Shadowing Practice: Attract a Specific Person Into Your Life - Bob Proctor - Learn English Speaking with Video
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Hello there and welcome.
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I'm Bob Proctor.
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I have done seminars all over the world for a long long time.
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But a little over 10 years ago when the secret hit the street, almost every seminar I went into,
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a man or a woman would come up to me and they would try and pull me off to the side.
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It was like they wanted to talk to me but they didn't want anybody to hear them.
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And they'd say the law of attraction.
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Does that work for people?
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I knew exactly where they were going.
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They said, what do you mean?
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Well, could I attract a person into my life?
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I said, absolutely, absolutely.
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So I thought there's a lot of people want to know this and this actually is the way it works.
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So let's take a look at this.
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I'm going to put a visual here and take a look here for a moment.
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This is how you attract the person you want into your life.
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Now you take a sheet of paper or card
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and you put a circle on it and in
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that circle you write my man
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or my woman whichever it is you want to attract
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and then you take
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and you put sort of a starburst on it with a bunch of lines coming out
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and then you start to fill in
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and here you want the kind of person you want the qualities
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that you want to have and the first thing you want you want
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that person to be free because if they're or not, you're not going to be.
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And as well as that, you also want the person to be happy.
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Who wants to be with a sad face all the time?
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Now, this seems preposterous to some people, but if you understand the law, understand that we're all an expression of exactly the same power,
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and as power operates by law, vibration is one of the laws.
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Now vibration is the primary law, attraction is the secondary.
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You can only attract to you what you're in harmonious vibration with.
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You want to attract a kind person.
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You want somebody that's kind.
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And you will find that you can live a pretty good life with some of these qualities.
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You want somebody that's caring.
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Now you think of all these things, you think of, what do I want the person to be like?
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Well, you want them to have these qualities.
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Understand this, you do not put a face on the person.
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Oh, I know you've got your eye on somebody.
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You have no right to mess with their mind, and that's what you would be doing.
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You'd be transmitting images to them.
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Now, you just send this to the universe.
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Now, I'm gonna tell you what'll happen before we're finished here.
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You gotta go back, and you keep thinking of the qualities.
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You want them to be in good health.
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You want a healthy person.
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You want somebody that's vibrant, alive, you know?
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You want somebody that has a good appearance.
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Somebody that has a good appearance.
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You want somebody that's financially independent.
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You don't have to keep this person.
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You want somebody that's financially independent.
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And then, you know, there's no hang -ups about money.
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You want somebody that's into personal growth.
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If you're into personal growth, you certainly want them to be.
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Now, remember what I said, you do not put a face on this person.
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Because then you're messing with their mind, and you don't have a right to do that.
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And then you're messing with their mind, and you don't have a right to do that.
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You start to see yourself with this person.
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Now if there's not enough there, you put some more lines out.
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You just set some more lines and you start to fill them in.
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And you think, just keep adding the qualities, everything you want this person to have.
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And then mentally you start to live with this person.
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Don't tell anybody you're doing it.
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You go for a walk with them.
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You talk to them.
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You have dinner with them.
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And you mentally carry on a conversation with this imaginary person.
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Now what are you doing?
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When you're thinking of a person with all these qualities and you see that in your mind, you're putting yourself in that vibration.
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And you keep doing this, and you do it on a regular basis, and understand the universe is going to send to you exactly what you're in harmony with.
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If you're attracting what you don't want, you better take a look at you, because you're the only person you can experience.
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You can never change another person.
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In fact, when you really start to understand how difficult it is to change yourself, you don't even want to try and change another person.
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Now you do this, you make love to this person, you go for a walk, you have dinner with them, everything that you would be doing, you do with this individual.
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And you're going to find that that person goes boom, walk right into your life.
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Try it, you'll like it.
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Bob Proctor’s Insights: Attracting a Specific Person & English Learning
In the video, renowned speaker Bob Proctor shares a decades-old approach to using the law of attraction to bring a desired person into your life. His conversational tone and clear explanations make the dialogue ideal for practicing English, especially for learners aiming to improve fluency through real-world content. Whether you’re interested in personal growth or language skills, the video offers a unique blend of practical advice and accessible speech.
Top 5 Phrases for Daily Communication
- "pull me off to the side": To ask someone to step away for a private conversation (e.g., "She pulled me off to the side to share the news").
- "hit the street": To become widely known or available (e.g., "The new app hit the street last week").
- "in harmonious vibration with": Aligned in energy or mindset (simplified: "We’re in harmony with each other’s goals").
- "preposterous to some people": Seemingly absurd to others (e.g., "His idea sounded preposterous at first, but it worked").
- "transmitting images to them": Sending mental pictures or thoughts (e.g., "She’s always transmitting positive energy to her team").
Step-by-Step Shadowing Guide for This Video
The shadowing technique—repeating speech immediately after the speaker—is perfect for mastering Proctor’s rhythm and intonation. Here’s how to practice:
- Listen once: Focus on understanding the main idea of attracting qualities, not specific words. Note how Proctor pauses for emphasis (e.g., after "absolutely").
- Shadow short segments: Pause the video after 5-10 seconds and repeat. Mimic his tone—confident and conversational. Pay attention to phrases like "I knew exactly where they were going" to practice natural flow.
- Focus on connected speech: Proctor often links words (e.g., "want to" becomes "wanna"). Repeat these to sound more native. Use "shadowspeaks" to describe this process of mirroring.
- Record yourself: Compare your version to the video. Check if you’re matching his pace and stress (e.g., emphasizing "free" and "happy" in the qualities list).
- Practice daily: Spend 10 minutes on this video. Over time, you’ll notice improved fluency and a better grasp of conversational English. Learning English with videos like this turns passive listening into active skill-building.
By combining shadow speech with the video’s engaging content, you’ll not only learn practical phrases but also develop the confidence to speak English naturally.
What is the Shadowing Technique?
Shadowing is a science-backed language learning technique originally developed for professional interpreter training and popularized by polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. The method is simple but powerful: you listen to native English audio and immediately repeat it out loud — like a shadow following the speaker with just a 1–2 second delay. Unlike passive listening or grammar drills, shadowing forces your brain and mouth muscles to simultaneously process and reproduce real speech patterns. Research shows it significantly improves pronunciation accuracy, intonation, rhythm, connected speech, listening comprehension, and speaking fluency — making it one of the most effective methods for IELTS Speaking preparation and real-world English communication.