Shadowing Practice: Forgiveness isn't going to set you free - Learn English Speaking with Video

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Forgiveness isn't gonna set you free.
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Understanding will.
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Everyone's obsessed with sending them love and light, forgive them for your own peace, let them go and then move on.
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But here's the actual truth, you don't need to forgive them.
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You need to understand the role that they played in your reality.
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Because sometimes forgiveness is actually just spiritual bypassing.
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It is a way to avoid doing the real work because understanding is the actual liberation.
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When you understand that they were exactly the lesson the universe sent you so that you can shift, everything will shift around you.
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When you understand that they were your teacher, not your enemy, you are actually free.
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So instead of sending them this love and light, I want you to ask yourself, what was I supposed to learn from this?
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Instead of trying to fix the relationship, understand that it was never meant to be fixed.
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It was meant to break you open.
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So forgiveness may free your ego, but understanding will make you unstoppable.

Vocabulary and speaking notes for this lesson

This video has 13 sentences and 172 words to shadow. The speech runs for 1:02. The speaker talks at a natural 166 words per minute, close to everyday conversation. 91% of the words are among the 3,000 most common in English, so the vocabulary is easy to follow.

Key vocabulary in this video

15 words from the video worth learning, with pronunciation and meaning:

WordPronunciationMeaning
forgiveness noun/fɚˈɡɪvnəs/The action of forgiving.
forgive verb/fɚˈɡɪv/To pardon (someone); to waive any negative feeling towards or desire for punishment or retribution against.
lesson noun/ˈlɛs.ən/A section of learning or teaching into which a wider learning content is divided.
spiritual adjective/ˈspɪɹɪt͡ʃuəl/Of or pertaining to the spirit or the soul.
liberation noun/ˌlɪbəˈɹeɪʃən/The act of liberating or the state of being liberated.
bypass noun/ˈbaɪpæs/A road that passes around something, such as a residential area or business district.
obsess verb/əbˈsɛs/To be preoccupied with a single topic or emotion.
unstoppable adjective/ʌnˈstɔ.pə.bəl/Unable to be stopped.
shift noun/ˈʃɪft/A movement to do something, a beginning.
universe noun/ˈjunəˌvɝs/The sum of everything that exists in the cosmos.
suppose verb/səˈpoʊz/To take for granted; to conclude, with less than absolute supporting data; to believe.
actual adjective/ˈækʃuəl/relating to a person's acts or deeds; active, practical
reality noun/ɹiˈæləti/The state of being actual or real; realness.
teacher noun/ˈti.t͡ʃɚ/A person who teaches, especially one employed in a school; preceptor.
avoid verb/əˈvɔɪd/To try not to meet or communicate with (a person); to shun.

Pronunciation to watch

The speaker uses 3 contractions and reduced forms, such as don't, gonna, isn't. Say them the short way, as you hear them.

  • The “sh” and “zh” sounds: liberation /ˌlɪbəˈɹeɪʃən/, shift /ˈʃɪft/, actual /ˈækʃuəl/
  • Long words — get the stress right: liberation /ˌlɪbəˈɹeɪʃən/, unstoppable /ʌnˈstɔ.pə.bəl/, reality /ɹiˈæləti/

How to practise with this video

  1. Listen to the whole video once without speaking and note the words you do not know.
  2. Start at 0.75× speed, shadow it sentence by sentence, then go back to normal speed once it feels easy.
  3. Record yourself and compare with the original, paying attention to words like forgiveness, forgive, lesson.

Grammar in this video

The structures the speaker uses most, with the exact words from the video:

StructureIn the video
Passive voice be + past participle — the focus is on what happens, not who does itwas never meant · was meant

What is the Shadowing Technique?

Shadowing is a science-backed language learning technique originally developed for professional interpreter training and popularized by polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. The method is simple but powerful: you listen to native English audio and immediately repeat it out loud — like a shadow following the speaker with just a 1–2 second delay. Unlike passive listening or grammar drills, shadowing forces your brain and mouth muscles to simultaneously process and reproduce real speech patterns. Research shows it significantly improves pronunciation accuracy, intonation, rhythm, connected speech, listening comprehension, and speaking fluency — making it one of the most effective methods for IELTS Speaking preparation and real-world English communication.

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