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I'm gonna show you guys live infield footage of me actually running coffee dates

because there's a right way and there's definitely a wrong way to run a coffee date.

Now, this could be meeting up for coffee or for tea or for an ice cream,

boba, or a smoothie, whatever the small little item is that you're meeting up to drink or eat.

I wanna go over the specifics of this.

And in particular, coffee seems to be the most popular small date activity.

So when you're running a date like this, It's only ran effectively when it's in one of two ways.

It's either coffee date A, which is going to be in the particular situation where we don't have too much time, but we do want to hang out a little bit with this woman to create a deeper connection,

make it a little bit flirty, build up some rapport.

But that's also going to now set us up for a more romantic date later on.

Or it's going to be coffee date structure B, which is the coffee part of the date is just one part out of a multiple part sequence

that you run on the date those are the only two

times it works what you don't want to do is option c

which is where most guys go wrong is they meet up for coffee

and the whole day is at the coffee shop you don't just get coffee

and sit at the cafe and you drink the coffee the whole time

because typically you're going to get coffee during the morning

or the early afternoon so it's definitely not a sexy vibe

and because there's no location changes you're sitting at the cafe in public and it's early in the day, it's going to typically be a little bit more of a friendly conversation.

So it's going to be really difficult to spark a romantic man to woman dynamic.

There's a couple of techniques I want to get to in this video, but if you just try to run a two to three hour coffee date and that's the whole day, you're going to be in trouble.

So it's either we do this in a very short sequence because we don't have that much time, but we still want to hang out

and it's going to build up more rapport and vibe

and flirtiness to now bridge the gap to having a romantic date

or it's going to be part one in a two to three plus part sequence of a date.

And so I wanna show you guys three different scenarios of different dates that I went on, two of them being coffee and one of them being a smoothie

and they all had unique elements to them so I can explain the different technicalities.

So the very first one that we'll go over is this infield clip that you'll see on the screen right now.

I went up, I approached this woman, she was dressed very cute and fashionable, had a little bit more of an intellectual vibe to her

we had a four minute interaction out on the street it turns out she was actually headed to work

and she was about to do an eight hour work day

and so because we didn't have that much time right now

but the vibe was going well i was able to lead her right into this cafe

that was on the street corner at the intersection of where we were talking now

because i was able to lead her in there

that then turned a four minute interaction into a 20 plus minute coffee date

so in terms of structure this is more coffee date a

and the things that you want to have in this type of sequence is making sure

that you start the interaction with some type of intentful flirty

line having a good vibe enthusiasm get to know you talk there should be several moments

when you're going into the cafe where you guys can get

a little bit closer to each other these were both getting a coffee

or a tea in the middle of the day where we didn't have

that much time there was multiple injections of flirtatiousness i made sure

that at some point we were standing somewhat close to each other because

if you're waiting in line to order you're looking at the

menu you guys go through the line you're waiting for the

coffee to come out those are great opportunities to get a little bit closer

and get her more comfortable being at a close distance to you

and just talking a little bit slower having a little bit

of a burst of flirtatiousness you don't just meet her at the table

and sit across from the table

and have this very formal resume exchange type conversation like utilize

looking at the menu getting in line moving through the line waiting for the coffee getting the coffees going

and sitting down all of that is opportunity to get closer

and make things flirty the other thing

that you want to do on this coffee day is

while you're getting to know each other you want to start seeding future opportunities where you guys could hang out.

So as you're getting to know her, you want to figure out what she likes to do for fun, what fun things she has planned for the weekend and what she typically does on Friday, Saturday and Sunday.

The reason you want to talk about that is because we don't have too much time on this coffee date right now.

I really just want to flirt, get her a little bit more comfortable being close to me, vibe, create a deeper connection and set up plans for the weekend

or on an evening night where we could actually do something

that's a little bit more sexy a little bit more flirty

and romantic something like grabbing a drink or a mocktail

or going out for sushi or a bite to eat

or checking out a rooftop or going out for a fun night out

or going to a cool date spot where there's like games

or activities those are sexy romantic better opportunities where more intimacy

can happen not sitting across the table at a cafe for three hours

and the other thing i want to point out about coffee date scenario a is

that because of how short it is and

because of the nature of cafes and coffee shops you're likely not going to escalate that much.

Yes, you get closer.

Yes, you inject flirtatiousness several times.

Yes, you set up the next date, but don't be expecting to be making out with this woman in a cafe.

You don't want to over escalate.

We're bridging the gap to keep it fun and flirty and create a connection for us to get onto a romantic date.

So that is scenario A you guys want this skill set in your own life

if you want to work with me directly to get the

coaching the accountability the support to get to an advanced level with your dating

and your social confidence link is down below fill out an

application to work with me directly now let's move into coffee date scenario b

which is the coffee is just one part of a multiple part sequence throughout the date

so typically if you get a girl's number

and you say hey do you like coffee we should grab

coffee sometime don't just grab coffee you can meet her at

the coffee shop hug display some intent tell her she looks

really cute today get in line get close to her same

thing as coffee scenario a you guys order the coffee you

guys wait for the coffee maybe you guys sit close to

each other you can drink a little bit of the coffee there

or what i also like to do is you get the coffee to go right

so you can sit there and drink a little bit of it

but then you get up and actually walk with her walk

and talk while you're drinking the coffee go somewhere outside of the cafe go to another location

and then you could sit down somewhere

and drink the coffee i would also recommend

that you have multiple locations lined up

so don't just have coffee have another little activity you could do you have a cool little place

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that has a nice view during sunset there's a nice place by the water

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that you could walk there's a cool rooftop you could go

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to to check out the view there's another place where there's games

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or you go somewhere for dessert after

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or you go somewhere for a little bit of finger food

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after you need to have a second location lined up that's not

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that far away so you can have the coffee

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and then halfway through that coffee at like 15

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or 30 minutes you can say hey let's actually walk for a little bit

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or let's actually go check out this other spot that's not

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that far away I've been wanting to go there it's really cool

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so you just move and lead to the next location

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and as the date goes from coffee spot to walking to maybe sitting down

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or going to a dessert spot

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or then go to another location you have multiple locations where you can start to get closer

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and closer and closer to the woman six months ago

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when I was actually in Barcelona there was a girl that I met up with her we met at a cafe.

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So we sat down and we got coffee and the vibe wasn't that on.

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It was kind of like 4pm, maybe 5pm.

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And so we hung out there for about 45 minutes.

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But as we finished, I said, let's actually go check out the area.

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I wanted to actually explore Barcelona a bit.

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Let's walk around the downtown area and check out the cathedral.

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There's a really nice view.

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So we walked down towards the cathedral.

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We sat down outside of there.

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We sat by the steps.

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We did a lap around that place in the city center.

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And then we ultimately found this one little corner

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that was like kind of excluded a little bit more dimly late because it was kind of like in this corner.

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It wasn't pitch black, but we were in this corner

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and now we were able to sit and it was so much more intimate at that point.

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We were starting to get a little bit touchy.

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I was able to give her a light little massage

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while we were just kind of being a little flirty and cute with each other.

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And now things got so much more intimate.

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How did I have just stayed in the cafe the whole time

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and just talk to her for three hours and then try to set the next date?

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The vibe just wouldn't have been anywhere near as strong.

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So a lot of guys talk shit on the idea of coffee dates it's only

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when you structure them the wrong way that they're no longer effective.

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Coffee dates are great because it's a very low investment activity.

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Almost every woman likes coffee.

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You just need to know how to structure this out properly using either coffee date structure A

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or coffee date structure B to actually set yourself up for success.

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Now, this is just one date idea.

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Obviously, there's a lot of nuance around conversation and escalation

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and flirting and going from date one to date two to date three with women.

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So if you want to get better with that skill set and you want to work with me directly, you could click the link down below for one -on -one coaching.

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I will coach you live while you're out in the field on coaching calls.

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We break down the recordings of your interactions, the recording of your dates.

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We can structure out your dates

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and help you run these interactions properly to create high levels of attraction with women

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so you could have the dating life you've always wanted.

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That's all for this video, guys.

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I'll see you in the next one.

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Peace out.

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В этом видео 156 предложений и 2066 слов для шедоуинга. Речь длится 8:31. Говорящий говорит быстро, около 243 слов в минуту, поэтому звуки часто сливаются и сокращаются. 88% слов входят в 3000 самых частых слов английского языка, поэтому лексика простая.

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15 слов из видео, которые стоит выучить, с произношением и значением:

Слово	Произношение	Значение
vibe существительное	/vaɪb/	атмосфе́ра, а́ура
romantic прилагательное	/ɹoʊˈmæn(t)ɪk/	романти́ческий
sequence существительное	/ˈsiː.kwəns/	после́довательность, ряд
interaction существительное	/ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/	взаимоде́йствие
scenario существительное	/sɪˈnɛəɹioʊ/	сцена́рий
sexy прилагательное	/ˈsɛksi/	сексуа́льный, се́кси
skill существительное	/skɪl/	уме́ние, на́вык
menu существительное	/ˈmɛn.juː/	меню́
intimate прилагательное	/ˈɪn.tɪ.mət/	бли́зкий
cathedral существительное	/kəˈθiːdɹəl/	собо́р, кафедра́льный собо́р
dessert существительное	/dɪˈzɝt/	десе́рт, сла́дкое
finger существительное	/ˈfɪŋɡɚ/	па́лец, перст
technique существительное	/tɛkˈniːk/	те́хника
element существительное	/ˈɛləmənt/	элеме́нт, звено́
formal прилагательное	/ˈfɔɹməl/	форма́льный

Фразовые глаголы, которые вы услышите

Слово	Произношение	Значение
check out глагол		проверя́ть, прове́рить
sit down глагол		сади́ться, сесть
build up глагол		накапливаться, скапливаться
go over глагол		хорошо́ принима́ться
set up глагол	/ˌsɛt ˈʌp/	устана́вливать, установи́ть
break down глагол		ломаться, сломаться
come out глагол	/ˌkʌm ˈaʊt/	выходи́ть, вы́йти
figure out глагол		разбира́ться, разобра́ться

Произношение, на которое стоит обратить внимание

Говорящий использует 40 сокращённых и редуцированных форм, например you're, don't, didn't. Произносите их коротко, так, как слышите.

Звуки «th»: cathedral /kəˈθiːdɹəl/, enthusiasm /ɪnˈθuziæzəm/, smoothie /ˈsmuːði/
Звуки «sh» и «zh»: interaction /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/, attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, massage /məˈsɑ(d)ʒ/, injection /ɪnˈd͡ʒɛk.ʃən/, intersection /ˈɪntəɹˌsɛkʃən/
Длинные слова — следите за ударением: interaction /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/, intellectual /ˌɪntəˈlɛkt͡ʃʊəl/, enthusiasm /ɪnˈθuziæzəm/, accountability /əˌkaʊn.təˈbɪl.ə.ti/, intersection /ˈɪntəɹˌsɛkʃən/

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Запишите себя и сравните с оригиналом, обращая внимание на такие слова, как vibe, romantic, sequence.

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Конструкции, которые говорящий использует чаще всего, с точными словами из видео:

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Present Perfect have/has + причастие прошедшего времени — прошлое действие, важное сейчас	has planned · have just stayed · you've always wanted
Пассивный залог be + причастие прошедшего времени — важно, что происходит, а не кто это делает	was dressed · was actually headed

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