تدريب Shadowing: How to Disagree Politely in English - تعلم التحدث بالإنجليزية عبر الفيديو

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Hello and welcome to your Confident English Wednesday lesson.
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This week we are focused on how you can disagree with others politely in English and express your opinion.
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Whether you work in a company with English speakers or have colleagues around the world who speak English or friends,
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it is likely that at some point you will disagree with an opinion,
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an idea, a perspective, or how someone wants to do something.
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So in this lesson, you're going to learn everything you need to know to do that politely in English.
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In English, there are three easy steps to having a successful,
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polite, and effective disagreement so that you can express your opinion.
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Step one of expressing disagreement is making sure that you begin by softening the language.
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We want to use very soft language that is not aggressive, not angry, it will not offend anyone,
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but it will show that you are thinking professionally about the situation, you want to be polite, and you have something you want to express.
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So a couple of ways to do that.
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You can start off by saying that you understand the person's idea
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or position something like I hear what you're saying
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but I hear what you're saying but so this shows
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that you're listening you understand you just have a different idea
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we also start expressions by apologizing again we don't want to be offensive we don't want to be too aggressive
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so when we apologize it immediately softens the situation so
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So we can say, I'm sorry, but I have to disagree with you.
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I'm sorry, but I have to disagree with you.
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And finally, you can pretend that you're not sure if you disagree.
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Again, this just takes away the tension of the situation.
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It makes it very calm.
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So instead of being direct and hard, you can say, I'm not sure I agree with you.
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I'm not sure I agree with you.
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Any of those expressions, those strategies will help you make sure
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that you start your disagreement in a very polite and effective way.
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I've given you a lot of different example expressions that you can use with these strategies in the lesson below.
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The second step in disagreeing with others after you introduce your disagreement is to offer an alternative or a suggestion.
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English -speaking culture is often solution -focused.
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We always want to be looking for solutions, not just talking about problems.
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So if you're going to disagree, you want to make sure that you're ready to express your opinion, your idea, or an alternative solution.
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A couple of example expressions you can use is, In my opinion, I would suggest, or if you ask me, I would recommend
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and again in the online lesson there are several other examples
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but all of them allow you to introduce what your suggestion your alternative solution
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or idea might be and finally in part three of a successful
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and polite disagreement we always want to end in a positive way
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or on a positive note most of the time it is easy, kind of, to find some middle ground or common ground,
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something that both sides can agree on.
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But, of course, sometimes it's not possible.
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Sometimes both sides have such strong opinions that they cannot find something to agree on in the middle.
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If that happens to you in English, I have the perfect expression for you.
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We'll just have to agree to disagree.
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We'll just have to agree to disagree.
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That is the perfect way to end a disagreement where there is no end.
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If no one on either side will win, you can use that expression to release the tension, to lighten the conversation.
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It's polite and it brings the conversation to an end without anyone being offended.
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In the online lesson, I've also given you some informal ways that you can express disagreement with others,
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but I really recommend that you only use those with friends, family members, or colleagues that you know very well.
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They're not really appropriate for business situations such as a meeting or negotiation.
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They're not professional responses to disagreeing.
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And finally, I would love to hear from you if you've ever had experience disagreeing with someone in English.
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What did you do?
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How did you express your disagreement?
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I would love for you to share your experience
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and what you know in English to do in those situations so that you can help others in the Confident English community.
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And you can share all of your experiences, your comments, your thoughts in the comments section just at the bottom of this lesson.
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Thank you so much for joining me.
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I look forward to seeing you next Wednesday for your Confident English lesson.
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And as always, if you found this useful, please feel free to share it with friends and colleagues.
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You can share it on Facebook, share it on Twitter.
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You can like this video, subscribe to this YouTube channel.
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There are so many ways to let others know that this was useful to you and to let me know.
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So thank you again and I'll see you next week.

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فيديو موصى به

المفردات وملاحظات التحدث لهذا الدرس

هذا الدرس في المحادثة مبني على الفيديو “How to Disagree Politely in English”. أكثر الكلمات تكرارًا في الفيديو: English, disagreement, disagree, lesson, expression. يحتوي هذا الفيديو على 64 جملة و862 كلمة للتدرب على الترديد. مدة الكلام 5:43. يتكلم المتحدث بسرعة طبيعية، نحو 151 كلمة في الدقيقة، قريبة من المحادثة اليومية. 88% من الكلمات ضمن أكثر 3,000 كلمة شيوعًا في الإنجليزية، فالمفردات سهلة المتابعة.

أهم المفردات في هذا الفيديو

12 كلمة من الفيديو تستحق التعلّم، مع النطق والمعنى:

الكلمةالنطقالمعنى
lesson اسم/ˈlɛs.ən/دَرْس, حِصَّة
polite صفة/pəˈlaɪt/أَدِيب, مُؤَدَّب
colleague اسم/ˈkɒliːɡ/شَرِيك, شَرِيكَة
introduce فعل/ˌɪntɹəˈdus/قَدَّمَ
aggressive صفة/əˈɡɹɛs.ɪv/عُدْوَانِيّ, هُجُومِيّ
suggestion اسم/səˈd͡ʒɛst.ʃən/اِقْتِرَاح, مُقْتَرَح
tension اسم/ˈtɛnʃən/تَوَتُّر
apologize فعل/əˈpɑləˌd͡ʒaɪz/اِعْتَذَرَ, اِسْتَعْذَرَ
offend فعل/əˈfɛnd/أَهَانَ
pretend فعل/pɹəˈtɛnd/تَظَاهَرَ
subscribe فعل/səbˈskɹaɪb/اِشْتَرَكَ
negotiation اسم/nɪˌɡəʊ.ʃiˈeɪ.ʃən/مُفَاوَضَات, مُذَاكَرَات

جمل تستحق التكرار

جمل قصيرة وكاملة من الفيديو يمكنك استخدامها في الحديث اليومي:

  • I'm sorry, but I have to disagree with you.
  • I'm not sure I agree with you.
  • We'll just have to agree to disagree.
  • What did you do?
  • How did you express your disagreement?

القواعد في هذا الفيديو

أكثر التراكيب التي يستخدمها المتحدث، مع العبارات نفسها من الفيديو:

التركيبفي الفيديو
الجمل الشرطية if + جملة، will/would + فعل — شرط ونتيجتهif you ask me, I would recommend · If no one on either side will win
المضارع التام have/has + اسم المفعول — حدث ماضٍ ما زال له أثر الآنI've given · I've also given · you've ever had

نطق يحتاج إلى انتباه

يستخدم المتحدث 21 من الصيغ المختصرة، مثل you're, I'm, don't. انطقها بصيغتها القصيرة كما تسمعها.

  • أصوات “sh” و“zh”: suggestion /səˈd͡ʒɛst.ʃən/, tension /ˈtɛnʃən/, negotiation /nɪˌɡəʊ.ʃiˈeɪ.ʃən/
  • الكلمات الطويلة — انتبه لموضع النبر: disagreement /dɪsəˈɡɹiːmənt/, apologize /əˈpɑləˌd͡ʒaɪz/, negotiation /nɪˌɡəʊ.ʃiˈeɪ.ʃən/

أصوات يجدها متحدثو العربية صعبة:

  • /p/ — ليس /b/: انطقه مع نفخة هواء: polite /pəˈlaɪt/, apologize /əˈpɑləˌd͡ʒaɪz/, pretend /pɹəˈtɛnd/, politely /pəˈlaɪtli/
  • /v/ — ليس /f/: مع اهتزاز الأوتار الصوتية: aggressive /əˈɡɹɛs.ɪv/, offensive /ˈɔˌfɛnsɪv/
  • تتابع الصوامت — لا تضف حركة بينها: disagreement /dɪsəˈɡɹiːmənt/, introduce /ˌɪntɹəˈdus/, suggestion /səˈd͡ʒɛst.ʃən/, offend /əˈfɛnd/, pretend /pɹəˈtɛnd/

كيف تتدرب بهذا الفيديو

  1. استمع إلى الفيديو كاملًا مرة واحدة دون أن تتكلم، ودوّن الكلمات التي لا تعرفها.
  2. ابدأ بسرعة 0.75×، وردّد جملة جملة، ثم عُد إلى السرعة العادية عندما يصبح الأمر سهلًا.
  3. سجّل صوتك وقارنه بالأصل، مع الانتباه إلى كلمات مثل lesson, polite, colleague.

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