Shadowing Practice: How to Disagree Politely in English - Learn English Speaking with Video
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Hello and welcome to your Confident English Wednesday lesson.
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This week we are focused on how you can disagree with others politely in English and express your opinion.
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Whether you work in a company with English speakers or have colleagues around the world who speak English or friends,
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it is likely that at some point you will disagree with an opinion,
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an idea, a perspective, or how someone wants to do something.
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So in this lesson, you're going to learn everything you need to know to do that politely in English.
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In English, there are three easy steps to having a successful,
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polite, and effective disagreement so that you can express your opinion.
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Step one of expressing disagreement is making sure that you begin by softening the language.
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We want to use very soft language that is not aggressive, not angry, it will not offend anyone,
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but it will show that you are thinking professionally about the situation, you want to be polite, and you have something you want to express.
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So a couple of ways to do that.
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You can start off by saying that you understand the person's idea
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or position something like I hear what you're saying
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but I hear what you're saying but so this shows
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that you're listening you understand you just have a different idea
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we also start expressions by apologizing again we don't want to be offensive we don't want to be too aggressive
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so when we apologize it immediately softens the situation so
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So we can say, I'm sorry, but I have to disagree with you.
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I'm sorry, but I have to disagree with you.
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And finally, you can pretend that you're not sure if you disagree.
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Again, this just takes away the tension of the situation.
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It makes it very calm.
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So instead of being direct and hard, you can say, I'm not sure I agree with you.
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I'm not sure I agree with you.
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Any of those expressions, those strategies will help you make sure
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that you start your disagreement in a very polite and effective way.
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I've given you a lot of different example expressions that you can use with these strategies in the lesson below.
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The second step in disagreeing with others after you introduce your disagreement is to offer an alternative or a suggestion.
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English -speaking culture is often solution -focused.
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We always want to be looking for solutions, not just talking about problems.
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So if you're going to disagree, you want to make sure that you're ready to express your opinion, your idea, or an alternative solution.
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A couple of example expressions you can use is, In my opinion, I would suggest, or if you ask me, I would recommend
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and again in the online lesson there are several other examples
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but all of them allow you to introduce what your suggestion your alternative solution
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or idea might be and finally in part three of a successful
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and polite disagreement we always want to end in a positive way
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or on a positive note most of the time it is easy, kind of, to find some middle ground or common ground,
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something that both sides can agree on.
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But, of course, sometimes it's not possible.
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Sometimes both sides have such strong opinions that they cannot find something to agree on in the middle.
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If that happens to you in English, I have the perfect expression for you.
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We'll just have to agree to disagree.
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We'll just have to agree to disagree.
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That is the perfect way to end a disagreement where there is no end.
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If no one on either side will win, you can use that expression to release the tension, to lighten the conversation.
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It's polite and it brings the conversation to an end without anyone being offended.
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In the online lesson, I've also given you some informal ways that you can express disagreement with others,
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but I really recommend that you only use those with friends, family members, or colleagues that you know very well.
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They're not really appropriate for business situations such as a meeting or negotiation.
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They're not professional responses to disagreeing.
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And finally, I would love to hear from you if you've ever had experience disagreeing with someone in English.
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What did you do?
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How did you express your disagreement?
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I would love for you to share your experience
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and what you know in English to do in those situations so that you can help others in the Confident English community.
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And you can share all of your experiences, your comments, your thoughts in the comments section just at the bottom of this lesson.
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Thank you so much for joining me.
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I look forward to seeing you next Wednesday for your Confident English lesson.
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And as always, if you found this useful, please feel free to share it with friends and colleagues.
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You can share it on Facebook, share it on Twitter.
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You can like this video, subscribe to this YouTube channel.
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There are so many ways to let others know that this was useful to you and to let me know.
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So thank you again and I'll see you next week.
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Bu dersin kelimeleri ve konuşma notları
Bu konuşma dersi “How to Disagree Politely in English” videosuna dayanıyor. En çok tekrarlanan kelimeler: English, disagreement, disagree, lesson, expression. Bu videoda gölgeleme çalışması için 64 cümle ve 862 kelime var. Konuşma bölümü 5:43 sürüyor. Konuşmacı dakikada yaklaşık 151 kelimeyle, günlük konuşmaya yakın doğal bir hızda konuşuyor. Kelimelerin %88’i İngilizcede en sık kullanılan 3.000 kelime arasında, bu yüzden kelime dağarcığını takip etmek kolay.
Bu videodaki önemli kelimeler
Videodan öğrenmeye değer 15 kelime, telaffuzu ve anlamıyla:
| Kelime | Telaffuz | Anlam |
|---|---|---|
| lesson isim | /ˈlɛs.ən/ | ders, çimke |
| polite sıfat | /pəˈlaɪt/ | kibar, nazik |
| colleague isim | /ˈkɒliːɡ/ | çalışma arkadaşı, meslektaş |
| introduce fiil | /ˌɪntɹəˈdus/ | tanıştırmak |
| aggressive sıfat | /əˈɡɹɛs.ɪv/ | saldırgan, agresif |
| suggestion isim | /səˈd͡ʒɛst.ʃən/ | öneri, teklif |
| tension isim | /ˈtɛnʃən/ | gerginlik |
| apologize fiil | /əˈpɑləˌd͡ʒaɪz/ | özür dilemek |
| pretend fiil | /pɹəˈtɛnd/ | numara yapmak, rol yapmak |
| subscribe fiil | /səbˈskɹaɪb/ | abone olmak |
| informal sıfat | /ɪnˈfɔɹ.m(ə)l/ | teklifsiz |
| negotiation isim | /nɪˌɡəʊ.ʃiˈeɪ.ʃən/ | müzakere, görüşme |
| politely zarf | /pəˈlaɪtli/ | kibarca |
| soften fiil | /ˈsɑfən/ | yumuşatmak |
| lighten fiil | /ˈlaɪ.tn̩/ | hafifletmek |
Duyacağınız deyimsel fiiller
| Kelime | Telaffuz | Anlam |
|---|---|---|
| look forward to fiil | iple çekmek, dört gözle beklemek | |
| take away fiil | /ˌteɪk əˈweɪ/ | götürmek |
Tekrar etmeye değer cümleler
Videodan, günlük konuşmada yeniden kullanabileceğiniz kısa ve tam cümleler:
- I'm sorry, but I have to disagree with you.
- I'm not sure I agree with you.
- We'll just have to agree to disagree.
- What did you do?
- How did you express your disagreement?
Bu videodaki dil bilgisi
Konuşmacının en çok kullandığı yapılar, videodaki sözcüklerin aynısıyla:
| Yapı | Videoda |
|---|---|
| Koşul cümleleri if + cümle, will/would + fiil — bir koşul ve sonucu | if you ask me, I would recommend · If no one on either side will win |
| Present perfect have/has + fiilin üçüncü hâli — geçmişte olan ama şimdi de önemli olan bir eylem | I've given · I've also given · you've ever had |
Dikkat edilecek telaffuzlar
Konuşmacı you're, I'm, don't gibi kısaltılmış biçimleri 21 kez kullanıyor. Bunları duyduğunuz gibi kısa söyleyin.
- “sh” ve “zh” sesleri: suggestion /səˈd͡ʒɛst.ʃən/, tension /ˈtɛnʃən/, negotiation /nɪˌɡəʊ.ʃiˈeɪ.ʃən/
- Uzun kelimeler — vurguyu doğru yere koyun: disagreement /dɪsəˈɡɹiːmənt/, apologize /əˈpɑləˌd͡ʒaɪz/, negotiation /nɪˌɡəʊ.ʃiˈeɪ.ʃən/
Bu videoyla nasıl çalışılır
- Videonun tamamını konuşmadan bir kez dinleyin ve bilmediğiniz kelimeleri not edin.
- 0,75× hızla başlayın, cümle cümle tekrar edin ve kolaylaşınca normal hıza dönün.
- Kendinizi kaydedin ve orijinaliyle karşılaştırın; lesson, polite, colleague gibi kelimelere özellikle dikkat edin.
Gölgeleme Tekniği Nedir?
Gölgeleme, başlangıçta profesyonel tercüman eğitimi için geliştirilen ve çok dilli Dr. Alexander Arguelles tarafından popüler hale getirilen, bilim destekli bir dil öğrenme tekniğidir. Yöntem basit ama güçlüdür: ana dili İngilizce olan bir sesi dinler ve hemen yüksek sesle tekrar edersiniz — konuşmacıyı 1-2 saniye gecikmeyle takip eden bir gölge gibi. Pasif dinleme veya dilbilgisi alıştırmalarının aksine, gölgeleme beyninizi ve ağız kaslarınızı gerçek konuşma kalıplarını eşzamanlı olarak işlemeye ve yeniden üretmeye zorlar. Araştırmalar, telaffuz doğruluğu, tonlama, ritim, bağlı konuşma, dinleme anlama ve konuşma akıcılığını önemli ölçüde geliştirdiğini göstermektedir — bu da onu IELTS Konuşma hazırlığı ve gerçek dünya İngilizce iletişimi için en etkili yöntemlerden biri yapar.