Shadowing Practice: Stop inviting them back to ypur life #discipline #relationships #movingon #selfimprovement - Learn English Speaking with Video

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So you're gonna text them again, you're gonna invite them back into your life after they did you wrong and then what?
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Like okay your ego is gonna be stroked a little bit
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and you're gonna feel a little better about yourself
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but in the future do you think that that person is your ideal person?
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Toxic people don't get nicer down the line, they just see how far they can go.
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The first time you show them okay I forgave you after you did this to me, that's an in for them to get worse
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and worse they will constantly tell you oh i'm
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so sorry i will never do it again yet their actions will show
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that they will do it again okay this is just plain
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manipulation manipulation then you only ask yourself like what are you really doing here
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because at the end of the day you are the one
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pouring in all of your energy you are the one just wasting your time
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and every single time a woman has thought
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or a man has thought like oh my god i can change this person they don't change
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because first of all there's no consequence
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and second of all no one can change anyone they should do that by themselves and it should come from done

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Vocabulary and speaking notes for this lesson

This B2 speaking lesson is built on the video “Stop inviting them back to ypur life”. This video has 16 sentences and 221 words to shadow. The speech runs for 1:01. The speaker talks fast, about 219 words per minute, so expect linked and reduced sounds. 90% of the words are among the 3,000 most common in English, so the vocabulary is easy to follow.

Key vocabulary in this video

The 11 most advanced words in the video, with pronunciation and meaning:

WordPronunciationMeaning
manipulation noun/məˌnɪp.juˈleɪ.ʃən/The practice of manipulating or the state of being manipulated.
ideal adjective/aɪˈdi(ə)l/Pertaining to ideas, or to a given idea.
plain noun/pleɪn/An expanse of land with relatively low relief and few trees, especially a grassy expanse.
invite verb/ɪnˈvaɪt/To ask for the presence or participation of someone or something.
forgive verb/fɚˈɡɪv/To pardon (someone); to waive any negative feeling towards or desire for punishment or retribution against.
toxic adjective/ˈtɒk.sɪk/Having a chemical nature that is harmful to health or lethal if consumed or otherwise entering into the body in sufficient quantities.
pour verb/poɹ/To cause (liquid, or liquid-like substance) to flow in a stream, either out of a container or into it.
consequence noun/ˈkɑn.sɪ.kwəns/An effect; something that follows a cause as a result.
constantly adverb/ˈkɑnstənʔli/In a constant manner; occurring continuously; persistently.
ill adjective/ɪl/Indicative of unkind or malevolent intentions; harsh, cruel.
text noun/tɛkst/A writing consisting of multiple glyphs, characters, symbols or sentences.

Grammar in this video

The structures the speaker uses most, with the exact words from the video:

StructureIn the video
Present perfect have/has + past participle — a past action that still matters nowhas thought
Passive voice be + past participle — the focus is on what happens, not who does itbe stroked

Pronunciation to watch

The speaker uses 10 contractions and reduced forms, such as gonna, you're, don't. Say them the short way, as you hear them.

How to practise with this video

  1. Listen to the whole video once without speaking and note the words you do not know.
  2. Start at 0.75× speed, shadow it sentence by sentence, then go back to normal speed once it feels easy.
  3. Record yourself and compare with the original, paying attention to words like manipulation, ideal, plain.

What is the Shadowing Technique?

Shadowing is a science-backed language learning technique originally developed for professional interpreter training and popularized by polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. The method is simple but powerful: you listen to native English audio and immediately repeat it out loud — like a shadow following the speaker with just a 1–2 second delay. Unlike passive listening or grammar drills, shadowing forces your brain and mouth muscles to simultaneously process and reproduce real speech patterns. Research shows it significantly improves pronunciation accuracy, intonation, rhythm, connected speech, listening comprehension, and speaking fluency — making it one of the most effective methods for IELTS Speaking preparation and real-world English communication.

Shadowing technique: read the full step-by-step guide →