you want to identify a specific cause.

So, maybe they had an expectation and that expectation was not met.

Maybe they've tried to solve a problem with another customer service person and it wasn't solved, and so they're going through a process and they're getting more and more frustrated, and so you want to just acknowledge that frustration.

I apologize for any frustration this may have caused.

Now if it's more serious, you might say, I'm so sorry this has happened.

I recommend saying this has happened.

To make it a little gentler instead of just this happened, but I'm so sorry this happened, is okay too.

Apologizing is a great way to acknowledge the current situation, no matter who is to.

And then move on to the next thing, which is hopefully a solution.

I'm so sorry this has happened.

Let's figure out what we can do and we'll get into those expressions in just a moment.

Okay. Finally, I'm here to help in any way I can, and I apologize for the frustration you're experiencing.

This is less about the cause.

And this is more about your feeling.

You're currently going through this feeling of frustration, right?

Or inconvenience.

I apologize for this frustration you're experiencing, this inconvenience you are experiencing.

So again, we're not talking about why right now.

I'm just acknowledging your current feeling.

Next, let's talk about empathy.

How do we show empathy to a customer?

These expressions, let the customer know that you understand what they're going through and that you are here to help.

So let's check out four examples, four things we can say to show empathy.

I completely understand why you're feeling frustrated and I'm here to listen.

Now, this could be a little bit risky, right?

If you say, I completely understand.

It's possible that they may feel that you couldn't possibly understand my situation.

You've never gone through anything like this, right?

But that's why I recommend using the word why instead of what If you say, I completely understand what you're feeling.

That means I understand how you feel because I've experienced the same thing.

But instead, if you say, I completely understand why you're feeling frustrated, then it just focuses on me understanding it, and it's not saying that I exactly know how that feels.

So in this case, why maybe better than what?

I know this is frustrating, but I'm here to assist you and find a solution.

Or I'm here to help you and find a solution.

I know this is frustrating.

I know that this is inconvenient or annoying.

This is a great way to, again, show that you understand, but not necessarily say.

Yes, and I know exactly what that feels like.

I'm just listening carefully and I want to make sure I understand that I show empathy to you so that then we can work together on finding a solution.

I understand your situation, and I'm here to find a solution for you.

This is a great way to connect what you're going to do with that initial thing that you say to show empathy.

I understand your situation, so I understand what you've explained.

You've talked me through it.

I can see that you're very upset.

Right? I understand it.

Now, again, if you say this in a way, That sounds like you don't really care.

I understand your situation.

Now let's work on a solution that could sound a little bit maybe inconsiderate, right?

It could sound a little bit cold, so it matters how you say that if you're talking on the phone, for example.

But it can be a very good expression to show empathy.

I understand your concern and I'm going to do everything I can to help.

You could say, assist you to make it a bit more.

But help, I think is a good one.

It feels a little bit more personal.

Now. I understand your situation.

I understand your concern.

Those are a little bit different.

Situation is what happened, right?

The whole situation you're in, and your concern is focusing on your emotion.

What makes you angry, what makes you frustrated, what you're worried about, right?

So just be aware that those are a little bit different.

One focusing on the feeling.

And one more, focusing on the broader situation, the broader context.

Now what about expressions that can show that you want to work together to solve the problem?

We talked about a few of these connected to expressions for empathy, but let's, let's do some specifically to talk about how we can work together.

Number one, to empathize and then emphasize that you and the customer are a team working toward a common goal to solve the issue.

So here are four expressions that you can use to show a sort of collaborative spirit.

Let's do what we can to resolve this issue.

Let's do what we can.

Now, it may be that I'm going to do most of it, or maybe not, but by saying, let's, and we, it makes it feel like we're in the same team, and that can, that can be a good way to start to tackle a problem in the same way, let's work together to resolve this.

So the word together, saying that it's going to be you and me right?

Now, we could connect it by showing appreciation that this person here that we're dealing with has waited a long time and dealt with several other people, and it's feeling a bit frustrated.

So, I appreciate your patience while we work through this together.

So I appreciate your patience number one, thank you for sometimes waiting on a five minute hold while I talk to some other people.

Right. But also while we work through this to remind the customer that this is an ongoing process.

Here we go.

We're kind of.

Doing it together.

Now we could combine let's with the word together, and that would be a good way to express something very similar.

Let's work together to resolve this as quickly as possible.

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So there, I want to let you know that I'm prioritizing speed, that I want to work quickly with you, that I don't want to keep you waiting longer.

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And again, let's, and the word together sort of reinforce this idea that, well, we are in this together.

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Now, last but not least, let's bring in some positivity.

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Positive expressions can create a friendly and solution focused tone, which is obviously something that we want, and I think they can help improve the customer's overall experience.

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Right? So here are four examples that you can use to, let's say spread the sunshine.

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I'm here to help.

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Shall we get started?

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So that's just a way to quickly say, I am going to do whatever it takes to help you and then begin.

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Now. Thank you for bringing this up.

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I'm going to do my best to help you.

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So there again, we have two pieces.

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I'm thanking you for bringing the issue to me because.

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I'm the best person to solve your problem.

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I will do everything I can to help.

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I'm going to do my best to help.

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I will do whatever I can to help solve this for you.

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Any of those variations would be fine, but it's very proactive.

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It's very positive to essentially say, no matter what happens, your issue will be solved.

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I'm here to listen and help however I can.

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Sound good?

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Now, sound good can be a little bit informal, right?

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The formal way to say that is, does that sound good?

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Does that sound good?

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Now, sometimes you'll hear people say, instead of, sound good, sounds good?

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So if you want to say it formally, then go with, does that sound good?

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If you wanna say it more casually, then I would recommend "Sounds good?" Sounds good?

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Again, not very formal, so you have to be aware of that.

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I'm here to help.

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I'm here to listen.

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These two are a way to show that I'm continually going to be carefully listening to your issues and doing everything that I can, but then I want to get a little feedback and that's a way to make you feel like we're participating.

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Sounds good?

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And then hopefully, hopefully the customer will say, sounds good.

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Okay, so that's just a great way.

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Make sure we're both on the same team.

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I'm here to help and I'll do everything I can to assist you.

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Assist you is a little bit formal, so just be aware of that help.

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Sounds a bit more friendly to me.

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I'm here to help as almost something that a superhero would say when they land on the ground.

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I'm here to help.

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And I'll do everything I can to assist you.

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So it can sound a bit formal, it could be a bit corny, but I think it could also be a good way to set the tone, be very positive, and show that I'm going to be proactively helping you solve your problem.

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Okay, so now that we've gone through these four groups of expressions, I would like you to start thinking.

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How you can put them into practice.

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Pick out a few of the ones that you like and try to use them in your own customer service situations and let me know how it goes.

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I think if you haven't used these before, that they will really help you communicate and create that empathy that you really want to have when you're dealing with a costumer in English, and that is it for this video.

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So if you have any questions, let me know.

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Let me know how it goes.

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Trying out these customer service English expressions.

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Deze spreekles op niveau B1 is gebaseerd op de video “Customer Service English: Calming Frustrated Customers”. Deze woorden komen het vaakst terug: sound, customer, expression, empathy, situation. Deze video bevat 148 zinnen en 2020 woorden om na te spreken. Het gesproken deel duurt 13:11. De spreker praat in een natuurlijk tempo van ongeveer 153 woorden per minuut, dicht bij een alledaags gesprek. 85% van de woorden hoort bij de 3.000 meest gebruikte Engelse woorden; de rest kun je beter vooraf bekijken. 25 van de 148 zinnen zijn vragen, dus het is goede oefening voor vraagintonatie en korte antwoorden.

Belangrijke woorden in deze video

De 15 moeilijkste woorden uit de video, met uitspraak en betekenis:

Woord	Uitspraak	Betekenis
apologize werkwoord	/əˈpɑləˌd͡ʒaɪz/	zich verontschuldigen, verantwoorden
empathy zelfstandig naamwoord	/ˈɛmpəθi/	inlevingsvermogen, empathie
frustration zelfstandig naamwoord	/fɹʌsˈtɹeɪ.ʃən/	frustratie
frustrate werkwoord	/ˈfɹʌsˌtɹeɪt/	frustreren
inconvenience zelfstandig naamwoord	/ɪnkənˈvinjəns/	ongemak, verstoring
resolve werkwoord	/ɹɪˈzɑlv/	oplossen
acknowledge werkwoord	/əkˈnɑ.lɪd͡ʒ/	bekennen, erkennen
expectation zelfstandig naamwoord	/ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/	verwachting, afwachting
patience zelfstandig naamwoord	/ˈpeɪ̯.ʃəns/	geduld
inconsiderate bijvoeglijk naamwoord	/ˌɪnkənˈsɪdəɹɪt/	roekeloos, onachtzaam
inconvenient bijvoeglijk naamwoord	/ˌɪn.kənˈviːni.ənt/	ongemakkelijk, storend
proactive bijvoeglijk naamwoord	/pɹoʊˈæk.tɪv/	proactief
proactively bijwoord	/pɹoʊˈæk.tɪv.li/	proactief
reinforce werkwoord	/ˌɹiː.ɪnˈfɔːs/	versterken, vergroten
emphasize werkwoord	/ˈɛm.fə.saɪz/	benadrukken, beklemtonen

Phrasal verbs die je zult horen

Woord	Betekenis
check out werkwoord	onderzoeken
figure out werkwoord	uitvogelen, er achter komen
try out werkwoord	uitproberen

Zinnen om te herhalen

Korte, volledige zinnen uit de video die je in alledaagse gesprekken kunt gebruiken:

How can we use these expressions to accomplish all of these things?
I'm so sorry this has happened.
You're currently going through this feeling of frustration, right?
I'm just acknowledging your current feeling.
How do we show empathy to a customer?

Grammatica in deze video

De structuren die de spreker het meest gebruikt, met de exacte woorden uit de video:

Structuur	In de video
Voorwaardelijke zinnen if + zin, will/would + werkwoord — een voorwaarde en het gevolg	if you check it out, you will get
Present perfect have/has + voltooid deelwoord — iets uit het verleden dat nu nog telt	has waited · have gone · they've tried
Lijdende vorm be + voltooid deelwoord — het gaat om wat er gebeurt, niet om wie het doet	was not met · wasn't solved · will be solved
Betrekkelijke bijzinnen who / which + zin — extra informatie over een persoon of ding	thing, which is · tone, which is

Uitspraak om op te letten

De spreker gebruikt 82 samentrekkingen en verkorte vormen, zoals I'm, you're, we're. Spreek ze kort uit, zoals je ze hoort.

De “th”-klanken: empathy /ˈɛmpəθi/, empathize /ˈɛmpəˌθaɪz/
De klanken “sh” en “zh”: frustration /fɹʌsˈtɹeɪ.ʃən/, expectation /ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/, patience /ˈpeɪ̯.ʃəns/, casually /ˈkæʒuəli/, accomplish /əˈkɑm.plɪʃ/
Lange woorden — let op de klemtoon: apologize /əˈpɑləˌd͡ʒaɪz/, inconvenience /ɪnkənˈvinjəns/, expectation /ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/, apologetic /əˌpɑləˈd͡ʒɛtɪk/, inconsiderate /ˌɪnkənˈsɪdəɹɪt/

Klanken die Nederlandstaligen lastig vinden:

Stemhebbende eindmedeklinker — /b/, /d/, /g/, /z/, /v/ niet verscherpen: apologize /əˈpɑləˌd͡ʒaɪz/, resolve /ɹɪˈzɑlv/, acknowledge /əkˈnɑ.lɪd͡ʒ/, empathize /ˈɛmpəˌθaɪz/, prioritize /pɹaɪˈɒɹ.ə.taɪz/
/æ/ — opener dan de Nederlandse “e”: proactive /pɹoʊˈæk.tɪv/, proactively /pɹoʊˈæk.tɪv.li/, casually /ˈkæʒuəli/, collaborative /kəˈlæb.ə.ɹə.tɪv/, unhappy /ʌnˈhæpi/

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Belangrijke woorden in deze video

Phrasal verbs die je zult horen

Zinnen om te herhalen

Grammatica in deze video

Uitspraak om op te letten

Zo oefen je met deze video

Wat is de Shadowing-techniek?