ฝึกพูดภาษาอังกฤษด้วยเทคนิค Shadowing จากวิดีโอ: What Does “HELP YOURSELF” Really Mean in Britain? Please DON’T Take It Literally! 🇬🇧
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Help yourself, one of the easiest British English expressions which you are likely to come across, right?
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Help yourself.
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Take whatever you want, whatever you need, it's yours.
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So, you can indeed just take whatever you like, can't you?
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Well, not necessarily.
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And does it actually mean that you can have one thing?
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Does it mean that you can have everything?
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Does it mean that if something is particularly valuable, you can have that as well?
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Does it mean that you can actually take it away from the place that it's currently in at the moment?
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There's so much ambiguity there.
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And I was reminded of just how dangerous these expressions can be on the back of something
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which happened between my mother and my teenage daughter relatively recently and you would think I am a native British person.
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You'd think that I would have been more switched on to this particular issue, but I wasn't.
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And that gives you just a little indication of how difficult it can be
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and how important it is to try and manage these sorts of situations when you come up against them correctly.
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And I would look at those expressions like help yourself or take whatever you like.
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I would look at those expressions in terms of giving you like a verbal green light.
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But socially, there are still speed restrictions, if you like, within that verbal green light.
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So it's about a year or so ago now, we were staying at my elderly mother's house for the weekend and my teenage daughter was with me.
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And early on the weekend, my mother said to my daughter, take whatever you like, have whatever you like.
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It's yours.
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What would you think that actually means?
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Anyway, funnily enough, I'm native British and I didn't even think about it.
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Nothing crossed my mind that that was likely to cause a problem.
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So I ignored it.
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We had a fantastic weekend and we were driving all the way back down to the south coast where we live.
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It's quite a long drive from Newcastle in the north.
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And about four hours into the drive, I received a phone call from my mother to say to me, oh, did, let's call my daughter,
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just protect her name here.
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Let's call her Janice.
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Did Janice take all of my juicy tops?
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And I thought, oh no, what's happened?
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So I sort of looked in my mirror as I was driving and And I said to my daughter, did you take the Juicy Tops?
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And she said, well, yes, I did.
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And then I said to her, well, how many Juicy Tops did you take?
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And she had this huge, great bag of Juicy Tops on the backseat of the car.
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And I'm totally oblivious to this.
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I didn't realize at all.
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And to some extent, it is understandable.
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And, you know, I had to sort of apologize to my mother for what had happened
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and we sent the juicy tops back maybe not all of the juicy tops um we negotiated later
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which tops could be kept and which ones had to go back
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but um you can completely understand what has happened there
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and you know from my daughter's perspective um she'd done
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that completely and utterly innocently and she had taken
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that expression literally like it was an all -you -can -eat buffet you can have literally what you want here
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and i think a lot of people um maybe non -native speakers
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and maybe native speakers of english would possibly behave in in in the same way um
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and i think it's very very important here to realize that you cannot um sometimes take expressions like this
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literally it is not a green light to actually go ahead
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and take whatever you want in fact is an invitation to explore individual items
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and maybe check in again to see if it really is okay to take those particular items.
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And I would emphasize checking in again.
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So what then, having caused you guys a lot of confusion, what then does help yourself actually mean?
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And as is so often the case with English, there is definitely not one particular rule at play here.
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I would say there's lots of different things that you have to be aware of.
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The first thing is the actual relationship between the people.
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So do you have a very close relationship?
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The closer the relationship, the more freedom that you actually have.
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But just be aware of my particular story, even in very close relationships, even in a granddaughter -grandmother relationship.
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there is still so much potential for problems here.
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The second rule, if you like, or second thing that you should look out for is the actual setting.
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So for example, if you're sat around a table
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and someone puts some biscuits on the table
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and you're all having a cup of tea and a chat and the person says, help yourself, then obviously you can just take a biscuit.
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It's, you can have two or three or whatever.
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It doesn't really make any difference at all.
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But if someone says to you, help yourself to whatever you want from the fridge, That doesn't mean that you can actually empty the fridge of its entire contents.
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And also maybe you need to be a little bit careful about what you take from the fridge.
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Maybe there's bottles of wine and things in the fridge as well.
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So it doesn't literally mean that.
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It's just giving you an invitation to go and explore basically what's in there.
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And then probably much better for you to actually check in again to just make sure
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that it's okay that you do actually take what you're thinking about taking.
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And I think finally, which is probably the heart of the story, which I just told you before,
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you need to actually think about the actual object itself and in particular,
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the value of the object and the emotional connection that somebody has with that object as well.
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So, you know, juicy tops are quite expensive.
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If we're talking about electronics, they can be quite expensive.
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If it's something which is very personal to somebody else, that's obviously sort of carrying a lot of emotional value behind it as well.
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So to some extent, you have to use sort of common sense with regards to what is being proposed in terms of help yourself.
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If there's any doubt at all, as soon as you hear that expression, it's probably best just to have a think about what's being proposed and then just double check that that's okay.
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And sometimes, I mean, for me, I would actually triple check or even quadruple check to be absolutely certain,
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because one thing that we hate more than anything else is embarrassment.
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That is simply awful for us to deal with.
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I have a slightly different example to share with you.
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And I was at a car boot fair recently, and it was getting towards the end of the morning
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and I walked past this particular stand and there was this really beautiful light and it looked really, really, really expensive.
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And it was coming to the end of the morning.
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And I think the seller was getting pretty bored and wanted to go home.
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So he actually said, have whatever you like, take it.
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It's yours.
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And then he said, it's free.
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And I looked at this light as I was walking parts.
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That cannot possibly be free.
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No chance.
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It looked really, really expensive.
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So rather than just take it, which is maybe possibly what my daughter would have done,
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I said to him, are you absolutely sure?
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And he said, yeah, mate, take it.
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It's yours, please.
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I said, are you certain?
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Are you absolutely certain that I can do that?
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And he said, yeah.
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And I think I was almost getting to the point whereby he was going to throw that item at me.
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You know, he's going to force it down my throat, literally.
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But if I sort of pushed him to that point, then I feel really comfortable taking that because he really, really, really doesn't want it.
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So that's just an example of how I've checked in.
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That's not necessarily in a social situation, but it is very similar to how I would actually behave anyway in a social situation.
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When you hear this expression, help yourself, I think it's probably really important to think in your mind about giving
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that person who said that to you an escape route.
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Think escape route straight away.
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So in other words, if they don't really want to give you everything,
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or if there are particular items that they would rather not really part with, you're then able to give them the opportunity to sort of backtrack on that a little bit.
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And I think with British people, it is really, really, really important to do that.
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Otherwise, it can be incredibly embarrassing.
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So like if I'd actually realized what had been happening in my mother's house with my daughter and those juicy tops,
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and my daughter had actually sort of grabbed a bag and I'd actually seen it, then I would have actually taken that bag to my mother before we left the house.
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And I said, oh, look, this is what Janice has taken is it okay firstly
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that she takes so many and secondly it's okay
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that these she takes these particular tops
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and then my mother could have actually said oh well actually no um i would rather keep these ones
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but she's more than welcome to to take this one
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so therefore you know nobody loses face there everybody's happy she's taken the valuable ones back that she did actually really want.
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And she's still given something to my daughter. So everybody.
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wins and that is the importance of giving that all -important escape route
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so as you can see understanding british english is all about thinking beyond the actual literal words the literal expressions
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and thinking about the social situation and the impact from from
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that perspective actually my daughter said something to me very very recently
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which sent shivers down my spine It really sort of shocked me and concerned me quite a lot.
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She said, well, you know, granny's getting older now.
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She doesn't really drive the car anymore.
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And do you think she would eventually give it to me?
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And I thought to myself, oh, gosh, I thought, well, yeah, well, if she does give you that car eventually,
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we're definitely going to get that in writing before you drive it down to Eastbourne.
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So, yeah, leave you with that particular thought always make sure
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that you get confirmation of these situations to avoid those really awkward and tricky situations.
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Thank you so much for listening to this video.
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If you've enjoyed it
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Appreciate you making it this far in the video
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and I'll very much look forward to seeing you again in the next one.
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คำศัพท์และข้อสังเกตด้านการพูดสำหรับบทเรียนนี้
วิดีโอนี้มี 142 ประโยค และ 1876 คำ สำหรับฝึกพูดตาม ช่วงที่มีเสียงพูดยาว 11:17 ผู้พูดพูดด้วยความเร็วเป็นธรรมชาติ ประมาณ 166 คำต่อนาที ใกล้เคียงกับบทสนทนาในชีวิตประจำวัน 89% ของคำอยู่ใน 3,000 คำที่ใช้บ่อยที่สุดในภาษาอังกฤษ คำศัพท์จึงตามได้ง่าย
คำศัพท์สำคัญในวิดีโอนี้
คำที่ควรเรียนรู้ 15 คำจากวิดีโอ พร้อมคำอ่านและความหมาย:
| คำศัพท์ | คำอ่าน | ความหมาย |
|---|---|---|
| necessarily คำกริยาวิเศษณ์ | /ˌnɛs.əˈsɛɹ.ə.li/ | ต้อง |
| extent คำนาม | /ɪkˈstɛnt/ | ขอบข่าย, ขนาด |
| explore คำกริยา | /ɪkˈsploɹ/ | สำรวจ |
| behave คำกริยา | /bɪˈheɪv/ | ประพฤติ, ทำตัว |
| propose คำกริยา | /pɹəˈpəʊz/ | เสนอ |
| ignore คำกริยา | /ɪɡˈnɔː/ | เมิน |
| mirror คำนาม | /ˈmiɹɚ/ | กระจก, กระจกเงา |
| remind คำกริยา | /ɹəˈmaɪnd/ | เตือน |
| triple คำคุณศัพท์ | /ˈtɹɪp.əl/ | สามเท่า |
| throat คำนาม | /ˈθɹoʊt/ | ลำคอ |
| regards คำนาม | /ɹɪˈɡɑɹdz/ | ขอแสดงความนับถือ |
| boot คำนาม | /but/ | รองเท้า |
| electronics คำนาม | /ɪˌlɛkˈtɹɑ.nɪks/ | อิเล็กทรอนิกส์ |
| apologize คำกริยา | /əˈpɑləˌd͡ʒaɪz/ | ขอโทษ |
| grandmother คำนาม | /ˈɡɹæn(d)ˌmʌðɚ/ | ย่า, ยาย |
กริยาวลีที่คุณจะได้ยิน
| คำศัพท์ | ความหมาย |
|---|---|
| go back คำกริยา | กลับไป |
ไวยากรณ์ในวิดีโอนี้
โครงสร้างที่ผู้พูดใช้บ่อยที่สุด พร้อมคำพูดจริงจากวิดีโอ:
| โครงสร้าง | ในวิดีโอ |
|---|---|
| Passive voice be + กริยาช่อง 3 — เน้นสิ่งที่เกิดขึ้น ไม่ใช่ผู้กระทำ | was reminded · are still speed · could be kept |
| Present perfect have/has + กริยาช่อง 3 — เหตุการณ์ในอดีตที่ยังเกี่ยวข้องกับปัจจุบัน | has happened · I've checked · has taken |
| Relative clauses who / which + อนุประโยค — ข้อมูลเพิ่มเติมเกี่ยวกับคนหรือสิ่งของ | finally, which is · something which is · person who said |
การออกเสียงที่ควรระวัง
ผู้พูดใช้รูปย่อและรูปลดเสียง 25 ครั้ง เช่น doesn't, you're, didn't ให้พูดแบบสั้นตามที่ได้ยิน
- เสียง “th”: throat /ˈθɹoʊt/, grandmother /ˈɡɹæn(d)ˌmʌðɚ/
- เสียง “sh” และ “zh”: invitation /ɪnvɪˈteɪʃən/, shock /ʃɔk/, confusion /kənˈfjuːʒən/, confirmation /ˌkɑn.fəɹˈmeɪ.ʃən/, indication /ɪndɪˈkeɪʃən/
- คำยาว — ลงเสียงหนักให้ถูกพยางค์: necessarily /ˌnɛs.əˈsɛɹ.ə.li/, invitation /ɪnvɪˈteɪʃən/, incredibly /ɪŋˈkɹɛdɪbli/, electronics /ɪˌlɛkˈtɹɑ.nɪks/, apologize /əˈpɑləˌd͡ʒaɪz/
วิธีฝึกกับวิดีโอนี้
- ฟังวิดีโอให้จบหนึ่งรอบโดยยังไม่ต้องพูด แล้วจดคำที่ยังไม่รู้จัก
- เริ่มที่ความเร็ว 0.75× พูดตามทีละประโยค แล้วกลับไปใช้ความเร็วปกติเมื่อเริ่มคล่อง
- อัดเสียงตัวเองแล้วเทียบกับต้นฉบับ โดยสังเกตคำอย่าง necessarily, extent, explore เป็นพิเศษ
เทคนิค Shadowing คืออะไร?
Shadowing เป็นเทคนิคการเรียนรู้ภาษาที่ได้รับการรับรองทางวิทยาศาสตร์ พัฒนาขึ้นสำหรับการฝึกนักแปลมืออาชีพ วิธีการนี้เรียบง่ายแต่ทรงพลัง: คุณฟังเสียงภาษาอังกฤษจากเจ้าของภาษาและพูดตามทันที — เหมือนเงาที่ตามผู้พูดด้วยช่วงเวลาห่าง 1-2 วินาที การวิจัยแสดงว่าเทคนิคนี้ปรับปรุงความแม่นยำในการออกเสียง ทำนองเสียง จังหวะ การเชื่อมเสียง การฟังเข้าใจ และความคล่องแคล่วในการพูดได้อย่างมีนัยสำคัญ