Shadowing Practice: This Texting Method Makes People Addicted To You - Learn English Speaking with Video
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You ever notice how some people just "Stay in your head?" like they rent space there without paying a cent.
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You check your phone, nothing.
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You check again, still nothing.
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And somehow they're still there.
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That quiet pull that makes you wonder?
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What did they do?
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What was it about that one conversation, that one text thread, that got under your skin like that?
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Let's pull that apart.
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Because what nobody really tells you is this: Attraction isn't built in grand gestures.
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It's not the perfectly timed compliment or the cute selfie.
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It's built in the tiny spaces between words, in the rhythm of a reply.
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in that invisible dance between curiosity and fulfillment.
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And once you see the psychology behind that dance, You can't unsee it.
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One.
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Your brain on a text message.
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The gambler effect.
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Your brain on a good conversation is basically a gambler at a slot machine.
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Not because you're desperate, but because you're hooked on uncertainty.
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Neuroscientists call it Variable rewards You pull the lever, send a text, And what happens next is unpredictable?
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Sometimes you get an instant reply, Sometimes you wait three hours, sometimes their response is short, sometimes it's perfect, or even better than you hoped for.
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And that unpredictability?
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It lights up your dopamine system the same way gambling does.
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Your brain starts chasing the possibility of a reward, not the reward itself.
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That's why you keep checking your phone.
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You're not obsessed with the person.
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You're addicted to the anticipation.
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But here's where it gets beautiful.
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You're not manipulating anyone by understanding this.
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You're creating space for genuine intrigue to breathe.
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Think about the people who've captivated you.
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They weren't available 24 /7.
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They had lives, purpose, things that pulled them away.
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When they finally showed up, it meant something.
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And that's the quiet truth.
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Distance doesn't kill attraction.
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Predictability does.
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2. The open loop.
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Philosophy.
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Leave them wanting more.
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Here's where most people get texting completely wrong.
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They think closure equals kindness.
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They wrap everything up neatly.
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Answer every question, explain every thought.
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But here's the paradox: Attraction lives in the ellipsis and what's left unsaid.
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The conversations that stay with you are the ones that feel unfinished, Not in a frustrating way,
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but like a movie you can't stop thinking about because the ending invites interpretation
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You ever notice how the best books don't close every loop?
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They leave a door cracked open.
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your mind walks through it on its own.
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Here's what that looks like in practice.
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Instead of saying, "Yeah, I had a great weekend, went hiking, saw some friends, cooked a big dinner, try this." Stumbled into the strangest conversation with a stranger.
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This weekend actually changed how I think about something.
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See that?
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It's a story but not a conclusion.
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It's an invitation.
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Now the other person has a choice.
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Do they lean in or let it go?
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and that choice.
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That's where connection actually happens.
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Because when someone invests their curiosity in you, It's no longer passive.
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They're emotionally participating in the conversation.
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and the more they do
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that the more their mind starts to fill in the blanks they start imagining you they start replaying your words
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and suddenly you're not just a person anymore, you're an experience.
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3. The mirror and the mystery.
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Now this is the real art form, the balance between reflection and mystery.
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The people who become unforgettable do both.
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They mirror just enough to make you feel seen.
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and hold back just enough to make you want to see more.
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Say someone tells you they're stressed about a presentation.
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You remember to ask how it went later.
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That's emotional attentiveness.
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It says: I see you without ever saying it outright. But mystery?
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That's editing.
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Not every thought needs to be shared.
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Not every update needs to be texted.
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When your inner world feels vast, Every conversation just scratches the surface of something deeper.
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and that's what makes people linger.
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People aren't drawn to oversharing.
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They're drawn to depth.
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to the sense that there's always another layer they haven't unlocked yet.
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Think of it this way: Being mysterious isn't about withholding, It's about pacing revelation.
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If you give someone your entire story up front, they have nowhere to go.
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But if you reveal it in chapters, you become a narrative. And humans?
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We're wired to chase stories to the end.
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4. Timing is an art form.
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Let's address the obvious.
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Response time.
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Everyone wants to know the rule.
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Wait 10 minutes, wait an hour, don't double text.
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Forget all that.
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Timing isn't a tactic, it's a byproduct of a full life.
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If your phone is your main source of dopamine, you'll always look like you're waiting.
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But when you're genuinely absorbed in your work, your hobbies, your goals, your world, you naturally create space.
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And that space feels magnetic because it's real.
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When someone texts you and you're unavailable, they feel your absence.
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When you return, present and intentional, they feel your presence.
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That contrast is the heartbeat of attraction.
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presence and absence, connection and space.
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not strategy.
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Rhythm.
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5. The vulnerability paradox Here's where things get really interesting.
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The messages that stick in someone's mind, the ones they reread, they're rarely perfect.
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They're raw.
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Human slightly unpolished.
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It's not: "Yeah, totally agree." It's: "Honestly, I've been thinking about what you said the other day." And I think you might be right.
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See the difference?
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One is safe, the other is alive.
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Bye.
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Vulnerability isn't about spilling your trauma or oversharing.
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It's about letting someone see that you feel.
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When you allow small cracks in the armor, When you admit uncertainty, curiosity, even hesitation, you create emotional realness.
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Because perfection is forgettable.
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Humanity isn't.
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It's the small confessions that make someone stay up at night thinking about you.
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Not because of what you said, but because of what it meant.
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6. The exit that creates entrance.
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Now for the hardest part: knowing when to end.
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Most people drag conversations until they die naturally.
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But the ones who stay memorable know when to walk away first.
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Not abruptly not coldly. but gracefully.
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Like, "Hey, I've got to run, but I'm really glad we talked about this." Let's pick it up soon, simple.
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Respectful but psychologically powerful because you're leaving while energy is still high.
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While curiosity is still alive, You're preserving the emotional charge instead of letting it fade into small talk.
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and the brain remembers emotion more than content, You're not just ending a chat, You're locking in a feeling.
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That's why some conversations haunt you for days.
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They didn't end with exhaustion.
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They ended with potential.
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7. The real secret.
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Wholeness is magnetic.
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So here's what it all comes down to.
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The psychology that makes someone obsessed with you, it isn't about tricks, it's about energy.
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Attraction lives in the space between connection and independence.
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between being seen and remaining your own person?
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The most magnetic people don't text to fill silence.
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They text to extend something already alive within them.
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They're interesting because they're interested in life, in learning, in self -growth, in meaning.
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Their texts hit different, because they're coming from someone who's actually living
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you can feel it you can sense it in the way they phrase things the timing the confidence
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They're not trying to impress, they're expressing.
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And that's the secret that changes everything.
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Stop trying to make them obsessed.
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Start building a life that's so rich, so textured, so yours, that anyone who glimpses it can't help but want to see more.
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because ultimately, The best message you can send comes from someone who doesn't need the response to feel whole.
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but welcomes it when it comes, as an addition to something already beautiful.
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So next time you pick up your phone, Don't just text compose Create a moment
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a rhythm A spark that reminds the other person they're not just talking to you, They're experiencing you.
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And maybe that's the real reason some people stay on your mind long after the conversation ends.
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Keep living deeply.
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Keep creating connections that mean something.
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And remember: you're not just exchanging words, you're shaping emotion, you're making someone feel, And that, more than anything, is what makes you unforgettable.
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אוצר מילים והערות הגייה לשיעור הזה
שיעור הדיבור הזה ברמה B2 מבוסס על הסרטון “This Texting Method Makes People Addicted To You”. המילים שחוזרות הכי הרבה: conversation, text, space, attraction. בסרטון הזה יש 151 משפטים ו-1367 מילים לתרגול Shadowing. הדיבור נמשך 9:18. הדובר שומר על קצב יציב של כ-147 מילים בדקה, קצב נוח לתרגול Shadowing. 82% מהמילים נמצאות בין 3,000 המילים הנפוצות ביותר באנגלית; כדאי ללמוד את השאר לפני שמתחילים.
אוצר מילים מרכזי בסרטון הזה
15 המילים המתקדמות ביותר בסרטון, עם ההגייה והמשמעות שלהן:
| מילה | הגייה | משמעות |
|---|---|---|
| attraction שם עצם | /əˈtɹækʃn̩/ | מְשִׁיכָה, אטרקציה |
| curiosity שם עצם | /ˌkjʊɹ.iˈɑ.sə.ti/ | סקרנות |
| rhythm שם עצם | /ˈɹɪð.əm/ | קֶצֶב |
| magnetic שם תואר | /mæɡˈnɛtɪk/ | מַגְנֵטִי |
| dopamine שם עצם | /ˈdoʊ.pəˌmin/ | דּוֹפָּמִין |
| unforgettable שם תואר | /ˌʌnfə(ɹ)ˈɡɛtəbəl/ | בִּלְתִּי נִשְׁכָּח |
| paradox שם עצם | /ˈpæ.ɹəˌdɒks/ | פרדוקס |
| emotion שם עצם | /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/ | רֶגֶשׁ |
| attentiveness שם עצם | קשב | |
| ellipsis שם עצם | /ɪˈlɪp.sɪs/ | אֵלִיפְּסָה, הֶשְׁמֵט |
| frustrate פועל | /ˈfɹʌsˌtɹeɪt/ | תִּסְכֵּל |
| linger פועל | /ˈlɪŋɡɚ/ | הִתְמַהְמֵהַּ, הִתְעַכֵּב |
| haunt פועל | /hɔnt/ | רָדַף |
| lever שם עצם | /ˈliː.və/ | מָנוֹף |
| unpredictable שם תואר | בלתי צפוי |
Phrasal verbs שתשמעו
| מילה | משמעות |
|---|---|
| pick up פועל | הרים, אסף |
משפטים שכדאי לחזור עליהם
משפטים קצרים ושלמים מהסרטון שאפשר להשתמש בהם בשיחה יומיומית:
- That quiet pull that makes you wonder?
- That's why you keep checking your phone.
- You're not obsessed with the person.
- You're addicted to the anticipation.
- You ever notice how the best books don't close every loop?
דקדוק בסרטון הזה
המבנים שהדובר משתמש בהם הכי הרבה, עם המילים המדויקות מהסרטון:
| מבנה | בסרטון |
|---|---|
| סביל (Passive voice) be + past participle — הדגש הוא על מה שקורה, לא על מי שעושה את הפעולה | isn't built · be shared · be texted |
| משפטי זיקה (Relative clauses) who / which + clause — מידע נוסף על אדם או דבר | people who become · ones who stay · anyone who glimpses |
| הווה מושלם (Present perfect) have/has + past participle — פעולה שקרתה בעבר ועדיין יש לה חשיבות או השפעה עכשיו | who've captivated · haven't unlocked |
הגייה ששווה לשים לב אליה
הדובר משתמש ב-56 קיצורים וצורות מקוצרות, כמו you're, they're, isn't. אמרו אותם בצורה הקצרה, כפי שאתם שומעים אותם.
- הצלילים של “th”: rhythm /ˈɹɪð.əm/, withhold /wɪθˈhoʊld/
- הצלילים של “sh” ו-“zh”: attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/, hesitation /ˌhɛzɪˈteɪʃən/, unfinished /ʌnˈfɪnɪʃt/, intentional /ɪnˈtɛnʃənəl/
- מילים ארוכות — שימו לב להטעמה: curiosity /ˌkjʊɹ.iˈɑ.sə.ti/, unforgettable /ˌʌnfə(ɹ)ˈɡɛtəbəl/, vulnerability /ˌvʌln(ə)ɹəˈbɪlɪti/, uncertainty /ʌnˈsɜːtənti/, predictability /pɹəˌdɪktəˈbɪlɪti/
צלילים שדוברי עברית מתקשים בהם:
- /æ/ — פתוח יותר מה-“אֶ” העברית, לא כמו “a” ב-“cup”: attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, magnetic /mæɡˈnɛtɪk/, paradox /ˈpæ.ɹəˌdɒks/, captivate /ˈkæptəˌveɪt/, addict /ˈæd.ɪkt/
- /r/ — הלשון לא נוגעת בשום מקום, לא ה-“ר” הגרונית: attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, curiosity /ˌkjʊɹ.iˈɑ.sə.ti/, rhythm /ˈɹɪð.əm/, unforgettable /ˌʌnfə(ɹ)ˈɡɛtəbəl/, paradox /ˈpæ.ɹəˌdɒks/
- עיצור קולי בסוף מילה — /b/, /d/, /g/, /z/, /v/ בלי להפוך אותם לאטומים: compose /kəmˈpəʊz/, intrigue /ˈɪntɹiːɡ/, reread /ɹiːˈɹiːd/, withhold /wɪθˈhoʊld/, absorb /æbˈsɔɹb/
איך לתרגל עם הסרטון הזה
- הקשיבו לכל הסרטון פעם אחת בלי לדבר, ורשמו את המילים שאתם לא מכירים.
- תרגלו Shadowing משפט אחר משפט במהירות רגילה, וחזרו על כל משפט עד שהקצב שלכם תואם את הדובר.
- הקליטו את עצמכם והשוו למקור, תוך תשומת לב למילים כמו attraction, curiosity, rhythm.
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