跟读练习: Changing for my family. - 通过视频学习英语口语
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There's a habit that I have been trying for long time. to change it.
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but I'm not success yet.
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That habit is I like to think that I'm Right.
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I know the best.
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I know better than other people.
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and I want auto people to do what I believe.
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I want people to do the way I Want it.
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This is the very big problem. when we married.
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We have to live together as a family.
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this habit is become a big problem.
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Among us, among the.. couple life.
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I try.
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to change myself a lot.
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I don't want to be a person who always tells people to do things all the time.
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but it's not very easy.
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it's not easy at all because it have been transferred for many generations.
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it from my grand -grandma, grandparents.
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until my parents and Me.
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And I don't want this habit to be transferred to my kids.
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my next generation.
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or people around me.
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I want everybody to be independent, to be themselves.
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Thank you.
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I don't want them to be like me.
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It's not.
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problem for many people, but for me I think it's a big problem.
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Thank you. Because I always Think.
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I'm Right.
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I know better.
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So when my wife do earthen house My wife, she is at an old building.
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Teacher.
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when she taught people how to do paint, clay paint to do something.
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I always told her that, "You cannot do that.
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You have to do this.
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You have to do this." This is the way I feel like it.
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I don't like myself. to be like that.
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I want her to be herself.
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but it's become habit.
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It just come out.
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It came out.
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I don't know myself sometimes.
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So I have to work very hard to remind myself that.
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I need to respect.
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my wife.
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Respect my kid.
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my son They have their own dream.
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They have their own way of thinking.
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They have their own experience.
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They have their own imagination.
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So they need to do what they believe, what they want to do. But...
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My problem is I want them to do what I believe.
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I want them to do my dream.
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to follow my imagination.
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This is not normal.
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this will cause a lot of problems.
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because people around me will not grow.
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They cannot develop themselves.
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Because whenever they do what I want them to do, they cannot do the best.
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they cannot develop themselves much.
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But whenever they do what they believe in, What day? dream about it.
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what they want to try.
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they will develop themselves a lot.
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That's the way people can grow.
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So I want people to grow.
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Thank you. But...
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I know that I cannot do it many times, many things.
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But I want other people to do it.
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That's not fair.
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For example, like when I watched soccer or what football or what another sport.
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I always yell at the player Go left, go left, go right, go faster, kick harder.
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I always yell.
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But, I cannot do like them.
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they have their own ability, they know that they're the limitation of their ability.
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They know what to do.
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But I cannot do it but i want them to do the way i want them if i go to the field.
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I cannot run fast like them.
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I cannot kick the football like them.
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I cannot do that.
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But I always think they have to do like this.
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That's why I have to yell very loud around the on the stadium.
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So this habit is is one thing I think is cause problem.
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cause problem for people around me especially my son, my wife.
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people around me that's mean I did not respect their thinking.
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I do not respect their imagination.
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So when I try to Push my dream or my imagination to their life.
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Thank you.
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they will be unhappy.
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They feel unhappy.
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because it's not the way they want it.
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So that's the cause of conflict, that's the cause of suffering. in the family.
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I don't want to be like that. So, I'm trying.
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to remind myself that "I will not do that." But many times it just came up.
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I did it by Thank you.
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No consciousness with no consciousness.
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because it's in my life for so long but i cannot stop doing it i cannot stop
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train myself to not do it.
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Because I don't want it to be transferred to the next generation.
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So, The habit is one thing It's very hard.
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to chain especially habit that I grew up with.
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is in my blood.
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But I believe that I will do it one day.
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That's why I keep Keep training, keep doing myself, keep respect.
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utter people's thinking, utter people's idea.
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Because I want to see people around me grow the way they want to grow.
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I don't want them to be like me.
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Because I'm not the best person.
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This is the way I can be.
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I think they can do better than me.
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That's why I don't want them to think like me.
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I don't want them to do like me.
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because I believe that they can do better than me.
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So if they think like me, that do like me.
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there will be similar to me.
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That's mean.
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they cannot develop their life to be better than me. So, Thank you.
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It's hard.
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to change the habit.
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especially when You grew up in Asian Culture.
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that we believe that Man is the leader of the family.
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We were taught like that for many generations.
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But now, We cannot think like that anymore.
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Everybody in the family is equal We need to respect each other, even My son, my kid,
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he's young, but I need to respect him.
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So this is a big chain, this is a big revolution. in My.
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hate in my thinking.
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to change the culture in my life.
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to do something different.
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Because the way I grew up with.
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It's not work anymore.
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in the world.
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in the new era.
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because the world has changed so much.
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Thank you there need to be different.
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They need to be themselves, they need to be independent.
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That's the way to survive.
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So, It's not the same thing anymore.
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nothing the same anymore.
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That's why I feel like I need to change myself.
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I don't want...
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to be an old man that nobody want to come nearby me.
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because if it come nearby me, level be tall to do that, to do this, to not do that, not do this all the time for me.
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So, Nobody wants to be close to me, and it's not very fun.
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I think it will be more fun if everybody around me can be themselves.
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They can feel relaxed, they can feel free, they can feel independent, they can do whatever.
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They want to.
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that will be very nice atmosphere.
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when people are happy and be around each other.
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When people become independent and be around each other, I think this is a kind of life that I am expecting.
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now.
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本课的词汇与口语要点
这节 B1 级别的口语课以视频“Changing for my family”为素材。 视频中反复出现的词有：cannot, habit, respect, themselves, grow。 这段视频共有 149 个句子、1191 个单词可供跟读。 讲话部分时长为 10:29。 说话人语速平稳，每分钟约 114 个词，很适合跟读。 89% 的单词属于英语最常用的 3,000 词，词汇容易理解。
视频中的重点词汇
视频中最难的 11 个单词，附发音和释义：
| 单词 | 发音 | 释义 |
|---|---|---|
| habit 名词 | /ˈhæb.ɪt/ | 習慣 /习惯 |
| imagination 名词 | /ɪˌmæd͡ʒəˈneɪʃən/ | 想像力 |
| yell 动词 | /jɛl/ | 叫喊, 叫 |
| utter 动词 | /ˈʌtəɹ/ | 發出 /发出, 說出 /说出 |
| unhappy 形容词 | /ʌnˈhæpi/ | 不高興 /不高兴, 不開心 /不开心 |
| consciousness 名词 | /ˈkɑnʃəsnəs/ | 意識 /意识 |
| grandparent 名词 | /ˈɡɹæn(d)pɛəɹənt/ | 祖父母 |
| limitation 名词 | /lɪmɪˈteɪʃən/ | 限制 |
| automobile 名词 | /ˈɔː.tə.məˌbil/ | 汽車 /汽车, 車 /车 |
| relax 动词 | /ɹɪˈlæks/ | 鬆開 /松开, 放鬆 /放松 |
| clay 名词 | /kleɪ/ | 黏土 |
视频中出现的短语动词
| 单词 | 发音 | 释义 |
|---|---|---|
| come out 动词 | /ˌkʌm ˈaʊt/ | 出, 出來 /出来 |
| come up 动词 | 上來 /上来 |
值得反复跟读的句子
视频中简短而完整的句子，可以直接用在日常对话里：
- I don't want them to be like me.
- I don't know myself sometimes.
- I don't want to be like that.
- Because I'm not the best person.
- I don't want them to do like me.
视频中的语法
说话人最常用的结构，并附上视频中的原话：
| 结构 | 视频中的用法 |
|---|---|
| 被动语态 be + 过去分词 — 强调发生了什么，而不是谁做的 | have been transferred · be transferred · were taught |
| 现在完成时 have/has + 过去分词 — 过去发生但与现在仍有关联的事 | have been transferred · has changed |
| 比较级 -er than / more … than — 比较两个事物 | better than |
| 最高级 the -est / the most … — 一组中最高或最低的 | the best |
需要注意的发音
说话人用了 17 次缩略和弱读形式，例如 don't, I'm, they're。请按听到的简短形式来说。
- “sh” 和 “zh” 音: imagination /ɪˌmæd͡ʒəˈneɪʃən/, consciousness /ˈkɑnʃəsnəs/, limitation /lɪmɪˈteɪʃən/
- 长单词——注意重音位置: imagination /ɪˌmæd͡ʒəˈneɪʃən/, limitation /lɪmɪˈteɪʃən/, automobile /ˈɔː.tə.məˌbil/
中文母语者容易读错的音：
- 词尾辅音 — 要读清楚，后面不要加元音: habit /ˈhæb.ɪt/, consciousness /ˈkɑnʃəsnəs/, grandparent /ˈɡɹæn(d)pɛəɹənt/, relax /ɹɪˈlæks/
- /æ/ — 嘴张大，不要读成 /e/: habit /ˈhæb.ɪt/, imagination /ɪˌmæd͡ʒəˈneɪʃən/, unhappy /ʌnˈhæpi/, grandparent /ˈɡɹæn(d)pɛəɹənt/, grandma /ˈɡɹænmɑː/
如何用这段视频练习
- 先完整听一遍视频，不要开口，记下不认识的单词。
- 用正常速度逐句跟读，每句重复到你的节奏与说话人一致为止。
- 录下自己的声音并与原声对比，特别注意 habit, imagination, yell 这类单词。
什么是跟读法？
跟读法 (Shadowing) 是一种有科学依据的语言学习技巧，最初开发用于专业口译员的培训，并由多语言者Alexander Arguelles博士普及。这个方法简单而强大：您在听英语母语原声的同时立即大声重复——就像是一个延迟1-2秒紧跟说话者的影子。与被动听力或语法练习不同，跟读法强迫您的大脑和口腔肌肉同时处理并模仿真实的讲话模式。研究表明它能显着提高发音准确性，语调，节奏，连读，听力理解和口语流利度——使其成为雅思口语备考和真实英语交流最有效的方法之一。