跟讀練習: This Texting Method Makes People Addicted To You - 通過影片學習英語口語
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You ever notice how some people just "Stay in your head?" like they rent space there without paying a cent.
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You check your phone, nothing.
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You check again, still nothing.
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And somehow they're still there.
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That quiet pull that makes you wonder?
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What did they do?
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What was it about that one conversation, that one text thread, that got under your skin like that?
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Let's pull that apart.
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Because what nobody really tells you is this: Attraction isn't built in grand gestures.
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It's not the perfectly timed compliment or the cute selfie.
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It's built in the tiny spaces between words, in the rhythm of a reply.
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in that invisible dance between curiosity and fulfillment.
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And once you see the psychology behind that dance, You can't unsee it.
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One.
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Your brain on a text message.
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The gambler effect.
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Your brain on a good conversation is basically a gambler at a slot machine.
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Not because you're desperate, but because you're hooked on uncertainty.
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Neuroscientists call it Variable rewards You pull the lever, send a text, And what happens next is unpredictable?
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Sometimes you get an instant reply, Sometimes you wait three hours, sometimes their response is short, sometimes it's perfect, or even better than you hoped for.
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And that unpredictability?
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It lights up your dopamine system the same way gambling does.
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Your brain starts chasing the possibility of a reward, not the reward itself.
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That's why you keep checking your phone.
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You're not obsessed with the person.
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You're addicted to the anticipation.
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But here's where it gets beautiful.
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You're not manipulating anyone by understanding this.
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You're creating space for genuine intrigue to breathe.
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Think about the people who've captivated you.
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They weren't available 24 /7.
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They had lives, purpose, things that pulled them away.
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When they finally showed up, it meant something.
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And that's the quiet truth.
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Distance doesn't kill attraction.
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Predictability does.
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2. The open loop.
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Philosophy.
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Leave them wanting more.
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Here's where most people get texting completely wrong.
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They think closure equals kindness.
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They wrap everything up neatly.
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Answer every question, explain every thought.
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But here's the paradox: Attraction lives in the ellipsis and what's left unsaid.
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The conversations that stay with you are the ones that feel unfinished, Not in a frustrating way,
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but like a movie you can't stop thinking about because the ending invites interpretation
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You ever notice how the best books don't close every loop?
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They leave a door cracked open.
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your mind walks through it on its own.
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Here's what that looks like in practice.
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Instead of saying, "Yeah, I had a great weekend, went hiking, saw some friends, cooked a big dinner, try this." Stumbled into the strangest conversation with a stranger.
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This weekend actually changed how I think about something.
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See that?
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It's a story but not a conclusion.
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It's an invitation.
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Now the other person has a choice.
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Do they lean in or let it go?
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and that choice.
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That's where connection actually happens.
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Because when someone invests their curiosity in you, It's no longer passive.
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They're emotionally participating in the conversation.
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and the more they do
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that the more their mind starts to fill in the blanks they start imagining you they start replaying your words
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and suddenly you're not just a person anymore, you're an experience.
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3. The mirror and the mystery.
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Now this is the real art form, the balance between reflection and mystery.
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The people who become unforgettable do both.
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They mirror just enough to make you feel seen.
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and hold back just enough to make you want to see more.
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Say someone tells you they're stressed about a presentation.
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You remember to ask how it went later.
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That's emotional attentiveness.
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It says: I see you without ever saying it outright. But mystery?
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That's editing.
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Not every thought needs to be shared.
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Not every update needs to be texted.
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When your inner world feels vast, Every conversation just scratches the surface of something deeper.
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and that's what makes people linger.
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People aren't drawn to oversharing.
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They're drawn to depth.
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to the sense that there's always another layer they haven't unlocked yet.
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Think of it this way: Being mysterious isn't about withholding, It's about pacing revelation.
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If you give someone your entire story up front, they have nowhere to go.
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But if you reveal it in chapters, you become a narrative. And humans?
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We're wired to chase stories to the end.
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4. Timing is an art form.
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Let's address the obvious.
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Response time.
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Everyone wants to know the rule.
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Wait 10 minutes, wait an hour, don't double text.
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Forget all that.
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Timing isn't a tactic, it's a byproduct of a full life.
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If your phone is your main source of dopamine, you'll always look like you're waiting.
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But when you're genuinely absorbed in your work, your hobbies, your goals, your world, you naturally create space.
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And that space feels magnetic because it's real.
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When someone texts you and you're unavailable, they feel your absence.
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When you return, present and intentional, they feel your presence.
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That contrast is the heartbeat of attraction.
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presence and absence, connection and space.
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not strategy.
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Rhythm.
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5. The vulnerability paradox Here's where things get really interesting.
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The messages that stick in someone's mind, the ones they reread, they're rarely perfect.
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They're raw.
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Human slightly unpolished.
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It's not: "Yeah, totally agree." It's: "Honestly, I've been thinking about what you said the other day." And I think you might be right.
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See the difference?
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One is safe, the other is alive.
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Bye.
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Vulnerability isn't about spilling your trauma or oversharing.
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It's about letting someone see that you feel.
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When you allow small cracks in the armor, When you admit uncertainty, curiosity, even hesitation, you create emotional realness.
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Because perfection is forgettable.
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Humanity isn't.
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It's the small confessions that make someone stay up at night thinking about you.
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Not because of what you said, but because of what it meant.
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6. The exit that creates entrance.
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Now for the hardest part: knowing when to end.
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Most people drag conversations until they die naturally.
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But the ones who stay memorable know when to walk away first.
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Not abruptly not coldly. but gracefully.
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Like, "Hey, I've got to run, but I'm really glad we talked about this." Let's pick it up soon, simple.
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Respectful but psychologically powerful because you're leaving while energy is still high.
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While curiosity is still alive, You're preserving the emotional charge instead of letting it fade into small talk.
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and the brain remembers emotion more than content, You're not just ending a chat, You're locking in a feeling.
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That's why some conversations haunt you for days.
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They didn't end with exhaustion.
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They ended with potential.
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7. The real secret.
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Wholeness is magnetic.
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So here's what it all comes down to.
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The psychology that makes someone obsessed with you, it isn't about tricks, it's about energy.
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Attraction lives in the space between connection and independence.
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between being seen and remaining your own person?
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The most magnetic people don't text to fill silence.
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They text to extend something already alive within them.
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They're interesting because they're interested in life, in learning, in self -growth, in meaning.
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Their texts hit different, because they're coming from someone who's actually living
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you can feel it you can sense it in the way they phrase things the timing the confidence
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They're not trying to impress, they're expressing.
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And that's the secret that changes everything.
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Stop trying to make them obsessed.
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Start building a life that's so rich, so textured, so yours, that anyone who glimpses it can't help but want to see more.
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because ultimately, The best message you can send comes from someone who doesn't need the response to feel whole.
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but welcomes it when it comes, as an addition to something already beautiful.
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So next time you pick up your phone, Don't just text compose Create a moment
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a rhythm A spark that reminds the other person they're not just talking to you, They're experiencing you.
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And maybe that's the real reason some people stay on your mind long after the conversation ends.
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Keep living deeply.
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Keep creating connections that mean something.
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And remember: you're not just exchanging words, you're shaping emotion, you're making someone feel, And that, more than anything, is what makes you unforgettable.
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本課的詞彙與口語要點
這節 B2 級別的口語課以影片“This Texting Method Makes People Addicted To You”為素材。 影片中反覆出現的詞有：conversation, text, space, attraction。 這段影片共有 151 個句子、1367 個單詞可供跟讀。 講話部分時長為 9:18。 說話人語速平穩，每分鐘約 147 個詞，很適合跟讀。 82% 的單詞屬於英語最常用的 3,000 詞，其餘的詞建議在練習前先學一下。
影片中的重點詞彙
影片中最難的 15 個單詞，附發音和釋義：
| 單詞 | 發音 | 釋義 |
|---|---|---|
| attraction 名詞 | /əˈtɹækʃn̩/ | 吸引力 |
| curiosity 名詞 | /ˌkjʊɹ.iˈɑ.sə.ti/ | 好奇, 好奇心 |
| obsess 動詞 | /əbˈsɛs/ | 迷住, 著魔 |
| rhythm 名詞 | /ˈɹɪð.əm/ | 節奏 /節奏 |
| magnetic 形容詞 | /mæɡˈnɛtɪk/ | 有磁性的 |
| dopamine 名詞 | /ˈdoʊ.pəˌmin/ | 多巴胺 |
| gambler 名詞 | 賭徒 /賭徒 | |
| unforgettable 形容詞 | /ˌʌnfə(ɹ)ˈɡɛtəbəl/ | 難忘 /難忘, 不能忘的 |
| paradox 名詞 | /ˈpæ.ɹəˌdɒks/ | 悖論 /悖論, 矛盾 |
| vulnerability 名詞 | /ˌvʌln(ə)ɹəˈbɪlɪti/ | 脆弱性 |
| uncertainty 名詞 | /ʌnˈsɜːtənti/ | 不確定性 |
| emotion 名詞 | /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/ | 感情, 情感 |
| captivate 動詞 | /ˈkæptəˌveɪt/ | 著迷, 著迷 |
| compose 動詞 | /kəmˈpəʊz/ | 創作 /創作, 整理 |
| ellipsis 名詞 | /ɪˈlɪp.sɪs/ | 刪節號 /刪節號, 省略號 /省略號 |
影片中出現的短語動詞
| 單詞 | 釋義 |
|---|---|
| pick up 動詞 | 拾取, 撿 /撿 |
| show up 動詞 | 露面 |
值得反覆跟讀的句子
影片中簡短而完整的句子，可以直接用在日常對話裡：
- That quiet pull that makes you wonder?
- That's why you keep checking your phone.
- You're not obsessed with the person.
- You're addicted to the anticipation.
- You ever notice how the best books don't close every loop?
影片中的語法
說話人最常用的結構，並附上影片中的原話：
| 結構 | 影片中的用法 |
|---|---|
| 被動語態 be + 過去分詞 — 強調發生了什麼，而不是誰做的 | isn't built · be shared · be texted |
| 定語從句 who / which + 從句 — 補充說明人或事物 | people who become · ones who stay · anyone who glimpses |
| 現在完成時 have/has + 過去分詞 — 過去發生但與現在仍有關聯的事 | who've captivated · haven't unlocked |
需要注意的發音
說話人用了 56 次縮略和弱讀形式，例如 you're, they're, isn't。請按聽到的簡短形式來說。
- “th” 音: rhythm /ˈɹɪð.əm/, withhold /wɪθˈhoʊld/
- “sh” 和 “zh” 音: attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/, hesitation /ˌhɛzɪˈteɪʃən/, unfinished /ʌnˈfɪnɪʃt/, intentional /ɪnˈtɛnʃənəl/
- 長單詞——注意重音位置: curiosity /ˌkjʊɹ.iˈɑ.sə.ti/, unforgettable /ˌʌnfə(ɹ)ˈɡɛtəbəl/, vulnerability /ˌvʌln(ə)ɹəˈbɪlɪti/, uncertainty /ʌnˈsɜːtənti/, predictability /pɹəˌdɪktəˈbɪlɪti/
中文母語者容易讀錯的音：
- /v/ — 不要讀成 /w/，上齒輕觸下唇: vulnerability /ˌvʌln(ə)ɹəˈbɪlɪti/, captivate /ˈkæptəˌveɪt/, unavailable /ˌʌnəˈveɪləbəl/, lever /ˈliː.və/, revelation /ˌɹɛv.əˈleɪ.ʃən/
- 詞尾子音 — 要讀清楚，後面不要加母音: obsess /əbˈsɛs/, magnetic /mæɡˈnɛtɪk/, paradox /ˈpæ.ɹəˌdɒks/, captivate /ˈkæptəˌveɪt/, compose /kəmˈpəʊz/
- /r/ 和 /l/ 的區別: unforgettable /ˌʌnfə(ɹ)ˈɡɛtəbəl/, vulnerability /ˌvʌln(ə)ɹəˈbɪlɪti/, gracefully /ˈɡɹeɪsfəli/, predictability /pɹəˌdɪktəˈbɪlɪti/, abruptly /əˈbɹʌp.li/
如何用這段影片練習
- 先完整聽一遍影片，不要開口，記下不認識的單詞。
- 用正常速度逐句跟讀，每句重複到你的節奏與說話人一致為止。
- 錄下自己的聲音並與原聲對比，特別注意 attraction, curiosity, obsess 這類單詞。
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