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Be real with me.
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Every ex carries a version of you that nobody else will ever know.
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Why?
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I just think that we are such fluid people.
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Our personalities, our world views, our goals are constantly changing and I think
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that who you are to each of your past lovers is such a specific combination of those things.
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in a specific point of time that is never going to be the same again.
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And I think because of that, it kind of immortalizes what you had.
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And it makes it so that even if things don't work out, there's something that you can hold on to that's exclusive to you for the rest of time.
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Can you give me an example?
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Yeah, I think that for me in my first relationship, I used to be a very religious person.
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And that sort of dictated the way I live my life, the way I see the world, my goals.
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And now I'm not.
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But my first ex will always have that version of me in her life.
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And I think that it's beautiful because like nobody else is ever going to have that, whether it's better or worse or more mature or less wise, like it's...
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hers and it's hers alone.
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When you go back and talk to these people, they will only remember you as the person that you were when you dated them.
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Yeah.
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So for any positive or negative growth, when you talk to them again, you can kind of You can almost...
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see a version of yourself of who you were through somebody else's eyes.
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Yeah.
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I agree.
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What does that look like for you?
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I met my first ex a few years removed from our relationship
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and I could clearly see
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that what she wanted out of life was completely different than what she wanted when I dated her.
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And on one hand, obviously it's like a bit jarring because it's not what you're used to.
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But on the other hand, it's cool because for me, like I got to have that version of her.
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And like we've been saying, like nobody else is ever going to experience that.
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And Even though I've fully moved on and she's fully moved on,
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I think that you can carry pieces of each other while still recognizing that like that is not who they are anymore.
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And in that sense, it's like, it's just special.
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Like, it's not something that is ever going to change.
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These are the people who have made you who you are, right?
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Like I feel like we're almost a collection of all of our past lovers in the sense of like, So much of who we are as people are created by the people we did in the past.
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We are human mosaics of the people who are closest to us.
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And I think you can trace back
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all of the people you've dated and how they've changed you into the person you are today.
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I also like that mentality a lot because, at least among my peers, I see a lot of people fall into this trap of like, That didn't work out.
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That was such a waste.
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On to the next.
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but seeing yourself as a product of everybody that you've been with even though it's maybe not like
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the most complicated or like crazy concept like it is true and it's beautiful.
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More importantly, I feel like it's accurate.
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I feel like people have a tendency of trashing on their exes by.. labeling them as toxic, And When you label someone as toxic, you're missing out on the opportunity for growth.
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Because once you label someone, with like a negative attribute, You...
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subconsciously you're saying like, you didn't do anything wrong and they are the problem.
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And therefore there's no learning opportunity.
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But the learning opportunity comes when you acknowledge someone's humanity and acknowledge that Everyone is a vehicle for growth.
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Every interaction and every experience, regardless of if it was positive or negative, is an experience of growth.
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Yeah, I also think that
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You reminded me of how I felt with my first ex and how angry I was and resentful I was of like,
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how could she say things like I miss you and say things that felt like she didn't mean them, like, two weeks later when she broke up with me.
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And later on, Like everything, it's all hindsight.
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And like now I can look at it and see like, oh, she just didn't know what she wanted.
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And she was genuinely just confused.
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But at the time, it's easy for me to fall into the labels that you were talking about.
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Like, oh, she's she just used me like she's just piece of trash, but.
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So learning to be human.
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I think that's a beautiful part about being human.
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I think the further away, that you remove yourself from a situation, the less personal you make it,
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the more you can acknowledge someone's humanity and you can acknowledge that these things that feel so personal really aren't and
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And everyone's really just trying their best.
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I think the problem is when you identify too closely with your emotions, you don't allow yourself to grow and you don't allow yourself to acknowledge
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that that person's human because you're casting this label on them and And, your.. subconsciously saying
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They are bad and I am good.
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And so All right, sorry, because what you're really saying is they are bad and I am good.
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or because they wronged me.
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And what that does is
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It subconsciously tells you that you did nothing wrong and you have no reason to reflect on the situation.
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I do think there are some cases where you just get done completely dirty.
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And it's hard to see the outcome of that.
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Honestly, even in those cases, I And I know it's hard to say this, I genuinely believe that if you understood every crevice of the other person's experience that did you wrong,
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I think you could not be mad at them.
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I think that people don't exist in a vacuum and that like we're all products of our environment.
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And at the end of the day, Most of us are just doing things because we're insecure.
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And I think that goes for most bad things And that's why I say like nothing's really personal.
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Right.
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were just all these like kind of like anxious, status -seeking, power -hungry human beings, and we're all doing our little thing.
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And we hurt people.
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And we don't want to, but we do.
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Yeah, I like that a lot.
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And I think tying it back to everything we talked about earlier, There's also beauty in recognizing that that version of that person that hurt you as flawed as they were
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that is still your version of them forever to keep?
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and Whether it's something that you want to keep thinking about or don't want to, like it's up to you.
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But I think that It's unique.
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and nobody's ever going to take away the fact that that person was exclusive to you.
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And ideally they're a better person now and they've learned and fixed it.
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but You know, I just think that everything that you're talking about, about how we're all just trying to be human really applies here.
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And viewing your past lovers with the same lens is really valuable too.
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What advice do you have for people that are dating?
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To anybody who's exiting a relationship?
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I would say as much as it's necessary to fully feel negative emotions, Don't allow yourself to...
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sink into them and allow that to completely tarnish your view of whoever it was.
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I just think that There's beauty in recognizing that in spite of any wrongdoing,
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somebody did to you that flawed version of them was still yours alone?
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and In that sense, just remembering that everybody's human.
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That's beautiful.
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Thank you so much.
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What was your name?
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Thank you.
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Preston, nice to meet you.
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Nice to meet you.
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Awesome.
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Первое впечатление: почему этот клип подходит для практики речи
Диалог в видео — отличный материал для обучения английскому, потому что он естественный, эмоционально насыщенный и использует повседневную лексику. Речь героев лёгкая, но выразительная, с разными интонациями, что помогает улучшить произношение и понимание контекста. Кроме того, тема отношений близка каждому, поэтому легко сопоставить свои мысли с высказываниями, что упрощает запоминание фраз. Это идеально подходит для тех, кто учит английский с YouTube, так как сочетает практику аудирования и репликации.
Анализ: почему фразы звучат естественно
- «Every ex carries a version of you that nobody else will ever know» — Здесь используется фраза «carries a version of you», что звучит более живым, чем обычное «remembers you». Она передаёт идею уникальности воспоминаний, что делает речь выразительной.
- «We are human mosaics of the people who are closest to us» — Метaphor «human mosaics» (человеческие мозаики) добавляет образности, что характерно для разговорной речи. Такие сравнения помогают запомнить фразы и сделать свою речь более разнообразной.
- «Once you label someone with a negative attribute, you're missing out on the opportunity for growth» — Структура «once... you're missing out» естественная для объяснения последствий действий. Она показывает, как связать причины и результаты в речи, что важно для логичности высказываний.
Рутина практики: как использовать этот видео для shadowing
Для улучшения произношения английского подойдёт простая техника shadowing. Сначала прослушайте короткий отрезок видео (5-10 секунд) и повторяйте его сразу за героями, копируя интонацию и темп. Запишите себя на телефоне, затем сравните с оригиналом — обратите внимание на ударения и паузы. Используйте shadowing site или платформу shadowspeaks, чтобы упростить процесс: они позволяют повторять фразы в реальном времени. Делайте это ежедневно по 10-15 минут, и вы заметите прогресс в чёткости речи и уверенности. Помните: Shadowing английский — это эффективный способ научиться говорить так, как говорят носители.
Грамматика в этом видео
Конструкции, которые говорящий использует чаще всего, с точными словами из видео:
| Конструкция | В видео |
|---|---|
| Present Perfect have/has + причастие прошедшего времени — прошлое действие, важное сейчас | have made · you've dated · you've been |
| Придаточные определительные who / which + предложение — уточнение о человеке или предмете | people who have · people who are |
Что такое техника Shadowing?
Shadowing — это научно обоснованная техника изучения языка, изначально разработанная для подготовки профессиональных переводчиков и популяризированная полиглотом доктором Александром Аргуэльесом. Метод прост, но эффективен: вы слушаете аудио на английском от носителей языка и немедленно повторяете вслух — как тень, следующая за говорящим с задержкой в 1–2 секунды. В отличие от пассивного прослушивания или грамматических упражнений, Shadowing заставляет мозг и мышцы рта одновременно обрабатывать и воспроизводить реальные речевые паттерны. Исследования показывают, что это значительно улучшает точность произношения, интонацию, ритм, связную речь, понимание на слух и беглость речи — что делает его одним из самых эффективных методов для подготовки к IELTS Speaking и реального общения на английском.