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If you're stuck having the same boring conversations
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How's your work going?
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What are you doing on the weekend?
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Anything nice?
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So where are you from?
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And you have absolutely no idea how to turn them into conversations you actually want to have?
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Then first you need to understand number one the small talk rule.
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So what have you been up to recently?
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Not too much really.
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Weather's been nice though.
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Yeah.
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Now everyone seems to hate small talk, but here's the thing.
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You actually need the small talk.
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Because imagine meeting somebody for the first time and going, I really like fishing, I've got three brothers,
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four sisters, big family and a lovely looking dad.
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Ummm, okay.
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You can't immediately start conversations by having some incredibly deep, interesting thing to talk about with someone you've never met before.
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You need somewhere small to start.
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And that's exactly what Smalltalk's for.
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So what do you do for work?
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I'm an accountant.
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Oh, nice.
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Whereabouts do you work?
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I work in the centre of London pretty much every day.
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So now we've found two things.
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They're an accountant and they work in London.
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But this is where most people go wrong.
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Instead of actually exploring either of those things, they'll just jump to another topic.
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So what do you do on the weekend then?
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Not much, really.
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And that is why your conversations stay so surface level.
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Instead, let's go back.
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So what do you do for work then?
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I'm an accountant.
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Oh, nice.
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Have you always wanted to be an accountant?
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Yeah, I've always wanted to since a kid, studied at uni and here we are seven years later.
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You see what's just happened here?
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We're not just learning about accountancy, we're now starting to learn about them.
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what they wanted to do when they were growing up, what they were like when they were younger
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and how they ended up where they are now so I could just stay there.
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So I'm guessing you were pretty smart at school then?
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Actually no, I was a nightmare at school.
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Really?
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No, I don't believe that.
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Yep, I was always getting in trouble.
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And there we go again.
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We started with what do you do
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and now we're talking about what they're like growing up and that's the whole point of the small talk rule.
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Small talk gives you the entry, your job is to notice it and go deeper.
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And this leads nicely onto number two, wide versus deep conversations.
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I want you to think about conversations in two different ways,
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you can have a wide conversation and you can have a deep conversation and most conversations people have are incredibly wide.
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An example of a wide conversation would be, so where are you from?
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I'm from Manchester.
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Oh nice, what do you do for work?
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Well I work in marketing.
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Cool, what do you do outside of work?
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I play football.
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Nice, do you have any holidays coming up?
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Yeah, I'm going to Spain in a couple weeks.
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Now look at what's happened here.
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Within the space of about a minute we've talked about four completely different topics Manchester,
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marketing, football and Spain but But we've learned nothing about each other because every conversation we started has been one question deep.
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And eventually you're gonna run out of topics to talk about and you're gonna be in mid -conversation thinking
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What do I say next to them?
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So instead of just bouncing from topic to topic in a wide conversation, I want you to start learning how to have deeper conversations.
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So let's restart with the exact same question.
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So where are you from?
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Manchester.
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So now we've got the topic of Manchester.
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Instead of abandoning that and asking them what they do for work, we're going to stay with Manchester and go a little bit deeper.
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Have you always wanted to live in Manchester?
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No, I actually moved away when I was 18 years old.
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Oh really?
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What made you leave?
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Honestly, I just couldn't wait to get out.
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How come?
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Was it just like staying in your hometown or...
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Yeah, I just never really fitted in my hometown when I was growing up, to be honest with you.
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Now look where we are.
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We started with just a simple where are you from and now we're actually learning about the person and that's the difference.
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Wide conversations are always looking for new topics
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but deeper conversations are always finding new layers inside the topic that you have already got.
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Number three, adding one more sentence is probably the easiest way to make your conversations more interesting
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and I want you to do this in two different ways.
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First, when somebody asks you a question
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So what did you get up to on the weekend?
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And you say
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Not much really
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Okay, so how am I supposed to respond to that?
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They have basically given me absolutely nothing to work with So instead, when you're answering somebody's question, just tell yourself
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Just add one more sentence
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So what did you get up to on the weekend?
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Ah, not too much really.
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I spent most of my time on the sofa on the weekend re -watching
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Breaking Bad over and over again.
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That's it.
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It doesn't seem like much, but now you've given them
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Breaking Bad and spending most of the weekend on the sofa as a way to start a new, fun conversation.
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Oh mate, I love Breaking Bad.
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I love watching it.
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Whereabouts are you up to?
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What episode?
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Or, see I've never actually watched Breaking Bad.
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Is it worth it?
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See, now we have a conversation.
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And this is what I really want you to understand.
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So what do you do for a living?
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Don't just say, I'm a lawyer.
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Maybe instead, I'm a lawyer.
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I mainly work with just smaller businesses, so every day it's completely different.
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More of the smaller cases.
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Now, the second way that I want you to use this rule is when you're the one asking the questions.
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Now don't just rapid fire ask them like, Did you know that
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Tom's trying to reach 100 ,000 subscribers by the end of the year?
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No, I didn't.
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Well can you go ahead and subscribe to him?
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Alright, yeah.
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I'll subscribe, no problem.
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Thanks.
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Because that is just simply question, answer, question, answer.
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You did subscribe though, right?
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So again, before asking another question, try adding one more sentence.
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My social skills suck.
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Oh well, I know
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Tom has just released the waitlist to his brand new social skills course
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that he's doing as everybody else has been requesting it.
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Would this be something that would help you? yeah no
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that would be exactly what I wanted where can I sign up
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so I can know
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when the course drops just put your email in on the waitlist website it's really simple
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but it's going to help you go from starting conversations to
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having deeper conversations to making friends leaving conversations having better relationships
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and connections just press the link in the description no seriously press the link in the description waitlist is live
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now number four react to what they meant not just what they said.
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Now this one is slightly different
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because let's say somebody says to you I've been working till 8pm every night this week and you respond Oh really?
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What time do you normally finish?
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Now there's nothing technically wrong with this question
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but you're kind of missing the point as to what they were telling you in the first place.
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Because they're probably not telling you their working hours because they think you're really interested in their shifts.
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So try and find the meaning underneath what you think they're trying to communicate to you.
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Damn you must be absolutely exhausted.
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I am absolutely exhausted.
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What's been going on at work?
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Or another example of this somebody might say well my best
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friends just literally moved to Australia for the rest of her life now so yeah.
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And you say oh nice wow whereabouts in Australia?
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Again perfectly reasonable response from them
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but just have a little think a minute as to what
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that sentence meant to me and why I might have said it.
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What was the meaning behind it?
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I'm pretty sad.
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I'm pretty upset.
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You know, it's a pretty tough, I want to talk to somebody about it.
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Oh mate, that must be pretty tough on you.
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How have you been dealing with him being away?
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You see now how we've moved from talking about just Australia to talking about them
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and that's what I want you to start practicing.
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So don't just listen to the information that people were always giving you.
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Instead, sometimes ask yourself, why are they telling me this?
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What's the deeper meaning behind this?
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Number five, stop exchanging facts and instead ask for opinions.
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Let's take probably the most stereotypically boring conversation ever, the weather.
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God, it's freezing today.
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Yeah, it's horrible.
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Apparently it's even colder tomorrow.
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Oh no, really?
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Now where do we go from here?
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We're basically right now just exchanging weather reports.
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But let's now have the exact same conversation again, but this time we add an opinion.
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God, it's freezing today.
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To be honest, summer's been so hot, I quite like a little bit of the cooler weather, you know?
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Really?
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I do get you, but I've always been more of a sunny person, to be honest with you.
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You see how different that feels?
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And you can do this with pretty much any boring topic.
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So what do you do?
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I'm a banker.
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Versus.
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I'm a banker, which to be honest, it sounds really boring, but it's really not as boring as it sounds.
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You see how much more they've given me to respond to? Or.
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How did you get here this morning?
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Oh, I got here on the train, but honestly, I think it's one of the worst ways to travel around London in the mornings.
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And again, here you've given them something.
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Because facts will just tell you what's happened, but opinions, they'll tell you what people actually think about what has happened.
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And you can also do this by flipping this around and asking for their opinion.
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Instead of, So how long have you been a banker then?
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You could ask, What's your favourite thing about being a banker?
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Instead of, How often do you get the train into London?
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You could ask, Do you actually like the commute into London? Because...
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I really don't.
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Because now you're actually starting to find what they actually like.
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And finally, after everything I've just taught you, I want you to remember this.
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Number six, stop trying to make every conversation deep.
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If you ask somebody, How's your work going?
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And they say, Yeah, good, thank you.
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You might try going a little bit deeper.
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What are you working on at the moment?
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And they say, Nah, nothing really particularly exciting, to be honest with you it's okay to leave the conversation topic how it is
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and move on to the next one because maybe five minutes later you mentioned
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that you've just got a dog
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and suddenly they're going oh mate
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I've got a golden retriever as well oh he's an absolute nightmare yesterday he there we go
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that is exactly where you stay in the conversation
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and go a little bit deeper thank you
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so much for watching I'm trying to hit 100 ,000 subscribers please subscribe
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if you did enjoy and join the waitlist in the description.
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Take care.
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Vocabulário e dicas de fala para esta lição
Esta aula de conversação usa o vídeo “How to make small talk so fun, people want to keep talking to you”. As palavras que mais se repetem: conversation, topic, instead, deeper. Este vídeo tem 210 frases e 1942 palavras para praticar shadowing. A fala dura 10:51. O falante fala em ritmo natural, cerca de 179 palavras por minuto, próximo de uma conversa do dia a dia. 89% das palavras estão entre as 3.000 mais comuns do inglês, por isso o vocabulário é fácil de acompanhar. 57 das 210 frases são perguntas, por isso é um bom treino para a entonação de perguntas e respostas curtas.
Vocabulário principal deste vídeo
15 palavras do vídeo que vale a pena aprender, com pronúncia e significado:
| Palavra | Pronúncia | Significado |
|---|---|---|
| topic substantivo | /ˈtɑpɪk/ | tópico, assunto |
| bore verbo | /boɹ/ | chatear, aborrecer |
| subscribe verbo | /səbˈskɹaɪb/ | assinar |
| banker substantivo | /ˈbæŋkəː/ | banqueiro, banqueira |
| accountant substantivo | /əˈkaʊn.tənt/ | contador, contabilista |
| whereabouts substantivo | /ˌ(h)wɛəɹəˈbaʊts/ | paradeiro |
| skill substantivo | /skɪl/ | habilidade, talento |
| incredibly advérbio | /ɪŋˈkɹɛdɪbli/ | incrivelmente |
| versus | /ˈvɝsəs/ | contra, vérsus |
| nightmare substantivo | /ˈnaɪt.mɛɚ/ | pesadelo |
| freeze verbo | /ˈfɹiːz/ | gelar, congelar |
| hometown substantivo | /ˈhoʊmˌtaʊn/ | cidade natal |
| exhaust verbo | /ɪɡˈzɔst/ | esvaziar |
| sofa substantivo | /ˈsoʊ̯fə/ | sofá |
| subscriber substantivo | /səbˈskɹaɪbɚ/ | assinante, subscritor |
Phrasal verbs que você vai ouvir
| Palavra | Pronúncia | Significado |
|---|---|---|
| grow up verbo | crescer | |
| end up verbo | terminar, acabar | |
| get out verbo | sair | |
| go ahead verbo | /ˌɡoʊ əˈhɛd/ | vai em frente |
| go back verbo | voltar | |
| sign up verbo | subscrever |
Frases que vale a pena repetir
Frases curtas e completas do vídeo que você pode usar na conversa do dia a dia:
- How's your work going?
- What are you doing on the weekend?
- Have you always wanted to be an accountant?
- You see what's just happened here?
- Cool, what do you do outside of work?
Gramática neste vídeo
As estruturas que o falante mais usa, com as palavras exatas do vídeo:
| Estrutura | No vídeo |
|---|---|
| Present perfect continuous have/has been + -ing — uma ação que começou antes e continua | has been requesting · I've been working · What's been going |
| Present perfect have/has + particípio passado — uma ação passada que ainda importa agora | have you been · Weather's been · you've never met |
| Verbo + -ing enjoy, keep, stop… + -ing — verbos seguidos da forma em -ing | start learning · love Breaking · love watching |
| Past continuous was/were + -ing — uma ação em andamento em um momento do passado | were growing · was always getting · was growing |
Pronúncia para ficar de olho
O falante usa 62 contrações e formas reduzidas, como I'm, you're, I've. Diga-as na forma curta, do jeito que você ouve.
- Palavras longas — acerte a sílaba tônica: incredibly /ɪŋˈkɹɛdɪbli/, communicate /kəˈmjuːnɪkeɪt/, technically /ˈtɛk.nɪˌkəl.i/, accountancy /əˈkaʊnt.ən.si/
Sons difíceis para falantes de português:
- Consoante final — sem acrescentar um “i” depois: topic /ˈtɑpɪk/, subscribe /səbˈskɹaɪb/, accountant /əˈkaʊn.tənt/, exhaust /ɪɡˈzɔst/, suck /sʌk/
- /l/ final — a língua toca o céu da boca, não vira “u”: skill /skɪl/, horrible /ˈhɔɹ.ɪ.bəl/
- /h/ — um sopro suave, diferente do “r”: whereabouts /ˌ(h)wɛəɹəˈbaʊts/, hometown /ˈhoʊmˌtaʊn/, horrible /ˈhɔɹ.ɪ.bəl/
Como praticar com este vídeo
- Ouça o vídeo inteiro uma vez sem falar e anote as palavras que você não conhece.
- Comece na velocidade 0,75×, faça shadowing frase por frase e volte à velocidade normal quando ficar fácil.
- Grave a sua voz e compare com o original, prestando atenção a palavras como topic, bore, subscribe.
O que é a Técnica de Shadowing?
Shadowing é uma técnica de aprendizado de idiomas com base científica, originalmente desenvolvida para o treinamento de intérpretes profissionais. O método é simples, mas poderoso: você ouve áudio em inglês nativo e repete imediatamente em voz alta — como uma sombra seguindo o falante com 1-2 segundos de atraso. Pesquisas mostram melhora significativa na precisão da pronúncia, entonação, ritmo, sons conectados, compreensão auditiva e fluência na fala.