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Most people think discipline is forcing yourself to do something that you don't want to do.
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Dragging yourself out of bed at 5 a.m because some Navy SEAL on YouTube told you that's what disciplined people do.
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And so when you don't do it,
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you make it mean something about you.
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I'm not disciplined, I don't have what it takes,
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there's something wrong with me.
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But here's the thing, there's nothing wrong with you.
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You've just misunderstood what discipline actually is.
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Because discipline is not the consistency of doing something you don't wanna do.
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Real discipline operates at a completely different level.
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And once you understand it,
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the thing you've been forcing yourself to do becomes easier.
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Not because you get tougher,
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but because you stop fighting yourself.
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So in this episode, I'm going to show you what discipline actually is,
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why willpower keeps failing you,
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and the two-part process that turns resistance into mastery.
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So let's get into it.
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All right, guys, there are sort of two different ways that you could go with this discipline conversation.
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The first is where 99% of people go,
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which is why so many people feel like they're undisciplined.
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Because you can go on YouTube,
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you can find 100 videos on five steps to become more disciplined.
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You can find a bunch of habits of the world's most successful people.
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You can find laws of leadership.
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And it includes things like time blocking or habit stacking or the 21-day rule, the 5 a.m club.
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And that's all fine.
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But that is the surface game of discipline.
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What we really want to take a look at is what's happening upstream.
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what allows you to actually do the things
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that you know would bring your health forward your relationships forward
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your growth forward your wealth forward i want to talk about discipline at a root cause level because
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when you understand discipline this way you're not just making an
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effort from your end you're actually aligning your effort with a response from the universe now i know
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that might sound a little bit new age
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but bear with me here okay so you can do willpower or disciplined the hard way.
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Anybody can do that, right?
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It's like you can, if I point a gun to your head,
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I can get you to do the work.
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You would sit down, you'd write the marketing plan,
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you'd make the calls, you'd do the sit-ups at the gym.
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But that's the hardest way to live, right?
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Living with a gun to your head,
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living from what I would call a primal state,
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that's pushing a boulder uphill every single day.
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And so we want to find a way to actually act in alignment
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and congruent with the things
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that we believe we need to do in order to produce the results
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that we want to get without having to force the action.
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So we want to make the action easier by disciplining ourselves internally first.
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I'm going to talk about two different ways that we can do this here.
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Now, let's first talk about what's not working with willpower.
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So if you keep procrastinating around something,
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it's not because you're lazy.
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What you'll find behind procrastination or self-sabotage or being undisciplined is some fear.
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Like if you actually believe that the thing that you're about to go do might not work out,
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you'll be tempted to not do it.
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If you believe that you're not good enough, right?
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Of course, your nervous system is going to resist putting you in a position where you might become exposed or grow.
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If you believe money is hard to make,
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you're going to resist building the thing that's supposed to make you money.
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If you were programmed as a kid to be seen and not heard,
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then your whole nervous system is going to resist becoming visible, right?
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So you can put whatever action plan you want in front of you.
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But if I tell you that what is in front of you is a tiger,
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you're going to run in the other direction.
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And so this is the challenge with most of the wonderful ideas out there that might work for some people,
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like waking up early or time blocking or organizing yourself in a particular way or reducing context shifting.
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All these are really great strategies.
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But what we have to do is look upstream because this disciplined behavior is downstream of psychological alignment.
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And when you really look at what discipline is, it's discipleship, right?
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This isn't just a Christian concept.
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The esoteric Egyptians taught this,
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the Rosicrucians taught this through anthroposophy.
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Every ancient tradition pointed to the same thing.
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And that is a changed life is the byproduct of a changed mind.
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If you want to become more disciplined at a root cause level,
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we have to identify what is the inner conflict that is occurring for you that is making this action so difficult.
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That is putting fear between you and the outcome.
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Really, that was the entire teaching of the gospel, right?
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That's why it was called the good news.
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Christ came and said, hey,
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don't be conformed to this world,
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but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.
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And so you don't have to be stuck in your life and what we would call undisciplined.
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You can actually create the breakthrough and start to align your identity and your actions
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with the person who actually produces the outcome.
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But in order to do that without force,
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in order to make it consistent,
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we've got to take a look upstream and see what's going on.
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Because real discipline, and I want you to write this down,
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real discipline is psychological.
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Real discipline is not behavioral.
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And that's the big mistake we make.
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We look at the external and we go, oh, I'm not disciplined.
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But really what's driving that action or preventing you from doing
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that action externally that you believe you need to engage in and produce the result is something going on inside.
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So the problem is most people are trying to discipline their behavior before they've disciplined their thinking, right?
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And that's why it keeps falling apart.
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If you actually believe something is hard,
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do you believe you're going to be likely to do the thing.
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But if you remove the concept of hard and you just realize like,
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I'm going to be doing something for the first time,
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it's not going to go as smoothly as it might the second time.
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This is a learning process,
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but I understand that this is the process
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and I can truly enjoy the process of getting better and better at over time.
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Aren't you more likely to actually do the thing?
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So the story that we have about the action that we believe we should take,
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that determines whether or not we are actually doing the thing
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or doing the thing for a couple of weeks and then back on the couch.
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So the discipline that you're being called to,
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which again is not the alpha male,
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hyper masculine, Navy SEAL type of discipline that we see on YouTube or Instagram or social media.
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Real discipline is a discipline of awareness.
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And that can be challenging because the external reality is so alluring.
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Like we live in the sensory experience.
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You've been given these five senses and we live in a sensory overload.
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And so we almost forget our inner world.
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But really the opportunity if we want to become disciplined is becoming aware of the resistance that is inside of us.
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Identifying the old belief that comes up in the face of this action
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or activity that you believe you should engage in and then working with that belief and choosing a new one.
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One of the great distinctions that we teach that I think is one of the most powerful distinctions in personal growth,
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when you're looking at trying to transform a belief,
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you identify you've got this belief that is moving you into some form of suffering and deterring you from taking the action,
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we want to work at the belief level.
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And one of the most powerful distinctions is this distinction that beliefs are decisions.
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You've decided that money is scarce.
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You've decided that there's not enough time.
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You've decided that you can't trust people.
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You've actually decided that you're not disciplined.
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And you're so powerful and your brain is a goal-achieving machine that whatever it is you believe becomes your reality.
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And so the opportunity here is when you identify a limiting belief,
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when you really look at what it is that you're not doing,
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that you're not disciplined too externally.
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And you go like, what is this resistance that comes up inside of me?
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Every time I think about working on the presentation,
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every time I think about making sales calls,
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every time I think about taking some time for myself to meditate,
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but I don't do it.
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And you go, wow, what's happening inside of me when I'm confronted with that action is this idea that I'm not worthy,
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or this idea that this is not going to work,
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or this idea that there's not enough time.
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and to decide differently, to decide that you are worthy,
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to decide that this is going to work,
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to decide that there is enough time to do the things that are important to you.
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That small two millimeter shift,
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realizing that beliefs are decisions and that you have choice transformed my life.
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For years, I was not disciplined around my business.
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I found it very difficult to sit down and actually do some work.
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But part of that was I had a limiting belief,
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which was that I'm not disciplined.
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And I had a whole lifetime of history to prove it to myself.
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I could look back and go,
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I mean, look, you were an alcoholic,
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you know, you were a drug addict,
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you were a sex addict, right?
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How can I possibly be disciplined enough to be successful in business?
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And one of the things that I actually reframed,
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which isn't just something I was making up,
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it was really just seeing reality clearly,
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was that I was very disciplined.
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Like I was incredibly disciplined in my drug addiction.
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I was incredibly disciplined with happy hour.
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I was incredibly disciplined with my capacity to roll joints,
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smoke them on the way to work and smoke them on the way back home.
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So I had this story that I wasn't disciplined,
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but in fact, I was very disciplined.
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I was just disciplined in things that were representative of unresolved trauma.
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I was disciplined in things that were not in alignment with the results that I actually wanted to create in my life.
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So I started developing some new belief systems around every limiting belief that I could find.
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I made a new empowered decision.
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And what was really simple was that the new decision that I made was always the opposite of the limiting belief.
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So I decided that I am disciplined.
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I am worthy.
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I am capable.
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As I started to adopt those beliefs,
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I started to incrementally take more action in the areas of my life where I hadn't been.
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So I started to work out more.
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I started to go out more.
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I started to connect with others more.
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I started to be willing to pursue the ideas that I had.
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I started to actually take on learning how to do marketing and becoming a marketer.
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You know, today I think I'm a really phenomenal marketer.
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I've had to in order to get my mission and this message out there in the world.
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But it didn't start out that way.
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I had to start making new decisions.
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You don't make that decision once, right?
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You make it every time the old belief comes up.
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You start focusing not on actually time blocking and task doing,
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you focus more on your inner dialogue.
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And so I had a process when I started becoming quote unquote disciplined,
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which was really a shift in my identity.
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It was called the morning dump.
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Every single morning I'd wake up with all these reasons why I couldn't,
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why I wasn't, right?
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Why I wasn't disciplined, why I wasn't successful.
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I created a three column spreadsheet.
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And in the first column,
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I would write down all of the negative inner belief systems that would come up.
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And in the second column,
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I'd write down exactly the opposite of what that belief was.
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And in the third column,
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I'd say, well, what evidence do I have for the fact that this new decision is true, right?
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So I'd write down something like I'm not very disciplined.
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And then in the second column,
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I'd write, I am very disciplined.
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The third column, I'd say,
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well, what evidence do I have for the fact that this is true?
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And I'd sit with it.
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What's interesting about this process,
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we call it the decision matrix.
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Some of you have said this tool has completely changed your life,
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is that if you're willing to just kind of sit with the new decision for a little bit,
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there'll be old memories that come up,
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evidence that you've sort of been filtering out of your conscious awareness
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because it hasn't been congruent with this limiting belief that you have, right?
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This belief that there's not enough time,
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this belief that you're not good enough,
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this belief that money is hard to make,
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this belief that you can't trust people,
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this belief that if you want to do things right,
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you have to do it yourself.
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But if you're willing to sit with it for a moment,
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you start to activate old dormant memories.
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You literally start to activate a part of your brain that has been sleeping.
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And as you do that,
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what you'll start to find is that the new decision
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that you make actually starts to be more true than the limiting belief that you've been
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Buying into so I would do this process every morning.
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I did it for about 30 days It was called the morning dump again in the first column.
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I'd write down my limiting beliefs How I was feeling in
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the morning second column for each one I'd write a new decision
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and then for each of those i'd say well What evidence do I have for the fact
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that this new decision is true?
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And i'd ask that question a couple of times, right?
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So if my limiting belief was like,
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you know, i'm not very good at anything My new decision would be i'm actually pretty good at most things
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And i'd say well, what evidence do I have for the fact that this is true?
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And i'm like,
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well like i'm good at the simple things i'm good at
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waking up i'm good at brushing my teeth I'm going to drive my car And then i'd ask the question again.
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Okay.
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What other evidence do I have for the fact that this is true?
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And i'd say well i'm pretty good at marketing.
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I'm pretty good at coaching I'm a pretty good friend say
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cool What other evidence do I have for the fact
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that this new decision is true that i'm pretty good at most things
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And what you'll notice is is you're willing to spend just a couple of minutes on
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that This whole new awareness starts to open up and you realize that you've sort of enrolled yourself
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into this hallucination of the limiting belief.
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And as you go through the first two,
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three, four limiting beliefs, you don't need to go through all 30
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or 40 that you would write down in a morning dump process.
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Your whole attitude on life starts to change.
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Your identity starts to shift.
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You start to feel motivated.
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And that's where discipline becomes more natural.
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You're now not forcing the action.
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You've just removed the resistance that was making the action so hard.
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So this type of process,
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reframing or limiting belief shifting work,
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This is actually how you start to build new neural networks and new neural pathways.
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You start to change your brain.
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And so you become a person that from the outside looking in,
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someone would say is disciplined,
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like you're doing the work that you said you were going to go do, right?
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But really from the inside looking out,
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you know, no, this was who I always really was.
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I've just removed the resistance that was preventing me from being that person.
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What changes when you do the inner work first is that you're no longer battling yourself internally.
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You're just practicing a new behavior.
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And so it's kind of like if you and I were going to go practice a new tennis swing, right?
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There's practicing the new tennis swing.
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That's one thing.
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And over time, we could dial that in.
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We could get you disciplined to a new improved tennis swing.
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But there's another scenario where you're practicing a new tennis swing
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while a part of you is screaming that you're not good enough to be on the court, right?
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So that's the challenge with trying to discipline yourself to new behavior is
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that there's an internal dialogue taking place that makes the actual changed behavior harder than it needs to be.
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So you can change your behavior.
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You have the capacity to do that,
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but not while you're criticizing yourself,
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beating yourself up or scaring yourself at the same time,
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because one is just mechanical.
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It's a new habit.
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The other is psychological warfare.
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So we have to remove the psychological warfare and then now you don't have to push yourself into the new behavior.
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You're no longer sitting on the sofa distracting yourself with Netflix and swiping left and swiping right and smoking pot and drinking,
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you're actually out there practicing the new behavior.
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And so number one, we have to understand that discipline is an interdiscipline.
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It's not an external discipline.
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The reason why most people fail in changing their behavior is they haven't changed the psychology that's motivating or preventing the behavior.
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And then number two, what I want to explain to you now is that the confidence that you're looking for, right?
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Because if you notice, like anytime you are feeling undisciplined,
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there's a lack of confidence.
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That confidence is gained through the doing, not before.
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So here's where most people make their biggest mistake.
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They think that the ability to do something well requires the confidence to do it first, right?
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And so what most people do is they're waiting for the fear
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or the doubt or for the discomfort to go away before they do the activity.
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But that's not how it works.
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In fact, it's just the opposite.
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The confidence, the certainty, the comfort level is gained and the fear is eliminated through the doing of the thing.
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And so the first thing we have to do is make sure
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that we're psychologically and emotionally aligned that gives us a capacity to do the thing.
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And we also have to understand that
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even though it would be nice to be confident and certain and good at doing the thing before we do it,
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that's not how it works, right?
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All of those are rewards for being willing to do something imperfectly.
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I look at this show,
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for example, it's got like 240 episodes on the podcast now over the last three and a half years.
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I had to be willing to start recording imperfectly and I had to be willing to record when nobody was listening.
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It was 18 months that I was recording an episode every single week and about 5,000 people a month were listening,
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which is still pretty cool, right?
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But it wasn't until I got to around my 80th episode
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that all of a sudden I started to really get good and I was rewarded algorithmically on YouTube.
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And in one month, I went from 5,000 listens to a million listens on the show.
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But that only happened because I was willing to do it imperfectly.
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And by the way, you can go back
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and listen to some the earlier episodes um i don't think they're bad
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but they're not as good as they are today
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and i got to be honest with you i still get anxious before i get in up
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and speak on stage i still feel a twinge of anxiety before i sit down
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and record an episode there's still an echo of that old identity
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that says hey dave people aren't going to like you you're
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not going to do it right like i lived with
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that for the first 35 years of my life until i got into drug and alcohol and sex addiction recovery.
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And it hasn't completely gone away.
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But what I now understand is I don't need to be perfect.
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I need to take a look at what's going on inside of me.
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What am I thinking and work on transforming that resistance that will make the action and the effort easier.
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And it's still going to be uncomfortable, right?
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But the fear gets quieter every single time.
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You know, one of my mentors said something that I'll never forget.
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He said, in the beginning,
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when you try anything new,
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you're going to suck at it.
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And you're basically going to suck at all of it.
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And if you're willing to stick with the sucking long enough,
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you'll suck a little bit less.
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And if you stick with that long enough,
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you'll actually start to get kind of sort of good at a few things.
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And if you stick with that even longer,
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you'll start to get genuinely good at most things.
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And then eventually, if you stick with that long enough, you'll become great.
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Eventually, people will look at you and go,
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wow, look how masterful he or she is at that.
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but there's no way to shortcut that process.
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The gift is when you've done the inner work first,
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the sucking doesn't take you out, right?
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You're not making the suck mean that you're broken
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and reinforcing the limiting belief that's been trying to prevent you from taking the action in the first place.
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You're just in the practice.
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And this is what discipleship really is.
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This is following a true north and being willing to commit to the practice.
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It's honoring the fact that your inner world outpictures itself.
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And so you do the inner work first in order to make the external action easier.
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It's honoring the fact that you become great at something by being willing to do it imperfectly for a long time.
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That's discipleship.
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That's discipline, right?
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That's honoring who your higher power sent you to be.
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So the question isn't, how do I force myself to be more disciplined?
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The question is, what am I afraid of that's making the behavior so hard in the first place?
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Because when you identify that fear,
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when you name the limiting belief,
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and when you start making new decisions as a practice over and over again,
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the resistance starts to dissolve.
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And then the action that you've been forcing yourself to take becomes the action you naturally want to take.
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So discipline isn't about getting harder on yourself.
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It's about getting clearer with yourself.
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It's a discipline of the mind first and then a practice in the world
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because the truth is you were never undisciplined You were just trying to discipline the wrong things
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So I hope you love this episode as much as I
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loved sharing it with you a couple of things number one
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But most importantly, I look forward to seeing you in the next episode.
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Videodan öğrenmeye değer 15 kelime, telaffuzu ve anlamıyla:
| Kelime | Telaffuz | Anlam |
|---|---|---|
| discipline isim | /ˈdɪsəplɪn/ | disiplin |
| column isim | /ˈkɒləm/ | kolon, sütun |
| suck fiil | /sʌk/ | emmek |
| tennis isim | /ˈtɛnɪs/ | tenis |
| psychological sıfat | /ˌsaɪ.kəˈlɑː.d͡ʒɪ.kl̩/ | psikolojik |
| distinction isim | /dɪˈstɪŋkʃən/ | ayrım, fark |
| awareness isim | /əˈwɛɹ.nəs/ | bilinç, bilinçlenme |
| habit isim | /ˈhæb.ɪt/ | alışkanlık, adet |
| resist fiil | /ɹɪˈzɪst/ | direnmek |
| align fiil | /əˈlaɪn/ | hizalanmak, hizaya geçmek |
| upstream sıfat | /ʌpˈstɹiːm/ | akıntıya karşı |
| reward isim | /ɹɪˈwɔɹd/ | ödül, mükâfat |
| dialogue isim | /ˈdaɪəˌlɑɡ/ | diyalog, sohbet |
| addiction isim | /əˈdɪkˌʃən/ | bağımlılık, iptila |
| activate fiil | /ˈæktɪˌveɪt/ | etkinleştirmek |
Duyacağınız deyimsel fiiller
| Kelime | Telaffuz | Anlam |
|---|---|---|
| sit down fiil | oturmak | |
| wake up fiil | /ˌweɪk ˈʌp/ | uyanmak |
| fall apart fiil | altüst olmak | |
| go out fiil | çıkmak | |
| look forward to fiil | iple çekmek, dört gözle beklemek |
Dikkat edilecek telaffuzlar
Konuşmacı you're, I'm, I'd gibi kısaltılmış biçimleri 146 kez kullanıyor. Bunları duyduğunuz gibi kısa söyleyin.
- “th” sesleri: worthy /ˈwɝ.ði/, breakthrough /ˈbɹeɪk.θɹuː/, pathway /ˈpæθˌweɪ/, smoothly /ˈsmuːðli/, anthroposophy /ˌænθɹəˈpɑsəfi/
- “sh” ve “zh” sesleri: distinction /dɪˈstɪŋkʃən/, addiction /əˈdɪkˌʃən/, presentation /ˌpɹɛzn̩ˈteɪʃn̩/, brush /bɹʌʃ/, conscious /ˈkɑn.ʃəs/
- Uzun kelimeler — vurguyu doğru yere koyun: psychological /ˌsaɪ.kəˈlɑː.d͡ʒɪ.kl̩/, incredibly /ɪŋˈkɹɛdɪbli/, internally /ɪnˈtɜːnəli/, naturally /ˈnæt͡ʃ.(ə.)ɹə.li/, anxiety /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/
Bu videoyla nasıl çalışılır
- Videonun tamamını konuşmadan bir kez dinleyin ve bilmediğiniz kelimeleri not edin.
- 0,75× hızla başlayın, cümle cümle tekrar edin ve kolaylaşınca normal hıza dönün.
- Kendinizi kaydedin ve orijinaliyle karşılaştırın; discipline, column, suck gibi kelimelere özellikle dikkat edin.
Bu videodaki dil bilgisi
Konuşmacının en çok kullandığı yapılar, videodaki sözcüklerin aynısıyla:
| Yapı | Videoda |
|---|---|
| Present perfect continuous have/has been + -ing — önceden başlayıp hâlâ süren bir eylem | you've been forcing · has been sleeping |
| Present perfect have/has + fiilin üçüncü hâli — geçmişte olan ama şimdi de önemli olan bir eylem | they've disciplined · You've been given · You've decided |
| Edilgen yapı be + fiilin üçüncü hâli — kimin yaptığı değil, ne olduğu önemli | being undisciplined · be tempted · were programmed |
Gölgeleme Tekniği Nedir?
Gölgeleme, başlangıçta profesyonel tercüman eğitimi için geliştirilen ve çok dilli Dr. Alexander Arguelles tarafından popüler hale getirilen, bilim destekli bir dil öğrenme tekniğidir. Yöntem basit ama güçlüdür: ana dili İngilizce olan bir sesi dinler ve hemen yüksek sesle tekrar edersiniz — konuşmacıyı 1-2 saniye gecikmeyle takip eden bir gölge gibi. Pasif dinleme veya dilbilgisi alıştırmalarının aksine, gölgeleme beyninizi ve ağız kaslarınızı gerçek konuşma kalıplarını eşzamanlı olarak işlemeye ve yeniden üretmeye zorlar. Araştırmalar, telaffuz doğruluğu, tonlama, ritim, bağlı konuşma, dinleme anlama ve konuşma akıcılığını önemli ölçüde geliştirdiğini göstermektedir — bu da onu IELTS Konuşma hazırlığı ve gerçek dünya İngilizce iletişimi için en etkili yöntemlerden biri yapar.